I feel like a lot of red pill / manosphere content is correct in their diagnosis but give out so-so to bad advice. I think the red pill content is right that men should generally seek to be the leaders in their relationships. The problem is that Red Pill content models dogshit leadership skills.

Imagine working for a boss who treated you the same way RP content advocates treating women. If you had any self respect at all you'd quit in a heartbeat. You don't need to be as overbearing and domineering as these dudes advocate to be in charge. Chill out a bit. I've heard red pill guys advocate treating women like employees. Great advice, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Be a boss, don't be a petty insecure tyrant.