As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :

iambabyshark · 2022-01-31T18:58:29+00:00

Nearly every woman in a relationship has told me they weren't initially attracted to their partners. Meaning something they did/said is what made them attracted to them, not their looks. Although this post has some merit since you can have the best "game" in the world but if you're a gross neckbeard in a videogame tee you aren't getting anything

2werd2live2rare2die · 2022-01-31T19:50:58+00:00

A woman’s dating profile once stated the nostril is the first hole you get though so smell good always. Lol

guenhas_guenhas · 2022-01-31T18:52:15+00:00

I kinda agree with you that basic hygiene is important but there are aspects that you pointed out which are subjective, like, for example, what exactly is a nice hairstyle for you? How much is too much perfume? I personally don't care if a guy wears cologne or not. It won't always be the same to everyone. This is the way you said that someone can seduce YOU, not women in general. That's what people are trying to say I guess.

wizzlestyx · 2022-01-31T19:33:45+00:00

Hearing : low sound voice is the most attractive for both genders

Both genders like low voice, are you sure about that? Either way, I don't have a low voice and don't expect to have one any time soon. Maybe I should try chainsmoking? I've heard that emphysema is a great way to lower your voice by an octave or so.

AskReddit_YT · 2022-01-31T18:33:06+00:00

Fellas this is the way to seduce HER, not women in general. Carry on.

NuclearThane · 2022-01-31T20:19:54+00:00

ITT: Cringe from both men and women that will make you reconsider why you're even subbed here...

daysinnroom203 · 2022-01-31T19:43:52+00:00

As a woman- I HAVE had men I was not attracted to woo me over. Looks aren’t number one with women, in spite of whatever you’ve been fed. Important, but not the most important.

iAmDoneTryingAnother · 2022-01-31T18:29:07+00:00

Jesus christ this post was deleted earlier and reposted again. I told the person who posted this, that It is the Disney way of seducing a Cinderella. I try my gangsta way to seduce.

JCrom8001 · 2022-01-31T18:27:00+00:00

I dunno. Flattery does a lot of the work for me. If someone makes it obvious they like me it (at the very least) makes me smile.

DoomerToChad · 2022-01-31T18:40:25+00:00

That's why rule #1 is - never take advice from women

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-31T22:42:46+00:00

And I can't seduce you if I'm not attracted to your frumpy ass.

hulk181 · 2022-02-01T02:21:59+00:00

If you want to learn how to fish, ask the fisherman, not the fish.

So why are we taking anything that the fish says seriously? You only know what works on you, but a man who's approached hundreds or thousands of women has a better idea of what will more likely work overall.

Somaliboi · 2022-01-31T23:24:25+00:00

The most important rule is to be attractive. Everything else can be modified.

Own_Shower_571 · 2022-01-31T18:28:58+00:00

nearly impossible to be appealing in all 5 senses, this will just lead to people being overly insecure and self aware.

DLtheGreat808 · 2022-01-31T18:47:46+00:00

Everybody hating on her obviously has no idea how to pull a girl/woman, of course she’s noting the most basic thing to carry and y’all are complaining that she has wrote a post to keep y’all reminded how to hold yourself up as a king. Not even a king, more of a prince with how y’all are coming off rn. There’s more to this list I can gladly add. Most of y’all are limiting yourselves and it shows

AvatarReiko · 2022-01-31T19:20:33+00:00

I have had women completely change their minds when I approached them. The moment they hear you are earnings 6 figure salary, they tend get really friendly real fast.

2022-01-31T18:57:57+00:00

Damn, this fish has no idea how it’s caught

winstunnah · 2022-01-31T19:52:56+00:00

TL;DR

Understand good hygiene, do the good hygiene. Have good hair (no baldies). Profit.

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-31T20:45:41+00:00

Don’t understand all the debate and arguing. This is pretty solid advice in my book.

2022-01-31T19:37:25+00:00

if I’m not attracted to you

Attracted in what sense? If Ryan gosling or Daniel Martin were in your vicinity you're telling me your panties wouldn't instantly drop and wet the floor from your drooling clam juice? I'm sensing bullshit

2022-01-31T19:54:37+00:00

Me on the shore reeling in a catch.

Fish: that's not how you do that

Me pointing to my full trout line: think I got it covered bruv

2022-01-31T20:44:45+00:00

False.

Rationalization happens after behaviour

The-Bull89 · 2022-01-31T20:49:13+00:00

And then a scruffy Brad Pitt approaches her and gets her number after a 1 minute interaction.

FakeSafeWord · 2022-01-31T21:21:53+00:00

Crazy that I saw women fuckin trashy dudes all the time... dudes with piles of beer cans in their rooms, no sheet on the bed, showering once a week and re-using fuckin q-tips.

All this shit is baseline. Don't be a slob and PEOPLE will be LESS LIKELY to be repulsed by you.

not_shajal · 2022-02-01T02:56:01+00:00

I highly think this applies to men as well.

For a guy, Iv had girls flirt with me who I wasn't attracted to and it would feel really awkward. Even to go and touch my shoulders and chest at times. Id give out hints I'm not attracted and keep the convo really short but some don't understand it.

firelitother · 2022-02-01T04:19:52+00:00

Most of the advice is great since guys can do something about them.

But the low sound voice is stupid since people can't change their voice enough to matter. Rather focus on learning how to hold a conversation well.

techiechica · 2022-02-01T05:29:17+00:00

I would add: a sense of humor! 😊

For me, humor, playfulness, intellectual curiosity, and making a potential interest feel special have always gone heaps beyond any of those other mentioned attributes. (F30s)

poetichippi · 2022-02-01T05:48:49+00:00

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Drekalo · 2022-02-01T05:56:46+00:00

She wants me to moisturize, and for that reason, I'm out.

GoneGirl11 · 2022-01-31T19:21:35+00:00

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NerdKR · 2022-01-31T20:58:38+00:00

A lot of posts on this sub get my eyes rolling, but this is such a massive 'No shit, Sherlock' one that it ended up pissing people off. Every dating guru says shower, groom, and hit the gym as a bonus. The fact you say this is a secret is just... lol. Your comments show you're full of yourself, too.

Hope you have a good week though.

introsetsam · 2022-01-31T19:16:07+00:00

people getting mad because you said to shower and brush your teeth says a lot

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-01-31T21:42:42+00:00

>OP posts stuff that's just the basic pre-requisites of not being a slob rather than helpful material on how to surpass those basic pre-requisites and actually be attractive

>Most comments are complaining about even having to meet the pre-requisites

Post was okay, but the comments are worse. Much worse.

DavidMXXIV · 2022-01-31T23:26:20+00:00

Really overall disagree with the sentiment. I have met so many people who have hooked up with others whom they initially found unattractive when they first met but personality (which isn’t even on your list) seemed to trump whichever of the above superficial things the guy didn’t meet.

grzechoo177 · 2022-01-31T18:48:31+00:00

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jjboy91 · 2022-01-31T19:15:40+00:00

Yeah sure and a tiara and bottle of wine ?🤣

GoneGirl11 · 2022-01-31T20:29:34+00:00

This comment thread is a mess, guys just shower !!! She is saying she likes people who look like they take care of themselves! If you’re getting defensive it probably means you needed to see this. The women you are attracted to take care of themselves, why can’t we expect the same? Boys

2022-01-31T18:52:53+00:00

Since everyone is so confused to sum this all up of you come around me dressed well, smell good , sexy voice you might just turn me on and to add onto it being confident and flirty tops it all off

DLtheGreat808 · 2022-01-31T19:06:32+00:00

Why is everyone upset about this post? This shit is basic! You should do these things whether you’re looking for someone or not.

Wildkeith · 2022-01-31T18:35:37+00:00

I’m seeing why y’all can’t seduce man😂. Y’all have to be dirty . 98 percent of shit on my list have to do with being clean , smelling good and being well groomed . How tf you can’t shower and wear cologne ?😂

-Mavs · 2022-01-31T19:28:16+00:00

I don’t get why people are downvoting this; it’s basic stuff and this is coming from a guy who’s critical of dating situations.

brotato85 · 2022-01-31T20:01:28+00:00

Me me me

What's so alluring about you that would make the guy you want to seduce you, even approach you?

Czekraft · 2022-01-31T20:17:41+00:00

For what reason would anyone want to seduce you?

Turbulent-Lemon-4015 · 2022-01-31T20:53:46+00:00

This is what she posted 2 months ago " I prayed and cried begging god to help me I don’t want depression to
continue affect my daily life the past 2months was hell from getting out
of a abusive relationship and him going to prison I completely lost
myself to the point I would do nothing but lay in my bed wishing I was
no longer here I already lost myself about 4 years ago this is it I
gotta show up for myself and be there for me . "

unconscious108 · 2022-01-31T21:28:08+00:00

This is the basic general advice that a woman would tell you, along with being nice, educated, etc. If you ask your momma, she’ll tell you the same thing, but because you’re her kid and she wants you to act like that..

Thing is.. This girl isn’t event attracted to this.. These are all logical reasons, and attraction is definitely logical… wait, is it? ;)

This is the basic human being thing you should do, but for yourself for Christ’s Sake… Are you gonna stop showering after fucking her? Argh

And yes, Sexual tension or attraction can be created without saying a word, Leaving the natural tension between both of you flow, And making sure that not you or her break it… ;) You won’t need much more, Social skills basically. That’s where PUAs fail though lol

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-02-01T00:27:31+00:00

I know it's the exception, but i anomalously get about five times as much attention when I'm dirty as hell.

Edit: And I'll throw in a good reason why so many say don't take advice from a girl. You know those lists of complaints women come up with about men that they've experienced over and over again but say they hate.....the reason they've experienced that over and over again is because they are attracted to those men subconsciously, even if they hate it consciously.

Reality is you have to know which advice to take from women.

Gravejow297 · 2022-01-31T18:53:51+00:00

You’re honestly asking for too much, no one is gonna do all of this realistically speaking, might wanna turn it down a notch or you’ll be alone forever

skatlols · 2022-01-31T19:34:44+00:00

Wrong.

Vril_SA_PL · 2022-01-31T20:07:19+00:00

Thank you kindly for your advice
Good honest advice is always appreciated
And I whole-heartedly agree with you
Attraction goes both ways
And as unfortunate as it is
Men's standards for copulation are a lot lower than women's
Nature's play in women
The biological imperative
You subconsciously wishing to select the best mate

That's why when women get hit on by men whom they
Don't find attractive
That they may even find repulsive
It feels to them as...
"Creepy"

Wish I could give you a list of what we like
But I'm already stretching myself here
Hopefully someone else here picks up my slack ;)

All the best
Trzymaj Się (Polish for Stay Strong / Hold On)

thelambofdeth · 2022-02-01T11:38:44+00:00

You forgot on one sight: be white

2022-02-01T02:39:26+00:00

Hopefully you'll find your %1'er someday

lamambanegra777 · 2022-01-31T20:03:22+00:00

Hahahaha!

Prior-Gold-118 · 2022-01-31T20:09:10+00:00

Is a Low voice almost a whisper, I don’t really understand?

FunnyElegance21 · 2022-01-31T20:11:58+00:00

I HAVE ALL OF THESE HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHSHSHHAHHSHA

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-01-31T20:17:43+00:00

Yea but certain guys are more likely to be able to with most women. Y’all like to think you’re being selective but then many of you end up pursuing the same guys. Or letting the same guys convince yyou to tuck or date them.

GavinBrennan100 · 2022-01-31T20:27:52+00:00

Thanks for this, I already feel 10x’s sexier.

__Gynotarian__ · 2022-01-31T20:33:58+00:00

Thank you!

Like idk why people always think everyone can be seduced by everyone or just say "lOoKs DoNt mAtTeR", and you can do work just by being funny or whatever. There are just some people you can't finesse your way into.

PM_M3_PUPPIES · 2022-01-31T20:37:22+00:00

I’m shocked that some ppl here think this is asking for too much 😭

2022-01-31T20:37:31+00:00

Thanks for the reminder

Equivalent_Speaker26 · 2022-01-31T20:45:04+00:00

100%

_co_on_ · 2022-01-31T21:04:21+00:00

Agreed in senses department. However this will differ. To get the right mixture for the persons you are looking for is the right setup. I you want bad smelling women, go for body odor or something. Not my kind, but yeah. Dont setup for anything you dont like yourself

chesnett · 2022-01-31T21:10:48+00:00

To all the ladies and little girls like OP who defending the crying OP.
1. We know the basic hygiene.
2. We see similar post like this every day.
3. We're tolling and don't care.

peelinchilis · 2022-01-31T21:12:48+00:00

I think this is going to vary widely with women. Like yeah all of these are important but at some point or another a lot of these are a given and taken for granted.

stargazinglola · 2022-01-31T21:17:06+00:00

Actually flirting works even with no attraction at first. It gets my attention and I might fall for the person after a while.

Daniel_Lugo · 2022-01-31T21:27:29+00:00

Girls with low voice is not necessarily attractive. It’s more masculine and that’s hot for some.

PoopFrostedCake · 2022-01-31T21:31:41+00:00

Touch: clean fingernails, moisturized skin, nice hugs*****

kbecel · 2022-01-31T21:41:55+00:00

Rule Zero: Don't take advice from women on dating

Maabuss · 2022-01-31T21:47:42+00:00

I'm too inept to be able to flirt anyway, lol

2022-01-31T21:56:18+00:00

You either want to fuck or you don’t. Make it clear during an interaction. None of this ‘oh I’m not sure if I can make it, we’ll have to rearrange’ just say no not interested. Done.

Coconut-Lemon_Pie · 2022-01-31T22:03:21+00:00

You guys are looking at this wrong. She is certainly telling you how she could be seduced as an individual.

These are not secrets though, this is common knowledge. Your flirting will get you further and you will be noticed if you can just get basic hygiene down and use your normal speaking voice (doesn't have to be low for either party, just what she likes). Yes, all of these things are basic hygiene standards for adults (men and women).

I think this is just a reminder that there are many ways to be attractive and flirting alone may not get you the success you desire.

kinstinctlol · 2022-01-31T22:22:22+00:00

Its okay, we don't want you.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-01-31T22:23:10+00:00

Those are fundamentals.. Can be game killers if violated, but have nothing to do with seducing

And no, secret isn’t what u listed. Thats just your side notes from your experience. Helpful tips ofc

But men will take ur pants down with a vibe/game. Not with their hygiene level. So your tips are great, but headline is hypocrite af.

Ps. Seductive voice for men is deep vibrating voice. Her voice is big ass game killer when she sounds like a batman. Or just like a violin, screwing ur brain..

Turbulent-Lemon-4015 · 2022-01-31T22:40:05+00:00

This is what she posted 2 months ago "Does anyone here have all black friends/only date other black people? tanskinnedgal20 Me … only date black and friends with black"

1sluttyvirgin · 2022-01-31T23:08:18+00:00

This is for the most part true for traditionally attractive women at least, unless the man is rich. Less attractive people usually accept less because they don’t have as many options. Obviously this doesn’t apply to all.

towerandhorizon · 2022-01-31T23:11:09+00:00

Agree with this list, save the fragrances. I have had a couple of women I dated who were extremely sensitive to scents. Even a very light application of a cologne caused noticeable discomfort for them. Think at a party or a club/venue, you can get away with more of an application of a scent, than in an initial 1-on-1 interaction, as there is more wafting around in the area of a crowd, and you can be an oasis in a sea of stink.

Style is subjective, but hygiene isn't. We all know it, when we experience it, whether it is good or bad.

mxmaker · 2022-01-31T23:59:54+00:00

For me seducing its nothing , you need to be direct.

mrabin333 · 2022-02-01T00:57:30+00:00

Bullshit

pandavega · 2022-02-01T01:07:04+00:00

I have a friend with such good BO and cologne combo, that I just enjoy hanging out with the dude.

doublerumbletrouble · 2022-02-01T01:07:34+00:00

Didn't work for me. I had all but Touch and Taste down pact.

My story, I tell you, that introverted, shy catholic school girl (28) that I had has a heart of gold. We met online and texted for 2 months and talked alot, we both brought up religion, jobs, school, childhood etc... because of covid. Eventually, we met we hugged and smiled and chatted a bit and played darts... I told her she looks pretty and she gave me a smirk smile and compliment the way I was looking. We were just catching up on what we were talking about on our text messages. However, near the end, I swept her off her feet and held her like a baby for a photo, she smiled big for the camera. When we walked outside, I said I normally don't kiss on the first date and said "well, come here" and when I went in, she turned her head where I kissed her cheek/hair... it was awkward, but I played it off like it was nothing... We said our byes and 1 hour later she texted me wanting to see me that weekend with heart eye emojis.

On our second date, things ended not that great. We played arcades, then bowling, then pool.

I saw her, and hugged and said "I didn't know there were two entrances" (I gave her no compliment and she dolled up, too) She had a big smile.

fast forward

"Stay here while I get our tokens" (she stayed, but eventually followed me <3 )

"I haven't been here in a while, when was the last time you played"

"I remember when they had arcades at such and such"

"so what you want to play first"

we walked around the whole place to look at all the games, she said she likes skee ball so we played.

I said "oh look, our score matches, it's another match!" I keep saying match because we shared so much in common (kinda weird/childish at 33 towards 28 girl) so that was mainly all I was doing... no physical touching or nothing.

So after about 40 min, we decided to grab drinks, but the bars were closing/closed... so she said lets go to the bowling alley since they got drinks there.

We went to the elevator and we just stand by each other... again, I never held her waist, hold her hand or nothing...

we walked outside and we drove separate to met up to the bowling... big smile she had.

we met to the bowling alley and we walked up and don't remember any convo to mind, we got our alcoholic drinks, she paid because she wanted to, we went to the counter to pay for bowling and we notice we had same bank cards (a match, I said... childish) and we got our shoes, we sat down told her about some jobs I was looking towards and she asked me a question, but I kinda didn't answer/forgot because I got in the process of entering our names... I made a tease with her name, she hits my had smirk/smile... and I corrected it... we sat down and we put bowling shoes on and she said "why you said you don't like bowling shoes" and I said "reminds me of clown shoes" ... silence, so we grab our ball and played... I told a short 1 min story of the time I played with my friends in college doing something stupid rolling the ball slowl, she asked where was that at, and I told her and we just continued playing cheering each other on... again, nothing flirty, no nothing... bland. She tasted my drink and I tasted her drink, but I was drinking more than her. She smiled as we played, we cheered. We talked about something that we matched (same strike) and she said "Yeah... it's like we're related" and we continued playing and then I went to the bathroom, I came back and she was playing still (saw her on her phone, too) then eventually the game ended, she took my shoes and when she returned them I asked if she needed to go to the bathroom because she said she needed to clean her hands and she said "No!" and end up using a hand sanitizer... so we walked outside and I said man those drinks are really good and she said, "yah, you were really double fisting back there"... so as we walked I was like what else is there to do and she said we can play pool and we decided to walk over to play pool and we made small convo about glasses and covid... I notice she wasn't smiling much as before... so we walked up to the billards and told we can't come in with drinks, so I said "well, lets go in your car" and she said "no it's messy" and then I said well we can throw these away and eventually we did... we walked in, she got me a pool stick and we played, not much convo, just talking about how to shoot and eventually I saw her looking at her nails and frustrated face... I didn't say anything, just kept playing and eventually she said she was tired as if, I was boring her. I took her to her car, hugged and that's it... However, she texted me back two days later after I text her and she said she had a good time and is down for another date. However, I think she only did that because I made a nice text of checking to see if she made it home safely.

I planned for that Friday, which we were, but apologized at the last hour saying she think it's best to rescheduled because of her having to work that night. She ghosted for a week and I started making plans, no response, I awaited a few days and made a comment of our last date, no comment, then a few days later I responded when I post a funny pic and told her I had a headache last date from the drinks with the medication for coughing. She apologized for pushing me to drink and said she just read the message.

So before our third date she text me we can get nonalcoholic drinks because she cares for me with a kissy face emoji.

Here is the rundown of the third date of what kinda went down. (Every door I held for her and other gentlemen things I did, too, like pick up her ball when she made it in the hole)...

1)We met, we hugged, I asked if she watched the event show in town and she said no and asked if I did and I said yeah, which I asked her why she didn't check it out and she said she had no time at all to watch.

2)We walked in, waited in line and talked about the pricing and that she'll pay and I said no, my treat (and I hugged her). We picked our golf balls (which I picked out her favorite color that I remembered) and I told her I'm guessing purple since it's your favorite (not much of a response from her other than cool, I think she said) so and I got my color ball, which I said it's my birthday month color (which she said oh...) we walked to the par 1 and our conversation is as listed:

I said I'm glad there is some wind out, not many mosquitoes. Told her the last time I remember playing golf and I asked her when was her last time. Then I told her a funny situation that happened when I last went golfing which she somewhat laughed at. I asked if she had siblings... she was slightly hesitant but said yeah and that was it... so we focused on playing our game and cheering each other on. I said it's funny how we haven't talk about music, so I asked her and she said anything really... I said what exactly and she said anything she can hum too... and we kept playing and focused on our game and she'd react in a positive way if I almost made a hole in one or laugh if I messed up... towards the end I told her about another fun activity I saw and she said that was something she was wanting to do in a long time (hoping a future date) so then we finished our game, walked inside and she said lets play a few arcade games. We played a few games, and we sat inside an arcade shooting booth (she told me she isn't a fan of shooting, but went with me) I touched her shoulder than afterward, as soon as it finished I got up and she still sat there for like 15 sec... (maybe she wanted us to talk inside?) so when she got up and we walked to play her favorite game skeeball when she finished, I mentioned about the drinks, but she hits me with the tired cue... so she said lets go look at the prizes (we didn't get nothing, she wanted candy but I said it might be expired, so she said ok you get what you want and I said I don't want nothing... so we walked outside) I asked how about I come to her place and she said "What? Nooo" so we kept walking asked her a question about her work, which she talked probably the most out the night, but then we got to her car and she hugged me and said bye.

So any ways, after the third date, I really screwed it up... I texted her two days later saying I had a good time and looking forward to seeing her again. I didn't hear back for a week and then I texted her how about we go to another date where we can focus on us and not on gaming activities... a few days go by and nothing, I started texting about how I started to slow down after she gave me the cheek because I wanted to respect her religious ways and then started saying oddly about being more open about flirting and I need subtle cues etc... and for her to get her head out the gutter if she thought I was referring to sex that night, I was wanting to hang out and talk with good intentions and if she is someone who is saving herself until marriage, it's no red flag for me. A few days go by and I texted if everything is ok and what I wanted us to do during our date. I started to tell her I'm sorry if I made her feel uncomfortable in paragraphs along with I hope you're not wanting to throw everything away, over a misunderstanding let's talk it out and then the next few days I sent her a heart gif and finally she said she thought she had already texted me but she wasn't in the right headspace for a romantic relationship and that I deserve someone better who can communicate much more regularly than she could, she also said that I did enjoy spending time with you, I really did.

I started to text more after that within the 3 months and there is like 20 things of text now and she hasn't responded to anything... nothing to Merry Christmas etc... I'm just so banged up and don't know what in the world happen.

cravingsal · 2022-02-01T01:16:39+00:00

ok sure but remember that’s not a requirement for all women. personally i find un-groomed guys quite sexy but they gotta be lowkey hot (either face/body/personality wise) beforehand already lmao

cormacru999 · 2022-02-01T02:04:09+00:00

You can't just assume that everything that's important to you is the same for all women, or men. There are certainly human patterns, & gender patterns etc. But I'm a white cis male who has seduced avowed lesbians more than once. Now, granted, you could say they were bi & had just never met a guy they liked enough, but its also true that in their descriptions of themselves up to that point, they would never sleep with a guy.

Which just illustrates that all of us can have decisions in our heads & then be surprised by our own reactions. I'm not a bad looking man, but no woman has ever reacted to me on sight, & all the women I've ever dated over the last almost 50 years have been seduced by my intelligence & behavior. I've had bad teeth for decades because I'm poor. I have a trimmed goatee & refused to clean shave the rest of my face. I had hair to my ass for years & a shaved head for more years. I do not care about my clothing that much, so I've never been stylish.

But one reality for the majority of humans is they want to be seen, they want to be heard, they want someone to notice them, & another factor that's always worked for me is that I have a great memory & I'm hypervigilant, which means I'm often remembering everything someone says to me, so if a woman tells me a story about her childhood & 6 weeks later I give her a book based on that story, she realizes I really paid attention, I care about her history, her character. And that matters more than most other things.

Otherwise_Alps_5997 · 2022-02-01T02:09:26+00:00

News flash that's all women! Your not special to thinking your the only one.

2022-02-01T02:16:23+00:00

Yeah, no shit... If men could only somehow have some sort of telepathic ability to sense women's attraction in us I think this world would be a better place.

drueberries · 2022-02-01T02:21:26+00:00

With all due respect. Woman don't understand what is attractive to them. They could meet a man who ticks all the boxes and still not be attracted. Men who have seduced large number of women have a better idea of what is attractive.

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2022-02-01T03:25:22+00:00

OP is so foul herself she attracts unhygenic men. SHE IS JUST PROJECTING. OP shut the fuck up.

PaleontologistNo2785 · 2022-02-01T04:01:51+00:00

Ffs its not hygiene. U need raw good looks thats it. I said it. Now everyones mad.

ancient_horse · 2022-02-01T04:04:57+00:00

Better start bringing a bag of sulfur hexaflouride on dates.

Ninjaneer525 · 2022-02-01T04:07:57+00:00

Also… what’s this about women with deep voices being attractive? Let’s take a pole…

willgo-waggins · 2022-02-01T04:36:52+00:00

Actually this is a basic guideline.

Sawt0othGrin · 2022-02-01T05:56:05+00:00

Flirting is just effectively fielding for the women who are 8/10 or higher interested in you. It's not about raising your attraction towards us.

prettykitty143 · 2022-02-01T06:03:14+00:00

All of this!!

Opportunity_Fuzzy · 2022-02-01T06:59:09+00:00

thank you for the sound advice I'll use it to be better at this crazy thing called dating. take care and god bless

garbagejuicesnob · 2022-02-01T07:42:51+00:00

I like the water reminder... Sad you had to spell the rest out but it's funny what we do find attractive that others may not, js

clawjelly · 2022-02-01T08:19:23+00:00

Beside the "Hearing"-point these are not even seduction, they are basic hygene. If you're failing on any of those and are looking on r/seduction, you're missing the point big.

ZealousidealFile1 · 2022-02-01T09:01:38+00:00

What's this? And advice column from 90's 😂

VDKay · 2022-02-01T09:04:18+00:00

If I had a dollar every time one of my girl friends told me "eww!" every time she went out with a guy and then they turned LTR with him being the sexiest man there is, I'd be rich. Also, if I had a dollar every time a girl preached about all the good qualities women should be looking for in a man, but she herself constantly runs head-first into toxic relationships, I'd be twice as rich. Think again. Maybe you are venting. Maybe it never happened to you till now. But "sexyness" for a woman is far more complex than you make it sound. The things you mention about senses are not "attraction switches". They are deal-breakers if not there.

Furaskjoldr · 2022-02-01T09:59:34+00:00

This thread is hilarious. Yall spend the whole time discussing how to get with 'hot' girls, but then turn around and say that your own attractiveness is unimportant and that people should fall for you just because you talk a good game. Girls aren't attracted to ugly guys any more than we are to ugly girls, no matter what you say to them.

1master_dom · 2022-02-01T10:06:11+00:00

Don’t listen to the detractors. This woman is talking sense.

If a woman does fall for you based on these things… she’s settling. The only game you need is being good looking, well kept and expressing your masculine sexual nature

fantasybull86 · 2022-02-01T10:55:27+00:00

I can empathize with this post. Im a vendor and theres a department manager at one of the stores i deliver to who is pretty but im not heavily attracted to her enough to work toward her in any way but she used to throw herself at me so much. Im always respectful to everyone in the same way but she couldn't take the hint for a while. Eventually she took the hint and there was about a 1 month period where she was bitchy to me and then started acting like a normal adult. I always treat everyone with the same respect, greet them, say please and thank you, wish them a good day and i also never expect anything from anyone but some people do

GeezRick · 2022-02-01T11:59:15+00:00

This is true at least for casual sex.

Sir-Copperfield · 2022-02-01T12:02:09+00:00

To much work

2022-02-01T13:50:45+00:00

I disagree with the voice bit. It doesn’t apply to both genders. Most men prefer women with higher pitched, girly voices.

Title	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :
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Upvotes	805
Comments	313
Date	January 31, 2022 6:22 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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