The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stopped

CatallaxyRanch · 2024-09-10T15:23:29+00:00

I don't think this is "normalized" outside of whatever weird algorithm you've been sucked into.

Neradun · 2024-09-10T15:07:40+00:00

Please get off these brain rotting apps

No average day to day person is normalizing that

It's to get clicks and you're falling for it

Hatefuleight-36 · 2024-09-10T15:35:38+00:00

This is just being a friend with benefits bruh this has been happening since time immemorial.

SadCahita · 2024-09-10T15:02:56+00:00

getting convinced on having women friends now....

PlainTundra · 2024-09-10T15:10:47+00:00

Girls: We consent giving homie heads
Boys: We consent you giving us homie heads
Windmill_flowers: I don't

Isn't there somebody you forgot to ask?

Hatefuleight-36 · 2024-09-10T15:36:41+00:00

This has to be one of the funniest PPD threads posted in recent memory, please more of this and less man v bear and paternity test rehashing

_Royalty_ · 2024-09-10T15:37:01+00:00

It's not being normalized. A majority of these TikTok clips are bait engagement or just jokes. For the small amount of people actually engaging in it, that's between two consenting adults and it'll sort itself out. If it were ever to progress down the path of normalization you'd start seeing more blanket warnings like you do against threesomes while in a relationship.

ApprehensiveMusic351 · 2024-09-10T15:45:04+00:00

Sounds kind of like friends with benefits, you know where a woman thinks a male looks good enough to fuck but the male is not good enough for an actual romantic relationship.

A fair share of women seem to like that nowadays. Do you think this gives some unfair advantage to males?

Only-Plate590 · 2024-09-10T15:54:16+00:00

This seems ridiculous.

Do you think these women might be spouting this stuff just to get attention online?

DankuTwo · 2024-09-11T08:22:13+00:00

A better solution is to get off TikTok. It’s rotting your brain.

Fair-Bus-4017 · 2024-09-10T15:15:15+00:00

They are adults. And they are consenting to it. I don't see anything wrong with it. Would I participate in this if I were single? Fuck no. But I have no problems with others having casual sexual relationships with eachother.

Alarming_Ask_244 · 2024-09-10T17:47:48+00:00

“ it reduces the motivation of people to get into relationships”. Self report? I would be lying if I said that having sex wasn’t one motivating factor for wanting a relationship, but it’s not the only one and not the main one. I want love, romance, a best friend, a partner. Even if I was having all of my sexual desires satisfied by friends (or escorts or strangers or whomever), I would still want a relationship just as strongly

lord-moo · 2024-09-10T19:58:34+00:00

What's next homie trains 🚆 🤣

untamed-italian · 2024-09-10T21:38:40+00:00

Lmao who gives a shit

Watch out consenting adults, did you forget to ask Windmill Flowers what they do and don't consent to?

Colt_Master · 2024-09-10T22:16:06+00:00

FYI: The first girl you linked saying how great homie head is is a self-promoting onlyfans sex worker, and the other one seems like she is too since she posts thirst traps and her tiktok links to a deleted Instagram account (Instagram allows links to onlyfans, Tiktok doesn't).

KFC_Fleshlight · 2024-09-10T22:44:38+00:00

Are you an idiot? This behaviour doesn’t exist these women are just making bait to lead to their onlyfans. It’s marketing.

ThinAdvertising9747 · 2024-09-11T00:19:06+00:00

I just searched up homie head on TikTok and it’s pretty much just the same woman that you linked at the top going on about it. Your other example is a vid with 512 likes. Doesn’t really sound like a trend to me. It also seems like a thing fwbs have always done.

ColbyXXXX · 2024-09-11T08:09:17+00:00

It’s a thing I have experienced. I like it because I like sex and intimacy but I don’t need a title to enjoy those things.

a_minty_fart · 2024-09-11T10:00:17+00:00

In this thread: OP complains about women engaging in consenting sex.

Get a hobby.

Fine_Metal_5430 · 2024-09-10T14:53:25+00:00

Why do you feel this way op? Its not really a debate if you dont state your reasoning

I think the more dicks getting sucked the better.

CthulhusIntern · 2024-09-10T15:10:13+00:00

Clarification: When you say you're only talking about the hetero version, are you just simply limiting the scope of the debate, or are you saying that it's OK if it's same-sex, but not if it's hetero?

rustlerhuskyjeans · 2024-09-10T15:21:42+00:00

Seems a bit to be a joke. If not, the implied part of homie head is she thinks he’s hot, and it’s a way to get him. There’s a section of TikTok creators that advises women to be whores in order to increase their chances at a top guy, some girls follow the advice.

From a logical standpoint laying sex on the table nearly immediately will get a man’s attention and ensures you don’t lose your chance, so makes some sense. Majority of women will instantly get with a guy if they wish to be his girlfriend af/bb.

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-09-10T15:36:16+00:00

Is this not just another word for friends with benefits?

Solondthewookiee · 2024-09-10T15:37:48+00:00

Why are we trying to make people conform to a uniform idea of sexual activity and relationships?

PandaTaco90 · 2024-09-10T17:30:42+00:00

This has always been happening. Especially in smaller cities where there a less options. Most people in my friend group hooked up with each other when we were younger

KGmagic52 · 2024-09-10T17:32:23+00:00

It's not "wrong". Who are you to judge? Sounds like you have a problem with women doing anything for a man.

Direct-Alternative70 · 2024-09-10T17:56:58+00:00

Who cares? People who want only head shouldn’t be in relationships if they think that’s all a relationship is.

People who want relationships want connection and love. Giving head isn’t going to stop anyone from it.

anniedeexx · 2024-09-10T18:01:16+00:00

yeah that's just casual sex and humans have done it since the beginning of time and will forever

anewlookav · 2024-09-10T18:27:23+00:00

I didn't really understand what a "pick me" was before this. Now, after watching more of the videos from these creators, I do.

That said, I had a few girls like this in college. I just referred to them as FWBs. We'd be friends, hang out, go drinking with our other friends. If we had nothing better to do, we'd end the night fucking or her giving me head. It's not a new thing. Just a new term?

PyroNecrophile · 2024-09-10T19:05:12+00:00

It reduces the motivation for people to get into relationships when all they care about is sex. If they can get sex with friends, when they seek a relationship, it will be for the right reasons. In the meantime, when they're not ready for a relationship, they can still get their dick sucked.

Flightlessbirbz · 2024-09-10T21:13:59+00:00

I mean… us old millennials called it “friends with benefits.” There is nothing new under the sun. Never was something I was interested in, but non-relationship sex has been at least somewhat socially accepted since the sexual revolution started almost 60 yrs ago. Do I think it should be pushed? No. Do I think it’s going to have catastrophic consequences? Also no.

Gen z is not only having fewer relationships but also less sex in general than previous generations. I don’t think it’s casual sex causing the downturn in relationships, but rather less socializing.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2024-09-10T21:18:24+00:00

Don’t listen to everyone OP. I think this trend is sick and perverse as well. In fact I want you to tell me where these women are so I can go up to them and give them a piece of my mind in person.

oneandonlysealoftime · 2024-09-10T22:00:45+00:00

it reduces the motivation of people to get into relationships

Do we really need to motivate people to get into relationships by restricting sex only to relationship?

I think it'd be more beneficial, if we would allow people to fuck whoever and however they want, satisfy their physical needs, and not get into any premature partnerships without a need for one.

IMO sex should be born from mutual desire, and not in exchange for receiving other relationships benefits.

Relationships are more about a permanent union: emotional support, care. If we're talking about relationship escalator - shared finances, marriage, raising children. And if people would get into relationships for that rather than because they just wanted to get laid, we'd have much less breakup and as a consequence divorce rates.

Nick498 · 2024-09-11T02:16:44+00:00

They are just trying to drive traffic to their OF accounts.

Illustrious_Wish_383 · 2024-09-11T03:06:50+00:00

Normalized? I have never heard of this until now, but I'm kinda old (Xennial)

kalashhhhhhhh · 2024-09-11T13:04:17+00:00

There is nothing wrong with friends with benefits types of relationships, in my opinion. I don't see anything morally wrong with sex, and if two single people who aren't repulsed by each other's personality want to bang, who cares? Friends with benefits arrangements are great for individuals who don't have the time for an actual commitment, are pining over someone else or other reason why they don't want to look for or commit to a relationship, but aren't confortable with the idea of having sex with strangers.

And it won't replace relationships. When those people finally meet people they start crushing on/liking in a romantic way, they will want a relationship with that person.

RepulsiveTouch4019 · 2024-09-11T18:34:46+00:00

I mean if they're both consenting this sounds like a win win for everyone. But this "trend" will never really catch on for obvious reasons.

Windmill_flowers · 2024-09-10T15:43:36+00:00

It’s just a guy thing, you wouldn’t get it. Real homies give each other head from time to time

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-09-10T15:23:38+00:00

Ironically, I did lose my virginity to a friend way back in the day. I don’t think it will ever be “normalized”.

Most friends just don’t look at each other sexually.

NJFlowerchild · 2024-09-10T15:33:14+00:00

Friends with benefits have been around forever. It's not something most people engage in long term, if ever. Their existence doesn't make most people think their friends are going to fuck them.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2024-09-10T16:59:39+00:00

This just sounds like Oprah's Rainbow Parties scare.

s0cdev · 2024-09-11T02:03:51+00:00

what the fuck lmao

Windmill_flowers · 2024-09-11T03:34:59+00:00

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goo_wak_jai · 2024-09-12T05:01:33+00:00

Haven't heard of this 'new' phenomenon until I saw this post on PPD. Then I realized, this isn't anything new. Tiktok content creators need to stop reinventing the wheel and using new catchphrases to represent activities that has been part of the social fabric of society for a while now (albeit, it used to be hush-hush back in the day but now in the digital age, there ain't nothing hush-hush or shameful about it anymore).

balhaegu · 2024-09-13T03:45:13+00:00

I just learned what a homie head was thanks to this post.

From its name, it sounds like a guy friend giving another guy friend head.

aka Brojob

longrange_tiddymilk · 2024-09-13T04:27:06+00:00

This does not happen in real life

MyLastBestChance · 2024-09-10T19:29:07+00:00

Ok, I’m too old for this crap. Why does everyone seem to need to broadcast their every thought and activity? What happened to decorum? Dignity? Privacy? Why on earth would anyone want strangers/everyone to by privy to absolutely everything?

I also don’t understand the way some people treat sex and intimate acts as though they are the same thing as shaking hands but I accept that folks feel differently about that (I do think it’s a shame as it cheapens something that can be very special and meaningful, but again, I’m old so🤷‍♀️).

Also, get a haircut, turn down that noise you call music, turn off the light (do you think I OWN the electric company???), and get off my lawn!!!👵🏻

wtknight · 2024-09-10T16:06:40+00:00

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DennistheMenace__ · 2024-09-10T22:07:17+00:00

this is NOT normal

Savings-Bee-4993 · 2024-09-11T00:21:43+00:00

I agree.

“Homie head” is not conducive to a happy, healthy, well-adjusted society. It is un-classy, undignified, and gross.

Title	The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stopped
Author	Windmill_flowers
Upvotes	0
Comments	206
Date	September 10, 2024 2:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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