When my friends and I have a boys night, we certainly aren’t spending time getting drunk among random people that would pay to get us further drunk and be intimate with us if only they had the chance. Call me crazy, but there are countless ways i can have fun with my friends that don’t involve situations that include potential impropriety or places understood to frequently catalyze hookups.

The consensus among most men I know is that we have to accept this kind of weaponized plausible deniability since its commonplace, ie pendulum swinging too far — like how the red scare had people so widely hysterical ppl just had to wait it out