Asking it on behalf of those men, who would want that. This is a double standard I often notice. They want husbands who are pliable and under their sphere of influence.

They expect men to open the doors and, clean the house be equal. Basically be like their servant. But they run away the moment you expect them to show a bit more love and nurture you.

They call you needy and what not. Underneath, all that, they just want to have the cake and eat it too. Women always want to be the one being coddled and spoilt, they hate when they see they have competition or have to do more labour, especially for men