I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!

Howslap · 2020-07-21T13:40:53+00:00

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GRCA · 2020-07-21T13:56:13+00:00

“We’re into femdom, so on top of indulging his sexual fetishes I also do a bunch of extra shit for him and he does not reciprocate.”

These kinkmeishas keep coming up with new ways to frame their kowtowing to men as faux-empowerment.

rf-elaine · 2020-07-21T14:22:34+00:00

I am so confused about BDSM. She says they're info femdom, so that's dominant female/submissive male, right?

But she nurtures, feeds, pampers, and blows him. That sounds like she's submissive??

Is all of BDSM just men receiving attention, labour, and sexual gratification from women??

onthechainwaxx · 2020-07-21T14:19:04+00:00

Ugh being into “femdom” or “female led relationships” is the new way men now frame having the women do 100% of the emotional, sexual and financial work while framing it as “her leading.” Make no mistake, this crap DOES NOT benefit women. She gives and gives and gives and what do you bet he not only gives NOTHING back but is also cheating on her with a woman who isn’t a fucking doormat.

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-07-21T17:49:28+00:00

Men don't want wives, they want slaves or maids. This is gross.

LaBaronessa · 2020-07-21T13:46:40+00:00

I have no words. Kitten care?! That sounds like something for her not him.

LadyGrimes · 2020-07-21T14:07:51+00:00

All this to try and stop her man from looking at other women. In her mind she thinks if she does everything he wants he'll never leave her. It's this sorry ass mindset that leads to co-dependency as well as needing a man in order to feel special.

What does she even do for herself? I sure hope she doesn't fall ill or get cancer cause he'll abandon her ass when she can no longer do all this shit for him.

RadarFemef · 2020-07-21T17:19:43+00:00

“Works for us”

Um it works for him, sis

BasieSkanks · 2020-07-21T15:11:43+00:00

Don’t even get me started on BDSM. The community is full of women contorting themselves into believing that BDSM is compatible with feminism, when it literally revolves around women degrading themselves for men.

And it’s funny how the community is against “kink-shaming”, but findom (financial dominance over men) is heavily frowned upon. Bunch of hypocrites.

szuszik4 · 2020-07-21T20:16:54+00:00

How is it that in all these "kinky" relationships it's the woman catering to the man 90% of the time? Even if the woman is supposedly the dominant one too lmao. How is catering to your boyfriends every whim dominant?? Because it sounds pretty submissive to me...

These pick-me's should really do some warm up stretches before they pull a muscle doing all these complex mental gymnastics moves.

indaazz1 · 2020-07-21T14:00:59+00:00

I don’t know whether to cringe or laugh

Mindard · 2020-07-21T16:01:14+00:00

The problem is that women's love language is being a good human being and men's "love language" is whatever show they have to put on to get sex.

royaldetour · 2020-07-21T13:51:02+00:00

What the actual fuck? This is gross.

OrchidLion · 2020-07-21T14:15:03+00:00

Ew this is so fucking cringe. Imagine treating your husband like a baby. Disgusting.

Wait__No__What · 2020-07-21T19:08:56+00:00

This legit made me vomit.

a-shrinking-violet · 2020-07-21T14:36:37+00:00

This description of hell could give even Dante a run for his money!

saltypretzel9 · 2020-07-21T16:15:09+00:00

LOL omg I cannot process this

Kbarre629 · 2020-07-21T18:17:00+00:00

Wow how do women live like this? Yikes ...

denverkris · 2020-07-21T18:49:52+00:00

idk but she'd make a fantastic lesbian. and as a bonus her partner will more than likely reciprocate.

hilariouslystated · 2020-07-21T20:00:16+00:00

She "takes" her man on dates. Like he's a woman. I couldn't even be attracted to a man that I had to take on dates.

goddessintheflesh · 2020-07-21T15:57:14+00:00

"My love language is sex, baby!!!!1!1! 😘😘😘😏😏

👉👌😈😈🍆💦💦

krisy1990 · 2020-07-21T13:52:22+00:00

Utterly dissapointing.

Sunanas · 2020-07-21T14:35:19+00:00

At that point, just get a life-sized doll with a dildo. It will be just as involved as him and cost you way less.

CrystalMushr00m123 · 2020-07-21T13:41:19+00:00

that’s what it’s gonna be like when I die and go to hell

devoushka · 2020-07-21T14:54:49+00:00

She bathes him? And he's not disabled or otherwise incapable of doing it himself?🧐

Yep, would much rather be single forever.

gutsandgorey · 2020-07-21T22:51:49+00:00

Gentle femdom = mommy that fucks you. It's all the sexual service of being a sub with all of the responsibility of being a dom! What a deal!

lilithdianara · 2020-07-21T15:24:31+00:00

Big yikes 🤢🤢🤢🤢

SslimReaperr · 2020-07-21T16:42:59+00:00

🤮🤮🤮

pissed_af · 2020-07-21T18:21:25+00:00

No way this is real. No way a woman wrote this. This was written by a delusional scrote. Right... right?? Please tell me this is made-up 🤮

CeriseNoire · 2020-07-21T21:08:41+00:00

Gentle femdom is doing everything for a dude who does nothing? Doing everything for him around the house, catering to his every need, bathing him and feeding him like he's a child, doing everything that he wants sexually with nothing for you. Where's the DOM part? Lmao, how do women manage to turn everything into a situation where they're once again subservient? Dude hit the jackpot. She thinks she's a "gentle dom". This is a dark comedy I swear to God

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-07-22T02:23:23+00:00

Imagine calling your boyfriend "kitten" LOLOLOLOL

EvenSkanksSayThanks · 2020-07-21T16:07:48+00:00

Ew just ew

Fitncurly · 2020-07-21T20:58:55+00:00

That’s gonna be a no for me dawg...

nr2596 · 2020-07-21T21:41:23+00:00

Kitten care? Baths?? Cuddles?? I’m really not trying to judge but I’m disgusted 🤮 I’d rather be six feet under than give a grown man a bath

shakethat_milkshake · 2020-07-22T00:57:38+00:00

First they were manchildren, now they are kittens.

dzgata · 2020-07-22T03:30:21+00:00

Sometimes I just sit there and think...wow if a woman was spoiled to the extent men constantly are, people would throw a fucking fit. They would be tying themselves to the cross to ensure women never received such good treatment. But this is the norm for men lol

thowawaywookie · 2020-07-22T04:44:32+00:00

Good grief.

Some idiot come at me with that shit, my clothes would be back on and my fanny would be galloping out of there.

munissa · 2020-07-22T04:52:53+00:00

What. Can’t be real. Has to be a man who wrote that. Anyone woman who writes that out and posts it must be delusional. How is she not embarrassed by what she wrote or wake up from her delusional?!

capresesalad1985 · 2020-07-21T16:13:40+00:00

If he is reciprocating then I say treat your man like the king he is. But something about this post makes me doubt that...

cloudsongs_ · 2020-07-22T00:20:34+00:00

I have a lesbian friend who likes doing stuff like this for her girlfriend. Idk the psychology of it since I would think most people would like a sharing kind of situation

Lavender_flow · 2020-07-22T12:48:09+00:00

The bar is in hell................... Literal hell. What the fuck did I just read. It is a tight contest between who is worse, these fucking pickme's or their zero value scrotes. It is a close race.

BrownEyed-Susan · 2020-08-15T21:07:23+00:00

Even true femdom is never about the woman. It’s all centered around male pleasure, and what men find sexy. Men who pretend they are feminists because they are submissive just annoy me. They are usually just as lazy and shallow as any other man.

NeptunianBabe · 2020-08-18T23:35:25+00:00

Yeah of course he can't complain because it works for HIM. What the heck is "kitten care"

Mindard · 2020-07-21T19:23:51+00:00

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HuntressandHerPrey · 2020-07-21T21:53:43+00:00

So this is why I’m getting flooded with DMs This is my comment. It was an answer to the question, What do you do to woo your man? All of those things are reciprocated, but that wasn’t what the post was about. He’s exceptionally thoughtful, hardworking, respectful, and giving.

Mindard · 2020-07-22T18:33:30+00:00

Omg nooo!! That is so utterly disgusting. If I ever see a partner like that I will vomit on him and leave

Tranniesarepoggers · 2020-07-23T19:54:39+00:00

how could she want to be in a relationship where she is the gentle dom and WANTS to do this for her man? we need to save her stat this is disgusting

Peepee-poopoo-peepee · 2020-07-22T01:54:26+00:00

I don't think it's appropriate to post things when they include usernames. Especially if it's something that will be disliked.

Title	I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!
Author	Mindard
Upvotes	422
Comments	125
Date	July 21, 2020 1:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hv7f7x/id_rather_be_single_forever_who_the_heck_would/
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