When the trash takes itself out

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-09-29T10:19:31+00:00

One guy not only wanted a walk date in the park, but he insisted on a night time walk date. Like ok rapist 👀

ModernDayOracle · 2020-09-29T07:57:44+00:00

Off the top of my head I can think of four activities in my city that would cost under $25 and would be FDS approved as a first date. Its not just that these dudes are cheap, its that they refuse to put ANY effort in.

Chi_shio · 2020-09-29T09:08:28+00:00

"Walk in the park?"

"If that is the first thing that comes to your mind when thinking about taking me out to a date, then we are not compatible. Goodbye."

Don't give second chances. Block and delete.

fetchingmorbid · 2020-09-29T06:58:02+00:00

Joke's on you OP. You missed out on some sweet port-o-potty behind the burger king realness. You supply the toilet paper, natch.

slythergin23 · 2020-09-29T10:24:49+00:00

loool, what the hell. i've been suggesting museums lately because they're genuinely a lot of fun, super interesting and if the guy is horrible at least i'm learning new things. but guess what, no museum dates so far

clairemaffeis · 2020-09-29T07:54:28+00:00

He's broke. Lol

janetheautomaton · 2020-09-29T07:03:21+00:00

And then you unmatched, right?

"We can meet somewhere public." Present yourself to me so that I can decide if I want to put my dick in you. If I do, I'll think about buying you a coffee.

Pahapan · 2020-09-29T08:11:22+00:00

Honestly, it's better to just unmatch/block the moment they hit you with the, "Walk in the park?" LVM bullshit. Don't give them the opportunity to chameleon into something they're not when they realize you have high standards. He's already revealed himself as a LVM and you're just wasting your time. A HVM will NEVER suggest a "date" like that.

sentinelsexy · 2020-09-29T09:05:18+00:00

loooooool how blatantly pathetic

sashimi_girl · 2020-09-29T12:30:38+00:00

Bro a trip to the museum is FREE on certain days/times....

Ketolove604 · 2020-09-29T07:38:21+00:00

Haha, it's not going to work out because of that?? Wtf. Good riddance.

sunbathingpug · 2020-09-29T12:01:52+00:00

Imagine being this boring. During the walk in the park they were probably only going to talk about themselves while you listen. You dodged a bullet love.

2020-09-29T08:02:26+00:00

LiberalKink · 2020-09-29T07:02:02+00:00

Hug. I've never done online dating and I've never experienced this - online sounds exhausting!

valleysflower25 · 2020-09-29T14:19:09+00:00

If a man ever suggests walk dates, just stop the conversation, you don't have to tell him what you have in mind ... immediate block.

Kimpractical · 2020-09-29T14:46:21+00:00

I love the whole “I’m accustomed to this sort of treatment/date” thing.Let’s them know exactly how you expect to be treated and weeds out the the dudes who plan on putting in no effort

2020-09-29T15:50:20+00:00

This genuinely makes me so sad and mad. Since when is asking for lunch or dinner too much for a date? And for fuck's sake, you even gave him the option of a vague "cultural activity," which could essentially be free if he knew where to look.

And LOL at him asking you what you're used to, as if most women aren't used to the most traditional form of a date you could ever think of (i.e. food and drinks).

2020-09-29T16:02:04+00:00

I love how he immediately gives up when he realizes how out of his league he is.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-09-29T14:52:43+00:00

“What are you used to?”

Not ‘what do you want’ or “what do you like as a person”? No, it’s ‘what treatment are you used to so I know if it’s worth the effort to try to get laid or not’. They’re so obvious when you know how to translate

Ayxmiii · 2020-09-29T10:28:12+00:00

Waste of time

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-09-29T13:37:53+00:00

🤡: cUlTuRe?!? I tHiNk NoT!!1!!

pao664 · 2020-09-29T12:04:16+00:00

“Sits on his BROKE ass!”

waddamelone · 2020-09-29T10:36:41+00:00

ShaBYE!

luciesssss · 2020-09-29T13:08:59+00:00

Ok so I have a legit question. I saw a video where a girl was taken on a picnic date. It was summer, he prepared food and drinks and they went and had a picnic. Would that be a FDS approved date or is that a sign of a LVM?

I personally probably wouldn’t want that date because I’d rather go inside but if you’re an outdoorsy person idk

Happylittleshadows · 2020-09-29T13:26:24+00:00

I would send him a voice record of me LAUGHING a walk in the park is the funniest shit i’ve ever heard like what are you a dog?

LadyGrimes · 2020-09-29T10:32:32+00:00

That's a lot of words for "I'm a broke ass"

Dormouse_in_a_teapot · 2020-09-29T13:22:36+00:00

I cannot wrap my head around anyone being this cheap

Mindeska · 2020-09-29T15:38:22+00:00

'Don't think it's gonna work'? He thinks a freaking lunch is too much for a date? What a total loser.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2020-09-29T13:11:34+00:00

Lol bye

whatevertoton · 2020-09-29T22:31:48+00:00

Lol wow. Lunch, dinner or a cultural activity is too much?

babyaf · 2020-09-29T23:24:18+00:00

I wonder if the money for food part turned him off or the cultural activity. But in all seriousness, don’t give him a second chance by saying you aren’t used to that. A TON of LVM will step up but that’s the last thing you want.

2020-09-29T09:40:54+00:00

this is so gross. they really are trash. not even willing to buy a woman lunch or dinner? entitled trash.

m00n5t0n3 · 2020-09-29T23:23:32+00:00

Hahahahhahahahhahahahaha oh my god deep breath AHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAAHA

nycgirlhere · 2020-09-29T15:57:35+00:00

Easy as pie self identified

Pink-Bagel · 2020-09-29T18:59:12+00:00

When I was still dating I would immediately unmatch anyone who didn’t offer dinner. Couldn’t be bothered to explain or try to negotiate.

2020-09-29T22:21:22+00:00

You just bought yourself a fabulous, safe evening with the best company possible, to do whatever the fuck you want.

reina_nova · 2020-09-30T00:33:47+00:00

"Don't think it's gonna work, sorry"

GOOD.

2020-09-30T12:38:46+00:00

"What are you used to?" "An actual date." "Don't think it's going to work, sorry."

nocompromiselunch · 2020-09-29T12:11:48+00:00

Omg that "sorry" at the end as if it's any loss to you! Hahaha

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-09-29T20:50:49+00:00

There are literal lists of date ideas you can Google. Whether its your first date or your anniversary. 🤦‍♀️

2020-09-29T23:38:49+00:00

Did you block him? I’d love to hear this clown try to justify himself further. This is like the field guy who refused a sushi date and went to a strip club! 😂

yvrcanuck88 · 2020-09-29T09:12:44+00:00

Given the Covid situation, being outdoors (fresh air circulating) for a walk or sitting on park bench (6 feet apart) is healthier than inside a restaurant (less ventilation, less human contact to spread virus etc) so would that make the “coffee & walk date” acceptable to FDS given these specific and unprecedented Covid times?

Title	When the trash takes itself out
Author	babyaf
Upvotes	860
Comments	137
Date	September 29, 2020 6:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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