Unsolicited dick pics

Educational-Roll9834 · 2024-03-14T09:09:25+00:00

I’ve actually asked multiple women. Even the ones not grossed out, don’t have any reaction to just a dick. They don’t know how they’re supposed to feel about it, it’s just a penis to them. You’re better off doing face or body pics if you have other attractive features they may like. It also makes you automatically look thirsty & desperate

Adventurous-Lime1775 · 2024-03-14T07:34:19+00:00

Nope, not attractive at all.

I usually send back a stock photo of a porn dick with the caption "mines bigger".

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-03-14T08:59:23+00:00

Never been turned on but I have blurred the image and sent it directly back to their partners half a dozen times. Also have no problem telling friends when their friends do this.

There are consequences to flashing people in public, unsolicited nudes are no different. My niece was playing a game on my phone and saw a clip of a classmate beating off. You’d better believe he got what he deserved.

MyLastBestChance · 2024-03-14T12:01:25+00:00

It’s the sexually aggressive version of a stray cat dropping a dead mole on your doorstep and expecting to be fed and praised, and equally unappealing…

januaryphilosopher · 2024-03-14T07:47:50+00:00

Oddly enough I have never been turned on by random genitals. I think it's mainly used as a power play like other forms of sexual harrassment.

mrs_seng · 2024-03-14T07:32:36+00:00

Nothing can bring a block faster than unsolicited dick pics. No further discussions. No exceptions.

KayRay1994 · 2024-03-14T15:04:32+00:00

I literally deleted grindr for this exact reason lmfao - i don’t like unsolicited dick pics, a penis is just a penis if i don’t know the man its attached to

kayceeplusplus · 2024-03-14T09:16:36+00:00

No. Lack of permission is such a turn off. But it’s hot when I’ve asked for it.

FebruaryEightyNine · 2024-03-14T09:34:34+00:00

The fact that you have dudes arguing about sending unsolicited dick picks is the very reason why I think redpill/incel/manosphere types are very much the bottom 50% of the dating pool.

Yes, women get turned on by dicks. Especially large ones. But sending shit unsolicited just makes you look either socially stunted or desperate. I've had women do that shit too and it was almost always a sign of literally zero self worth or social maladjustment.

RicoSour · 2024-03-14T14:30:17+00:00

You how many dicks there are to see online and you think they want to see yours cause you threw a cheesy one liner.

They'll want it if they love you. If they're horny there are tons of toys that work better than a picture.

Planthoe30 · 2024-03-14T08:05:26+00:00

The only time I have actually been sent unsolicited dick pics is by internet trolls who thought it was funny and I was like yall know this is sexual harassment right? No I was not turned on I was more confused at what the point even was. These men were too old to be doing that. I guess they could have sent me someone else’s but I doubt it as it looked like he just pulled down his bed sheets and took a picture.. I got an unsolicited upper thigh pic once and the dude was wearing SpongeBob underwear LOL. I’m not sure he meant to send me that though I think they were just stoned. He deleted the picture when I hearted it and said nice underwear hahaha. He didn’t talk to me for months after that happened I’m pretty sure he was embarrassed.

SlowEffective8146 · 2024-03-14T13:35:12+00:00

I've never sent it unsolicited, I feel like that's just bad manners. Always ask 1st

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-03-14T16:01:30+00:00

I'll say this tinder used to allow you to share pictures in their messenger.... Now you can't anymore because of a certain group

ConanTheCybrarian · 2024-03-14T09:55:32+00:00

unsolicited ANYTHING is offputting.

If I didn't ask, I don't want a picture of their dick, their advice about how to change a tire, them to touch me, their opinion that I should smile more, or anything else.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2024-03-14T10:40:29+00:00

Unsolicited dick pics ? Never. Unsolicited food pics ? All the time

Specialist-Action-33 · 2024-03-14T13:01:50+00:00

Men who send them has it ever worked out?

No because in a lot places/platforms you can be reported and at a minimum get banned but at a max be charged with some form of sexual harassment.

Safinated · 2024-03-14T14:21:33+00:00

It works rarely, and that’s enough to reward the behavior

And not everyone sends them to get sex. Some send it to piss women off, which is very effective

DecisionPlastic9740 · 2024-03-14T15:42:08+00:00

I have never sent any but I do like sending duck pics.

Confident-Bat7194 · 2024-03-14T16:15:15+00:00

I personally never seen a dick and thought oh thats hot its just repulsive for me personally

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2024-03-14T12:19:32+00:00

Any UDP I get is saved, then sent back to the next UPD sender for comparing.

ohdiddly · 2024-03-14T15:42:07+00:00

Perfect question for me considering I receive hundreds a week (I rate dick pics for a living)

Women have you ever opened one from a strangers and been turned on? Wanted to have sex with them?

UNSOLICITED? No. It grosses me out and annoys me because it violates my clear boundaries I have set around dick pics. If they go through the correct means to send me a dick pic ie. I asked for it, or they paid for a rating, then yes that turns me on. Solicited dick pics are HOTTTT

AnonymousCoward261 · 2024-03-14T13:45:50+00:00

I have literally never done this. I have been asked for it and refused, figured it could be used to blackmail me later.

But maybe mine is just small?

Dertross · 2024-03-14T13:57:31+00:00

I'm pretty sure unsolicited dick pics are a form of shitposting. Like a rebellion against a social paradigm where their sex is worthless. If they can't get women to want to see their dick, they'll just deliberately be offensive by forcing a woman to see it.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2024-03-14T18:02:10+00:00

I don't send them unsolicited. I figure it's not something the vast majority of women enjoy so it's just in my best interests. Also I think it's often guys trying to nonconsensually include someone else in their fantasy. So I think it's unethical in that sense, even if I don't think it's usually all that psychologically damaging. More of an eye roll moment.

Some women ask for them and are turned on by them or want to hook up and want to see if they're still interested. In that case I'll sometimes send them.

Usually women just send unsolicited sexy pictures whenever they want to, without consent. Sometimes they ask which I suppose I appreciate for the principle, even though I don't mind either way.

ChadderUppercut · 2024-03-14T19:52:38+00:00

Short answer is that men want to be seen on a sexual level. Having a woman look at your dick feels enlivening. It's like asking why some homeless poor people steal or squat in houses.

Most_Read_1330 · 2024-03-14T23:47:04+00:00

I never sent such pictures

Expensive-Tea455 · 2024-03-16T20:56:08+00:00

It’s the rapey men fighting for their lives trying to defend this behavior in the comment section for me 🙃

watchuwannaknow · 2024-03-14T15:47:12+00:00

A guy once asked me nicely before sending it to me. We were hooking up back then and it (his body and hard dick) turned me on more than anything else.

Probably he asked me and that sets me to the right mood to appreciate the pic?

EvilManDevil · 2024-03-14T11:43:51+00:00

Women aren't sexually attracted to men's bodies, so sending dick pics doesn't have the effect that those guys think it does. The female equivalent would be like sending guys pics of their college degrees. We do not care.

WilliamWyattD · 2024-03-14T12:28:08+00:00

It's possible this is some mass male delusion.

But more likely there is some market for this. Someone is getting advantage from sending unsolicited dick pics I guess.

I am aware that there is a subculture of fairly promiscuous women that want the dick pic, though often not because it turns them on, but rather because they want to avoid wasting time by quickly disqualifying men who don't meet their penis requirements.

uterine_blackmail · 2024-03-14T18:35:54+00:00

To be honest with you, I am glad when they send di*k photos so I can weed them and avoid awkward and uncomfortable situations. Some people, men and women have very unattractive genitalia (I am exclusively heterosexual, but I can easily acknowledge that some genitalia are truly ugly).

Last year, I met a guy who was 100% my type. He was a literal stud. 26 years old, 6'4'', great face, a very broad and aesthetic face. Then he sent me his di*k photos and his penis was one of the ugliest and most repulsive I have ever seen in my entire life. It was truly vomit-inducing. I ghosted him and I was disappointed. To this day, I feel so much disappointment when I think about it.

Also, guys lie about their height (they usually add 2 inches to their actual height), but they will also lie about their penis size.

If they say, "size doesn't matter", it means it's small
If they say, "nobody has ever complained about it", it means it's small
If they send a photo while they are wrangling/strangling it, it means it's small and are trying to make it look bigger
Some penises are too big and they will stab your cervix
Some penises are big but very ugly

TLDR, I prefer when they send unsolicited di*k pic so I know in advance if they have ugly genitalia

RubyDiscus · 2024-03-14T07:59:02+00:00

and been turned on? Wanted to have sex with them?

If they have a sexy dick sure.

If they are constantly sending unsolicited dick pics it gets old fast tho.

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MyLastBestChance · 2024-03-14T13:56:05+00:00

The only appropriate response…

https://i.imgur.com/I48ffqi.jpeg

apresonly · 2024-03-14T15:47:58+00:00

never ever ever from a stranger, no. immediate turn off. immediate block.

from a lover? yes absolutely

propagandu · 2024-03-14T18:01:10+00:00

Did Drake's leaked video have an effect on women? Were they repulsed by him or did that dong make him more interesting? Do dickpics from chads make women wet or do they pretend like they're sexually aroused to remain in chad's good books? All very interesting questions we may never know the answer to.

beingDino · 2024-03-15T07:19:01+00:00

All I know is that, as a dude, I love getting unsolicited vulva pics. I've gotten a few. The best was half an hour after a first (no sex) date. At least I knew she had a good time 🤷🏻

Expensive-Tea455 · 2024-03-16T18:55:25+00:00

No, it’s a very weird and socially inept thing to do that….

Love-Is-Selfish · 2024-03-14T09:33:48+00:00

I just don’t understand why some men do this

It’s a low self-esteem way of initiating, which men do for good reason. They believe they don’t have anything to offer you but their dick, so that’s what they send.

Myagooshki2 · 2024-03-14T22:55:57+00:00

There are some women, especially trashy women, who get turned on by it. It's a high risk high reward scenario.

Gardenjam · 2024-03-15T15:43:11+00:00

Women view attraction different to guys. They dont get turned on by the visual appearance of a penis. And in cases of an unromantic partner, its actually the opposite.

From my knowledge, girls may be attracted to faces, personality, voice, masculinity, the idea of protection and men that can bring a lot to the table. A bigger than average dick would fall into that last category, in a check box kind of way. They can appreciate when something is better than average. And theyre not out there looking at big dicks in a singular sense and getting turned on, hence why there isnt strip shows for women outside of a fun hens night.

I believe women can also encounter a lot of intense protective feelings around sex. Before and after. Could be nature's way of ensuring they make the right decision. Dicks or dick pics are met with offense by women, probably as it feels threatening. After all, they dont find it attractive, so theyre thinking "what is this doing in front of me? I didnt ask for this? It was sent with ill intention".

This is also why its important men shouldnt introduce anything sexual or genital related on women who are drunk, as their inhibitions are lowered temporarily and those protective feelings subside, only to return the next day. Once you understand this, the whole "but both the man and women were drunk" thing makes sense.

Guys dont seem to have these additional protective feelings, and they also find genitals attractive. This probably leads MOST guys to believe women are designed the same as way as them, but its not the case. Theres so much more to the difference between men and women and it should really be taught better.

MotherPermit9585 · 2024-03-15T16:17:45+00:00

I’m definitely in the minority from talking with other women, but I actually don’t mind receiving dick pics even if unsolicited. If the guy is attractive and has a nice dick I do get turned on. If he’s not attractive (this is more of an issue on Instagram since if we match on Tinder or something I presumably already think he’s attractive) or if his dick is unattractive (smallish, odd shape, lots of pubic hair, poor hygiene etc.) then I will quickly lose attraction to him. I still won’t be offended though even if it was unsolicited. However I would caution any guys reading this that this is NOT the typical female response and it’s likely not in your interest to send unsolicited dick pics even if you’re gorgeous and have a beautiful dick.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-03-14T11:01:19+00:00

The feminists here who are not okay with unsolicited dick pics but totally okay with doxxing and revenge porn si baffling to me.

truth-informant · 2024-03-14T10:04:34+00:00

Small world things happen in small world realms.

full_brick_package · 2024-03-14T13:52:34+00:00

I thought we were finally past all this with the laws and general constant complaining. I don't remember if it was solicited or not but I shared mine once 15 years ago and had a woman lose it trying to get me in bed. It was mostly because I'm uncut and she was into that.

Let's see, I've had one of my friend's ex wives try to go for me just because they saw it on my computer.

silverhippo15 · 2024-03-14T13:46:33+00:00

Of course. I got a big boy and girls are more receptive to it than not.

Pretend-Ad-2405 · 2024-03-14T07:59:19+00:00

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optimuscrymez · 2024-03-14T07:43:38+00:00

Use your head.

The answer is YES.

They are classic high risk high reward.

First, if you're launching dick pics your goal in the immediate future is sex. Not many better ways to sort out which women are going to string you along i.e. not that sexually excited by you but see bf potential (you should be aggressively weeding these out anyway) from the ones who you "do it" for.

Anyone who pretends otherwise is profoundly ignorant.

Title	Unsolicited dick pics
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Date	March 14, 2024 7:28 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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