Women, especially recently, have been afforded the opportunity to voice their life experiences however they see fit - that often includes lashing out at and attacking men. This is allowed and encouraged due to "lived experiences" and "trauma" at the hands of men. Men are not only supposed to validate them, but also acquiesce to them and take them at their word 100%. This does not ring true for men's experiences.

A man's lived experience is questioned, scrutinized, invalidated, and beaten down to be made false due to men revealing unsuitable qualities and realities in women. Whenever a man voices his frustrating experiences caused at the hands of women, he's met with:

  • Accusations of sexism/misogyny
  • Accusations of entitlement
  • Accusations of whining
  • Accusations of lack of effort
  • Accusations of invalidating women's experiences

This all despite the fact that it was his own lived experience. Not an opinion, not some study, his own experience.

Women hate it when men voice their experiences and those experiences showcase women in a bad light. Experiences which go against the laws that whatever women say, think, or do is approved. Experiences that show men have it far more difficult in dating and other realms than women. These experiences thus must be invalidated in order to maintain the status quo and to silence these men back into conformity.