The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime.

I’m getting sick of seeing people insist we live in some wild hookup culture now, that women are fucking dudes left and right, having ONS multiple times a year, etc.

I’m only 32, I’m still well in tune with the dating scene and I still pull 18-25 year olds (no one believes my age.) There have always been hypersexual, promiscuous women in every generation. Nothing has changed, they are still a fringe minority. OLD didn’t flip a switch to where women now give it up at the drop of a hat due to anonymity and abundance of choice.

Have casual hookups increased since then? Yeah, probably to some extent. But most women are still monogamous and want some sort of commitment. Girls, at least the ones in my demographic who are desirable and attractive, typically date 2-5 guys seriously before settling down in their late 20s/early 30s. They may have a rebound fuck here and there, and a few hookups in their wild college days. But very few of them are racking up 20-30 bodies, that’s just ridiculous.

You can call me oblivious, naive, tell me all about the “rule of 5” or whatever and how women lie and diminish their body count. But study after study, in conjunction with common sense and observation, has shown that most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their lifetimes.

The irony of this subject to me is that it is almost entirely men who will be chiming into claim the contrary, that I’m naive or out of touch and that women are out here hoein it up like rabbits. I find this funny because most of these dudes are the same ones who admittedly have the least amount of success with women. Yet they somehow have this inside scoop on women’s promiscuity and what they are doing?

Sorry, I have had more than my share of success in regard to casual sex and LTR, and I worked for every piece of ass I’ve gotten as have my even more attractive friends so skip the whole “Chad” narrative. I’ve seen dudes who look like Post Malone fuck way more than guys who look like Brody Jenner, looks help but in the long run are minimally important for abundance and success in the hookup world. TRP, confidence and game are exponentially more important and ultimately all that matters both for both sex and LTR.