How many times have you seen these posts and articles about the supposed “mismatched desire”? How many times have you heard the old tale that women want it less than men and that, with time, sexual activity in a relationship decreases? Well, you can actually test it. If you partner has no diagnosed physical or mental health issues, and their hormones are ok, just put them in an environment with a very attractive person of the opposite sex, or even watch a movie/porn containing such fine specimens. You’d be surprised how your “low libido” partner would react. In general, I believe that we need to put this idea of “natural low libido” to rest, because there are either some observable and measurable health issues, or there’s a non-attractive partner (you) who cannot spark that high level of desire.