Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.

UnapologeticWife · 2022-01-25T21:06:42+00:00

She could get promoted to girlfriend if she’s able to prove she’s nice and does domestic labor.

She doesn’t want to be your girlfriend if you’re still in the FWB is what I want mindset. Want a girlfriend, do some self improvement and set your own bar high enough to stop putting out low only enough effort for casual sex from the women you describe as only fuc$able.

cml678701 · 2022-01-25T19:39:03+00:00

Being nice has only gotten me treated like a doormat by men. It’s definitely better to be a bitch. Most men don’t respect nice women

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2022-01-25T21:46:30+00:00

"Nice" in manspeak translates to: "let's me walk all over her and is my personal doormat, never calls out my shitty behavior and allows me to use her like a bangmaid"

KindredMaximus · 2022-01-25T21:33:30+00:00

Christ, imagine being ''promoted'' to being his GF - sounds like a less than minimum wage job where your begging for scraps and being verbally abused by the manager. A lot of men see no value in women as humans in their own right. They have one job - being fuckable. This attitude is only going to get worse as more boys grow up on porn. It is imperative that we find a way to educate young women the danger they and their daughters are going to be growing up in. And it has to start at around 9 yrs of age which is when boys start watching porn.
And I hazard a guess he meets lots of crazy bitches - his attitude would be the causal condition in those cases, I'm sure.

Buggy1218 · 2022-01-25T19:10:53+00:00

Little do they know us ladies have “boxes” for men too.

Visibly a decade older? Predator. Under 5’8”? Friend material. Attractive but misogynistic? Fuckboy. Angry tendencies? Abusive. Jealous? Serial cheater.

I could go on.

CheetahEnergy · 2022-01-25T19:38:48+00:00

“BE NICE” he shouts after casually dehumanizing women for a few paragraphs

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-01-25T19:14:20+00:00

Why are shitty men so obsessed with women being NICE to them? Fragile ego? Emotional volatility? Inability to deal with negative or even constructive feedback?

Why are they asking for something that they have no capacity to give in return?

overit_af · 2022-01-25T18:52:49+00:00

LMAO. They really out here thinking they’re the prize. 🤗🤭🤣 I’m sure this dude is really pressed with all his “sorting” of ladies. 🥲

Datonecatladyukno · 2022-01-25T21:22:30+00:00

I really feel like not being nice is the best advice here. Don’t be nice to men. Got it

_mooness · 2022-01-25T19:17:44+00:00

BE NICE to me because my fragile ego cannot handle it when an attractive woman is bitchy (aka opinionated), crazy (aka reacts to my abusive behavior), has bad relationship history (aka has been used and abused by other men but thinking about it makes me feel ashamed for being complicit), has a history of casual sex (aka women don’t want me and I’m envious that she can get whoever she wants), has domestic skills (aka will be my mommy all the time).

This is why they can’t handle attractive women who aren’t nice. It must be soul crushing to live with this level of insecurity.

Free_Acanthisitta446 · 2022-01-25T21:37:05+00:00

Yet they cheat on the “nice girls” and complain they aren’t freaky enough in bed, so they cheat on nice girls with the FWB girls, and then throw the FWB girls in the trash because they are “too slutty” to be treated with respect. We are all better off just being “friends” I guess.

PaunchyPilates · 2022-01-25T20:50:49+00:00

It reminds me of that hideous man who trapped multiple women in his home. At his sentencing hearing, he rambled hideously about how the decades of R--pe they endured wasn't so bad because some of them weren't virgins.

Men who view you as less of a person for your history are abusers, as your inexperience and naivete are what they prize about you.

InspectorGadget07 · 2022-01-25T18:55:15+00:00

What a disgusting tone. This laundry list is probably coming from a guy who drinks out a bowl when all the cups are in the sink.

cAnNoT oVeREM-FUH- sIzE- MUST bE nIcE

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-01-25T21:43:31+00:00

Tf is he talking about? Dudes will literally fuck anything so his entire point is moot

ChemicalCobbler · 2022-01-25T19:21:46+00:00

I'm starting to wonder why women even talk to men anymore.

throwawaynevermindit · 2022-01-25T19:24:38+00:00

So men use FWB to exploit mentally ill or traumatized women and to "punish" women who don't kiss their arses, gotcha. They admit it. Now watch them get squirrelly when the consequences come.

Objective_Ad7771 · 2022-01-25T19:09:48+00:00

Idk man. Women have valid reasons to sort men like: damaged until proven otherwise... Yet we don't? After seeing posts like this I'm saying that we definitely should tho.

fallen-summer · 2022-01-25T22:53:28+00:00

Ahh yes the good old manly "logic" of degrading women for sexual acts they also participated in gotta love it

Glass-Trade8008 · 2022-01-25T21:38:41+00:00

"crazy".

This is so inarticulate. Does he mean clingy? Poor communication? Actual mental illness?
The irony is, guys who throw the term "crazy" around are a red flag for misogyny, and immediately get tossed into the trash box

No_Sprinkles_6078 · 2022-01-25T18:58:18+00:00

Over on TRP, these males are pissed off that some women will not have sex with them right away, and they use the argument that “ well she had sex with someone else on the first date so I also deserve that”.

It is glaringly obvious how hypocritical they are and cannot even see it.

They want a girl who has had sex with 0 to 2 people, to have sex with them right away! That is not how this fucking works, sir!

2022-01-25T22:23:46+00:00

that's the type of guy that thinks customer service worker ladies are hitting on him for being nice to him but it's kind of a part of the job to be NICE.

duhyouknowthevibes · 2022-01-25T20:40:44+00:00

Lmaooo buddy, I’ll tell you straight up most of the girls that you put into that “GF” box don’t want your ass. Woman who are well educated, polite, and a good catch don’t want men with mindsets like this but nice try

Cryptidtitties · 2022-01-25T22:16:55+00:00

Idk why but "BE NICE" really annoyed me. I'll be nice if you are too, but I don't owe you that.

BasieSkanks · 2022-01-25T19:44:19+00:00

This is why I’ve stopped being nice to men. To them, nice is synonymous with doormat. Women should strive to be kind, not nice. Kind people are discerning about where and when they give. Nice people give and give and give and end up resorting to covert contracts to get their needs met. Kind people refuse to be taken advantage of, whereas nice people fall for the lie that being nice to someone means they will respect and like you. I am a kind person, but I am not nice.

findmeunderwater · 2022-01-25T20:03:38+00:00

Yikes as to how FWB is portrayed as the prerequisite step to GF. He says that just so he can tell women that they have to “earn” GF status with their FWB performance. Gross all around.

2022-01-25T20:19:47+00:00

Men’s version of a someone who is NICE is a girl who will not confront him with his shitty behavior. My ex would say I was being mean to him when I would tell him to clean up after himself or had any other complaint with our relationship. No I’m not mean you just never take me out or clean up after yourself.

FodderFigureIllushun · 2022-01-25T20:41:28+00:00

If you use this same principle with men and instead of being "fuckable" you base their relationship worthiness on how generous they are with their net worth, you will find so many of the same men curled up in a puddle of their own tears.

moonseekerinflight · 2022-01-25T19:48:24+00:00

I would rather live alone with cats than be anywhere near this dude.

_Agrias_Oaks_ · 2022-01-25T18:59:37+00:00

Wait, so women may be "promoted" from fuck buddy to girlfriend only if they don't have a history of casual relationships?

seraphinelysion · 2022-01-26T00:55:44+00:00

This guy's definition of "relationship material":

Mentally well adjusted.
Has job.
Domestic skills.
Is NICE.

Most men wouldn't even qualify due to the absence of all of the above.

aquietsword · 2022-01-25T19:56:53+00:00

Every comment like this from a male belongs in the choosing beggars sub lol

CaptainMorgan546 · 2022-01-25T20:52:44+00:00

bE nICe

fairywakes · 2022-01-26T00:53:35+00:00

“Cannot overemphasize this. Be NiCe.”

I cannot stress this enough: Go fuck yourselves. No amount of niceness will get you out of the casual sex zone when men don’t value you. Bitchyness and standards get you WHAT YOU WANT.

ShittyPianist · 2022-01-25T20:07:43+00:00

I've had men seriously arrive to the conclusion of, "this woman has experienced abuse, she likes me, and therefore, I must be abusive and awful because she is damaged."

I am so over men thinking they're not shit for not going to therapy, and judging me because I do. These same types always unload random details about pain points in their life to me too.

I just kind of want to hang out with my dog and focus on improving my house for the next few months. So many men are just fucking awful... OLD has so many men who think exactly like this and it's infuriating.

BooksandEarlGreyTea · 2022-01-25T21:04:22+00:00

I hope these scrotes know the 'box' I put most men in is the bin.

2022-01-25T20:18:19+00:00

“bad relationship history” like that isn’t their fucking fault

JulyParade · 2022-01-25T19:23:11+00:00

BE NICE when he cheats on you. BE NICE when he watches porn. BE NICE when he begs for anal. BE NICE when he gets drunk, misses work, calls your infant a cunt, and gets fired from his job. BE NICE!

Nah, I recognize my "crazy" reflex is a defense mechanism against these morons. Guess what? The "girlfriend" box is a "forever girlfriend" box.

thephloxisjinxed · 2022-01-25T19:20:21+00:00

BE NICE!! My VERY FRAGILE ego CANNOT handle the absence of consistent coddling and positive attention. Otherwise I will SUCCUMB to any other positive attention. And it’s ALL YOUR FAULT!!!!

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-25T22:10:18+00:00

All these boxes yet this scrote probably can’t get his underwear in the laundry hamper.

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-01-25T18:37:24+00:00

Being nice never got me anywhere with men.

Davina33 · 2022-01-26T00:12:43+00:00

Huh? He only wishes he could get a FWB, let alone a girlfriend!

Spraytyasha · 2022-01-26T05:51:59+00:00

The way he said "damaged" and screamed out the "BE NICE". Gaslighter through and through. He will find a nice girl, manipulate her into thinking he has high standards and she is the one he chose, and the moment she shows any emotion other than "nice" he will try to destroy her self-esteem, call her crazy and label her "damaged". Ladies, beware. There is no winning with men like him.

2022-01-25T20:35:45+00:00

Scrote doesn't even know how to fix his broken disgusting table.

Cocoo_B · 2022-01-25T18:45:25+00:00

If women avoided doing xyz because men would look down on us for it, we would not be doing anything at all.

I agree that casual sex is a scam for women for a myriad of valid reasons, but fear of being looked down on by men is simply not one of them.

Men’s opinions should not be a factor or consideration in what women choose to do or not to do. I would much rather focus on a cost-benefit analysis from women’s perspective with zero regards for men’s opinions

6anxiety9 · 2022-01-25T19:15:13+00:00

So having a job makes us girlfriends because we can be used for rent, lending money, and they know where we are 8 hrs a day. Yeah no thanks

xfelugirlx · 2022-01-26T04:06:04+00:00

Domestic skills? Just say you want a mommy, these scrotes 🤢

PollyannaPenny · 2022-01-26T02:50:56+00:00

The rules are always changing. They don't want a "slut". But they also don't want a "frigid prude" who sets too many sexual boundaries or (HEAVEN FORBID) requires some level of commitment before having sex.

This is why you don't compromise your boundaries for a scrote. You conform to one set of demands, and they'll just spring more on you. And you'll get nothing worthwhile in return

orthosaurusrex · 2022-01-26T02:26:14+00:00

“Why aren’t women nice to me?”

-this same scrote, probably.

pygmymetal · 2022-01-26T00:27:21+00:00

Be nice? FTS

Invisiblescars_123 · 2022-01-26T08:47:25+00:00

Lmao, “otherwise damaged”. He thinks we’re objects xD.

abby_ch238 · 2022-01-26T02:49:52+00:00

Reason #2947473 not to be nice to men 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-26T12:56:42+00:00

Mwahahahaha! This is why we never disclose history: it's always 2 at most, bby and all on good terms. Let them wonder and eat shit while waiting for the "juicy" details. They're never coming their way. You owe them nothing!

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