What is your end game?

Nihi1986 · 2024-06-25T01:33:14+00:00

I don't really expect any luck, honestly, though I'd like a cute and good hearted life long partner and a pet (ideally a kid but I might be too old and with health issues now, and I already work with kids so they are part of my life).

The irony is that I already had that in the past and for many years, but I fucked up by not working on the relationship hard enough while she did it. After that my longest relationship has been 4 fucking months so...not very hopeful anymore lol...

Luciansleep · 2024-06-25T03:34:43+00:00

To be honest, to have men’s issues more talked about and actions towards helping it

Maractop · 2024-06-25T03:26:01+00:00

I probably lean blackpill. I really just want a gf tbh. Ideally get married but apparently that is controversial on here. I just think that the blackpill is the most realistic. Some take it to extremes but the base stuff is true.

slazengerx · 2024-06-25T02:45:37+00:00

A life of adventure doing the things I enjoy doing. Sometimes with a partner, sometimes not. Eventually... death via euthanasia once my health gets too bleak to enjoy life. So far, so good.

McPigg · 2024-07-17T18:51:59+00:00

To have fun while im young , then find the best baby momma for kids someday maintan a goood relationship with her

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AngeCruelle · 2024-06-24T23:58:03+00:00

Get married in the church, have kids, grow old together, die

Acrobatic_Drop4993 · 2024-06-25T00:01:29+00:00

Purplepill leaning red.

A happier life.

.What to you feel like you will get out of the the set of ideas you've aligned yourself with?

A more accurate internal representation of reality. This leads to less disappointment, frustration, confusion, etc.

If someone comes up with a better model, I will happily replace the existing one.

LiftSushiDallas · 2024-06-25T00:08:38+00:00

Continue to put my interests (my physique, making money, enjoying my city and friends) first. Stick to non-cohabitation, no marriage, no kids. Have a man or men in my life who I enjoy the company of on terms that suit my lifestyle.

KayRay1994 · 2024-06-25T00:10:28+00:00

i don’t particularly follow any pill but i guess a lot of my ideas is a moderate amalgamation of both - that being said, my endgame would probably be a simple life in a small town, my partner (idk if id call her wife cause i do think marriage only makes sense with kids involved, and kids aren’t a 100% thing for me), a few pets and maybe kids (depending on surrounding circumstances), living in a self-sustaining close community.

Is it achievable? time will tell. Am I taking steps to get there? yes I am

saywhatitis11 · 2024-06-25T00:10:38+00:00

To have men and women not be seen as enemies but as partners. To have men’s nature and desires not be labeled as toxic, or to have the laws of the land enforce women’s mating and dating preferences at the expense of men.

It’s fine if men want to marry and make kids and be providers and be monogamous and of that. It’s also fine if men want to have multiple partners and don’t want to have one woman. Andrew Hiberman isn’t a pig. He’s Andrew huberman. The courts treat fathers like they’re shitty money bags to be exploited. People who (probably demonstrably) falsely accuse others of crimes like rape should have the hammer dropped on them.

PsychoticNurse · 2024-06-25T01:38:01+00:00

Find a man who would actually marry me and not just want to live with me without commitment, him have a provider mentality. To be treated with respect and not seen as my husband's strength "equal", since men and women are different--for example he does heavy things.

For me personally: take accountability for my own life. For example, I need to lose weight. So I'm working on it instead of just sitting back expecting my husband to accept me being overweight.

a_gooned_smoke · 2024-06-25T02:51:15+00:00

a woman must be acquired by all means necessary, put a few babies in her and raise them together

FuuraKafu · 2024-06-25T12:01:49+00:00

I want to contribute to helping women understand men better and care more about men's sexual frustrations and insecurities as much as I can.

toasterchild · 2024-06-25T00:15:29+00:00

All I get is not being redpill becasue redpill is just miserable people making each other more and more miserable.

EulenWatcher · 2024-06-25T00:15:34+00:00

I’m blue by the definition of disagreeing with the red and black pill. Both pills have some common sense things that I agree with, but I do not subscribe to either of them, as they don’t have a copyright to common sense.

Hopefully my husband and I will have life-long fulfilling marriage lasting for decades, kids, good financial level and generally be content and satisfied with our lives.

random_radishes · 2024-06-25T00:17:13+00:00

I’d love to fulfill my career ambitions and create something I can be proud of. I’d also like to have a little family in the city with a husband and 2-3 children.

egalitarian-flan · 2024-06-25T00:17:36+00:00

Purple/center woman.

My personal end game has been completed for a number of years now. Find a good man, who would both respect and love me, to share my sexuality with exclusively and give the same in return. Essentially get a partner to create our own little bubble of peace and sanctuary with. No children, no debt, no conflict. Just tranquility and dogs.

My community end game is still growing, but it was always to provide young adults...primarily men...a safe and open place to form a healthy community. A space for them to find like-minded nerds/gamers who all enjoy the same things, as "third spaces" where people can hang out face-to-face are rare nowadays. My store has been doing well for the last 2 years and I'm hoping to keep it growing for years to come.

SaBahRub · 2024-06-25T00:26:57+00:00

The normal script, obviously. But without the shit that it used to involve — unequal labor, complacency, bad sex

Unhappy_Offer_1822 · 2024-06-25T00:29:53+00:00

im an innovator so do my part in building the future

ezk17 · 2024-06-25T00:30:02+00:00

have my successful career, get married, have tons of babies, have a small farm type thing w chickens and a big garden, raise my kids w my husband, grow old, be happy, feel like i’ve made a positive change in this world. die fulfilled

ratboi34 · 2024-06-25T00:33:02+00:00

Adopting a child on my own when I'm 40, raising it the best way I can and dying at 65.

_jay_fox_ · 2024-06-25T00:35:49+00:00

We are all valuable. Every life is precious. Everyone is worth of love.

We should all think of ourselves as good people at least potentially (if not actually) and strive to be good, to treat others well and fairly, to live respectable lives as far as possible.

Through understanding how the modern society has twisted the expectations of masculinity we can escape the matrix programming, learn to see ourselves and eachother as human, and build genuine friendships.

My vision for the future is many such friendships blossoming into communities and that everyone gets to feel like a player in the system and no one has to feel inferior or less than just because they happened to be born male.

TheCounsellingGamer · 2024-06-25T00:42:08+00:00

My end game is to share my life with someone I love and who loves me. I don't consider myself to be blue pill or red pill because I think both of those stances are divisive, and the last thing we need in the world is even more "us vs them". I do find the whole concept interesting though, hence why I'm here.

Puzzleheaded_Card_71 · 2024-06-25T00:43:34+00:00

No marriage, no cohabitation, and no kids. I would be happy to date exclusively someone long term in a LAT arrangement but I won’t let anyone ever vest in my resources ever again. Keeps both partners honest and trying when they know they can easily walk away.

IcyTrapezium · 2024-06-25T00:47:05+00:00

Oh if the red pill people are to believed men are absolutely terrible and so are women. Men naturally see women as objects and women naturally see men as objects according to red pill ideology. My experience is that most people aren’t terrible and men and women have more in common than differences. I’ve seen more differences in behavior and beliefs between individuals than between the sexes as a group.

My end game is to not become bitter. So far, so good.

cestbondaeggi · 2024-06-25T00:48:16+00:00

Talk to my crush and make her fall in love with me.

Most_Read_1330 · 2024-06-25T00:53:40+00:00

I'd like to have a happy life long monogamous relationship.

Solondthewookiee · 2024-06-25T00:54:50+00:00

Blue pill didn't really inform my dating life beyond just treating women like human beings. I'm married to an amazing woman (red pill says our relationship would never happen), have a wonderful daughter, our sex is great, our social life is great, this is pretty much the end game relationship-wise.

As far end game for blue pill in general, I'm hoping that exposing the lies, hypocrisy, and pure absurdity of red pill will help reduce the incredible harm they inflict on men and women.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2024-06-25T01:02:20+00:00

I never wanted kids but always expected to get married and have a family.

I have since been corrected and understand that a man expecting anything is being entitled so I don't hope for any of that anymore.

PassionateCucumber43 · 2024-06-25T01:05:05+00:00

I just want a long term relationship with someone who respects and understands me. I would mostly be willing to set aside physical standards to achieve that end.

HolidayInvestigator9 · 2024-06-25T01:30:03+00:00

i know its not healthy but to be desired by an attractive western woman even for a fleeting moment. it would signifiy (in my fucked up head canon) that i am "good enough" for the society in which i was raised into.

edit: why are people upvoting this, are we all this fucked?

TRTGymBroXXX · 2024-06-25T01:55:44+00:00

I will tell you the end game of 99.99% of men here: they want to be right. They don’t care about actually being successful with women, getting laid and getting girlfriends. They want to be right! That’s their ultimate end goal. If they actually admit that 90% of their twisted ideas are wrong they might actually end up getting a girlfriend. But no! Being right is more important than that.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-06-25T02:17:51+00:00

I just wanna have all the wild and awesome sex with as many decent looking women as possible I didn't have as a young man because I feel like I missed out. And then, when I get even older, settle down.

W-Pilled · 2024-06-25T02:42:14+00:00

Survival

Incarnate24 · 2024-06-25T02:56:54+00:00

A harem of women. Big enough for a different FWB in my bed every night for 7 nights straight.

I’m a man of simple dreams.

Ashayus · 2024-06-25T02:57:16+00:00

Just die alone, I hope it will happen soon

pizzamozzarellarella · 2024-06-25T03:03:29+00:00

Leading a polygamous cult probably. But realistically, I would like to live in a happy polygamous family with kids.

Able_Donut2654 · 2024-06-25T03:27:03+00:00

Honestly with my lifestyle I never thought I'd get this far. I don't have and end goal and just take each day as it comes.

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2024-06-25T03:46:05+00:00

I want to get rid of that uncontrollable longing for loving family and find a way to happiness in being alone.

KingSeann1120 · 2024-06-25T04:27:25+00:00

Stack money and stay healthy. Enjoy life and hobbies. stay away from woman to protect my money because the court system hates men. Stick to porn and legal prostitution to fulfill my sexual needs. If I have extra money from maybe a stock, property, or crypto blowing up in price then I will adopt.

iAloneChosen · 2024-06-25T04:41:25+00:00

Fulfill my ambitions, earn money, buy hookers, and hopefully pass away by 50-60. I have no intentions of dying in my sleep (if you get what I mean 🫣)

Wattehfok · 2024-06-25T05:16:42+00:00

Bluepill.

I’d like you all to be normal.

throwaway164_3 · 2024-06-25T05:23:56+00:00

The end game is death and permanent non existence and the cessation of consciousness

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-06-25T05:43:02+00:00

your end game

To live as long as I can, as well I can. One of the most beautiful things about life, is that it is full of opportunity. So my end game, is to take as many of them I as can.

Godspeed and good luck!

LAKings55 · 2024-06-25T05:52:14+00:00

To continue as I am, single for life. Dating, marriage and kids are things I choose to avoid

CraftyCooler · 2024-06-25T07:50:48+00:00

My views are blackpill/redpill - overall this lead me to having family, house and good career. I was 'mentored' by women in my life to act in more calculated way and they've taught me how to monetize my potential and 'hack' life. My parents were good people but they've had no idea how the world is working - they've got everything via super hard work, and honest hard working people are not respected nor desired - people pay them lip service but consider them naive. I told myself that I won't work hard for fucking single day of my life. And I didn't.

I remember one girl especially - she told me that women are not complicated, they want status, fun and looks and they want either finished product or guy with very visible potential. It worked very well for me to follow her advice. Women do not sign up for hard and honest life with good guys - they sign up for relatively easy life with fun guys.

What is my endgame ? I want to prepare my son to succeed in life - it's up to him how this will go, but I think that key to success is understanding the social game. If you are fun, you look good, you've seen and tried many things - people will like you. Recently I've got info from my son's teacher - she wrote that he is very self-confident, has vast knowledge and children like him very much, his only problem is not always following the rules(but he says that he is sorry).

obviousredflag · 2024-06-25T09:25:40+00:00

My beliefs never had a purpose. I believe what is true and i am in search of truth. I am easily willing and able to change my views when new evidence comes up. I am not free of bias, so it's a constant struggle to get a clearer view, to reflect and to self criticize. So if there is an end goal, then the be free of ideology/bias, to be able to operate with my knowledge directly on reality instead of a falsely imagined reality.

Regarding sexual/romantic life, i am already at the best point. THe knowledge i acquired over the last decade certainly had an influence on what i did or thought, but ultimately, for me, life just gets better and better, and is probably more a function of my personal growth, than of a worldview.

bloblikeseacreature · 2024-06-25T09:29:34+00:00

i'm personally set for life but i would like to see pill ideology die. the more people that deprogram themselves from the cult the better. the rest should be redacted.

Mr_Vaynewoode · 2024-06-25T11:11:47+00:00

Truth

LoopyPro · 2024-06-25T11:44:50+00:00

Ideally, the cliché white picket fence - A stable family with the right woman, no DB, no divorce, not losing my kids and half of my assets/paychecks/pension.

GH0STRIDER579 · 2024-06-25T11:59:09+00:00

I want a healthy career and a family with two or three children in a religious and culturally homogeneous and tight knit community. To find that, I had to leave the US.

spunkystoic · 2024-06-25T12:15:44+00:00

As a very short brown guy in the West?

Probably see a bunch of high end escorts, get an AI waifu when they get good enough, smoke lots of cigars, drive nice cars, hang out with my large group of (gender mixed) friends, and otherwise find the most comfortable way to die alone 👍🏽

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-06-25T13:20:26+00:00

Living my end game. Good career, happy family (wife, 2 girls, dog), rental property (looking to maybe find another investment property soon). Good church and neighborhood communities.

DumbWordsmith · 2024-06-25T13:22:57+00:00

I want to reach my full potential as an individual. I want to be strong and healthy for as long as possible and learn as much as I can about the things that interest me.

Near the end of my last relationship, I took a mental snapshot while standing in the kitchen and asked myself, "Is this really the best my life has to offer?" Like a fool, I allowed her to take so much from me and give me so little in return. Meanwhile, everyone else outside of the situation thought I had it made.

I'll never forget how I felt in that moment. It's a place I can always revisit if necessary.

Most of the men in my family have sacrificed everything for their wives without receiving an ounce of genuine gratitude or respect, and it has made them miserable and co-dependent.

I've been there and done that. Thankfully, I was able to learn my lesson before 30, so I won't be following in their footsteps.

nogoatgoesawry · 2024-06-25T15:42:48+00:00

blackpill

I'm holding out a little hope that my unicorn exists.

but otherwise I'd like a decently paying remote job so I have the free time to travel with friends, lounge, or have fun with hobbies (I'd like to make a video game, sounds fun!)

RubyDiscus · 2024-06-25T16:39:40+00:00

2 kids and a casual job as a clinical psych or I guess part time lol. Yearly cruises and travel sounds good

AlmostKindaGreat · 2024-06-25T17:49:31+00:00

For me, the most impactful ideas about how to approach building attraction as a hetero man come from RP but I've never aligned with any of the extra stuff that has grown up around it like political ideology. Most of my ideas about nurturing a relationship could be considered BP since they come from sources which have nothing to do with RP, though arguably they are also not BP which offers many toxic ideas like "happy wife, happy life".

Either way, I've always considered advice for attraction or relationships to be just that, advice for doing a specific thing, and not a set of "beliefs" or something I've "aligned" myself with, like a political or cultural movement. I want the same things I wanted before. I just want to be more successful in getting them.

giveuporfindaway · 2024-06-25T23:09:43+00:00

Waiting on sex robots or some other type of exogenous dopamine/oxytocin. Obviously I'll go extinct. This will likely cause society to breakdown in an interesting way and I don't care.

Purple_Kangaroo8549 · 2024-06-26T19:37:04+00:00

Full restoration of the patriarchy and deconstruction of the liberal agenda.

SnooSongs8797 · 2024-06-27T17:13:36+00:00

I just want a girlfriend and a stable job

Title	What is your end game?
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Date	June 24, 2024 11:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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