Men judge women on their N-count because women judge men on their sexual prowess

Men get judged for not getting hard, for not staying hard, for not being big enough, not fucking her hard enough, not dominating her enough, finishing too fast or even taking too long to finish.

Yes men are insecure.

For men, sex is just pure effort from beginning to end and your manhood is judged the entire time.

of course, women care about this, there's no fun for her if it's done in 60 seconds, nobody in their right mind wants weak dick game.

But women aren't judged by how experienced they are in bed, most men just want a hot girl to lay there, even high-value men.

When a woman is more experienced that makes the guy not as confident and most likely he will be judged the entire time.

So the consequence is that he goes and finds another woman that is younger and less experienced, a woman that has fewer guys to compare him too and will have less to complain about. Therefore he can enjoy his time and let go.

Most men that are successful are working 100 hours a week, grinding, growing their businesses and working extra hours. They don't have time to get experienced in sex. That's for the broke guys or the players.

The more experienced a girl is the more judgment. This is why men immediately judge women on how many bodies she has to avoid issues.

So if women want men to not care about N count they have to not care about how good men are in bed and not judge them at all. Which will never happen.