I’m in my late 20s and have been with seven men. Two were long term relationships. Of those men, FOUR had trouble staying hard - none were long term boyfriends. Only one made me cum with little instruction from me - he also didn’t watch porn and was very patient. My second serious boyfriend didn’t have trouble staying hard but was a massive porn addict, and was proud of his sexual prowess but actually could never make me cum and made super anxious about my anatomy. He would say I was complex and didn’t give enough instruction, but when I did try and give instructions he would get annoyed. He would even get annoyed if I placed his hand to show him where to touch me. In the end we only ever had sex with a vibrator. The last man I was with was for a short time, he also didn’t watch porn and was really wonderful in a lot of ways but I was def not ready for anything and didn’t prioritize my own pleasure due to my sexual experiences with my ex. So all in all, no man has ever managed to give me an orgasm without serious effort on my part. I’ve noticed how so often on tv women will have these sexual escapades where she would have two orgasms in one night from some complete stranger and I just have never heard that happening to anyone I know? It feels like another lie of lib feminism trying to make out like there is just as much to be gained for women from casual sex as there is for men. What are your experiences? Part of me worries maybe there really is something “difficult” about me anatomically, even though I can give myself an orgasm in minutes and I know logically these men were just lazy and entitled.