Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...

Forwardgash · 2021-01-31T20:22:04+00:00

“Women made me a bad person because they didn’t want my pp.” Spoken like a true sociopath.

Erinelda · 2021-01-31T20:21:59+00:00

That's why I stopped sleeping with all of them a decade ago.

I never thought I would be someone who would stop being addicted to delusional "romance" but my brain always fought a war with my body and it eventually won. I seen the lies, the mismatch of actions, the lack of care.. but I wanted love. I could only be in denial for so long.

They ain't worth my self-respect.

LevelTurbulent · 2021-01-31T20:53:55+00:00

It’s not my fault I find money in men’s wallets when I crack them over the head with a tire iron and go through their pockets. Maybe they shouldn’t have kept so much money in there for so many years and ignored all the nice banks.

Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

Mcccy · 2021-01-31T20:24:00+00:00

What have my good eyes just read.

souredskittles · 2021-01-31T20:40:21+00:00

Yup. More young women need to see and believe this. This is why you catch them in the stupidest lies. They know they aren’t enough.

Platipus6 · 2021-01-31T21:31:19+00:00

"I was NICE and I didn't get my REWARD so now I'm going to LIE"

Dude you were a liar all along, now you're a piece of shit as well.

wagonwheel_ · 2021-01-31T21:36:46+00:00

“It’s not my fault for lying, it’s YOUR FAULT for believing my lies”

Tell me that women don’t like you without actually telling me that women don’t like you

overthinker4444 · 2021-01-31T20:54:23+00:00

Sexual frustration? This guy sounds like a rapist🤢

AyemHerself · 2021-01-31T21:40:59+00:00

These are the same guys who cry about being "so lonely" as if it's the defining part of being a man. Maybe there's a connection? Consider fixing yourselves instead of going apeshit at the idea of a woman not putting out anymore.

seraphinelysion · 2021-01-31T23:03:59+00:00

Its not out fault that women respond to lies.

How tf do we know when you're lying or not? wE aRe nOt mInD rEaDeRs. And if we knew you were lying, we would not respond. The fuck is this bullshit?!

I don't blatantly lie, but I definitely... hide my true intentions...

Lol, wut?

Women don't reward honesty.

If your honesty is that all you want is to use women for sex, then yeah... it's not the "honesty" we are responding to.

The truth needs to be bent a bit.

Your dick needs to be bent a bit.

coldfoot23 · 2021-01-31T21:32:30+00:00

They’re telling the truth and 99% of men are like this. During my pick me days there was a misogynist I used to talk to he claimed I “wAsnT lIKE oThEr gRills” and said this exact same thing. “I’ll see a nice looking girls and I’ll want her to suck my dick but I have to date her first”. Let me tell you something: ALL men are like this. And the sad part is that they’re all hiding the fact that they’re genuinely terrible fucking people. You ain’t gonna come sleeping with them anyways, so don’t waste your time.

randomgirlimok · 2021-01-31T21:54:41+00:00

This reads like a rapist who says it is not his fault, it’s bc she was wearing a short skirt

protectinidentity · 2021-01-31T23:24:41+00:00

The mind-numbing dribble that comes out of OUR mouths??? Are they really so dense that they don’t see how we deal with the exact same thing? How many boring af conversations with men have I suffered through in the name of politeness? I can’t even count.

rsoko2 · 2021-01-31T20:27:26+00:00

Wow. So basically he's admitting that typically women do, in fact, like good men, so in turn, "bad boys" have no choice but to lie to attract good women and now it's women's fault for making that poor bad guy pretend to actually be a decent human with morals. I cannot believe the mental gymnastics at play.

Imaginary_Bed_2572 · 2021-01-31T20:28:13+00:00

Or my man, be like a woman and buy a sex toy and stay single🤷‍♀️

cece188 · 2021-01-31T22:45:05+00:00

And there you have it ladies, the evil, dark truth of the majority of men, if not all. Coming right from the horse’s mouth. We can’t make excuses for them anymore.

FastCardiologist6128 · 2021-01-31T23:02:25+00:00

And this is why women shouldn't ask guys out. Because there are still selfish men out there who feel entitled to sex and who have no problem fooling a girl who asks them out, in order to get what they want out of her. We are not equal yet, a lot of men still see women as objects to be used for sex, therefore men should earn our trust by doing things like taking us out and courting us. So libfems can stop encouraging young girls to approach dudes. Thanks

jargon_explosion · 2021-02-01T01:04:38+00:00

Men are REALLY GOOD at pretending they like to listen to the mind numbing drivel that comes out of women's mouths.

They're actually not really good at this at all, seeing as they constantly monopolize conversations, interrupt, talk over and plain out ignore women when they speak.

SoybeanApocalypse · 2021-01-31T22:35:14+00:00

Look at how they twist this! You can apply this logic to any other scam "It's not our fault if we sell more products if we upsell or blatantly lie about their benefits and manufacture them to break sooner! If the customer doesn't want this than they shouldn't reward us with more money. Don't hate the salesman it's just business."

Lots of women "buy" the dArK tRiaD schtick because they 1.) Often through their upbringing start confusing this dynamic with love 2.) Watch countless shows and read novels where the bad guy is actually super sensitive inside and just needs to be "changed", and, 3.) Told to "give them a chance" by everyone despite any bad gut feelings 4.) These tactics are designed to manufacture emotional dependency even in women who are stable. Basic attachment theory. It works because it's an emotional scam

Just because it works for some women doesn't mean it's OK, and this is just a perfect example of how an abusive man will deceptively reframe reality to excuse himself. Except now they get to come together and do it on a large scale.

Edit: plus it shows how twisted it was from the very beginning that "sexual frustration is a good reason for lying to get laid" somehow goes unquestioned. Maybe if you don't get laid you can suck it up like an adult. Believe it or not lots of women also go for dry spells of years and years even if they could get laid if they wanted to, because no, it's not the center of life's meaning. Deposit sperm in a clinic if you feel so existential about it

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-01T04:24:56+00:00

This whole post is already a contridiction. "Women dont like nice guys they only like assholes but I have to pretend to be a nice PC guy because women dont like honesty (his honesty being that hes a asshole)"

holyhamwallet · 2021-01-31T20:59:36+00:00

I'm pretty sure this is the looser I got sick of responding to.

Lunarfalcon025 · 2021-01-31T22:58:05+00:00

“It’s not our fault that women respond to lies”

Ah geez, we’re so sorry we let you manipulate us. It’s not your fault.

Seriously fuck that guy.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-02-01T03:00:35+00:00

Ladies. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - we like sex just as much as men. I’ll never say that women don’t want it as much, if not more. But we are destined to lose at the casual sex game. THIS is how men think of us. They don’t respect us when we do this. Is it really worth mediocre sex to know this is how they are talking behind your back when you leave? It’s disgusting. Look, I wish we lived in a world where we could do casual sex, but we can’t. Because even for a casual encounter you need basic human decency and respect and these men show time and time again that they don’t have that for any woman - especially not a woman who sleeps with them outside of a relationship. Also, beware of the guys that will fake a relationship just so they can secure sex for a few months (or even a lifetime) while they still go out to get some on the side. Stop. Playing. This. Game.

Put your energy into your career, your women friends, your home, your family (if they are worth it), your hobbies, your goals. It’s hard at first but it pays off in the long run once you change your mindset.

OkConfusion3307 · 2021-02-01T01:38:28+00:00

The freaking level of delusion here....admitting to himself that maybe women don't want to get to know who he is, so he HAS to lie???? And he's...ok with that 😂 This is poster material for patriarchy 101. Training men to believe that only women should ever have to change and improve and fit a partners expectations, and if we ever reveal we are less than porn perfect then they should feel justified to go find themself something more shiny and fun.

ChocoBananza · 2021-02-01T07:33:09+00:00

Scrotes: ‘Don’t hate the player, hate the game, tee hee!’

FDS: Well, we don’t want to play your games, begone scrote.

Scrotes: No, not like that REEEEEEEEE

idylle2091 · 2021-02-01T00:04:18+00:00

it is deeply, deeply disturbing that he seems to think he is entitled to sex. 'women only reward.....' ummm what? so we're just supposed to give it out all the time because.......

why, again?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-02-01T00:27:12+00:00

There's a lot going on here. I agree with the last guy that most men pretend to want a relationship to get regular sex. But I do not agree that they're good at it. Just because women don't see through their crap, or don't don't tell them to their faces doesn't mean that we don't know they are full of shit.

The first guy is saying both that he's a nice guy but also that he lies because the truth is bad stuff which he knows will prevent him from getting sex. You can't be a good guy and also so awful that if you speak your feelings you can't get sex. You're just a piece of shit.

purasangria · 2021-01-31T22:38:10+00:00

Sometimes I ask myself if men actually have any feelings at all besides lust and anger. Like do they really love anyone?

Because my research over the years indicates that no, those are really all the things men are capable of expressing.

Meredeen · 2021-02-01T07:24:58+00:00

What wasted opportunities for abortions

Imagine choosing to be the kind of person where the world would be better off without you in it. Good job lads. Your mothers carried you for 9 or so months and gave painful birth to you only for you to end up being bitter, worthless sacks of shit 🙃

Maingurl · 2021-01-31T23:46:18+00:00

"I was nice once..."

No, sir you were never nice lol. Your mask came off the moment you didn't get what you wanted.

WindyScenario · 2021-02-01T10:58:39+00:00

'It's not our fault that women aren't immune to manipulation and abuse'

We only need to listen to men when they speak. They tell us how they are.

autumnxo92 · 2021-02-01T04:21:49+00:00

I would be much more likely to engage in casual sex with a man who was up front and honest about it.

Since they can't even do that, I don't give in to any casual sex anymore. They know how to ruin the very things they want!

shockingupdate · 2021-02-01T02:22:00+00:00

“Like cops” 🤣

Hmtnsw · 2021-02-01T15:35:57+00:00

"Being honest doesn't get my pp wet. When I'm honest, women don't like that I actually just want to treat them like trash and hump and dump them."

Yogacat4 · 2021-01-31T23:33:42+00:00

I like how he speaks for all men. Most men aren’t “player” material though, lmao. Sounds really happy with that LTR...

LevelingUpQueen_ · 2021-02-01T16:54:01+00:00

“Being nice is rewarded with years of sexual frustration.”

You mean being an incel or? Another proof scrotes believe women owe them sex just for “being nice”, just for the bare minimum, the bar is so damn low. “Being nice” is not truly being nice if you are only “being nice” in order to get something from another person.

“Women don’t reward honesty. They use your good character traits against you.”

Funny he says that, to me it sounds like HE’S ACTUALLY DESCRIBING MALES. This is why you should never be truly honest with them because they are always lying. They’re always after something, whether that be sex, money, a mommy, a maid etc.

HappyCoconutty · 2021-02-01T03:05:47+00:00

These types of men are so weird to me. My brother loves his wife, she went thru some mental health issues and has to try a lot of meds to find the right fit and deal with ptsd and they didn’t have sex for over a year and it didn’t bother him because he was so invested in her wellness and finding the best therapy for her. He has always been very into the emotional intimacy and teamwork of a partnership. It’s weird to not want human emotional connection and only want to bust a nut for 2 minutes

hanjaporfavor · 2021-02-01T01:15:05+00:00

Idk why but all this sounds super gay to me. Like, who forces themselves into relationships with people they don't even tolerate? Sounds like you're in the closet and angry to me 🤷‍♀️

Spiritual_Cockroach · 2021-02-01T06:24:43+00:00

Like cops.... 😂🤔

throwaway1927474829 · 2021-02-01T05:26:34+00:00

Yeah cause men are so profound and enlightening, worshipping bill murray and playing call of duty 24/7. Fuck outta here. Worthless prick.

Super-Alternative-44 · 2021-02-01T13:47:15+00:00

And the saddest part is that because of guys like that, we might have a hard time believing the ones that are actually being trustful....

BubblyKraken · 2021-02-02T06:14:57+00:00

“NoT oUr FAuLt” that’s some BS right there

nostradamusapologist · 2021-02-01T03:52:48+00:00

How depressing. I love talking to my wife.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-02-01T03:37:50+00:00

This is why I hate talking to men. Cant believe a word they say. I would rather sit in silence or listen to music on a date.

Title	Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...
Author	_differentmentality_
Upvotes	504
Comments	111
Date	January 31, 2021 8:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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