I started a new job, I'm the only woman. I work closely with my coworkers, who are men. During this time we've created a safe and productive place for discussion, education, and understanding.

These are their stories;

If he's vague and "doesn't want a title" it's because he wants to sleep with other women, but he won't be blunt because he still wants your time and to sleep with you; When I asked my coworkers why they aren't blunt with a woman they said "because then I can't F*** her anymore." He will tell you what you want to hear, but won't actually tell you.

Scrotes feel entitled to a polygamous lifestyle; Not kidding, they feel it is a man's culture and how nature intended. Trust your gut, he's fine with lying to you, sleeping around, or even sleeping with your friends.

He is looking at the girl who just walked by, and sexually too; "my head whips up and looks before I know it." - male coworker 2021

He might actually not like you after sex; Coworkers confirmed that "post-nut clarity" exists, and its common.

Scrotes don't love you if the majority of the time all you do is engage in sex; It was expressed to me that if a guy finds out he's not getting sex and that's all he wants, he will bail.

They don't see us as women, but fleshbags; Through our discussions the wording that was used to describe women they did not have intimate/romantic feelings for were terms like "some hoe" and those similar.

Scrotes feel entitled to a woman's emotional labor. Yes, they want you to be their mommy; My coworkers said they look for someone like their mother in a romantic partner, and that they feel they can only be emotional with a woman similar to this. They feel it's a woman's job to listen to their problems and be a therapist. (It's not. It's their own responsibility to deal with their baggage. It's their own responsibility to figure out life)

A woman's emotions during sex and dates is different than what a man feels; My coworkers described women as being susceptible to vibrations and energy where they described themselves as generally not feeling much in the mind. (Oh, and they know how we feel, they just don't care.)

If he only texts you at night/evening, he only wants to get laid; Need I say more? Coworkers said it's the only reason they're hitting up women at this time is to try and get laid.

Scrotes blame women for their problems and behavior(Yes, they want to be the victim so bad)

They think women like being treated like shit, generally and sexually; "All guys start out as nice guys, but women don't like that." (You mean women don't like it when the only reason you're being nice is to try and get your dick wet? Crazy. This was a confession to, dare I say, negging?)

Scrotes are aware and know that they breadcrumb us

They know they gaslight women, they know they 'play' women, they know what they're doing is wrong.

TL;DR- Scrotes are aware, they know, sis. They know what they do, how they do it, that they treat women like shit, and they don't care, as long as they get their dick wet. Trust your gut, it's telling you exactly whats going on.

Note: I had to retype this, but I think it'd be worth it to someone out there. Note 2: I'm fine with engaging and tolerating the discussions I have with my coworkers. It is insightful and beneficial to me. So, don't comment on it.