Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.

Thereismorethanthis · 2021-09-22T02:09:15+00:00

Also note that he says “tell her to unblock me” TELL HER. Doesn’t even ask, and fully expects that I will. And the only reason why he wants to give me a fake apology is out of fear that I’m telling people (i am telling everyone) to cover his own ass. Who the fuck even is he? And also his casual attitude towards it.

This was my reply: Which part was supposed to be funny? The part where he said she was going to orgies with adult men, or the part where he said she’s being raped? You can tell him that I don’t keep friends who sexualize my daughter. Period.

fdsonlynoscrubs · 2021-09-22T02:09:24+00:00

Don’t unblock stay the hell away from that guy!!!

jonbenetramseysnow · 2021-09-22T02:55:53+00:00

I’ll never forget a male friend of mine saying about my then fourteen year old autistic sister: “old enough to bleed, old enough to breed.”

These pedophilic scrotes’ depravity has no end. He’s just mad he told on himself.

GabbaG0ul · 2021-09-22T03:38:55+00:00

When “iT’s jUsT a JoKe gUyS”, doesn’t work out for them.

europoor24 · 2021-09-22T03:35:27+00:00

stay away, he told on himself. someone should look at his computer - bet it's got some weird stuff. Also he doesn't give a crap, there's no emotion/remorse in his message

Livia_Drusila · 2021-09-22T03:47:02+00:00

Him saying it was a "fucked up joke" makes it even more infuriating. He was 100% trying to sound like he was giving you serious advice and now is trying to backpedal and gaslight his way back into your life. It is always the "DaRk HuMoR" defense with these idiots! Nobody needs your dumb perverted ass!

mashibeans · 2021-09-22T02:58:12+00:00

I fucking hate it when scrotes think they can be absolved or whatever stupid or fucked up shit that comes out of their mouth just because they hastily try to take it back with a "it's just a joke."

NO. It wasn't a joke in your mind, it wasn't a joke coming out of your dumb mouth, and it sure isn't a joke when the people around you interpret it EXACTLY HOW YOU THOUGHT OF IT. Stop trying to gaslight us and tell us how we're supposed to feel about the dumb shit you said just because you realized we know exactly what you were going for, and it doesn't benefit your situation.

Disgusting AND cowards. Can't even own up to the words they themselves said, scrotes going around thinking they can get away with saying all sorts of anti-semitic, racist, mysoginistic, stuff and then take it back by saying it's a "joke."

One_Bat_2525 · 2021-09-22T02:56:10+00:00

I’ve been following your posts about this. You don’t need this guy in your life. I hate how he’s demanding your mutual friend order you to unblock him. You did the right thing. Keep your daughter safe ❤️

GigaKarenEnergy · 2021-09-22T02:29:12+00:00

If you unblocked him, he’d gaslight the fuck out of you.

Also, I hope he’s had time to think about why the sexualization of minors is horrible. And that he needs help with that porn addiction.

Good job op, you might have saved a girl or boy from being molested/raped by this guy.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-09-22T02:48:12+00:00

My response would be a resounding, “no”. It’s okay to lose him as a friend. He’s gross. No one should make jokes about someone’s daughter. This isn’t a joke.

Constant-Wanderer · 2021-09-22T02:42:21+00:00

What was mutual friend’s response to his request?

BxGyrl416 · 2021-09-22T02:42:58+00:00

I make jokes about just about everything, but there are just some lines you don’t cross.

23eggz · 2021-09-22T03:52:40+00:00

Even doing this is so manipulative like... getting your mutual friend to pass on his 'apology' just seems like a play to me

orangechickengeneral · 2021-09-22T04:06:00+00:00

I am proud of you. You are a good mom!

PicoPicoMio · 2021-09-22T04:14:43+00:00

LMAO he can go fuck himself that disgusting scrote. He’s permanently banned from your life. Keep him away from your daughter at all cost.

Ironsculpture · 2021-09-22T07:03:27+00:00

Why does he want to have access to you so bad? Someone who has fucked up this bad should be too ashamed to even mention it to anyone else, much less seek contact again.

This pedophilic male has plans and bad intentions.

quasarbar · 2021-09-22T06:14:27+00:00

"Telling her to unblock me" WTF? Does he think women just order their friends around because some guy says to do so?

Mcccy · 2021-09-22T09:00:59+00:00

"Hey I made a horribly detailed sexual joke about her 13 year old daughter, tell her to unlock mE!!"

ItsFreezen · 2021-09-22T11:35:39+00:00

Scrotes never "joke". They want to be given the benefit of the doubt. It gives them permission to continue their crap behavior. And then you call them out again and they blame YOU for taking them back. This is entertainment for Scrotes.

pqrsthrowawayyyyy · 2021-09-22T13:40:45+00:00

Just goes to show: they always know exactly what they’re doing. And when they get too comfortable, they get sloppy.

CrazyPaine · 2021-09-22T08:54:08+00:00

You did the right thing. Your group and your community did the right thing. Don't unblock him let him suffer. A man doesn't like owning up to his accountability anyways, they always make themselves look like the victim. You're a great mother and I'm proud of you. I have been watching so much Criminal Minds as of lately and I recently watched an episode very similar.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-09-22T06:33:03+00:00

Nasty user.

Good for protecting your daughter from this pig.

her-vagesty · 2021-09-22T10:44:25+00:00

Tell her to unblock me. Wow. What a bossy asshole.

InjuryOnly4775 · 2021-09-22T06:56:17+00:00

Report his ass to police.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-09-22T08:01:53+00:00

They're so predictable and it makes it even sadder that so many women fall for them.

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-22T10:47:13+00:00

Block him and never look back, he is a fucking pedo.

Ok_Passenger_5717 · 2021-09-22T11:26:56+00:00

~It was just a jooooooke!~ 🤯

UnitedHoney · 2021-09-22T07:41:38+00:00

You’re a good mother. Stay strong and protect her. Please.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-09-22T11:27:12+00:00

Threaten him with police if he keeps stalking you

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