Just because “most men are overweight” or the “average height is five foot nine” or most men have nondescript NPC faces without angular definition or most men do t have many interest aspects to their personality does not mean that a slightly overwhelming, plain faced five foot nine man who works nine to five and plays video games most of his spare time is “average”

He’s below. Why? Because if all women and gay men disappeared off the face of the planet, then NO man would be attractive. Attractiveness is based off the feeling of attraction others have for you, not like the stats of a videogame.

I don’t understand why a lot of guys especially seem to find it so hard to grasp that just because there are roughly a similar amount of men as there are women, that we are matched in terms how attractive we are.

Men find far more women attractive on a visceral and biological level than women find men.

Hence there are more attractive women than men and most men are unattractive. As it’s determined by who finds you desireable, not by adding up your stats. There are simply a far less percentage of men that are actually attractive to women, and therefore what’s attractive to women presents itself less often in men as a whole than attractive traits present themselves in women.

Most men are simply below average or unattractive. If you look at the entire female and male dating market through that lens suddenly everything you’re seeing in 2022 makes sense.