Daily Community Chat Megathread

taapy234 · 2021-09-18T07:02:20+00:00

It seems to me blackpillers and feminists alike hate the opposite sex, yet can't stop being perpetually bitter about it.

Just accept the reality that the consequences of living in a free world means you can't force the opposite sex to compromise for you.

Women today have made it abundantly clear that they don't want monogamy of the past (Even though many women will deliberately say other wise... but remember, redpillers watch what women do, not what they say)

Just accept the fact that they want a disposable mule to take care of them financially. All that bluepill talk about "love" or "wanting to grow old with someone" or countless cliche lines, words or phrases like that are just a way for women to hack the biological chemicals of theirs and the guys to make these realities more palatable. Monogamous relationships are not really possible unless they are enforced and protected by the state in some way, shape or form. We need regulatory protection in countless things in our life (healthcare, consumer products, finances, agriculture, environment, etc) What makes you think you will fare well without government protection in the realms of personal relationships?

It seems to me lots of guys who post here or browse this sub for months don't want to actually accept the redpilled realities of dating dynamics in post sexual revolution world.

We need to encourage men to move past this bluecuck mindset (the concept of loving someone, marriage, monogamy, anything religion, etc) and design a new way of living that doesn't put women on a pedestal or put women in the center of their lives.

Men should learn from the experts themselves: other women.

Willow-girl · 2021-09-18T05:26:12+00:00

Tatiana is doing a bit better now! Thanks to everyone who sent her positive energy. : -) I think she is starting to clear the infection but it remains to be seen whether her milk production will come back up to its previous level. Fingers crossed!

It's heartbreakiing to pull a cow through a bad case of mastitis only to have her put on the truck because she no longer makes enough milk to be profitable. Luckily, in recent years I haven't lost any of my darlings that way because I've been able to buy them instead. Two of the cows at our sanctuary, Roz and Lizzie, survived life-threatening cases of mastitis that wrecked their udders. In the video, Lizzie is the white cow in back doing battle with the bale, while Roz is the black cow on the left contentedly stuffing her gob. https://youtu.be/QHqnhtiF5ZY

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-09-18T14:40:31+00:00

Drake: "If you had a twin I would still choose you"

Cardi B: "If that n*gga had a twin I would let em run a train."

Society.

Orange_Paisley · 2021-09-19T05:51:23+00:00

The power went out in my Bay Area hotel after Mr. Paisley had gone down to the front desk and I am in a pitch black hotel room waiting for the murderer to chop me into tiny pieces. So I have that to look forward to, which is nice.

CloudBerryPunch · 2021-09-19T04:44:25+00:00

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Historical-Agency335 · 2021-09-19T03:44:20+00:00

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TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-18T06:05:56+00:00

Taller women (about 5'9") with cute faces, smaller but perky boobs (high A to mid B cup), wider hips, toned legs, and a plump heart-shaped butt are superior.

CMV

<sup>No hobbitses allowed</sup>

QuenchlessGato · 2021-09-18T13:28:51+00:00

What is wrong with these men?

I think in Russia some men still do give seats to pregnant/elderly and surely there isn't any noticeable amount of men who try to shame pregnant women and if someone does try to do it, I'd guess they get backlashed.

I don't think women besides pregnant and elderly (as well as elderly men) are entitled to seats or anything, but what happens in Korea isn't okay either.

Okay, I'm not surprised in any way that they have birth rates lower than Japan. If that's the way pregnant women are generally treated there, it's an expected outcome.

angels-fan · 2021-09-18T15:22:33+00:00

Every time a post from /r/witchesvspatriarchy shows up on /r/all, I cringe hard.

They are so bad.

annabeelongx · 2021-09-18T15:30:13+00:00

Why do men here lie and claim they have low standards

AerieIll3707 · 2021-09-18T15:42:44+00:00

Is it fair to say women will never want a man more neurotic than them?

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-09-18T16:57:09+00:00

"Dont hit on women in the grocery store, they just want to go about their day and get their groceries!!!!!!"

http://imgur.com/a/OItDd49

ForCriticism · 2021-09-19T03:40:42+00:00

There's a festival going on outside my house with women my age, but I won't go there and drink because I know I'm viewed as an ugly pig by women my age. They say how they view me and how they don't want to be harassed (talked to) by a guy like me. I'm going to watch TV and fall asleep once the music dies down.

Anyone else relate? ( young 20s, independent guy )

NeuroplasticSurgery · 2021-09-19T03:40:02+00:00

I think the biggest hurdle for me ever getting into another serious LTR is that I've become addicted to the feeling of living alone.

When you first wake up in the morning, no one else on earth knows. There are no expectations immediately foisted onto you from your first moments of consciousness. You can go for a long run, or ease into your day with breakfast, coffee, and a book. You can hone your hobbies for hours at a time.

You can go anywhere or do anything on a whim, without the burden of another person's desires or the time burned on reaching consensus. If you get bored or lonely you can call up a friend and go out, or head over to their place and chill, drink, play video games. Or you could go the entire day not saying a word to another soul. Whatever you want.

You can have no routine or a very strict productivity routine, which likely could not withstand the complications and flexibility required to have another person or family in the mix.

Of course the tradeoff is that you'll get lonely sometimes, and you could die alone and no one would know for days at a time, until maybe a friend or your job called the cops for a wellness check. But I feel like I'm always going to value having a private spot to return to where I don't have to interact with anyone if I don't feel like it.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-19T03:28:29+00:00

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Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-18T07:30:57+00:00

Q4M

On a 100% scale, what importance do you place on Face vs Body?

60% body 40% face for me

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-09-18T10:40:59+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKsUs_L7tqc ex-girlfriend helps a possibly autistic man improve his Bumble profile while audience watches and comments

annabeelongx · 2021-09-18T14:08:03+00:00

My pastor is so crazy attractive (muscles, height, perfect eyes, teeth). I just don’t understand how one could be blessed with such immaculate looks

Willow-girl · 2021-09-18T14:19:08+00:00

The man was on the phone with a dude from Akron who is coming to buy a skidsteer bucket; I'm in the background yelling, "Tell him to bring a cage as a free duck comes with every purchase!"

People probably think we're insane.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-09-18T16:52:23+00:00

Does Tinder allow you to upload a short video(or gif) of yourself for your profile? If it does then most men should try that, I think I'm ten times better looking in a video as opposed to a photo.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-18T16:53:51+00:00

Q4A

What's your weight and height?

I'm 6'0 , 190 lbs

NarniaFox · 2021-09-19T03:27:30+00:00

Is there really any benefit from changing sugar to maltose syrup?

nessaea-blue · 2021-09-19T02:41:36+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/QqCiWfF

bruh i can't with the girls in my uni. We get these "feminist" posts on the sub all the time

annabeelongx · 2021-09-19T02:24:06+00:00

Q4M: if the girl you’re seeing is nice and sweet—everything you want in a woman but you found out she left her parents home due to bad relationship with them, would you continue the relationship?

annabeelongx · 2021-09-18T23:47:01+00:00

Ordered halal chicken over rice and it’s 90% vegetables and lettuce. Where’s my refund??

redditthrowaway1478 · 2021-09-18T23:27:29+00:00

What the FUCK is going on with gen Z women and porn addiction?

As a 30yo millenial growing up, it went from girls don't watch porn and porn is gross

To some girls watch porn but only if it's got a story

Then, duh of course women watch porn and their tastes vary

Then pornhub data indicates that women watch more hard-core porn than men do

And now it's WOMEN who are self reporting crippling addiction at rates similar if not greater than men are

What the fuck is going on guys???

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/pqknaf/f_22_here_i_have_been_extremely_addicted_to_porn/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

TheJim66 · 2021-09-18T11:22:01+00:00

can someone here commit to calling me an ugly fat whore every day so i can get into the weight loss mindset

AerieIll3707 · 2021-09-18T22:50:06+00:00

get off OLD and start cold approaching, you fucking pussy.

jax006 · 2021-09-18T22:04:43+00:00

Country girls are hilarious. The IG posts posing 3 different gay ass ways with their .22 "rifle" lol

MisterFlipside · 2021-09-18T21:41:14+00:00

78% of suicide victims are male. Kinda fucked up to to think about ngl

Creation_Soul · 2021-09-18T21:22:43+00:00

I would hate to do college online. It's been some time since I finished college, but the full college experience does include all the social aspects of it. If I had to do 2 years (out of 4) online and not hang out with my colleagues, I would have hated college.

Historical-Agency335 · 2021-09-18T21:00:47+00:00

I wonder how many guys who are virgins have kids. Maybe I'll be the first

annabeelongx · 2021-09-18T20:34:10+00:00

Well update: My parents said it doesn’t matter whether or not I get kicked out of school if I don’t take the vaccine.

Reason? It’s apparently the mark of the beast

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-09-18T20:05:48+00:00

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RealityIsMeaningless · 2021-09-18T19:11:51+00:00

Instead of mastering cooking and cleaning bitches master manipulation

throwaway213091345 · 2021-09-18T19:11:30+00:00

When ladies here talk about men being Stacy-chasers, this is the kind of man we’re talking about.

Delusional, obviously socially awkward, no basis on where he stands in looks.

shrikethrush23 · 2021-09-18T18:51:18+00:00

I'm 5'5 and on one hand pretty redpilled about it, but on the other hand treated it like a marketing issue: I'm a handsome twink into chicks, who's my target demographic? Bisexual women, nonbinary folks, and shy straight chicks who want someone masculine but non-threatening. I adapted my style and approach to match.

Now I average about one equal SMV match (as in, one that is responsive and agrees to meet up) on tinder per week, meaning I have as many dates as I want, and about once every six months I get to the third / fourth date with someone with higher SMV.

Pretty happy with where I'm at, focusing on getting back into shape and spending more time with my bros now.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-09-18T08:05:42+00:00

Please pray for poor chibs, he's made a horrible horrible mistake of meeting someone he's both sexually and intellectually compatible with prior to moving many hours away.

Ending this one is going to hurt.

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-09-18T13:44:59+00:00

In Montreal right now, I tried to tell this hostess she had pretty eyes in French. Ended up complimenting her eggs apparently.

Not really what I was going for, but she laughed and corrected me. French is a tricky one.

angels-fan · 2021-09-18T18:47:51+00:00

I'm officially an old man that loves his birds

My wife is like, "Enough!! No more bird feeders!!"

throwingwearethrowin · 2021-09-18T18:36:20+00:00

How do you men like to be rejected? I always default to “no thanks I like hot/smart/fit/funny guys” or “I’d rather kill myself”. What do you guys like to hear when rejected?

ijustwannabeagoat · 2021-09-18T13:29:52+00:00

Ladies and scrotes of PPD:

You meet me a 25 year old male at a party through mutual friends. When the topic of dating comes up it’s revealed that I often pursue women much older than me and that I’ve dated several women between 10 and 20 years older than me. What kind of assumptions do you immediately make about me as a person?

For reference: I’m 6’4 and slim with some muscle definition and fashionably dressed.

Don’t hold anything back.

rivetcitymayor · 2021-09-18T13:39:35+00:00

Q4W

You wake up tomorrow as a man, you have to chose between these two scenarios

A) good looks and average charisma

B) Average looks and good charisma

Which do you pick and why ?

chilikettlechips · 2021-09-18T13:46:28+00:00

Q4W

I'm really interested to hear your experiences with yaoi, slash or fanfiction shipping in general. Did you write any, why? Why do you enjoy it? Why aren't there many lesbian ships in slash?

https://youtu.be/FD0hL_ujXqk I think this guy had a lot to say about it.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-09-18T16:18:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ppyh8t/q4all_how_big_is_the_gap_of_smv_between_average/

So basically the consensus from the guys is when it comes to casual sex at least, there’s no difference between average guys and ugly guys. There essentially in the same boat.

The only thing I can take from this is you don’t believe average or ugly guys “hook up”, only hot guys have casual sex in your opinion

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QuenchlessGato · 2021-09-18T10:39:53+00:00

What's the use in buying a car if you won't buy gasoline?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-09-18T12:48:17+00:00

Just a thought-post of the day:

Even though I'm only 19, sometimes the high schoolers I work with seem like literal children mentally speaking, and I'm only 3 years older than 'em!
I've realized I'm subconsciously single by choice. If I lowered my standards I could definitely get laid and get a gf easily, but I don't want that. Maybe my autism is my mind's method of keeping myself free lol
On another unrelated note, what's something you guys think is highly overrated?

-Personally my answer is the "street thug" lifestyle and the general attraction to it. I cringe everytime I see someone flashing their guns or money, yet unfortunately they tend to get the most attention on social media and from girls especially.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-18T14:31:27+00:00

My passport just came in the mail and I have money and vacation days to blow. I don't want to be a sexpat (the sub on that has made me look at that differently) but if marriagepatting/beta buxxing is a thing, where should I go? Age is young 20s Edit: I'm willing to do Duolingo for a couple months to prep with basic greetings

Notsonewguy7 · 2021-09-18T18:18:47+00:00

Does this lady look better with short hair or long hair? Short hair is the real picture.

http://imgur.com/a/fS29dOM

GridReXX · 2021-09-18T17:39:54+00:00

Saw an interesting article. Feel free to poke holes in the conclusions.

In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time. Measuring the number of partners instead of sexual frequency, the top 20% most promiscuous men account for about 60% of male sexual partnerings, and the trend is, again, quite stable over time.

Thus, whatever the change in total sexlessness, there’s no appreciable change in the concentration of sex among never-married young men and women. The core incel story about what’s going on here—that a few Chads are hoarding a growing share of Stacies, depriving incels of mates—just doesn’t hold up. The top 20% of unmarried men are having about the same share of total sexual activity or sexual partnerings as has been the case for decades.

So if it’s not rakish Chads hoarding all the women, what’s going on?

The Decline of Youthful Marriage

In other words, the share of the male population aged 22-35 who have never been married and haven’t had sex in at least a year is almost certainly higher than it was a decade or two ago.

The main factor driving this trend, however, isn’t Chads and Stacies, but just declining marriage rates among young men. The share of men aged 22-35 who have never been married is higher today than at any time since the first data we have, going back to 1880. The married share for these men is far lower than the historic norm. Unmarried people have less sex in general, so even if celibacy rates within marital status are the same, the sexless population grows.

Why Are Sexless Men Sexless, Aside From Delayed Marriage?

The lion’s share of the decline in virginity in the NSFG is due to falling religiosity.

My hot take is that sheepish male and female types who believe someone is supposed to break into their homes to love them would have been force socialized by the church or involved community programming. Even when I was growing up the kids went to vacation Bible school and Christian sleep away camps and um socialized there (sex fooling around kissing holding hands fireside dates).

Or the old school “so and sos son is so handsome he’s just so shy. Sheryl your granddaughter should show him around the grounds.”

Ppl lost faith and lost any semblance of community structure and organizing.

angels-fan · 2021-09-18T17:24:08+00:00

Q4Women: Did you "play doctor" when you were young with the neighborhood boy, and if so, do you feel like you were molested? Or do you chalk it up to young kids that are curious and figuring shit out?

jax006 · 2021-09-18T17:17:04+00:00

First rainy weekend since like May, honestly feels great, it's 10am I'm just going to get super stoned and play Skyrim and watch a couple movies all day

Historical-Agency335 · 2021-09-18T17:02:40+00:00

Pablo Escobar

Pablo Picasso

San Pablo

Which/One are you?

PickleLine · 2021-09-18T17:02:36+00:00

Women have low emotional/social intelligence and self awareness in dating.

Women don't have the emotional/social intelligence to understand what they are actually attracted. Whenever a woman talks about what she wants or her standards in dating, it's always what she wants in a guy she already found attractive in the other more important ways.

thesmelliestfart · 2021-09-18T05:02:05+00:00

AerieIll3707 · 2021-09-18T12:39:33+00:00

There's a lot of confusion here as to what it means to be a dark triad man. First of all, you cannot actually be a dark triad man if you're not born with it. The typical circumstances involve an overbearing narcissistic mother with no sense of boundaries, who view their baby as an extension of themselves. The baby grows with no sense of self, and spends their lives overcompensating with a huge ego and believes that to be emotionally secure, they need to drain the lives of people around them.

The next best option you have is to spend time with a narcissistic friend/co-worker/classmate. Spend enough time with around them and you'll pick up and emulate certain behaviours.

After that, read 48 laws of power, art of war, etc etc and take some acid/shroom with strong intention. I dont know if this'll work, but psychadelics do rewire your brain and a hard rewire will definitely give you an afterglow. This is risky though. Only do if youre experienced with psychs, and the focus of the trip shouldnt be "be dark triad" but just having a stronger sense of self (the introspection that trips force you into helps)

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	September 18, 2021 5:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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