Daily Community Chat Megathread

Ppdebateismental · 2021-07-18T16:18:02+00:00

Since every post I’ve posted this morning has been downvoted

tHe SkY Is BlU

knock yourself out. Downvote away!

GridReXX · 2021-07-18T15:27:09+00:00

When people say take better photos for OLD profiles:

They don’t mean “professional” photo shoots

I can’t explain but it comes off lame /non-organic. I’ve seen women do it too, but it would only not feel lame if at least she’s some sort of “model” or “influencer” or something. I have one photo like that on my IG but I say in the caption it’s from when my friend wanted me to model for his website. Outside of that it’s sort of lame. Especially if every photo is that.

they mean this and stuff like this or even this
or even this where it looks like your friend took a photo of you at the park or plant shop

Women want to see you organically having fun out and about. That’s attractive. It’s the same vetting she would do IRL.

King_D0ng · 2021-07-18T15:07:33+00:00

If there's one thing I learned from the recent posts about waiting for sex and ghosting, is that a lot of women REALLY don't like being told that they are often the problem. Like if multiple men aren't even trying to get into a fwb situation after first time sex, it's because you are not fun to hang out with, or not attractive enough to put even a little bit of effort to try and fuck again.

Before someone says "this is why we wait for sex", that's just ignoring the actual issue. If a woman is getting straight ghosted with no attempt at fwb, she's unattractive and needs to work on becoming more attractive to men if they actually want to get a HVM. Waiting for sex might help if you find you keep getting fuckzoned, but you'd probably find more success in trying to be more attractive (physically and personality).

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-18T14:57:38+00:00

How often do you and your partner go out to eat? Like date night? Me and My GF go out almost every week. Either Breakfast brunch a dinner etc. Sunday usually we stay inside at my house and cook or we go over my parents for Sunday dinner. My dad usually does seafood night on Sunday but he said not today lol.

poppy_blu · 2021-07-18T14:51:53+00:00

LOL this exchange is hilarious https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/omf2q3/july_2021_ppd_demographic_survery_results/h5l4t3e/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-07-18T14:08:27+00:00

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XOTillI0verdose · 2021-07-18T13:44:26+00:00

Is r/UglyUncensored the new r/IncelsWithoutHate?

Eastuss · 2021-07-17T17:02:09+00:00

Ask me for the truth.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-17T17:18:20+00:00

Don’t Try to plug your music through shady or disingenuous tactics. I don’t care if you are Mariah Carey I will NEVER listen to it just off general principle. One classic example is you are on a dating site, match with someone and then they’re like “yeah you’re cute. Btw I’m trying to become a singer can you listen to my…” Delete lol.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-07-17T17:47:18+00:00

Oh, look, mods finally doing stuff.

passepar2t · 2021-07-18T13:23:07+00:00

I wasted most of my weekend fucking around and playing videogames. I feel like a failure. I should have been out partying or hiking in the woods or something else productive that leaves me tired but makes me feel like I've accomplished something and made good memories.

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_lemazaki · 2021-07-18T12:35:39+00:00

I was browsing the TV yesterday and some whatever channel was repeating Breaking Bad.
Exactly at that RedPill scene were Jessie was enjoying his new neightboor.
Both of them are at the front of the house, doing some small talk and some random biker from a gang say:
"- Hey! You are Pinkman right? You are THE MAN! Everybody is talking about you! Keep it up!"

Jessie banged that same day.

HighValueMoidxD · 2021-07-18T11:12:06+00:00

Can anyone link me some general introduction into what game even is?

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-18T09:47:31+00:00

Thoughts?

Automatic_Chip_8724 · 2021-07-18T08:15:32+00:00

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Automatic_Chip_8724 · 2021-07-18T07:55:53+00:00

What percentage of women do you think are comfortably being mildly dominant, verbally and physically? It seems there might be a lot of women out there who identify as submissive but are really just too inhibited to take an active role.

DaphneDK42 · 2021-07-18T07:49:00+00:00

Select your fighter

1) Used car salesman

2) Used vagina saleswoman

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-18T06:55:07+00:00

A former classmate of mine is getting sentenced tomorrow, he raped and murdered his ex gf apparently for not giving him the money he asked for, smh.

thatguyfromrichmond · 2021-07-18T06:51:07+00:00

/r/short has gone off the deep end https://old.reddit.com/r/short/comments/om6wwo/lets_conquer_the_day_my_short_kings/

owta_this_world · 2021-07-18T06:41:31+00:00

Obsession is a form of coveting. If it was easy you wouldn't give a fuck about it.

Manosphere users who still years later are obsessed with game, attracting women, redpill stuff, being alpha; you're just admitting to the world you're coveting what you don't/can't have. If you had it figured out you wouldn't care and would focus on other stuff. I suppose you don't see pictures of manosphere users with hot girls, or any girls for that matter.

Given bluepill users don't obsess and covet over sex this means either they don't have a sex drive or they get plenty and don't care. But they are obsessed with your quintessential Reddit-tier woke politics which is not surprising given their privileged UMC upbringings.

Bandit174 · 2021-07-17T17:03:03+00:00

A holes and bullies being more attractive to women isnt a made up coping fantasy CMV

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-07-18T04:57:07+00:00

PPD journal: just had sex with the bride from two days ago. No orgy though one couple had to leave early.

patfu3 · 2021-07-18T04:40:23+00:00

Anyway, I'm a 48 year old Asian man who is 4'1". I make $69424 per year, and have a 22 year old wife who is 7'8". We like purple.

Automatic_Chip_8724 · 2021-07-18T04:36:28+00:00

This will offend so please move on if you have thin skin, but I realized today that I do not and probably will not ever find signs of aging in women attractive. I'll also probably be forced to date, marry, fuck a woman who eventually will get old. I thought as I grew older my tastes would mature and that basically just by being 40+ myself I would find a 40+ year old just as sexy as a 20 year old, but it looks like 40+ will always look a little dull. I guess I either get rich or accept that my time has passed.

patfu3 · 2021-07-18T04:31:22+00:00

I love you!

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-18T03:37:05+00:00

Women are quite lucky that most of them don't have equivalent experience of a male sex-drive. Seems like a lot don't understand the raw desire of wanting to pick someone up and literally pound their brains out and then keep pounding until they're a big sloppy pile of Manwich meat lying on the floor, and then realizing that they don't have anyone to do that with because seducing the opposite sex takes constant work and time.

^{"My manwich!"}

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-07-18T03:05:18+00:00

Im going to do something I admit seems extremely bizzare for those who know me, but I am going to take a moment to applaud women for once.

Despite starting from a position of being completely outmatched in terms of raw "hard" power by men, women have managed to, throughout the generations, building upon the efforts of previous women, maneuver themselves into the position they are now.

I know I that I have already pissed off many redpillers by admitting women can do something effectively, I will now piss off women by pulling back the wool theyve placed over the populace's eyes and saying the average woman has more power and undoubtedly influence than the average man (in first world western countries).

Through the calculated and methodical stragies they have employed via utilizing "soft" social power, they are able to harness in many instances the would be superior "hard" power of men as a collective to prop themselves up into an unnatural position to then outmaneuver men on an individual level where they have crafted the battlefield to now be that of competing soft power, which the average woman is superior in compared to the average man.

As an underhanded manipulator myself, I have to commend women in their art of underhanded manipulation, and have to say ive learned a LOT from them. A lot of TRP specifically is just using the same tactics women use in dating.

I know probably a bunch of women are going to deny anything im saying is true, but it is in their best interest to deny it, because one of woman's greatest powers is convincing you they have none.

A profound thing I heard on someone examining the quote "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer". The true meaning of this, is to keep your enemies so close that they do not even know you are their enemy. Think about how great of a position you are to be in, to have your adversary fighting in a war he doesnt even know is going on, against an opponent he doesnt even know he has.

In conclusion, I would be very interested to have read The Prince, if machiavelli had been a woman. The thing is, the female machiavelli probably would have known better than to reveal those tactics.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-07-17T17:00:45+00:00

Nailed it.

thatguyfromrichmond · 2021-07-18T02:58:48+00:00

https://hechingerreport.org/the-pandemic-is-speeding-up-the-mass-disappearance-of-men-from-college/

Women will support this and say yay pay gap will be closed, bet they won’t date none college educated men though

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-07-18T02:40:40+00:00

Nadia Comaneci posted a quick video of herself in a leotard on Twitter, and hot damn. One of my childhood idols is still an idol in adulthood. She looks amazing

Hangadr0ttinn · 2021-07-18T02:26:21+00:00

One thing I agree with feminists on is that we would benefit from celebrating older women more and being more accepting of women aging. Not in the sense of patting their asses and giving them a trophy for existing, but I think more female characters showing visible signs of aging (a big one would be nasolabial folds, which typically set in at about 25) and having more older female actors in leading roles (how many absolutely ancient male action heroes do we have?). It seems to be about the only place an older woman can be a celebrated icon is in music, and I'd wager that's only because you can't really replace any particular performer (Vi Subversa would be impossible to replace). I think it's unfortunate that we seem to tacitly say "we don't want you to be seen if you're too old."

Genvieve_delacroix · 2021-07-18T01:40:55+00:00

I am trying to become a sugar baby and after 48hrs, my preferences have completely changed. White middle aged men are the real chads now

Willow-girl · 2021-07-18T01:39:12+00:00

Picked a bunch of fresh veggies from the garden and made stuffed banana peppers, steamed green beans, sliced cukes and shallots in red wine vinegar, and for dessert, a chocolate zucchini cake. Lots of leftovers if anyone's hungry?!

angels-fan · 2021-07-18T01:33:39+00:00

Watched both seasons of Harley Quinn and that show is exactly what this world needs.

Super villains that say fuck!

I'm sure it's not everyone's cup of tea, but I thought it was very well done.

reluctantly_red · 2021-07-18T01:25:13+00:00

I was catching up with an old friend by the pool this afternoon. Turns out she was dumped by one of my ex-girlfriend's ex-husband who's now decided he's gay. Life's freakin hilarious.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-18T00:17:25+00:00

Anyone notice that degradation is too common of a theme in women's sexuality? Not sure who will disagree here, but I think it's got something to do with hypergamy and women subconsciously interpreting themselves as less than men.

I've heard of some people's dirty talk being that women liked being called things like "dirty slut" and "fuck meat," and that they get off on being reduced to a piece of meat, which brings into question the possibility that women actually like being objectified.

Can't speak for the radfem types of women though, but I've heard that they're not immune from it either.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-07-17T23:20:27+00:00

So even though it's against one of the rules , we can downvote now right? Because on that porn thread I made the other day I made the other day, my comments were getting downvoted all over the place oh, and even on that young love post that was made yesterday where I was talking about my positive experience with it I got downvoted a couple times with that, so it's cool now right? Lol

GridReXX · 2021-07-17T23:15:45+00:00

Was in line at a pizza slice bar joint earlier.

Group a guys behind us who look like this.

Their convo:

Guy 1: “She’s so thirsty.”

Guy 2: “yeah she’s like one of the guys but worse”

Others guys: various “yeah bro”s in agreement and disgust

It was interesting. I wasn’t shocked. I know guys don’t like persistent women. It looks desperate. But here I hear the opposite often. Maybe many dudes here are imagining Gigi Hadid being femininely persistent and demure about trying to get his attention.

Guys are like women. While it may be marginally validating, they don’t care for unattractive behavior or unattractive looks trying to vy for their commitment annoyingly so.

gunbusterxl · 2021-07-17T22:48:45+00:00

Just gonna put this out there: I LOVE this sub. The vast majority of ya'll are bitter AF, and it's goddamn glorious. Keep flinging that poo at each other.

Luciansleep · 2021-07-17T22:30:53+00:00

Damn got my thread deleted. Didn’t know couldn’t ask other guys questions. Oh well it was interesting though.

simeneta_two · 2021-07-17T22:30:25+00:00

It's interesting that we talk about pumping & dumping a lot because I've never actually met someone who got ghosted immediately after sex. Most of the AF/BB situations I've seen the "AF" was an FWB she couldn't convince to have a serious relationship. Even the handful of women I know who've had ONS the ghosting was pretty mutual (as in she had no interest in seeing him again either).

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-17T21:02:19+00:00

One thing I can't handle, being stared at in public. I thought it was just the spotlight(and honestly some of it is), but today it really was. I was standing in line behind these two ladies, and one of them kept staring at me, even after I started talking to them she kept staring, so when I saw an opening in the next line I took it, finished as fast as I could and f*d out of there, some people are so rude.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-07-17T20:43:58+00:00

One thing bf and I have come out of this renovation experience agreeing on: every project headed up by a straight white American dude has been a fucking shitshow

I realize it’s probably one big coincidence, but damn. The excuses, the whining, the broken promises (and contractual obligations). Get it together, guys

Hangadr0ttinn · 2021-07-17T20:21:31+00:00

This is something I brought up last thread that I wanted to explore further, and was hoping to get your thoughts on.

There was a study done on drinking using fruit flies as test subjects. They found they're remarkably similar to humans in their drinking habits: some try it and then largely avoid it, some will come back to it occasionally and still others will drink so regularly as to cause harm to themselves. But one thing of interest they found is that male fruit flies are more likely to drink after being rejected by a mate, which is a very human thing to do. I often wonder about this, fruit flies engaging in the same behavior as us "higher" organisms, supposedly motivated by a complex inner world of emotions and reasons. Are we just dressing up the same mechanistic animal behavior in clothing we find appealing?

It's why I'm so fond of the concept of the will (e.g. the will to power) since I feel that there being an underlying motivating force, prior to our minds, or even our physical bodies, which is then expressed through our brains into thoughts and actions best accounts for this.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-17T19:55:06+00:00

I got banned from r/dating for this comment, same reason I got banned from dating advice

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/om7aus/comment/h5jbkkf/

🤣

SuspiciousLeopard662 · 2021-07-17T19:53:31+00:00

I found this post on the mgtow subreddit by a young men who explained why he identifies as mgtow.

I am 19 and currently in a college for cyber security and getting my Associates degree. I grew up in a rural neighborhood very conservative bu there was nothing holy about it. There were a lot of pedophiles and neighborhood fights about who fucked who all that bullshit don’t even get me started on school. It all started around 6 years ago when my parents divorced because my father became a truck driver and used that as a opportunity to cheat on my mother because he got a little freedom, even though I don’t trust my mother all to well ether it happened. Instead of having her hold that over his head for life he filed for divorce and I’m sure you guys know how that story goes. Fast forward later it was a revolving door men after men came in gone in my house who pumped and dumped my mother guys who went to school with her since 1988 her college days.... me and my father had been on bad speaking terms because of what my mother said about him knowing me back then my male feminist self I believed it I was 14. I was being babied I never had any real freedom she would always try and sabotage or manipulate my life in a certain direction, it was always “Im the adult your the child!!” Very abusive woman, has a habit of lashing out and hitting people who disagree with her especially weaker people, and can never keep a friendship. But my father was living fine financially stable and everything even got another girlfriend (the girl he cheated with and is currently marrying) 🧐🧐. So I did some research and found ANGRY MGTOW and my life changed forever, and people started to notice, a lot of thots at school noticed and despised me. Because I saw through their bullshit and warned people about them. Broke off communication with my mom and she’s literally forgotten. Thank god for MGTOW.

Thoughts?

Automatic_Chip_8724 · 2021-07-17T19:48:55+00:00

Anyone here take kratom? I'm quitting the stuff for good and not looking forward to it. I have to though this stuff is trash long term.

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-07-17T19:27:38+00:00

Went to the "Magic: the Gathering" pre-release after not being able to go to it for a year due to the pandemic. Won 1 game (2-1), lost 3 (0-2, 1-2, 0-2). Pulled a "Mythic" from the pack that I won. Bought some cards, sold some cards. Got the the whole "art series" cart set of the new set. Felt good.

SowClips · 2021-07-17T19:23:31+00:00

I genuinely wonder how this poster is doing right now. This was their last comment on this subreddit and they haven’t posted in a while since

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2021-07-17T19:06:22+00:00

How are you guys defining "feminine woman"? And why are you insisting they don't exist anymore?

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-17T18:48:46+00:00

I was talking(well trying) to talk to my mother in my mother tongue, but I struggled to find the words, just as my sister says, "dude just speak English". It's weird that I speak English better than I can my own language, and what's interesting is how widespread this is. In just one generation, the people running Southern Africa(Namibia, SA) will be original-ish English speakers, with our own unique accent and way of doing things, and within a few generations, the culture will be completely different(bordering on alien). Interesting.

Is there something similar going on in another part of the world?

jax006 · 2021-07-17T18:48:20+00:00

My brother just got engaged to his gf press F to pay respects

YoMamaz_azz · 2021-07-17T18:39:32+00:00

Imagine yourself on a roller coaster ride. As the ride begins, and you slowly start ascending on the initial rise, you start feeling a tingling sensation in your lower abdomen. As you near the top of the incline, and as anticipation grows ever higher, you start to get tinges of uncertainty, wondering if getting on this ride was actually a good idea. Then you get to the top, and right before the ride begins you feel a moment of terror. Then the decline starts and you feel an intense release of adrenaline and start to yell. You go faster and faster. You go over hills here and there and maybe upside down at points. You start really enjoying the ride and throwing your hands up. You completely forget that feeling of uncertainty from the beginning.

Lets have an adult conversation. A conversation that becomes more and more controversial as the years go on to the point of nearly being unspeakable. Lets talk about the difference between a true no, and a "im not ready just yet, but I will be if you tactfully keep trying". If we are being intellectually honest with ourselves, a very large portion of men have successfully engaged in pushing the latter, and to the great enjoyment of both participants.

Much like the roller coaster ride, even if someone truly does want to do something, they can reach moments of uncertainty along the way, and despite those initial moments of uncertainty can walk away having truly enjoyed the experience. I think, and most people think in practice that it is perfectly okay, for a man to tactfully engage in pressing on in those moments of a woman's uncertainty in certain circumstances despite the messaging from feminists that a man should immediately disengage and walk away with his head down in shame for daring to even consider using persuasion in the face of anything other than an enthusiastic yes.

No reasonable person would conflate the feeling of uncertainty before a much enjoyed roller coaster ride, to that of dragging someone kicking and screaming down to the ride, tying down and then forcing them to participate.

GridReXX · 2021-07-17T18:36:32+00:00

I’ve always thought John Travolta was trés hot in this scene from Perfect (1985).

The 1983 Rolling Stone cover story “Looking for Mr. Goodbody,” declared health clubs to be “The New Singles’ Bars” and served as a springboard for this film.

When men and women first began working out together in the late 70's and early 80's, the atmosphere at many gyms was as sexually charged as a John Travolta-era disco: beefy men and lithe women pumped iron, Jazzercised and gave each other the eye.

Rolling Stone magazine picked up on the trend in 1983 with "Looking for Mr. Goodbody," a cover story which proclaimed health clubs to be "The New Singles' Bars."

The article served as the springboard for the cheesy 1985 movie "Perfect," in which the still-gyrating Mr. Travolta was cast as a muscle-bound investigative reporter wooing a buff aerobics instructor played by Jamie Lee Curtis. For many people who joined gyms in those days, getting healthy was an afterthought.

-The New York Times

Gender-mixed mingling out and about around a common interest seems to have always been how many singles have met romantically.

lulll · 2021-07-17T18:34:14+00:00

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anglophobe44 · 2021-07-17T18:21:47+00:00

White women really need to stop this passive aggressive hatred of their fathers.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-17T18:17:39+00:00

CMV: A lot of people conflate "love" with lust and infatuation and place too much importance the latter with regard to relationships.

Basically, if a trivial thing they said or did turns you off completely, you didn't really love them. If having a disagreement/an argument causes you to not want to speak to them anymore, you didn't really love them. You love your idea of them.

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-07-17T17:57:17+00:00

Look what they did to my boy

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-07-17T17:55:41+00:00

Q4M

Do you like her ass jiggly or firm

funlightmandarin · 2021-07-17T17:47:54+00:00

So.. is this one gonna be a daily or weekly?

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