LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

OffTheRedSand · 2026-07-17T22:22:05+00:00

"of course that short guy isn't a virgin and dating someone! he's handsome!"

"of course that short guy isn't a virgin and dating someone! he's rich!"

"of course that short guy isn't a virgin and dating someone! he's famous!"

"of course that short guy isn't a virgin and dating someone! he's in a band he got status!"

at some point it feels like women should date short guys without finding anything else attractive in them other than them being short, he needs to have NO redeeming qualities WHATSOEVER for it to be genuine.

this creates such a weird effect on short dudes who struggles where they don't want to do anything to better their chances of finding someone because it won't be genuine, she just likes them because of x.

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-07-17T12:39:07+00:00

Them: "Bonesmashing doesn't work"

Ok then explain this: https://youtu.be/LJYmX9Extck?si=7Ss75IuVo9kAT-SJ

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-07-17T12:24:25+00:00

https://youtu.be/3WntbB2xFoQ?si=rVq_cbMzJZKDpA4B

Joever for us blonde men 😔

Tardigrade_Disco · 2026-07-16T23:21:30+00:00

"Stretch marks are normal" "Cellulite is normal" okay, but they're still unattractive.

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-07-16T22:46:51+00:00

An issue I have with these "objective face rating"-communities is that they are inconsistent in accounting for age.

A big reason the TRM subreddit tends to earn so much derision from normies is that it compares young people to their peers in their age group. An average 20 years old young woman is very attractive and most men/people would intuitively rate her a 7 or 8 on the "normie scale". Then they see TRM rates her a 5 (as other 20 years old women are the reference point and she is just average) and get rage baited by the low rating.

But when older people post on TRM they usually get low ratings and the justifications by the raters are "wrinkles" "receding hairline" "loss of youthful features".

That just doesn't make sense. Either be consistent in accounting for age or don't do it. Give young people a score boost and old people a debuff or do neither.

zgtlunatic · 2026-07-16T19:45:57+00:00

A bit strange that on rateme and amiugly subs, it's that the more attractive women and the uglier men are the ones that are the least likely to post (even less so than the uglier women and the more attractive men).

Could it be that these groups more than likely don't need the internet to know where they stand??? O_o

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-07-16T07:13:21+00:00

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The mid face bone is very important. Of course he had other surgeries as well but that one did the heavy lifting.

y2kjanelle · 2026-07-15T20:56:21+00:00

Why are ugly men so entitled and rude? I would think if you’re desperate for women you’d be on your best behavior but I keep finding that less attractive men have severely poor personalities.

ThatBitchA · 2026-07-15T17:35:15+00:00

Q4W: how much do you spend weekly/monthly/quarterly/yearly spend on your looks?

For me....

💰 Weekly: manicures, approx $20-55. Depending on what extras I get.

💰 Monthly: ClassPass $20-90. Depends on the season of year. Pedicures, approx $40-55.

💰 Quarterly: resupply makeup and skincare, etc. $100+.

💰 Yearly: $500-1000 on miscellaneous things like workout gear, supplements, services (massages, facials, treatments, etc), clothes, shoes, accessories, etc.

Axis_Control · 2026-07-15T15:01:27+00:00

Fuck I'm fat need to go back on monjaro 😂😺😭

mobjack · 2026-07-15T14:24:05+00:00

The problem with looksmaxing is the maxing part. It is like when women get too much plastic surgery that they look fake.

Instead of chasing perfection, it is better to focus on subtle improvements that look natural.

zgtlunatic · 2026-07-14T23:39:44+00:00

For some of the main thoughts I have on looksmaxxing, this thread practically says everything I would say

https://np.reddit.com/r/trueratediscussions/comments/13ukevt/can_anybody_really_improve/

Extra Kudos to the OP (ettealways) as he's probably the most reliable rater on TRM.

Adding onto it, I don't think losing weight would help either if everything else is flawed. Even then, some people can still look good with some extra bodyfat like Ashley Graham & Erin Marley Klay for instance

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-07-14T21:04:44+00:00

People genuinely can’t comprehend women care about looks and that a man might want to look attractive to a woman so they call looksmaxxing gay.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-07-14T16:59:48+00:00

Lookmaxers did it! They achieved the most internet thing you can be in 2026- AI slop YouTube video!

https://youtu.be/ap3VrheWB\_M?is=XXM8fqwGhHTH3E3c

silly_discus · 2026-07-14T07:28:40+00:00

I want to go bald

FallofGondolin · 2026-07-14T04:07:03+00:00

I always find it so interesting to see how against limb lengthening surgery people are compared to other types of cosmetic surgeries or body modifications. Rhinoplasty, braces, tattoos, hair transplants, BBL's, lip fillers, tongue splitting, scarification, etc. all seem to be met with a mixed bag of reactions, but people by and large draw the line at someone wanting longer legs.

AlvaroXZ999 · 2026-07-14T03:28:30+00:00

Based on all what I see on this sub being straight seriously must SUCK.

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-07-14T02:22:56+00:00

Q4W: If a man said to his wife that he wasn’t attracted to her at first but her personality grew on him what would you think? Would you assume he’s settling for her and secretly unhappy?

At30wecrashout · 2026-07-14T00:35:02+00:00

[r/Truepslrateme/s/G3DFQhDdc2](r/Truepslrateme/s/G3DFQhDdc2)

Brutal. What would you rate this guy?

AlvaroXZ999 · 2026-07-14T00:26:15+00:00

Can you people recommend me some videogame to play?

Idk why do I ask on a subreddit mostly full of people that probably aren't interested in that but well.

growframe · 2026-07-14T00:19:51+00:00

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It seems I've discovered the looks equivalent of a midwit

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-07-13T19:12:27+00:00

Chet Hanks is a great example about how looksmaxxing "aesthetic perfection" is way too neurotic and divorced from reality. He's bald and has those big ol negative canthal upper eyelid exposure "prey eyes" and has women positively dripping for him, because it's about the sum of the whole and not just having a bunch of "perfect parts." Overall he presents an attractive masculine aesthetic and strongly appeals to certain types.

yougotitwrongbruv · 2026-07-13T18:22:54+00:00

glad to see you all made it to purple and stopped being retarded. good day autists.

ThatBitchA · 2026-07-13T16:51:06+00:00

I think it's time to dye my hair. Again.

It's gotten so long. And I'm either going to cut it or dye it.

Katatonicsnake · 2026-07-13T12:49:58+00:00

I’m starting to like how my ass and thighs are shaping up. I’ve never been a fan of a huge ass, but having some size to it due to exercise usually looks nice.

Axis_Control · 2026-07-13T12:37:29+00:00

I'm gonna dye my hair green 😂 hopefully it looks good ;)

OffTheRedSand · 2026-07-13T11:54:59+00:00

PPD males will claim they’re looksmatched

Everytime a woman post a video of her with a boyfriend who moggs her she gets hate and flake from males but the opposite almost never happen in fact all males come out to jump to say “omg how lucky he is he got a a gf who moggs him” but if it’s a woman dating a man who go moggs her she’s hypergamous.

zgtlunatic · 2026-07-13T03:39:19+00:00

Celebrity lookalikes I found here: Sydney Sweeney (but with brown eyes and without the eyeliner) & Clavicular

SprayAffectionate321 · 2026-07-13T02:56:47+00:00

When I look at Sam Altman's face I'm not sure whether to punch it or to sit on it.

saraimarsena · 2026-07-12T23:33:13+00:00

i think it’s perfectly fine for short women to prefer tall men

and i find it kinda sad how some will moralize it and paint a woman to be a bad person simply for expressing a preference for tall men.

b_berry458 · 2026-07-12T23:23:52+00:00

Moustaches: hot or not?
at least half of Aussie guys are doing moustaches rn and I don’t know if I’m being desensitised into acceptance or if they are actually a good look, please tell me.

gtbreddit1 · 2026-07-12T22:09:27+00:00

The ONLY reason Connor Murphy started going crazy and the ONLY reason he is dead today is because he started balding.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-07-12T21:42:25+00:00

This is how sub5 males react to their looksmatch, this is how he reacts to Brianna yet y’all seen how he react to the first diva?

What pisses me off is when the first woman gets a 6’4 nfl boyfriend him and his other sub5 males will scream murder because she bagged a hottie WHILE BEING A HOTTIE HERSELF just fat meanwhile this is how they react to their true looksmatch.

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ThatBitchA · 2026-07-12T18:26:41+00:00

My husband is graying before my eyes.....

It's so sexy. I'm excited to witness his silver fox transformation.

The best part about looks is that they change. They don't stay the same.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2026-07-12T17:23:53+00:00

I used to agree with “No one’s shaming you for your preference! You’re just being an asshole about it!”

While in many cases people can understand looks preferences, I have heard a sizable amount of people trying to moralize about it and trying to lowkey shame others for it.

Even if not aimed at anyone specifically, I’ve heard it out of nowhere before, disapproving the “only if you’re an asshole” notion. The notion women who like tall guys are promiscuous, or that men who like slim women are pedos, or that you’re shallow if you want a fit partner because “not everyone has time for the gym”

(This is especially often aimed at men when they have standards that would require them to put in any actual work, but can go aimed at both genders. Often a result of sour grapes and lazy people)

Most of you probably aren’t religious, but this gets even worse if you’re Christian or anything like that!

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-07-12T14:34:11+00:00

Claviclulars own stream starts mocking him over his recent surgeries.

https://youtu.be/p0SVBkKD5O4?is=Sr6KBUvrdm3pjwRG

Reasonable_Style8214 · 2026-07-12T08:57:15+00:00

What could be funnier than watching a bluepilled liberal tie themselves in knots in attempt to explain why looksmaxxing is unhealthy and bad but gender transition is wholesome and empowering?

TankfarmMurdock · 2026-07-12T02:14:36+00:00

What’s y’all’s go to looks in women? I like latina and alt goth baddies.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-07-11T19:26:47+00:00

i had just learned a very dark side of history by accident.

aparently harvey weinstein tried to sabotage the movie Frida which starred Salma Hayed and it was a passion project of hers.

the reason he tried to sabotage it? she said no to sex with him and refused his sexual advances and said NO to him.

i never knew this but damn i'm not surprised.

what piss me off tho is the males saying shit like this because the women now on their screens aren't giga stacy and look like the porn actresses they're used to watching.

or when they make comments like this

males should not be movie critics or people in power or anything, in fact most of them deserve to be disposable because all they care about is sex and their dicks and looks of women and how women who aren't their type or women who says no to them shouldn't exist.

how is that sub any different than what harvery did?

harvey made the lives of women who told him no a living hell, these guys hate women who aren't hot sexy giga stacy and had they had the chance they'd make their lives a living hell too.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-07-11T18:47:46+00:00

When men don't have attractive personality, looks are the only thing that can compensate, and any man who is fixated solely on looks it telling. I will die on that hill.

Logos1789 · 2026-07-11T17:43:22+00:00

Are we allowed to post np links to Reddit porn posts or links to porn videos?

I want to show examples of how penis size matters to facilitate certain positions, etc.

LillthOfBabylon · 2026-07-11T17:36:07+00:00

Also guys forget even ugly women with low self esteem aren't gonna tolerate mistreatment from average looking dudes.

LillthOfBabylon · 2026-07-11T17:20:07+00:00

I am thinking the issue is guys really underestimate how attractive they have to be for enough women to tolerate their awful personality.

Being 6/10 helps when he has a decent personality.

Being 6/10 with an awful people personality only works on women with awful personalities or very ugly women with low self esteem.

Logos1789 · 2026-07-11T16:44:20+00:00

Thoughts? LMAO

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZ0MQTgJbxq

Penis size matters, she is just coming to terms with her reality really hard

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-07-11T16:39:21+00:00

Erling Haaland is proof you can be tall, blue-eyed, blonde, jacked and still chopped af

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Somerandomdudereborn · 2026-07-11T16:34:55+00:00

Let's see how many people mention the looksmaxxer that died recently as an argument of idk, something.

I will constantly update the comment.

Currently: 3

ThatBitchA · 2026-07-11T16:13:39+00:00

Looks are important but they aren't the foundation for an enjoyable fuck or relationship.

Looks are cool but focusing only on them is why so many young men today are struggling.

Young attractive men are dying, injecting themselves with gold, and taking hammers to their face because they are listening to other men telling them they are ugly.

LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

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