The first group is what's often mentioned, the so-called: "Chads". They're rarely without a girlfriend, except by choice, and never have much difficulty forming connections. It comes naturally, to the point where they often don't have to think about it. Yes, they're often physically attractive, but more importantly, they're excellent at reading people, who have a gift of making someone feel at ease without effort. They're confident because it's always worked out for them, so why wouldn't they be? I don't know if this is 20% but let's use the number to keep things simple.

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The second group, which comprises the majority: sometimes they have a partner, other times they don't. They may not have sex as a teenager, but are likely to have at least a couple of short-term relationships. I don't buy the idea that only 20% of men have any success, given I see people all the time who get girlfriends, get married, start families, who wouldn't exactly be considered "High Value."

For them, this is where self-improvement efforts make a big difference: going out, meeting people, going to the gym, building themselves physically, mentally, and so on. It's why this sort of advice is often given. This doesn't mean they don't struggle, and can even go years without success, but have enough positive experiences to know it's possible.

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The third: I'd define this group as men who either have no relationship experience at all by the age of 26, a virgin in their 30s, or both. Even if this group has grown in the last 10-15 years, I wouldn't put it as more than 10%. It's not impossible, by any means, but it does get harder being so far behind the curve.

Unfortunately, for this group, it's going to be a lot more luck-based. They've almost certainly tried the usual: "put yourself out there, cultivate an abundance mindset, go to the gym" and so on, but never found it bearing fruit. RP has a lot of appeal for someone here, though it often doesn't do much, either. Even for those who are genuine kind, loving, wonderful men, there are going to be moments it gets to them. Almost all of us want to find a partner, and it usually isn't just sex, though that's the most visible topic of conversation.