“Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”

hiraethsidhartha · 2021-11-03T20:24:42+00:00

He makes me believe there’s good men out there. See if more men said shit like this, I’d be more trusting. Men need to call each other out in their sexism PUBLICLY. They need to stop only being feminist around women when their bros can’t hear

pompommom31 · 2021-11-03T18:34:41+00:00

Omg I was waiting for some crazy misogynistic shit to come out but BAM! Boy’s got it and I’m so here for it. That 70’s porn mullet tho….👀

Ok-Yogurtcloset3467 · 2021-11-03T18:20:07+00:00

That was attractive. I guess I should include in my list of standards: a man who gets angry at other men and their lack of moral compass, entitlement and values.

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-11-03T18:23:26+00:00

We can be dying on the street, and men will complain that we aren't good fapping material.

moonseekerinflight · 2021-11-03T18:23:49+00:00

Ooh, I like him! How often does a guy even get it, let alone say it? And to call it like I see it, it seems that men get far more unconditional love than women do. That's because we 'owe' it to them, but they don't owe us shit (of course). We have to earn that 'love' every day by being perfect in appearance, tone, deference, and service. And even THEN they reserve the right to be dissatisfied.

TriggeredQuilt · 2021-11-04T00:01:03+00:00

One of the comments in the tik tok is a woman who nursed her husband back to health after an accident, he learned to walk again made a full recovery. She later developed cancer and he left because it was “too much for him”

radfem_babe · 2021-11-03T18:58:39+00:00

Men who call out other men's bullshit and stand up for women, are so attractive.

TherulerT · 2021-11-03T18:05:59+00:00

Unconditional love is a bit toxic anyways, especially with romantic partners (for family I could already see it more, but there'd still be some basic conditions).

Otherwise are you really saying you'll stay in love whatever they do? Because that's just asking to be used.

ello-motto · 2021-11-03T17:59:21+00:00

Finally, a man that's not a bystander and calling shit out. 👏👏

Hhjjuuy · 2021-11-03T18:58:38+00:00

Interesting that he doesn't even consider the possibility of a father's unconditional love.

Amazing_Wolverine_37 · 2021-11-03T18:30:53+00:00

I was nervous at first but blam like 5 great points right out the gate.

lansburysoda · 2021-11-03T18:58:10+00:00

Wow, finally a man who gets it. Wish there were more of him

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-11-03T18:38:56+00:00

This guy right here is "not all men".

ItsFreezen · 2021-11-03T19:05:53+00:00

Scrotes be having MANTRUMS over this video. You earned it. lol

Loud_Foundation_9300 · 2021-11-03T18:52:03+00:00

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naps-seductively · 2021-11-03T18:30:13+00:00

8 comments and only 2 visible, the trolls are triggered 🥲

iheartnoodlez · 2021-11-03T19:01:40+00:00

Hot.

Similar-Tart-4848 · 2021-11-03T18:57:26+00:00

Only people I give unconditional love is my children, my husband has MANY conditions 😂

medusas_heiress · 2021-11-03T17:51:41+00:00

Preach. This should be broadcasted everywhere nonstop.

stackofwits · 2021-11-03T19:44:31+00:00

Where he at 😂

mesloh14 · 2021-11-03T22:51:33+00:00

This is seriously so relieving to see! Sucks that we’re all like “omg what a guy!!!” just because he’s one of the only men to actually acknowledge reality lol.

These “men aren’t loved unconditionally” posts just scream “I’m tired of not being worshipped like a god because I have a dick!!!” Not to mention, MEN are the ones that created these standards and “conditions” of being a man, and THEY’RE the ones that get mad at EACH OTHER for not “being a man”, so which one is it guys???

SupremeDearLeader · 2021-11-03T20:16:43+00:00

Hello 😍

FuckSakez · 2021-11-03T19:43:19+00:00

One of us, ONE OF US

Nonsluttymen · 2021-11-04T00:23:37+00:00

Yup. Got with a guy when he was an unmotivated loser. When my life went to shit, he abused me, shamed me for feeling depressed and left me completely when I finally put up a boundary after stringing me along with years of this. He used the excuse that I hurt him, but did everything in his power to deflect how he’d been hurting me for years beforehand.

The level of entitlement is vomit inducing. Don’t raise your daughters on Disney’s brainwashing crap. Men aren’t worth our love and devotion unless they fucking prove it first.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-11-03T23:07:50+00:00

Men are literally babied and loved unconditionally ... I see this all the time with grown sons being babied by their mother's. Even in long-term care elderly men often receive more attention because they are seen as helpless whereas female patients are seen as competent. Also, how many women stay with cheaters, whereas if a women ever cheats she is at risk for being killed (and many men justify it).

Women are not loved unconditionally, at least not by men. Marriage/relationships are more of a risk to women and their mental health. I can imagine severe ptsd for any woman going through cancer etc. only to have her husband peace out with a mistress.

Jandi18 · 2021-11-03T21:20:40+00:00

Someone please DM me his TikTok, I heard he has good videos. I want to follow

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2021-11-03T22:15:06+00:00

Holy CRAP it is sooooo refreshing to see men calling other men out!

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-11-04T00:05:05+00:00

He has an FDS account

edemamandllama · 2021-11-03T21:48:59+00:00

So true! My Multiple Myeloma diagnosis is what lead to my divorce!

ceramicunicorn · 2021-11-03T22:30:13+00:00

How do scrotes not compute that having the humility and good sense to sincerely hold these beliefs AND having the balls to state them publicly is wildly attractive and can make up for a lot of physical shortcomings.

wahwahthrowaway123 · 2021-11-03T19:31:54+00:00

He has a lot of good takes on his tiktok but he also has a video where he admits to kissing his fwbs on the forehead, implied that it’s to emotionally manipulate.

4evaneva · 2021-11-04T07:44:19+00:00

He became more attractive the longer he spoke - the mullet grew on me!

blackmetalbetty · 2021-11-03T21:15:38+00:00

This was awesome, he reminds me of Kurtis

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-11-03T23:57:34+00:00

I hope this guy is the real deal but read the James Ellroy book or see the film version of LA Confidential for a tutorial on why men hating/fearing men doesn't mean the same guy is necessarily safe around women.

Loud_Foundation_9300 · 2021-11-04T11:45:55+00:00

Yknow, I was starting to think that I just don’t find men attractive anymore. But damn, this guy. It’s a shame that the majority of men are such complete fucking turn-offs because of how warped and entitled their brains are.

muffy2008 · 2021-11-03T22:37:01+00:00

Love this. He now has a new follower.

LittleSnackPack58 · 2021-11-04T00:24:13+00:00

I saw his face and was ready to get mad, but then he spoke facts. Thank you one white man.

slayeroftruth · 2021-11-04T02:53:11+00:00

Its refreshing to hear this from man. If men loved women unconditionally they would at least find value in women at every age and would strive to please us sexually.

Kilogramedeganduri · 2021-11-03T19:05:22+00:00

YES! Entire nations are built on the back and tears of women who love unconditionally.

smilodon91 · 2021-11-04T19:21:28+00:00

FOR SURE our entire western culture loves men unconditionally. They can commit crimes, even atrocities, and be forgiven by almost everyone and LOVED by millions. They fail upward all the time. Males are given 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and however many chances. This is going on at my workplace right now with a newly hired male leader. He clearly cannot do the job, so he is being propped up by capable women because "we don't want anyone to fail". On the other hand, our culture definitely hates women.

saxxha · 2021-11-03T20:04:34+00:00

Purrr. I hate that audio because literally all love is conditional

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-11-04T00:51:48+00:00

Nice to see men finally calling this out. The brain short circuiting was spot on.

__kamikaze__ · 2021-11-04T03:24:51+00:00

Men really need to take note from this guy. The amount of compliments he’s getting despite having that mullet speaks loads!

Defiant_Marsupial123 · 2021-11-03T19:07:17+00:00

Dawg, women aren't even loved "conditionally."

angelsofadversity · 2021-11-04T02:51:30+00:00

I have a new crush

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-04T04:01:43+00:00

Guys that say stuff like this become instantly more attractive. Especially if I can feel they mean it. You know it when the dude don’t mean it, but this guy is spitting FACTS!!!

YesMaaam20 · 2021-11-03T18:00:22+00:00

I need this person to be my friend

corkymuu · 2021-11-03T18:59:36+00:00

All the men that “trade their wives in” for a younger girl would beg to differ.

Paris_dans_mes_reves · 2021-11-03T19:21:28+00:00

slaps table Thank you!!

xfelugirlx · 2021-11-04T01:38:54+00:00

Finally someone saying facts. Always they leave when the women really need help, oh but when they are worthless they cry if the woman leaves. Fuck off

KindredMaximus · 2021-11-03T23:35:43+00:00

Daughters sure don't love their mums unconditionally, lol.... My girls tell me when I'm f***ing up - but I did bring them up to be equal to me. I never wanted a dynamic of power between me and my kids. However, my son totally does love me unconditionally. He's the only kid who'll always answer my calls, no matter where he is or what he's doing.
And yeah - men are the most conditional, entitled beings on the planet. However, they expect you to accept every f*cked up about them.

glossiglam · 2021-11-04T03:33:25+00:00

I love him

SuggestionLate773 · 2021-11-03T18:52:36+00:00

DID HE LIE???? 😭😭

thenew-supreme · 2021-11-19T22:01:25+00:00

When men get mad about how men behave it makes me laugh. Do you know how angry I am everyday? I’m BLACK and I’m a WOMAN. I’m angry as hell! I’m constantly triggered by existing. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m triggered just talking about how triggered I am. 😂😂😂😂😂

16February2021 · 2021-11-22T11:59:54+00:00

I got covid and that's where our relationship began to fall apart

MACMUA · 2021-11-06T00:30:29+00:00

His mom 💯💯💯💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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Title	“Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	2534
Comments	110
Date	November 3, 2021 5:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qlzwsc/men_arent_loved_unconditionally_women_are/
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