I wonder: why do some people worry if a man dates AI?

We can model the average single man and the average single woman past 20 as completely different worlds, the way I am in a completely different world from my favorite video game voice actress Briana White.

Women, average women, are celebrities. The average woman is as attractive to men as a very specific 1% of men is attractive to women.

For women, romantic attention simply comes in a constant flow, everywhere the average woman goes, she has men ready to kiss her. While most men get attention at a much, much slower rate, if they even get any attention.

This means that once the age range for dating is over, at 20, 40% of men and women have coupled up, but the 60% of men and women that remains single is very different in composition: most of the 60% of men either doesn't care about a relationship or wants one but came too late and couldn't get attention from an available girl. Meanwhile, most single women are so saturated and drowning in attention that they either want to be left alone temporarily (and, the moment they want a boyfriend, they always know who their boyfriend is gonna be) or are completely uninterested and disgusted in having a love life and actually have made up their mind about wanting to live as single.

Single men are mostly available for women to take but mostly get completely unseen because the winner of a woman's attention is always predetermined, while single women don't need to be available, because they'll always have thousands of available men to choose from.

This creates a fan-celebrity dynamic between men and women, which makes over 95% of men completely worthless products in the dating market.

It's perfectly similar to a movie market: everyone could make a movie, but a movie's function is to appease the audience, so 95% of all movies produced won't be able to capture an audience and as such are worthless.

The only women that need to be available to men are either actively guilty of something (extremely unhealthy habits, obesity, drugs, violence, toxic behavior), or extremely old trash ("end of the dating age" is 20, "old trash" is 25, so "extremely old trash", in dating, means past 35). If a woman suffers because no man wants her, it's because she either is too old and forgot about her age, or brought it upon herself.

Meanwhile, most men's dating lives are over before they started because of a unanimous decision that they have no power to influence. To them, love is not a "may or may not happen", it's a "won't happen unless I've been graced". There are very average men that are not single, but all of them are only non-single because they've received a grace from women, not because they had any real power to choose their love interest.

For 95% of men, women can only exist as peers in friendship, but anything beyond friendship, most men can only have as parasocial admiration.

An average woman can simply hire a man a day to pay for her dinner and then throw him away, it's completely normal because of how attractive an ordinary woman is compared to an average man. Women can actually subsist on only dates, and the average college student can even afford a very garish lifestyle by simply asking men out. As a man, even just not having a model-like face, or not being able to pay a vacation to a girl, is enough to be trash, because an entertainment product exists to appease the audience: "I am not handsome enough" or "I am not rich enough" is not an alibi women will accept, they won't forgive anything because your function as a man is to be anything women want. If you can't, you're not worth their time.

As a man, you're a fan, you shouldn't try to harass a celebrity, the only way you can have a celebrity's attention is if she explicitly points at you.

So, how do we deal with the trash men who haven't gotten a grace? Simple: AI. Just as I look at my favorite video game voice actress Briana White's photos on instagram, without actually trying to get noticed by the real voice actress, so most men can only watch women as images, for most men heterosexual love is simply a fantasy that they aren't meant for. So, AI exists to simulate said fantasy.

If women have infinite power over most men, those men are not meant to be with women, so they need something that they themselves have infinite power over, and since AI is made to be obedient, even the ugliest man has infinite power over AI.

Also, women will feel happier and freer due to the fact that most of the parasitic mass of unwanted attention is distracted by AI. So if AI dating is accepted by society, women will never get to see those ugly worms all around them, and women can get true love (and paid vacations) by simply hiring the most handsome man with minimal noise around them.

So I just don't see an AI girlfriend as a bad thing.

After all, I'm wrinkly washed-out old trash, a 25-year-old single man from Italy with a completely empty dating resumé. Women haven't hired me and I know they'll never do. So someone like me can only love women parasocially. For someone like me, AI is vital.

What do y'all think? Is AI dating useful or unhealthy?