Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.

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Transmigratory · 2014-10-27T21:27:27+00:00

I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger.

LOL! Please tell me this is a troll. How delusional can this bitch be? She proved the exact opposite of that!

He could've said something, ANYTHING during our break up when I was explaining my doubts about our relationship. Instead he said nothing, and now he refuses to talk to me. It makes absolutely no sense.

Why would he? You just outed yourself as a gold digger. What is he going to say? "Please stay with me, you're wrong, I'm filthy rich!"

This is just too good to be true. It must be a troll.

RedPill115 · 2014-10-27T23:11:49+00:00

Surprisingly, the commentators rip her to shreds.

She violated the golden rule of gold digger club - you never talk about gold digger club.

I think that's why she's being attacked. Had she phrased it as vague "feelings" without being obvious that it was actually money, she would have gotten support despite it actually being the same story about money.

That being said, women in general also care a lot less about money than they used to. It's easier for women to critisize other women because they don't care as much. All of the players I know - ALL of them - are either poor or have money but live like they're poor. Guys with jobs who aren't as entertaining aren't getting to be players. (Not saying it's that way everywhere).

gohammer3 · 2014-10-27T22:07:54+00:00

Saw this on the misc, this guy knows how to weed out bitches.

Position5hero · 2014-10-27T21:26:47+00:00

significant gains in their lives and relationships.

Red flag : Measures her value in terms of how wealthy a man she can marry.

Anyways good for will.

Odds are he flashes the money when he wants a one night stand, and keeps it under wraps for LTR.

What a trooper

JP_Whoregan · 2014-10-27T21:43:49+00:00

What gold digging sluts will never understand is that, usually, men are rich because they live frugal lives.

See, this is solipsism gone wild here. She looked at this man through the prism of how SHE would live her life if SHE had a bunch of money. She would be spending like a drunken sailor on designer beach condos, flashy cars, Louis Vuitton handbags, make-up, designer clothes, and a closet full of shoes. She would make it very obvious to everyone around her that she had money.

Men usually feel no such compulsions. We may splurge on a home theater or maybe a nicer car, but when a rich MAN spends money, he's spending it on things/occasions that provide utility to him. And he sure isn't spending whimsically on the desires of some slut simply because she granted access to the holes between her legs.

Space_Ninja · 2014-10-28T00:00:36+00:00

The best part of this is that you know this woman is going to regret this for the rest of her life.

HumanSockPuppet · 2015-03-05T04:31:10+00:00

Original redditlog link is dead.

Here's the original link, saved via archive.today.

IProbablyHaveEbola · 2014-10-27T22:16:10+00:00

I smell a troll. It reads like fantasy revenge porn.

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2014-10-27T23:46:40+00:00

Holy Christ. This is quite telling:

Lately my newsfeed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses, having babies, and other various accolades

ACCOLADE?!!!! Surely she is referring to some special honor or achievement? No, just taking part in voluntary ceremonies, purchasing something that everyone purchases, and shitting out another mediocre human being that about half of the population at some point will have the capability to do.

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Denswend · 2014-10-27T22:43:08+00:00

The fact that comments are negative to OP, even in 2XC, and that I see a lot of TRP lingo and some TRP posters, makes me kinda feel weird. Just saying.

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2014-10-28T01:42:03+00:00

She doesn't get it... she failed HIS "shit-test" (except of course it wasn't a shit test, it was a "show me who you are" thing).

ROTFLMAO.

Also, other than the fact that he is too young, Will life sounds a hella lot like mine.

Keninishna · 2014-10-27T22:18:44+00:00

I ain't sayin shes a gold digger but.... she ain't datin no broke nigga

Honesty0504 · 2014-10-28T00:05:11+00:00

You can definitely see TRP bleeding into other subs in some of the comments now

tallwheel · 2014-10-27T23:09:23+00:00

Satisfying read. I'm surprised people on TwoXChromosomes ripped into her. I thought that subreddit is all about support.

She's not gold digger on the level of V Stiviano, but she is using a typical woman trick -- using break up to get what she wants... assuming she didn't lie to lessen the gold digging-ness of her post.

This is actually an "accepted" power struggle practice according to many women, as my female friends, who were undoubtedly on my side, have suggested that pulling something like this on my girlfriend (at the time) was "okay". I didn't get it back then, but I get it now.

One thing I learned through out my dating and relationship mishaps, is that whatever you learn from women, becomes a tool that you can also use as well. Yes, this "pretend" break up trick works disgustingly well against women, because you are then speaking their language. I would say it works better against women than it works against men, because women know this is just a way to tell them how important an issue is, where men will just think WTF this chick is breaking up with me. Plus women tend to enjoy drama, and what's more dramatic then break up-make up?

IMHO of course, my personal experience is just a small subset of what's out there, so maybe I just have the luck of picking the ones that like drama.

One caveat, as with any gamble, is that you should be prepared to lose whatever it is that you are betting.

This chick didn't realize that part.

Aerobus · 2014-10-27T23:12:05+00:00

Here's a thought, why instead of breaking up with him, did you not have a sit down and talk to him about what was bothering you?

Nah shit testing is the path she chose and it totally backfired on her.

RP terminology in a default, FEMINIST, sub. Man I'm happy.

She got what she deserved. Out of respect for the woman, I hope she learns her lesson and doesn't screw up in the future. Props to Will for not being a complete idiot with his money. He kept it safe from the gold-diggers out in the world.

IllimitableMan · 2014-10-28T01:45:17+00:00

So much vicarious schadenfreude in reading this post. That's why this is getting upvoted so much. Not really very educational, but very satisfying to read. This is like porn for anger phase guys.

DoctorWelch · 2014-10-28T02:23:10+00:00

I don't blame her at all, she is a few years away from hitting the wall and needs to know she is with someone who can provide. C'mon people this is Red Pill 101.

It's one thing to be frugal and it's another to be cheap. I mean, if he is happy doing what he is doing and that's all he wants then fine with me, nothing against him. And it seems like from his reaction to her he understands his position in life and is happy with it.

With the nature of women we can't just expect her to be happy when it seems like this dude is a poor bum with no motivation. Seems like you guys don't understand the basics and want her to be something she isn't. As long as he realizes that then everything is fine here. Nothing good or bad, just obvious. I wouldn't really say there is any hamstering going on here, just her understanding her biological need and him not showing he can fulfill it in any way.

kombatunit · 2014-10-28T15:38:46+00:00

Can a woman turn a man into a millionaire? Yes, if he starts as a billionaire.

w_t_f_1 · 2014-10-29T06:16:15+00:00

TRP is so gripping... So about 2 years ago, I'm very close with this couple (family friends). Husband owns a small business making millions per year. Enough to send the kids to an expensive private school, buy them new cars, etc. The kids will have to work when they're older, but they always treated their kids (and family/friends) very well.

Wife? She works a fairly easy job full time, doing something she's passionate about. Her ol' boss used to let her work different hours so she'd be out of there by 3 most days.

Did I mention she did the books?

Keep in mind he's getting old and was ready to retire.

At some point ol' husband gets a tad bit suspicious when there's no money to pay the bills. How could this be? The wife had "cooked" the books up the whole time they were together.

Now, I don't know their exact financial situation at that point other than they were either in debt or had nearly nothing except the value of his business. One thing that he did mention was that she had literally hundreds of shoes in her closet that had never been worn ONCE.

Anyway, you know what's coming next. She pushed for divorce as soon as there was no more money. They got divorced, and Mr. I'm Going to Retire Soon is still working 2 years later with no end in site.

Take away? If nothing else, don't let your wife do the books.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T08:06:01+00:00

Will's the rare type of guy who can inherit a great deal of wealth and not turn into a retard. That is discipline and true non-neediness; nearly everyone you meet will on some level care about "showing off" what they make to their GF / wife so they can feel successful. This is the level you should aspire to - in fact, if you truly want to enter relationships where you aren't the beta bucks, you have to be at this level. If you are at the point where you'd rather the relationship die than you have to play the BB role for 1 second... that is when you're ready to move on from plates to LTR.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T22:58:24+00:00

When I finished talking, he said "fine by me" and asked me to leave. I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him.

I haven't heard a fucking word from Will, even after texting him multiple times and calling him once.

Wow, major respect for this guy.

Schrodingersdawg · 2014-10-27T23:45:02+00:00

I've recently gotten an interesting job opportunity that is going to make my net worth sky rocket in the near future. It's gonna be really interesting to see hamsters like this coming out of the woodwork.

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johnnight · 2014-10-28T09:55:54+00:00

I can't help but feel jealous by this; it seems like everyone but me is making significant gains in their lives and relationships. Three weeks ago, after seeing a girl I knew from high school buy her 3rd property with her husband,

If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her?

I could understand treating as in buying small gifts, tokens of affection. But the way she understands male-female relations is that the man works, buys her property and these are 'significant relationship gains'. The woman does not have material success on her own. She does not work to get what she wants on life. She gets it by getting it from the man. If she can't make her man get it for her, she is jealous of the other women, who got it.

Women castigate men for feeling entitled to sex. Well, the amount of entitlement she showed here is off the charts.

IVIaskerade · 2014-10-27T22:24:00+00:00

Also, she's known him for a year. I wouldn't even be thinking about marriage until 3 years in minimum.

_VicBoss · 2014-10-28T01:39:27+00:00

Walking wallet...rather kill myself than adopt that as an official title.

amillwouldbeill · 2014-10-28T03:15:13+00:00

Clearly this person is just trolling.

the99percent1 · 2014-10-28T03:52:26+00:00

Will is mgtow. Wouldn't be surprised if he frequents TRP himself. His gym friends are pretty alpha too. If you have guy friends like that, keep them. Unlike BP men who will shame the rich guy for not spending, they know it is ultimately his choice to live his life and the bitch deserved it.

Anyways, don't be too harsh on the bitch. She was just deploying her hypergamy and her need to find a rich partner. With her ticking time clock and Wills great ability to hide his wealth, his friends not letting out how rich he is, combined with his frugal lifestyle, the bitch didn't stand a chance in recognizing the jackpot she scored.

bluedrygrass · 2014-10-28T07:38:52+00:00

I have an immense respect and admiration for that man. He did everything perfectly.

He hid his wealth to be able to see his girlfriend's real nature. He held frame and immediately dumped her as soon as she showed how miserable and interested she really was. Slamming the door.

He never answered to her obsessive/compulsive calls. This is the cherry on the cake.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T09:37:01+00:00

And here guys is a terrific example of a true ALPHA:

The next time I was over at Will's ... I ended the relationship ... He sat and listened to everything, seemingly unmoved by it. When I finished talking, he said "fine by me" and asked me to leave. I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him ... I haven't heard a fucking word from Will, even after texting him multiple times and calling him once.

Jaereth · 2014-10-28T14:02:25+00:00

Maybe dude just realizes a fancy car and possessions won't make you happy in life.

other_worlds · 2014-10-28T14:13:29+00:00

To a man, being jealous of a friend's accomplishments on Facebook will drive him to be more accomplished himself.

To a woman, being jealous of a friend's accomplishments on Facebook will drive her to break up with her man, if he can't accomplish it.

The thought that she should strive to accomplish these things never even enters the consciousness of anyone in that main thread.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T16:00:57+00:00

My step-grandpa would definitely befriend "Will". He gets mistaken for a homeless man on a daily basis, but little would you know that he is actually a multimillionaire from tobacco stock. People's (and especially women's) perception of rich people isn't what it usually turns out to be. They may seem as if they were godlike people with corrupt amounts of political power and fancy watches, but most of them (and the wisest) live just like us.

Frozen_Tundra · 2014-10-29T01:59:59+00:00

I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger

He never took me out for fancy dinners or anything.

If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her?

He could have easily kept our relationship alive by being forthcoming (he be loaded)

Such entitlement. And gold digging. And she can't see it?

IVIaskerade · 2014-10-27T22:22:22+00:00

I've always held that people with large fortunes don't necessarily spend a lot. There's a reason they have the money in the first place.

This is more true for self-made people. Lottery winners and Old Money tend to be into the extravagant stuff.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T00:26:37+00:00

I hope this is fake. If it's real then this girl is a bitch. She dumps him, and now she's butthurt that he didn't tell her that he's fucking minted, but he kept his mouth shut. Good for this guy. I wish I won the lottery if only so I could pull a stunt like this. I love how she's upset that he's not upset about the break-up:

He could've said something, ANYTHING during our break up when I was explaining my doubts about our relationship. Instead he said nothing,

What the fuck should he have said? "Please, don't dump me! Stay with me! I'M RICH!"

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T22:11:55+00:00

LOVE stories like this. The ownage is priceless.

sikballa · 2014-10-28T01:01:52+00:00

Wow commenters ripped her to shreads. GJ TwoX you just might be on the right path.

getfuckingreal · 2014-10-28T01:12:51+00:00

It's nice to see the others on 2X calling her out as a gold-digger.

zephyr141 · 2014-10-28T03:53:00+00:00

Mmm dude creamy potato soup with spam. Now that is delicious.

-Strider · 2014-10-28T09:46:22+00:00

Man, I love Will. This is how wealthy guys should deal with women (well, if it's a LTR you want). Sounds like a good guy. Of course, if you're not after a LTR and just sex, you can pretty easily have a nice stream of gold diggers, get them in then out, if you know how to deal with them

skoobled · 2014-10-28T12:11:53+00:00

He's probably intentionally frugal so as to weed out gold digging friends/women. I'm sure if you're loaded and deeper than a puddle then this must be a constant problem. In this case guy did well, props to him. Clearly loaded and smart, what more could a guy need?

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T18:22:39+00:00

How can she be annoyed when she broke off the relationship? If she was going to stay if he explained the money he had, then she as just with him for his cash. If she actually liked him then she wouldn't care about his finance. Some day he will likely get married to some nice woman who doesn't know about the oil and likes him for him, and she will be very pleasantly surprised.

Dishmayhem · 2014-10-28T19:37:41+00:00

this is just beautiful. her hamster must be dizzy in that wheel

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T21:50:49+00:00

I actually agreed with her somewhat until she dropped this fucking line: "If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her?"

yes honey, it really was all about money to you

relish-tranya · 2014-10-28T22:09:56+00:00

Many rich people stay rich because they don't throw it all into lifestyle.

Newdist2 · 2014-10-27T23:46:38+00:00

Seems fake, shitty morality tale.

Also, and downvote me for this if you like, it's reasonable for a woman to care about the financial status of a potential future husband. He doesn't need to be a oil heir, but he needs to have a plan for how they are going to afford health insurance for their kids and live in a good neighborhood.

evafha · 2014-10-28T01:20:14+00:00

I work in a field that serves some really rich folks as clients (billionaires and hundred-millionaires) and you can tell that the ones who met their wives before they got rich are extremely loyal husbands and don't hire identical twin prostitutes or anything, since their wives are the only person in the world who isn't looking for a handout from them. And the ones who weren't married before they got rich, are always suspicious of women like this guy in the OP's story rightly was.

Why do you think Mark Zuckerberg wifed up Priscilla? Why does Eminem keep getting back together with Kim even though that relationship clearly doesn't work? Because they're the only women who they can ever be sure loved them for who they are, not their money or status.

Mechbiscuit · 2014-10-28T04:11:31+00:00

Okay, this one pissed me off. TRP doctrine fundamentally believes that AF BB. In fact, the entire theory revolves around the idea. But, when a woman, surprise surprise, confirms the theory, it's quoted like it's a finger pointing contest.

Jesus fucking Christ guys. I fully accept the theory of hypergamy. We all do. In this instance we know that she's lying to herself and looking for a way to justify that she isn't a gold digger when she is.

Either TRP needs to accept that there are double standards and shut the fuck up about it, or not. In the latter instance I'll be leaving the community because in that context this sub is about masturbation of the ego and not self improvement. Any in-between is contributing to a feminist like circle jerk that makes it us vs them.

I say feminist like because that's what feminists do. They say "They have it soo much better. We have it soo much worse!" It's a self defeating thing to say. You are making TRP into this bullshit victim mentality that points to vaginas to say "see! See! They're all like that! Aren't they terrible! Men are not like this!"

We.

Are.

Men.

We are better than that. Men do not blame a scorpion for stinging a frog because it's in its nature. We accept the fact and move on because that's the only way we can better ourselves.

If you dwell on the advantage women have, you lose. Simple as. Do not waste time nodding in confirmation about how this bitch is whining out of the loss of a fucking fortune. You gain nothing.

iluminatiNYC · 2014-10-27T23:27:08+00:00

I'm thinking this is a troll post, but either way, this is gold. While I wouldn't say she was a straight up gold digger, at least in a traditional way, she was looking for a meal ticket. He did the right thing.

LoveUnderWill · 2014-10-28T00:33:21+00:00

To quote the great Biz Markie: "Damn it feels good to see people up on it!"

The_Americano · 2014-10-28T13:35:11+00:00

I would do things slightly different than this guy but regardless this guy is winning at life. At the end of the day he seems happy and has firm boundaries and doesn't get stepped on/taken advantage of. A strong handshake where ever he may be,carry on...

superyay · 2014-10-28T21:26:16+00:00

Taking bets on her calling him and crying about how sorry she is and how she wants to get back together.

oleksey · 2014-10-28T12:31:01+00:00

"lacked career/life ambition" - That's a good reason for woman. I wound't try to explain everything with logic. Women are emotionally driven. She felt unsure about their future, she felt unsecure with him. That's the reason. At least I think so and this is my opinion. And yeah, I am not going to argue or discuss it.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T12:35:03+00:00

With prior boyfriends, we'd still talk or text a bit after we'd be broken up. Sometimes we'd even still hook up.

This is important. Most women don't view a breakup as the end of a relationship because they are so used to being able to throw themselves at their ex boyfriends and use sex to get back together. This leads them to view a breakup as an ultimatum they can use to force a guy's hand.

Diabolo_Advocato · 2014-10-28T06:36:36+00:00

This is fake, 100%. I am sure something similar to it has happened at least once, but seriously not this troll post.

The account is 22 hours old and didn't even bother to try to disguise it as a throwaway like a vast majority of others, nor is it a legit account due to obvious reasons.

Anyone who believes this troll-bait needs to figure out how to think critically and understand what they are reading.

LS_D · 2014-10-28T03:11:15+00:00

This is par for the course

i grew up amongst a bunch of 'will's' and if one thing is certain, it's that goldiggers are not welcome ...

this dude is what you'd classify as "Sigma"

the Alpha's hate him coz they can't understand his confidence! The girls love him for the same reason! lol

and IF they want to talk about 'love' ... well, 'love' is right now, not 'later', so don't be banging on about 'later' IF you're truly 'in love'

I actually know people who have committed suicide becoz they couldn't find 'real' friends outside of their 'rich friends' peer group!

Walktillyoucrawl · 2014-10-27T23:43:36+00:00

What if this dude really just isn't that rich.

Ududude · 2014-10-28T01:37:49+00:00

The girl has a point. If he does the bare minimum at his job, if he never talks about his desire to attain x position or gain x skill set, then that's a warning sign and she may be in the right for breaking up with him. I wouldn't marry a girl who doesn't clean up around the house or have a job just because "oh, well she actually has a secret legion of nannies and is a millionaire".

I3luee · 2014-10-28T06:43:04+00:00

I partially agree with the woman.

Yes, she's 80-90% a gold digger, but the fact that after abour 1 year she decided to end the relationship because it didn't go anywhere; well I find this logical.

I ended my previous relationship because it felt like a hassle, it wasn't going anywhere and I knew I could get someone better that would want to improve both herself and motivate me also.

She was facing a complacent guy that seemed like a schmuck that had no goal, ambition, dreams, etc (which is what TRP is promoting you to have).

The way I see it, she genuinely liked him, but she saw that his SMV was stagnating/ degrading due to the same routine/ behavior/ etc.

I kinda believe it was his fault for being a boring lazy ass guy (that's how she makes him sound). OR he's so intelligent (and stupid) that he shittested her for almost 1 year and that eventually drove her away.

Hell if my whole relationship would be/ feel like a shitttest, I'd give it up in 1 month tops.

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T22:31:05+00:00

This is very inspirational. Thanks for the post, OP.

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[deleted] · 2014-10-28T00:08:29+00:00

God dammit I hate it when women are like this

later on who will tell the hordes of betas to stop one upping each other to death and ruining everything for their pedestal pussy? fucking noone.

which means all the more LMS for a guy who hates bullshit even more strongly than the next one to pass the bar.

well guess you can't blame them, the few ones who have a screw loose and don't have the gold digging instinct (had a girl literally explain it to me in terms of "feeling like a woman" one time) don't reproduce with the alphas hence get slowly eroded from the genepool (which is a puddle of shit by now if any of you geeky short asian guys feel inferior to some BBC wielding drug dealer , remember that its just a string of organic acids you’ll freely edit in 20 years)

reiduh · 2014-10-28T01:35:54+00:00

Jack is a lucky man. Sounds like he knows how to take care of a lady, too.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-10-28T02:00:29+00:00

That's why money always comes before bitches. Women will reject you if you have no money. Women will take all your money or expect you to live a lifestyle you can't afford to impress them. Then when your money is all gone they'll drop you like a hot potato and go suck and fuck the next fake high-roller who is going broke to try to impress them. You end up broke and broken hearted with no money and no women.

That's why it is better to put money first before women. If one woman leaves you cause you don't want to waste money on her it doesn't matter. Because you can get money without women. And once you have money you can get a whole bunch of new women to replace the old one(s).

joshw220 · 2014-10-28T03:15:02+00:00

My grandpa is crazy rich, but lives cheep. My dad said how do you think he got so rich. Most responsible rich people will come off as poor and many smart ones will not tell women of their wealth so they can find true love. I saw a relationship advice things about a year ago where the guy had millions and was driving a honda hatchback and got married and it wasn't till like 6 months after the marriage the girl found out he was loaded.

tallwheel · 2014-10-28T04:41:48+00:00

He sat and listened to everything, seemingly unmoved by it. When I finished talking, he said "fine by me" and asked me to leave. I went to hug him on my way out, instead he just guided me out the door and slammed it shut behind him.

Dude handled that like a boss. The only part I might change is the door slam, cause that comes off a little needy and angry. On the other hand, maybe he just did it for emphasis so that she knew he was serious.

I'll handle my next break up pretty much the same way. As I learned from Rollo, having a willingness to break up at any time is advantageous in a relationship. When my GF starts talking about being unsatisfied, or wanting to break up, and she becomes more trouble than she's worth, I will calmly show her the door and next her.

DoraNijoku · 2014-10-28T04:41:51+00:00

All I can say when I saw the posts is R.I.P. her Karma! XD

clear_lights · 2014-10-28T05:05:29+00:00

Holy shit, what a ridiculous thread. Some women are just real pieces of work.

I love how she's trying to find a light in the darkness of it all. The way his friends reacted was the nail in the coffin.

Gold digging bitch got what she deserves.

Doomsday_ · 2014-10-28T05:37:26+00:00

This dude is fucking brilliant. He knows he could flash around his wealth and score easy pussy, but instead he screens hard for a woman who will be satisfied with him alone.

GeneralTry · 2014-10-28T06:04:07+00:00

Wait , I really want to read her reaction to finding out he was a multi millionaire

Syn3rgetic · 2014-10-28T08:18:58+00:00

This is the best thing ive read all day.

Polite_Insults · 2014-10-28T09:17:40+00:00

Did he take her back? I really hope he didn't cause he can have probably any other chick he wants now.

dgillz · 2014-10-28T10:33:31+00:00

My favorite RP post ever. Many thanks.

Stinkfished · 2014-10-28T13:31:49+00:00

I wish I were based like Will.

leethal59 · 2014-10-28T13:58:35+00:00

Lol what a comedy goldmine. Loved every response

J2501 · 2014-10-28T14:31:17+00:00

I could tell that same story with a bunch of girls =D

Malachhamavet · 2014-10-28T15:30:47+00:00

It's nice to see one of us make it out before the child anchor stage sets in and you are tied together at the quantum level.

theJFKshow · 2014-10-28T15:48:07+00:00

I have Facebook and am on it every day, usually when work is slow. Lately my newsfeed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses, having babies, and other various accolades. I can't help but feel jealous by this; it seems like everyone but me is making significant gains in their lives and relationships. Three weeks ago, after seeing a girl I knew from high school buy her 3rd property with her husband, it felt like my relationship with Will was juvenile and had no future.

Blah. Makes me fucking cringe.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T16:58:43+00:00

The man hiding his value is a trope of storytelling, so much so that she needs to step back and see who she is in this Grimm's Fairy Tale.

draketton · 2014-10-28T19:49:03+00:00

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Hrodrik · 2014-10-28T19:53:21+00:00

I'm hard at the justice and the replies in that. I want to meet and congratulate Will.

[deleted] · 2014-10-29T19:32:41+00:00

Frugal types don't mix well with spendthrifts--for either party.

[deleted] · 2014-11-02T22:12:40+00:00

I'm reminded of that Night Court episode where hamster ditches dorky fiance for wealthier man. She comes back to said "dork" when he finds out he has more money (heir to the inventor of the drinking helmet).

Woman: "You don't mind if I'm marrying you for your money, do you?" Man: "As long as you don't chunk up."

itspinkynukka · 2015-04-14T04:38:47+00:00

I just don't understand how she honestly didn't see how much of a gold digger she actually was

rockumsockumrobots · 2014-10-28T06:12:55+00:00

Typically, I would empathize with a woman who doesn't see the right strengths necessary to be a strong father figure to their children and give them what they need to excel; good school, sports equipment, tools, college fund etc.

I want to give all the things my father gave me to my children on the condition they work for it and then some. For instance, when my kids grow up I want to have a chunk of money set aside and they can "pitch" to me what they want to do with it, like shark tank. I never had this opportunity and work for every penny I need to put into education, businesses, investments etc.

However, the woman makes NO mention of his "character" only his drive to get money. She is in love with money, not a strong character and "Will" saw right through that. I give him credit for that.

zodar · 2014-10-28T06:48:19+00:00

She absolutely did the right thing. If you want to get married and have kids and your significant other doesn't, you should shake hands and part ways like adults. Sure, she's a gold digger, but she does have one thing right : if she wants the "I use Facebook as a PR platform to try to make my friends jealous of me" lifestyle, she needs to find a new partner who wants the same thing.

SoUrLovin · Tue Oct 28 1:48:42 2014 UTC

idk the only thing that bugs me is she had a discussion with him about the future and dude said it included her but never gave details. this chick sounds like she had RP mentality when it came to this. let's be honest here you can't have a marriage or a grown mature relationship based on love alone, and she had the love part down cuz she was goin out with dude for dumb long thinking he was broke. but when it came down to it she was like ok but what about real shit? like how are we going to raise a family and have a home and make a life? all that requires income, and when she tried to find out what was good with that, the dude didn't say anything. her post is titled asking for an explanation of dude's actions, i don't see anything wrong with her confusion...

Schrodingersdawg · 2014-10-27T22:47:52+00:00

This story is about being beta and getting dumped by some chick. I'd dump him too. Sorry but doing nothing because you have some inheritance is very bluepill. You didn't earn it- guy was a loser.

Status and wealth are intrinsically connected. Being cheap is not worth it- it's not DHV. You can have a good career and enjoy nice things and maximize your SMV. I will buy drinks at bars (these are businesses too that have bills and staff- don't mooch), drive a nice car, and have a nice house with nice furniture while saving for retirement. Don't be stupid about it- invest wisely (security fund, roth/traditional ira, passive income sources, etc). Go make money- don't be afraid to spend some. Don't sit around and mooch off your grandfather's life work so much so that your girlfriend dumps you. If I were this guy, I'd be building businesses, investing wisely, and being even a bigger pimp than I already am. Can you imagine getting a yearly salary without doing shit and then being this cheap (frugality and cheap are very different).

Also, plot twist: Friend was likely lying if this is true just to shove it in her face for dumping him.

Gaslov · 2014-10-28T14:12:24+00:00

Large inheritance doesn't change the fact that he lacks ambition. It's a waste that large sums of money go to someone like that. It's one thing to be wise with your money, it's another to be a waste of space.

hamstercide · 2014-10-28T15:09:47+00:00

They're both idiots and they deserve the lose-lose situation they brought upon themselves. If he really liked this girl the guy is an idiot for not assuaging her fears that he could provide for the future. Pretty sure that if you want kids, every woman is going to ask about that. It's not really something you can ignore if you're serious about building a family.

Reversing the roles, the equivalent would be dating a girl who has a great personality but otherwise wears a burqa and you have no idea what she looks like (i.e. how hot she is). When you tell her you're looking for good genetic material in a mate and can't continute without knowing what she looks like, she says "fine by me" and drops you. Then you find out on Facebook she's a bombshell. Well, no love lost.

The girl did the right thing and is better off moving on. It bears mentioning also that the guy is just an heir and not self-made.

brmlb · 2014-10-28T15:57:26+00:00

I'm on her side. She said she was with him for over a year thinking he had no money. Not a gold digger. It was the lack of ambition that killed whatever she thought they had.

This guy is just a lazy douche that inherited a lot of money and spends all his free time "finding himself".

I'm sure she regrets the missed fortune. The guy was correct in hiding his fortune from her, but I'm also sure he's just lazy, so you can't blame her.

Telly_Valentino · 2014-10-28T00:11:46+00:00

You guys are just as bad as the fucking feminists. Disingenuous liars. This guy is a fucking bluepill with money. Fuck him.

whitey_male · 2014-10-28T04:26:53+00:00

I'm going to go against the grain. I think this guy is a prick. Women only have a small window in which to procreate without any problems. She put in the 10 months of some modest life and he should have been at least telling her about some solid plans for a decent life.

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T01:44:09+00:00

With prior boyfriends, we'd still talk or text a bit after we'd be broken up. Sometimes we'd even still hook up. I dunno, I've just never had a 'bad break-up' and always try to remain on good terms. I haven't heard a fucking word from Will, even after texting him multiple times and calling him once.

She never had a bad breakup because the rest of her bfs were alpha. She wuldn;t still be fucking them after breakup if they weren't.

tortue_genial · 2014-10-28T15:53:12+00:00

+1 for the link -1 for the analysis

[deleted] · 2014-10-28T18:17:37+00:00

Yeah, she's hamstering. But you know what? Women like men with money, power, and ambition. It's like men's infatuation with beauty. Sure it's shallow, but that's just the way it is.

From reading these comments it seems like a lot of people are willing to label any woman who cares about wealth a gold digging whore. Newsflash: almost EVERY woman cares about wealth. Remember AWALT? It's part of what a man brings to the table.

Our role as men is to identify and avoid the women who care EXCESSIVELY about wealth. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that this woman wasn't one of those women. She broke up with a guy who gave every indication of being a loser.

bojackhorsemen · 2014-10-29T15:13:34+00:00

Women are batshit crazy. This bitch is an entitled money grubbing whore.

SoUrLovin · 2014-10-28T03:02:47+00:00

i'm reading all these comments and i understand why some ppl think red pillers are misogynists. i'm sorry but the chick ain't do nothing wrong here. everybody is getting at her for saying she is not a gold digger because she went out with him for 10 months thinking he was broke, and they are pointing out that her ultimate decision makes her a gold digger. no. she's absolutely right she's not a gold digger because gold diggers don't go out with dudes thinking they are broke. period. not for 10 months, 6 months, 3 months, 2 weeks, 1 day, out to lunch. there is also red pill theory for women, and that is why i say the chick is a red piller and the dude is a blue piller or beta. is he going to continue living like he is broke and also has no job, thinking that he can find a chick that will like him for him and that that will be enough to keep her? that notion itself goes against the male red pill theory. from a woman's standpoint it makes no sense to stay with a guy simply because you love him. fuck it, from a biological/evolutionary stand point. you really are going to get at her for this?

Title	Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.
Author	Schrodingersdawg
Upvotes	1483
Comments	427
Date	October 27, 2014 9:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ki2w9/woman_drops_boyfriend_because_he_lives_frugally/
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