Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profiles

Reisiluu · 2020-01-05T10:41:06+00:00

Nice, PPD men are finally catching on to what real abundance is. You were wondering why FDS focuses on having standards and filtering instead of pickup tricks and competing with other women? This is why. It's not entitlement, it's just how women date as the selectors in the marketplace.

Fusiontron · 2020-01-05T03:55:38+00:00

I don't actually know which app my sister used. All I will say is I've fought for everything is my life and she is legitimately one of the least pro-active people I know.

She downloads the app, gets 20 messages the first night. Immediately drops 10 due to no college degree. Talked to 3 regularly and then choose 1 to be her bf. Deletes app.

LOL.

Marino4K · 2020-01-05T01:07:14+00:00

OLD along with social media has ruined dating for everyone but more male than female and personally none of the pills would have never existed, at least in the limelight.

Riat567 · 2020-01-05T04:24:13+00:00

OP most dating app are a sausege fest. take tinder fo exemple the gender ratio for tinder in 2019 was 76%-male and 24%-females the one i think where gender are 50-50 is Coffe meets bagel.

reluctantly_red · 2020-01-05T01:23:26+00:00

Don't delete it - keep your profiles up and spend ten mins a day on it.

Focus most of your energy/ resources on meeting women IRL - and just have the OLD as a 'side hussle'.

Also there's other sites - eharmony, matche. com ect that are less brutal. All the nerds I know IRL meet women from there.

Jathrowaway97 · 2020-01-05T01:17:29+00:00

Thats subjective. The first thing I look at in a profile is whether the person is child-free or not. Since thats what I value the most. If they are child-free, then I check their profile to see if I am attracted to them. And by attracted to them, I don't mean they have to look like Brad Pitt, It means that I find them attractive or cute in their own way.

I had several profiles who tried to connect with me, one of them who resembles a celebrity. But I didn't want to. Because even though they were good looking, they were very outgoing and into partying, so not my cup of tea.

80% of the time, I read the profile because it says a lot about the other person. I never for a second think that I can replace one guy for another, because thats childish and Im not playing with dolls here, these are people.

Just saying that online dating is not as bad as people make it out to be. It's a few people who misuse it. And I also get unmatched, ghosted, left on read... but I just move on. I don't pay mind to it

You have to accept the good and bad.

Maybelowsmv · 2020-01-05T00:55:19+00:00

Lol that kinda reminds me of a video i once saw of an older woman on tinder calling older men ugly

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-01-05T07:47:38+00:00

After going through 5 OLD sites/apps (Christian Mingle, eHarmony, Match, Plenty of Fish, and OkCupid), I can say that most dating websites are a waste of time for most guys. I rate myself as 5/10 because I’m not super popular with women but I do get some looks from decent looking women on occasion, and OLD was mostly a desert wasteland. The only time - the ONE time I actually got a hit, was when I was leaving the site so I changed the info in my profile to be non-serious jokes. Mostly, sexual jokes (“What three things can you not live without?” Answer: “Reverse Cowgirl, the piledriver, and the hot Carl”). The girl that messaged me was a 7/10. Very cute and attractive. She said she messaged me because she thought “it was funny.”

Guys, women defy almost all logic and reason when selecting someone to “talk to,” so unless you’re ready to dive deep and commit to the traveling circus that is the female psyche, you’re better off deleting your dating profiles and talking to women in-person.

GreenSatyr · 2020-01-05T01:53:51+00:00

“5% is 1 in 20, that's not bad odds at all.”

She's currently actively chatting and considering ONE single guy on tinder.

How many guys is she supposed to consider at a time, honestly?

If she was considering lots of guys then it would be "oh no she's got so many guys how can anyone compete". Then if she considers just one guy it'll be "the chances are so low".

If all observations can be explained by the same hypothesis then what good is the hypothesis?

iamgroot333 · 2020-01-05T13:12:01+00:00

dudes get mad that girls have more dating options and tinder shows and exacerbates that effect.

but the thing is who fucking cares, cos they are girls. not guys. they're practically a different species.

it's like being pissed that a cheetah can run faster than you. you're not even playing the same game so stop comparing your results.

I swear to God 90% of the reason guys/incels/virgins and the like are so pissed about how "unfair" the SMP is, is because they believe in blank slate equalism.

cos blank slate equalism says men and women are the same. and so if women have it easy in dating so should men. but then men dont have it easy so they get pissed coz they think "well women and men are the same and women have it easy so WTF is going on here, I must suck at life".

no. you just bought into a bullshit lie that men and women are the same and from that shitty foundation all your other bullshit beliefs are born.

women in dating are not the same thing as men and dating.

it's like a monkey on a bicycle vs an elephant flying a plane. they are two completely different things and our respective experiences of it are completely different too.

as atlas b shrugging said, just in the last century women would have chaperones on a date and in some countries still do. but men did not.

men and women are very very different. stop comparing your experiences as if they actually have any relevance to each other.

flyinghorse1 · 2020-01-05T10:46:07+00:00

OLD dating is working great for some of us men - so the short answer is NO.

I'm not even that good looking - decent face, healthy body, dress pretty well, not high status, can hold a decent conversation - and I get 10 or so matches a day and can pretty much go on 4 or 5 dates a week if I actually wanted to.

largepaycheckaddict · 2020-01-05T15:19:42+00:00

Tinder can work decently for guys if you just put up some high SMV pics that display an interesting fun life, you’re a cool guy and have a nice physique. I have pictures of myself hiking, painting, hanging out with friends, and a good quality headshot my photographer friend took of me.

If you’re not training in the gym to achieve chad aesthetics, you really have no right to complain. It amazes me that guys think they’re entitled to anything 7+ when they don’t even lift (especially on a dating app). Yes women have it easy in the dating game but life’s not fair and men and women aren’t equal. Men are the ones who hunt after all.

Being in a city with a significant number of attractive women like NYC, LA or a college town helps. I’m back in my hometown after going to college in NYC and it’s a lot of low IQ full time single mommies. Luckily I live about 20 miles from a cool college town so I just extend my radius.

The thing the girl said about easily replacing guys.. sometimes women just say shit like this to tease you and fuck with you. Just laugh and don’t take it seriously. If anyone has that attitude with regards to dating, they’re going to be very lonely and unhappy no matter how hot they are.

PM_ME_UR_1ITIS_SNAP · 2020-01-05T00:58:59+00:00

I always see guys on Reddit bitching about not getting matches. What they don't realize is matches don't mean shit. I had my distance set to around campus and got a decent amount of matches but a very small amount ever turned into anything.

I got the match AND pulled the number from this girl before we wound up meeting via mutual friend circle later. She tells me she ghosted because I texted her with punctuation. I've heard her call me hot before and she said my n count should be higher lmfao

Am I really about to be on a dating platform where bitches are going to unmatch because of punctuation?

Online dating is the worst thing that has happened to men. Even if I'm hot I have to be super hot to pull the women. With perfect ass pictures of me hanging out in Rio or some shit.

GrievenLeague · 2020-01-05T05:47:22+00:00

If you didn't realize thats what happened on dating apps before this you are very naive. People (both men and women) pick based on pictures first and then figure out who they really want to talk to.

geyejoe7 · 2020-01-05T07:38:39+00:00

I can definitely confirm this.

I have a friend who's objectively a 4/10, but because she's a specific type of girl (alternative), some guys see her as higher value. From a 6-10!!! It's insane.

I digress. Her tinder profile is 4 pictures with some of them shot from complimenting angles and from some time ago. She looks better on them than irl. And her bio says she's into BDSM. That's a big one for some dudes...

Maybe a 5-6/10.

And when she swipes on tinder, she swipes right on 1/50 guys.

And that's if he's super good looking and has a good bio.

So, way out of her leauge.

She gets a match 90% of the time, on her swipe...

She gets 99+ likes, and even men with premium accounts reaching out to her.

She gets dick picks, booty calls and date invitations.

IT'S UNBALANCED PEOPLE.

Women have to add NOTHING of value.

My attractive female redhead (she's 5'7", thick in the true meaning of the word, and smart.)

A real catch.

She made a profile and put up a profile picture.

Within the following seconds this happened:

1 second - 10 likes

10 seconds - 40 likes

30 seconds - 80 likes

1 minute - 99+ likes

UNBALANCED

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timodmo · 2020-01-05T14:32:03+00:00

(women swipe differently when being watched)

azwildcat74 · 2020-01-05T00:49:19+00:00

It's almost like people pretend to have higher standards than they really do when someone is judging them....

panzerbier · 2020-01-05T12:20:07+00:00

> She's 27 and a solid 7 in my book but no higher.

> hes a 10/10 Chad. 6 foot 3 and ripped.

That setup is so cliche it's boring. He'll fuck her a few times, but won't enter a relationship with her, of course. She's nearing 30 and will soon want to settle down; since she's been with a 10 before, she won't accept anything less, and will get pumped&dumped by several more 10s until she gets the message. Then she'll finally lower her standards and end up with Beta Billy whom she'll resent forever. The End.

> Are you ready to do what's necessary to make that happen?

Nah. I've been in LTRs since for over a decade now, plus some ONSs and flings on the side. Normie-tier stuff. I learned by now that relationships and sex aren't some kind of magic happiness potion. They're usually nice, often tedious, with some glorious moments; and that's it.

Once my current LTR ends I won't be expending any effort to find a new girl on today's totally unbalanced dating market. I'll enjoy the peace instead.

themoderation · 2020-01-05T06:37:59+00:00

You’re telling me someone was being shallow on a hookup website?! Good god, the horror! People that act like Tinder is the world are stuck in the saddest little bubble.

Grek27 · 2020-01-05T01:39:11+00:00

You’re going based off of watching ONE woman out of the millions that use tinder. This doesn’t apply to all women because not all women are looking for the same thing. Sounds like you and any other men that truly believe that all women want these high expectations in men that you can’t be, then YOU need to work on your self-esteem issues.

TwentyX4 · 2020-01-05T09:03:33+00:00

I was sitting next to this woman a few weeks ago at a bar. She was Asian and I'd rate her around a "4". She opened her dating app and started swiping through men. I didn't see her swipe right on a single guy, even though she looked through 30 or 40 profiles. She switched to her matches, and it looked like she had an endless number of matches. It was f***ing ridiculous.

2020-01-05T01:45:04+00:00

We all know this. Jesus were you living under the rock for the past 10 years? Women have insane abundance who would have thought! Women prefer athletic men over skinny fat betas - again, who would have thought? When a person has so many options his standards increase. Who would have thought, eh?

And why would she swipe on regular guys anyway? Ripped guys stand out more.. average guys are just. Boring. Not memorable. Guys who lift catches eyes of every woman in a room. All the time.

Wrathful_Buddha · 2020-01-05T06:32:40+00:00

All people already have some sort of idea of the type of person you are within the first 5sec of looking at your pic. Your pics are a reflection of who you are, what you like, and your personality.

The first picture needs to be attention grabbing because most won't care to look at your bio unless they think you have physical potential first; And that goes for everyone.

Women want someone who is adventurous and takes care of themselves; Your pics needs to capture that essence so you can have a wider dating pool.

If you can't even carry positive energy in your pics then it becomes apparent you likely don't have that energy and couldn't carry it in a date, much less a relationship.

If you take pics of yourself in messy basic clothes, hair, beard, where you're cooped up in your room; Then you just come off as a lazy shut-in.

So many of male dating problems can be taken care of if you actually gave a shit about your appearance and put your best foot forward.

And don't act like you don't swipe on every girl that's out of your league; If you aren't going to put in the effort to look like a 10, then you should stay in your dating pool of 5s instead of demanding women lower their expectations for someone who won't raise them for themselves.

Kwint86 · 2020-01-05T20:16:02+00:00

This whole thread is basically "nOt AlL wOmEn"

MuleFool42 · 2020-01-06T20:09:43+00:00

It's a waste of time for men and a flattering ego session for women 99% of the time. That is, 99% of the time women are not looking for a bf, just an ego boost.

I've never downloaded or used any dating website or app and never will.

rus9384 · 2020-01-05T05:14:11+00:00

They won't. Because alternatives are scarier for them. Because the alternative requires them to be social.

k995 · 2020-01-05T09:37:54+00:00

Another one of these: "i saw one women do something so all must do the same."

2020-01-05T10:19:38+00:00

This is no different to any other situation, be it offline or online.

If there is a group of men, women will be attracted to the most HV man out of that group. IE The Alpha Male Of The Group. Not Alpha in the way some guys seem to view it as (there are multiple descriptions of Alpha anyway), but the more popular guys, the guys who seem to be the leaders of the group not the followers.

What is shocking about this.

I just personally find it easier to be more socially savvy in a RL scenario, like why would I compete with every dude and his pet dog online, when I can goto social gatherings and have less competition.

If Tinder is easier, then why is it easier if you are not getting the results you want.

If you are getting the results you want, then sure Tinder is easy, but we wouldn't be having this conversation on a regular basis.

Orange_Paisley · 2020-01-05T02:12:43+00:00

Yes, one sample size of one proves everything. Well done.

/s, if necessary.

oceanwavee · 2020-01-05T06:22:27+00:00

This is definitely not true, and it’s a generalization based off of one woman’s perspective. When I had tinder, I swiped right on about 1/5 of guys and read all their bios and looked at each photo. I would chat with probably 1/2 my matches but chemistry just wasn’t there for a lot of them. (I’m 22, very thin and above average in looks but by no means a smoke-show.) I did meet one guy off tinder and we vibed really well; we’ve been dating for 8 months. He is the most beautiful man to me, but neither of us are 10s. He has a 10 heart.

Edit to add: In some countries there are literally more men than than women. There is some truth to your idea that women have more options—lots of cultures have male-child preference that leads to many abortions of female fetuses. However, historically women have had few to no choices when it came to dating. Women have been married off for cultural values, economic gains, and diplomacy against their consent for centuries. So excuse you, it’s not a big fucking deal if you don’t get tons of tinder matches. Get over yourself. It is not mean for women to not swipe right on you.

sources: college sociology classes

topofthecentipede · 2020-01-05T01:08:55+00:00

I'm 6 ft 225 w not a lot of muscle, and redownloaded Tinder and am talking to two 7.5's. This is just her process. I date like 5 of them a year. No need for me to hang it up.

MrHerbSherman · 2020-01-05T01:33:00+00:00

How is this a ppd post

Seems more suited for trp

binkerfluid · 2020-01-05T08:53:02+00:00

oh, I've already deleted them and pretty much given up on dating or love.

ellnsnow · 2020-01-05T12:15:26+00:00

She sounds very shallow but I wouldn’t let that discourage you. I personally swipe left on a lot of chads because it’s very likely they’re going to be shallow too and with others I HAVE to read their bio (to me its almost more important than their pictures). Like I said don’t be discouraged, think of it as having all the superficial people filtered out for you.

alcockell · 2020-01-05T12:28:01+00:00

Define "high value". Does character or anything like that matter?

bkrugby78 · 2020-01-05T13:36:02+00:00

I feel that, for me, it's more that I look for women into specific things. Because I am not willing to settle for less, well, I will be single longer. It's fine, I've never been obsessed with being in a relationship and while I understand the benefits, there are many disadvantages too.

shockedpikachu123 · 2020-01-05T13:57:32+00:00

It’s very difficult to determine who is high value or game from dating profiles alone unless you set the age range from 37+. Maybe it’s just me but I only swipe right on guys who give me a super like which probably 3 out of 30 will. I don’t care about how many matches I get lol

entombed_pit · 2020-01-05T14:06:53+00:00

Why would you want to be with a girl who is like this anyway. I'm glad people this shallow act like this app I wouldn't have spend time with them. I really feel like people on this sub exists in a different reality sometimes.

The_Frag_Man · 2020-01-05T14:09:01+00:00

you need to be a high value man and you need game. Are you ready to do what's necessary to make that happen?

Nah, it's not worth it

noNooodleArms · 2020-01-05T16:22:50+00:00

Way ahead of you.

Hubblenobbin · 2020-01-05T17:00:31+00:00

brass tax

brass tacks, like thumb tacks

Lillizsomd · 2020-01-05T18:50:59+00:00

*brass tacks, just for future reference

hammerhaunts · 2020-01-05T19:30:28+00:00

tinder.

that was your first mistake

SDW137 · 2020-01-05T20:08:42+00:00

This reminds of applying to jobs online vs. handing your resume to recruiters in career fairs. The people who get the job offers after applying online usually have high GPAs and multiple internships and often times hundreds or thousands of people will apply for a single position. A lot of potentially good applicants get filtered out when applying to jobs online. And in the same sense, only the most attractive guys get real success on Tinder. There are a lot of guys who might not be super attractive but might be potential relationship material that don't get a match with a girl whom would otherwise be interested in them if they ran into each other in real life.

OHG1 · 2020-01-05T23:42:35+00:00

I thought no incel content

Chrchgrl85 · 2020-01-06T02:28:32+00:00

If there’s no first picture, like it’s a logo or a group pic and I have no idea which one he is, that’s a no go. I also will not choose a person with NO profile information. Past that, if I find you attractive, f anyone else thinking you are or not, and you actually have profile information and it’s interesting (to me at least), things like that will make me swipe right. We may find we still aren’t compatible, but that will be after having a good bit of conversation.

I came across a like I had yesterday where the guy was super insulting in his profile excerpt. He was going on and on about how you had probably matched with him already, but you were ugly and fat and whatever else so he swiped left...it just got worse from there. Why in the HELL would he think that I, or any woman, would find that endearing or attractive? Who the hell decided to go on a date with him?! She made him think this is ok! I swiped left on him VERY quickly. What an asshole....

eternitypasses · 2020-01-06T18:14:34+00:00

You asked a vapid woman to be biased because you’re watching her. Good job. This is not good data.

LethalShade · 2020-01-10T00:56:20+00:00

That's not every girl. That being said though, online dating is worlds apart for men and women. I went on my exs Tinder and it was literally dozens of dudes offering her free drinks, smoke sessions, dirt bike rides, dinners, etc. Me and her are about equally attractive(somewhere around 7s) and I have about 30 matches in a few months of using it and she got 50 matches in a few hours.

I also know guys who get laid every week off Tinder. And guys who have three matches after months of using it every day. It's definitely a lesson in gender dynamics and societal attractiveness. If you're not conventially attractive, I'd be careful of using it or you might ruin your self esteem.

It's not necessarily better on the other side though. I don't do too well in online dating but put me in bar, house party or social circle with girls and I dominate where as she's awkward and can't really connect with anyone. Those girls that get those matches I doubt are much happier than the average guy here. Being seen only as a piece of meat can ravage your self-esteem just as badly as being undesirable.

2020-01-10T04:50:55+00:00

For men, OLD is no different than using job boards.

When I apply for jobs on Monster or Indeed, I'm competing against 200 to 300 other applications. That's a long putt to land one of the five interview spots. And then if I somehow get the offer, the pay sucks. Because the hiring manager has so many other options, I never get salary offers for more than $30k/$40k a year.

Passive marketing is WAY more effective. Years ago, I started speaking at conferences and writing an industry blog. Few other people do this because "writing is haardddd" and "public speaking is scary." But when companies want to hire me, I've positioned myself as an industry expert. That finally got me into the six-figure income range.

No different here. OLD, the dating equivalent to applying on job boards, is a waste of time for your average-height, average-looking dude. No barriers to entry. Too much competition.

When I found myself back in the singles market six months ago, I couldn't believe my results on Tinder and Bumble. I felt like the ugliest man alive... until I started reading the Reddit forums. ZERO matches on most days.

So I focused entirely on getting out into my community -- volunteering, social clubs, pick-up soccer, etc. I resulted in a few good dates. I'm now in a three-month relationship with a wonderful woman.

Bloomberg backed up my point on a podcast the other day. The economist basically says if you're below an 8 as a guy, don't bother with Tinder.

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2019-12-16/this-is-how-online-dating-is-reshaping-the-entire-economy

decoy88 · 2020-01-05T04:34:29+00:00

She never "unmatches" with guys because she does not want to ever talk to you again. And if she unmatched you'll reenter circulation and potentially be back on her swipe page down the road. She says all her friends do this.

This sounds like BS lol. Tinder doesn’t match you with the same people you unmatched. They don’t re-enter any circulation.

The reason is likely the reason I’ve heard from other girls: validation boost. They keep the matches to look and think “oooh I’m so hot!”

That shit is pure ego.

pngmafia97 · 2020-01-05T00:49:26+00:00

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SlashCo80 · 2020-01-05T06:03:27+00:00

She has 99+ super likes in her queue.

She has gone on 5 dates for the past 100 swipe right conversations. 1 of those 5 turned into a boyfriend that ended recently.

When I asked her, "why not read a little bit of the bio to color your understanding of the guy? Before swiping left" She answered, "there are so many guys I can replace you so easily that it's totally unnecessary."

And why are women so spoiled for choice? Because of the epidemic of desperately thirsty fuckbois flooding dating sites and social media to hit on anything that moves. Anyone would do the same in her place.

NPC55 · 2020-01-05T00:55:48+00:00

OLD works for me and I know for a fact i'm not attractive. Literally met with a girl from OLD yesterday.

For full disclosure: I work in tech in San Francisco and do quite well even by Bay Area standards. I do not show this at all though IRL, but I do think it still makes a difference that not everyone can replicate. I am not naive. But based on what I hear this doesn't mean a whole lot for OLD. One meme I disagree with is that OLD doesn't work for average guys. If you are average, AND you have good pics, AND have have a great bio, AND you are a good conversationalist, odds are that you will have some success. No guarantee, and it might not be a ton, but you can have some success imo.

2020-01-05T00:57:41+00:00

Sounds like the profile bit could be compiled by if nothing else paying a service maybe a hundred bucks to take some fetching photos lol

Boy have I got a business idea

jackandjill22 · 2020-01-05T03:13:15+00:00

Grek27 · 2020-01-05T04:33:31+00:00

Women don't get most of the "high" value guys who online date only want to PnD, if they didn't they'd just settle with any of the chicks they can snag irl. The only real chance for LTRs for chicks who online date isn't to date the best but most are too dense to see this.

WOLFofwallstrYEET · 2020-01-05T02:13:36+00:00

This is bs I pulled lots of dates when I was on tinder and my first photo is just a dumb selfie.

wtknight · 2020-01-05T03:41:56+00:00

She's currently actively chatting and considering ONE single guy on tinder. I can honestly say hes a 10/10 Chad. 6 foot 3 and ripped. I was stunned. She says they're "really clicking."

If she's only a 7 like you say she's likely either going to be plated or pumped and dumped. If this is what women like her want than good for them but she's likely not going to find a monogamous relationship off of tinder if her swipe pattern is what you describe. Average guys who want relationships, with some work, can eventually find women who don't use tinder and who want one. Average guys who want casual sex probably shouldn't use tinder and should try hitting on women in person.

diffdedbed · 2020-01-05T02:29:45+00:00

There's this one girl I know, who is a cute little blonde thing who really likes fat guys.

Sooo give it up guys, eat until you burst.

xXxINCELFAGGOTxXx · 2020-01-05T04:43:24+00:00

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TwentyX4 · 2020-01-05T06:04:06+00:00

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Kagemand · 2020-01-05T06:34:53+00:00

So the winning pic is one where you show abs?

I’m sure a fair share of women would also swipe left if you do this.

acron5n5 · 2020-01-05T07:57:31+00:00

What a great observation, never thought about it OP, you gotta publish this as a study /s

If she's really 7 it means she's only a stap below model-tier. Are you sure every girl isn't a goddess in your eyes? A true revelation is seeing a 3 having hundreds of options from slightly above average to really good-looking guys (though not in 2020 when everyone already knows this)

PMmeYourHopes-Dreams · 2020-01-05T02:25:37+00:00

Why does your roommate hangout with mentally ill people?

dylang92 · 2020-01-05T06:24:25+00:00

We already knew this.

Mr_Crick84 · 2020-01-05T07:26:17+00:00

I think the real take away from this is just how many options women have nowadays - Even an 3/10 female has unlimited options, This is what makes me not trust being in a relationship

GrievenLeague · 2020-01-05T09:15:04+00:00

That's why you go for 18 - 25 year olds. The Wall is a thing not physically but mentally, because 27 year old girls that are not married are generally jaded and want top top percentage.

PS: I guarantee you that your friend is not a 7, lel.

theoracleofosiris · 2020-01-05T11:10:55+00:00

Came to the same conclusion when I posed as a 7/10 22 year old woman (I’m a dude btw). Every swipe right was a match. Every match was a message. Every message was a guy offering to buy me dinner. Some messages were PUAs trying to game, I just ignored them and they lost frame so easily. If they stuck to their guns and never messaged me again, I wouldn’t have noticed because RIP my inbox.

I even matched with some guys I knew irl on the acquaintance level. Funny shit. What they say they do when dealing with ice queens and what they actually do when dealing with one is so different. Too many men are pussybeggars out there and the ones who are not don’t get noticed and fall by the wayside.

My conclusion: don’t bother with it if you’re a male, under 7/10, under 6 feet and not living a conspicuously affluent lifestyle.

Try it for yourselves and see. I had 2 pictures and no bio.

Title	Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profiles
Author	G77R23D
Upvotes	136
Comments	264
Date	January 5, 2020 12:47 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ek5eog/fellas_hang_it_up_and_delete_your_online_dating/
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