Some points raised in the other thread:
Some people felt it was "unrealistic" to hold out for a man who doesn't watch porn. But you could say the same thing about wanting a virgin bride.
Some people observed that aversion to porn is "rooted in insecurity". But you could say the same thing about wanting to marry a virgin.
Some people described porn aversion as "unreasonable". But isn't it unreasonable to expect an adult human woman never to have explored her own sexuality?
These are equivalent mating strategies. They both reduce the quantity of your prospects, but ultimately increase the quality and compatibility of your prospects.
Discuss.
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Are people wanting virgin brides that common here? I've personally come across the porn aversion argument in PPD but I've yet to see the virgin bride argument. Is that really a normal argument or is that an outlier?
What's interesting is that men tend to be aroused by visual stimuli more so than women. They've measured this stuff in experiments. So the porn aversion seems to be particularly anti-male as two masculine traits are higher sex drive than women typically and the aforementioned visual arousal propensity.
Holding out for a virgin bride (which is weird and I'm curious if people actually make that argument seriously) I suppose could be anti-female as it punishes women who are comfortable with their sexuality.
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