Who does PPD attract?

Orange_Paisley · 2021-09-29T19:44:15+00:00

There was a demographics survey not too long ago, but I am too lazy to look for it right now.

ToughAnswers · 2021-09-29T19:40:06+00:00

People who like to anonymously write in complete sentences to total strangers

silverface-mt05 · 2021-09-29T20:40:16+00:00

This subreddit has the potential to reestablish some trust between the sexes through venting, discourse & polite disagreement.

Sure, most of the userbase here are suspicious with what they want to get out of it, but sometimes common dating issues lead to mutual agreement on the causes & solutions for it.

Once enough trust is established, then it is possible to start turning the current zero-sum understanding of the sexual marketplace into something less miserable for those involved.

mackenzie013_02 · 2021-09-29T20:09:41+00:00

I’m a woman. I’m here because I find I live in a bubble that thinks very “one-directional”. So it’s enlightening to learn how other people perceive the world. I enjoy reading comments that challenge some beliefs and I like to force myself to think outside of my own convictions.

There’s a few people on here that have the opposite view from me, but I always enjoy reading their comments, as they tend to elaborate and support their points very well.

That said, I think I’m spending too much time on the internet since I got injured this summer and couldn’t do much 😂 lol

Playful_Art_5364 · 2021-09-29T21:38:21+00:00

I just like to argue things

JadooGrr · 2021-09-29T21:47:39+00:00

I’m 17 and I’m looking to see both the women and men’s side. Lost my shit when I was browsing FDS a while back FUCK, ditto of Red pill

LiftSushiDallas · 2021-09-29T20:00:24+00:00

The only reason I'm in this sub is I'm FASCINATED by sexual marketplace, gender dynamics, modern dating, etc.

I am attractive and fit and never had issues getting the types of men I wanted when single and I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years. I like the current sexual marketplace because it's always treated me well.

I'm here just for discussions. My life is perfect and I have no angst!

spinsterchachkies · 2021-09-29T20:01:08+00:00

Boredom

philomexa · 2021-09-29T20:00:05+00:00

Autism.

luliloo · 2021-09-29T20:51:28+00:00

I learned about TRP recently and I don’t have real life friends to talk about it with so I came here.

Ppdebateismental · 2021-09-29T20:51:51+00:00

I post when it rains. Mostly from the bathtub.

LittyKitsune · 2021-09-29T20:40:43+00:00

People who would like to argue without constantly getting cockblocked by mods left and right.

Of course that also happens on this sub, but compared to the average subreddit you can get away with a lot more.

ShinyBronze · 2021-09-29T21:37:48+00:00

Because the current dating market is plagued with a lot of stressed, lonely and frustrated people and many of the things they say will be censored on other platforms like r/dating, so this platform allows us to speak our minds… unless it has to do with race. That censorship is lame.

Rosifer433d · 2021-09-29T22:04:22+00:00

Sometimes I look at Tom Brady, Leo Messi, Lebron James, Chris Hemsworth, Cristiano Ronaldo, men who have achieved so much and have secured their place as one of the immortals, and I am so far behind them, and then I come to PPD and I realize that I'm one of the most normal, healthy, and well-adjusted dudes in our society LMAO.

I use PPD to feel better about myself xoxoxo.

oh, and my sisters inherited my mother's looks, who was a fashion model, and since they are in their teens and their early 20s, they have all sorts of weirdos from all age groups, so I read PPD and send them links to the threads and comments that I find to be the most mentally ill, as a way for my sisters to learn how to recognize red pillers and black pillers out there in the wild.

John_Oakman · 2021-09-29T19:44:43+00:00

People who had suffered through [seemingly gender specific] hardships. Most of the women here had extreme negative experiences with men in their past, and most of the males are extremely stunted so far as their emotional maturity is concerned due to life experiences.

Another potential commonality is that most of them have a rather heightened form of self interest, or at least seeing making sacrifices for the greater good of society something for suckers.

NiceGuyNumber4 · 2021-09-29T19:52:04+00:00

Stubborn and argumentative. Throw in arrogant and an unholy combination of both educated and ignorant.

Mostly decent folk, though.

AnnoKano · 2021-09-29T21:43:17+00:00

I like a laugh.

CrazyBaby8891 · 2021-09-29T21:46:43+00:00

From what I've seen, many bitter people who are (understandably) frustrated with the current dating climate (which is honestly an ever-devolving dumpsterfire) and trying to cope and figure out solutions for themselves, with most of them doing so in unhealthy ways. Me though? I'm here for the interesting topics of discussion, to help where I can and generally offer a balanced perspective and a glimmer of hope (to show that NAWALT and NAMALT and that both men and women can do and expect better in relationships) since so many here trend toward extremist thinking about the opposite sex which only adds to their and others' woes and continues to fuel the battle of the sexes and the dumpsterfire in general, but I like to try understanding others' perspectives too on some level even if I disagree with them. There are other people like myself here too, but I don't think we're the majority since this sub was probably created above all as an outlet for venting about one's own experiences regarding the piss-poor state of romantic/sexual relationships these days.

jbo99 · 2021-09-29T21:48:16+00:00

Desperate guys seeking answers

PeskyHijinks · 2021-09-29T22:21:44+00:00

It attracted me for some reason (older than average reddit user guy here with a LTR, basically married without the paperwork). I just can't shake this place. I would like to think I'm pretty even keeled and pretty reasonable. But, you know, I'm likely just as crazy haha.

vanilla__chai · 2021-09-30T01:50:34+00:00

I am literally just on here to laugh at how out of touch with reality most everybody here is. And while I do enjoy the occasional FDS post, I have pretty major disagreements with them too.

lulll · 2021-09-29T19:54:15+00:00

we're all pricks

betabucks666 · 2021-09-29T19:57:27+00:00

troubled people

junk_mail_haver · 2021-09-29T20:36:46+00:00

Edgy people who have heads in the cloud

Matt_Door · 2021-09-29T22:13:34+00:00

I’m just here to confirm all the worst thoughts about myself

Superfluous_Toast · 2021-09-29T23:02:01+00:00

People who can't help but shout into the void despite knowing it's pointless.

impuls1veLOL · 2021-09-30T03:47:14+00:00

People that like to argue

Flat_Plane_V8 · 2021-09-30T08:42:28+00:00

incel men
near incel men (lower normies)
High functioning autists (had their autism diagnosed when very young)
men with Asperger's syndrome (had their autism diagnosed as adult)
Former Chadlites
Femcel women
FDS women who want betabuxx without having sex (finessing)
women who have been burned by Chads and want to punish betas and incels for that
post wall Staceylites
cool wine aunt
women who failed to get married and have kids by 35

Basically if you are on this sub, something is very wrong with you. (Take me for instance diagnosed severe Asperger's Syndrome)

Mark_Freed · 2021-09-30T09:41:01+00:00

Autism, simps, some personality or looks problem that causes problems in the guy's dating life, they are confused and wonder what they are doing wrong.

or it could be just curiousity about this pill stuff they hear on tiktok, youtube and they arrived at ppd trying to understand and stayed cause they found the trolling and jokes fun on ppd. This group usually is rich and has a lot of free time.

People who like to think very explicitly and write long sentences elaborating their thought process to strangers who don't really care. These people like the process of writing and giving form to their thoughts rather than really communicating.

People who are red-pilled and don't want to be stuck in an echo chamber pick ppd as a place to challenge their own beliefs and ensure they stay on their toes. These guys are usually contrarians who enjoy playing devil's advocate and debating. I read somewhere that the people who take up MRA are not really affected by these issues, it is just that feminists are more fun to debate compared to religious nuts. - https://web.archive.org/web/20180914120809/http://www.the1585.com/menwithoutparties.html

I know 0 girls irl who are into this pill stuff. So I struggle to understand their motivation. Any guy who is into this stuff falls into one of the above categories afaik.

pink-summer-sky · 2021-09-30T14:18:13+00:00

I'm an engaged woman in my 30s, completely fascinated by sex and dating, and working as a social psych researcher who focuses on intimate relationship dynamics & gender. I come here because it is beyond fascinating to read and engage with the thoughts on sex, dating, and gender issues outside of structured research.

vial_of_music · 2021-09-30T14:22:31+00:00

I am a women and am just really interested in dating and relationships in general and it’s fascinating hearing everyone’s perspectives

jiimmyyy · 2021-09-29T20:54:24+00:00

I'm here to shit all over people who think of themselves as "red pilled" and laugh at their entire ill-informed philosophy. It's just easy pickings. I like to argue with people, and red-pilled people are just low hanging fruit.

midwestufohunter · 2021-09-29T22:15:19+00:00

Narcissistic men and other men who have been duped by them. Women who have healed from narc abuse and women who are in denial about narc abuse.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-09-29T22:19:33+00:00

People who are highly disagreeable like myself

cowabungus12345 · 2021-09-29T22:51:38+00:00

I like getting to the truth, and I mean the cold hard truth personally coming from redpill background, I hate liars, and certaintly wont tolerate my women I date to lie, or its out the door.

What are traits that the user’s of PPD share that they find themselves investing in this subreddit?

Being a lurker for almost a full year now, and a poster till recently, I see a lot of mixed bags.

I see a lot of feminists from FDS that don't know any better.

On the other spectrum:

I see a lot of people that conflict in general with what they percieve as ''reality''coming from their life experiences/morales/standards/preferences etc etc...

-One of my biggest pet peeves on this sub is the general lack of knowledge/research that people don't often do. For example you mention Redpill, everyone assumes your some type of incel ready to strike with vengeance for you own short-comings, when the truth is the complete opposite. Ive seen plenty of women using emotion in debates rather then evidence to support their claims and seem to put everything in the same bag, done and dusted mentality so to speak...

-A general mis-understanding from a lot of folks on PPD from time to time in the comment section as mentioned above example...

-Although I must praise when people use stats/researchs/links to make their debate/argument its a good sight to see, we can always agree to disagree to...

I guess personally, I like this sub becuase it attracts everyone regardless of views, blue/red/fds/manosphere in general/ etc etc.. to come to somewhat of an agreement and/or general view of our current struggles and dating scene.

iamthemovie1992 · 2021-09-29T23:55:11+00:00

Mostly autistic people like TRP.

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TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-29T20:36:34+00:00

^The ^gae

AreOut · 2021-09-29T21:05:01+00:00

Confused people.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-09-29T21:12:36+00:00

Argumentative people basically, it's a good they're all here otherwise the "normies" of the world would suffer lol.

gangweedsavedme · 2021-09-29T22:41:11+00:00

People that are willing to hear two sides of an argument and argue in good faith

Chaos_and_Horny · 2021-09-30T02:56:13+00:00

Near incel that dont want mysoginism and has hopes. This is a place where I find it comfy because I know there are women reading what males have to complain about without living in a world of delusion of 'women are wonderful effect' which I believe is the majority. However, misoginy here is not THAT wild, but it exists very much.

CFinCanada · 2021-09-30T03:23:52+00:00

I love social science and never met a sociological study that didn't fascinate me.

I also came here to defend my gender.

I also like that you can say what you really think the reasons are for certain sociological phenomena and not get too badly censored. It's better than gestapo-book, anyway.

TheStr8Dope · 2021-09-30T03:37:07+00:00

I arrived here from the smoldering ashes of brain cells and never left. This place is definitely the most productive in terms of discussion. It’s honestly a lot more chill here than it used to be.

superlurkage · 2021-09-30T03:37:39+00:00

Boredomtine

Lonelybuthopeful9 · 2021-09-30T04:59:34+00:00

Me 🥵🥵🥵

DerekMorganBAU · 2021-09-30T05:37:10+00:00

I just wanna fuck a PPD hoe

shepskybuddy · 2021-09-30T08:22:27+00:00

Purely curiosity I saw posts about RP and MGTOW and things like that and had never heard of it before so I have been looking at different forums on it. None relevant to me but always good to look at how other perspectives are formed

Prismatic_Symphony · 2021-09-30T10:28:04+00:00

Curiosity. Fascination about what makes people tick. A love of reading. I stumbled on this subreddit by accident but found it highly intriguing, and my IRL friends would be afraid to discuss these things. So I come back now and then to read perspectives, article links, and to share.

S0mnariumx · 2021-09-30T11:09:43+00:00

I don't ascribe to any pill beliefs but I like watching people argue.

ass-thetics · 2021-09-30T12:07:21+00:00

As a man who's had success with both blue pill abd red pill views. Although the red pill works better...

moosemc · 2021-09-30T12:25:43+00:00

Teenage boys, and the grown up women, who want to talk to them about the porn they're watching.

Eat_Your_Paisley · 2021-09-30T13:36:43+00:00

I like to laugh at the guys here who whine, cry, and justify

chdvtt · 2021-10-01T02:46:47+00:00

The people who look for and think about this shit daily are a entirely different demographic than people who just fall into it and are here for shits and giggles. Some people take this whole idea of relationship theory and think too hard about it. This sub has asked the same questions so many times that we can almost make a conclusion and general consensus thread on all questions anybody could ask here. It’s recycled content.

Kyonkanno · 2021-09-29T23:43:21+00:00

Any closed minded person who thinks they hold the absolute truth.

catsinbananahats · 2021-09-30T01:51:05+00:00

Probably introversion

Title	Who does PPD attract?
Author	throwthatmfaway
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Comments	141
Date	September 29, 2021 7:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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