Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit?

DeliciousPussyNectar · 2021-12-06T13:21:51+00:00

That even on the internet, everybody lies.

OwnerAndMaster · 2021-12-06T14:26:26+00:00

This sub? Nah. Everything's about as expected. Nobody changes their mind about anything so it's basically a population study of who reads each thread. If more redpills read a thread my comments get upped, if more bluepills read a thread my comments get downed

Edit: I did have the opportunity to learn that FDSers are trash at debating when they can't ban opposing viewpoints, as they're trash in all things. Probably why they preemptively ban all members from subs that can remotely have a dissenting view from their party line

VTHokie2020 · 2021-12-06T13:50:54+00:00

Yes. I like ideas in general and while not as addicting as stuff like partisan politics, it's fun to 'discuss' gender as sort of a sub-genre of it. Especially because unlike politics, gender has its application irl.

The important thing is that there is fruitful debate without the pressure of being politically correct/taboo. If you browse TRP or the manosphere forums you'll run into some of the most retarded takes ever, many of which were clearly typed up to be purposefully edgy. On the other hand, if you browse TBP or AITA or /r/relationship_advice, or the rest of reddit, you'll find some stuff that people only say because it's 'right'. The worst I've seen here is people making passive aggressive comments against the "other" flairs.

Having said that, the limitation of this sub is that anyone can post. It's sort of like reading opinion pieces. Maybe you'll find an interesting take on substack, because maybe the person writing it isn't invested in writing columns as a career choice and is therefore uninhibited. Having said that, the reason why a regular at the New York Times, or the Wall Street Journal is more "respected" is because they go through a rigorous editing process, so their ideas tend to be more insightful even if slightly disconnected from the "average person".

I don't know if the person writing their experiences here are salty teenagers who came across impressionable ideas, or if they're Harvey Mansfield writing about the gender-less society. Either way, I disagree with that post that Reddit isn't useful. It is, because you get to interact with others on subs dedicated to niche things. You do indeed learn shit on this website, but you have to look for it.

ricar426 · 2021-12-06T14:25:23+00:00

Americans compartimentalize too much and get out too little and then create those hard and fast outlooks on the other gender and dating.
Things are far more nuanced than "red" and "blue" pill. Men and women are pretty equal in their selfishness and longing for relationships, the differences in social expectations and pregnancy risks make up for behavorial distinctions. One should better itself for one's sake, and LTRs should add to that, not fill some void.

Also, y'all need to focus on foreplay and sex for the fun of it, the way you talk about sex is kinda disheartening.

Brazilian here, by the way.

O-j-O · 2021-12-06T12:49:19+00:00

I was hanging out on r/TheRedPill and /r/asktrp but those places were missing the opposing view aka view of the women on all this, this sub has plenty of women and hence the red pill claims can be challenged. Which makes this more fun.

What have I learnt?

After seeing both sides battling it out for so long, I think the broader message of The Red Pill is true and I have seen women begrudgingly agree to it. Your height, looks, musculature, dick size, income, education, race, social class, they all matter and it doesn't hurt one bit to score high in each category. But like most people, you will be lacking in several of them and that doesn't mean abject gloom, it means you'll have a smaller pool to select from, lesser margin of error and consequently fail more often.

HuckleberryThis2012 · 2021-12-06T11:43:19+00:00

No more or less valuable than watching TV or playing video games.

rredirt · 2021-12-06T11:56:33+00:00

Only people with six figures can have happiness The rest is drug addicts lol

TryLambda · 2021-12-06T14:08:29+00:00

Hell yeah, MGTOW saves lives, literally!!!

captainquestionasker · 2021-12-06T12:04:28+00:00

I learned women care more about personality than looks, which was such a relief because I'd spent the previous 20 years of my life observing women exclusively lusting after tall, good looking men. Can't wait to trade my resources for marriage with a 30+-year-old woman. I'm sure it will be mutually rewarding.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-06T17:32:24+00:00

This is easily the funniest sub on this site.

Some of you guys are hilarious

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2021-12-06T13:28:39+00:00

That men and women are often blind to one anothers struggles to such a painful degree. People are selfish.

Maxarc · 2021-12-06T13:46:16+00:00

I like to observe in what ways people generalize and point fingers.

gunbusterxl · 2021-12-06T11:44:35+00:00

I've learned that almost all the arguments on this sub only apply to OLD or dating perfect strangers, where people are pretty much interchangeable. That tells me that most members don't really have a social circle. As to be expected from Reddit.

Creation_Soul · 2021-12-06T11:46:09+00:00

I learned that I am really privileged with my social group. Basically my social group contains zero single mothers, over 90% are in LTRs or married, I know of only 1 divorce (and it's from a coworker).

Stoic_WillToPower · 2021-12-06T12:23:59+00:00

My father had early onset Alzheimers and dementia. I engage only in Reddit social media to have conversations, debate, and learn new things. Those debates and conversations will hopefully help keep my brain engaged and up-to-date on current events and information. Unlike the news, Reddit has better conversations.

As far as a takeaway I don’t think men and women are as compatible in the modern world as they were in the old world. I see less of a reason for anyone to get married. Unless two people plan on having children and making a go at cohabitating and parenting then marriage is pretty useless. Without marriage most long term relationships are pointless. If I have more issues getting out a business partnership than breaking up with the person I am having sex with then the relationship is pretty pointless.

I think that as people age and have deteriorating physical and mental health that there will be more loneliness and that quality of life will be worse. What is the end game without marriage? Without children?

You better have excellent insurance and a solid retirement because eventually you will be old and dealing with the hard part of life.

I think men will embrace synthetic companions. I think that synthetic companions will fit a need that society never knew it had. It will essentially be hacking or gaming our evolutionary desires, needs, and motivations. The person that makes a pretty good synthetic companion will be wealthier than Musk and Bezos.

Men are hardwired to provide and seek validation. They wont have an issue going into 20 year loans for a synthetic companion that costs almost as much as a house on the high end.

Will it be perfect? No

But it will fill a need. Men are far more simpler as far as their evolutionary needs so this will work for them where it largely wont for women.

sarkington · 2021-12-06T15:30:00+00:00

No, I’m just sad that some kids are “learning” things from here

Notanothrshitthrow · 2021-12-06T12:00:04+00:00

That people will go to extreme lengths to justify hatred/bitterness towards the opposite sex with pseudo-science and massive jumps in logic.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-12-06T14:14:45+00:00

That men and women cannot discuss intersexual dynamics in any real, meaningful way.

That women are MUCH MUCH less empathetic than they'd like everyone to believe.

That women are not the caring, nurturing gender.

That women are not romantics at all.

DesperateTraffic3164 · 2021-12-06T15:24:03+00:00

I've learned a lot. There a lot of intellectual masturbators and angry people who just want to argue in bad faith here, but I've had multiple discussions that legitimately changed the way I saw things and helped me flesh out my perspective more.

If you aren't getting anything useful here, I really don't know why people stick around. Is it masochism?

Exciting-Necessary-5 · 2021-12-06T16:20:37+00:00

I've learned a lot from this sub, but the most recent thing that I've learned and am fully convinced off, based on the comments and stories I read here:

Women will ALWAYS have it better in the realm of relationships/companionships.

For men, particularly the men who are average and below, learning to exist with being eternally single/unloved/undesired is crucial to living in the modern age, as depressing as it may sound.

Edit: these men should also instead turn their energy to themselves and build themselves up, which is already a red pill tenet. Atleast take your frustrations out on women when your rich and successful lmao.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-06T12:51:05+00:00

Mostly that most people want others to be responsible for their problems. They want to depend on others to make them feel good about themselves which is a recipe for failure.

Ecocavalry · 2021-12-06T20:18:49+00:00

Women on this sub and reddit in general are incapable of painful self reflection and introspection.

That i shouldn't pedestalize introverted women, they are just as dumb and egoistic, but with none of the warmth of an extroverted woman.

Women don't have empathy for men in general. They engage in performative empathy.

Serial monogamy is the default for most women.

Preselection and status is the king with women. They like a man only because other women like him.

Female hive mind is real. Most women are capped at 120-125 IQ. They bring forward no interesting insight, or just play devils advocate to see how it goes, it's completely useless debating them. Even basic sarcasm or trolling is hard for them. GPT 3 would be a better conversationalist.

Women see men as success and utility objects.

Women are not romantic. They like being the objects of romance.

There is no place for unpleasant honesty in female communication. They care too much about social capital.

Character or stoicism are unsexy traits for women, it is a desirable trait if she sees you as an utility object, flamboyance, attention seeking and loud behavior(see dancing monkey) serve men better than old school masculine behavior.

Men are slaves to their libido. Men are disgusting and will eat shit if it got them sex.

Anytime a sub has a decent number of 30+ women, it will go to shit.

Deception, lying and manipulation are second nature to women. Lying by omission is not even considered lying. But they mostly suffer when they meet their match in men who are narcissists, sociopaths and addicts.

Blue pill men need women around or no one would take their opinions seriously.

Female sexuality is fickle and full of contradictions.

Tone>>>>>>>>Content for women.

Mark_Freed · 2021-12-06T15:09:02+00:00

I changed my mind, I learned lots of stuff. William made great connections. I think debates are mostly for fun and to check if I can defend my beliefs. Learning happens from other people's comments.

The most useful stuff I learned is from trp, in ppd the best thing I learned was the limitations of trp. The kind of guys it attracts, the hypocrisy and unhelpful masochistic tendencies.

The most concrete useful thing is

It is a huge misunderstanding that you should act in a way to avoid making the person you like to feel any negative emotion due to you. You need not aim to always make them happy and avoid discomfort. In fact, if you want them to feel attraction towards you should provoke both negative and positive emotions in them. But this is not to mean you aim for the emotion, the emotion should come as a natural side effect of you being authentic, having a backbone, calling her out, caring about her, etc.

I think I still have this instinct where if I want someone to like me, I want them to only feel positive emotions due to any action I take, this can cause a lot of problems down the line.

nothatyoucare · 2021-12-06T16:03:49+00:00

I've learned a lot from this subreddit to be honest. Its taught me some common arguments and strawman fallacies and how to counteract them.

UnIntelligent_Local · 2021-12-06T16:21:13+00:00

That the sexes cannot comprehend the other's experiences... And often don't even try to.

Flat_Plane_V8 · 2021-12-06T16:37:36+00:00

yes, how women approach casual sex...The honest answers from women were surprisingly to the point

AnnoKano · 2021-12-06T18:00:36+00:00

I have learned that there is a sizable group of men who unironically believe they understand women better than women themselves.

DzejSiDi · 2021-12-06T18:59:37+00:00

How prevalent is following fallacy:

Create a stupid mental image of X

Evaluate it

"Oh no, it's retarded"

Therefore, X is stupid, I have no idea how someone would belive it.

I do wonder how many times I act unknowingly in similar way.

TrueStorms · 2021-12-06T20:48:00+00:00

I’ve learned how incredibly lucky I am to have avoided…all this…in my romantic life.

LackOf_Empathy · 2021-12-06T12:27:40+00:00

I've become aware that unfortunately, Blue Pill men will have to learn it the hard way that what they have been raised to believe isn't how reality operates.

UnfairConcern3849 · 2021-12-06T14:11:51+00:00

Women lie about everything from the number of men they've slept with to what they're actually attracted to. Deceit and manipulation are a woman's forte

omegajelly200 · 2021-12-06T14:17:09+00:00

I learned a lot of cultural insights considering that the majority of the reddit readership are from the Anglosphere.

This whole SAHMing thing is such a fad in the Anglosphere, and the fetishization of Asian and Eastern European countries as SAHM heavens, oh boy...where do I even begin...

I guess the grass really is greener on the other side. Oh if only they can see that single income families tend to be economically destitute and broken here in Asia...you'd be incredibly reckless and stupid to have only one breadwinner in Asia especially with the pandemic constantly fucking everyone over. The ones that survived Covid-19 tended to have close-knit families that all worked and pooled their money together.

Imagine being too proud to expect your wife to contribute, and not even that, not wanting to accept help from your parents, siblings and relatives either. That's so typically Anglospherical where the husband is the nexus of the family and no one else.

ohheyhi99 · 2021-12-06T14:19:36+00:00

I learned that women’s attraction is much more like men’s that many people of either sex understand or want to admit.

odd_cloud · 2021-12-06T13:51:09+00:00

That the basic principles of the rp are right to a degree. First, some women say rp-ish things here. Second, I haven't seen strong arguments against the rp. Too often these arguments are just "you're misogynist". Few people bother to describe what's specifically wrong with rp or what the alternative is.

Also, I learned that for some women it is misogyny if a man thinks about women.

KamuiObito · 2021-12-06T18:17:15+00:00

Women like ppl that are better then them

FlicksterTrickster · 2021-12-06T16:13:56+00:00

Women have only three tactics: straw man fallacies, anecdotal evidence, and personal attacks.

Oh and mod removals for if you get too close to the truth.

Insidious-Sid · 2021-12-06T17:41:02+00:00

That despite all of the goal-post moving, excuse making, and justifying, everything Red Pill says is essentially true.

And that men, in general, have decided that doubling down on simping and pandering to women is the order of the day.

Coming here has cemented my views on women and relationships 1000%. There is no going back now.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-12-06T16:12:37+00:00

No not really, I learned that there's more "pills" outside of red and blue and that it gets into some pretty weird territory that I don't care about lol

But outside of that it's really just been further confirmation of shit that I've already known /seen/ experienced

Aclopolipse · 2021-12-06T16:15:51+00:00

This sub has definitely done more in the past 3 months to affirm my gender identity than anything else. The experiences of many of the men here are alien to me.

Lotus_82 · 2021-12-06T16:25:21+00:00

That’s there’s a whole lot of guys out there who are really unsuccessful with women and who really want women to lower their standards.

I’m fortunate enough to do pretty well for myself in terms of dating / sex life but I don’t want a woman to lower her standards for me. On the contrary.

I detest “average”, and it’s a word that I don’t want my name associated with, and I let that guide my actions on a daily basis in work, romance, friendship and all standards I set for myself.

throwawaybear61 · 2021-12-06T16:36:17+00:00

Nothing from this sub. There are subs that are helpful and useful however.

CyJackX · 2021-12-06T16:49:14+00:00

How insular a microcosm of reality this subreddit is.

I call it visiting the zoo.

CollapseEnjoyer · 2021-12-06T17:29:58+00:00

Well idk about this one specifically but browsing social media, incel, mgtow, radfem, feminist spheres and social media in general is gender relations are going down the drain in Western societies. Maybe we've had similar times like this in the past but with our level of technology I think gender relations have never been worse

Fiestygirl000 · 2021-12-06T18:21:11+00:00

This sub has taught me how easy it is to manipulate men , and how to tell them the perfect lies.

ThatGirl50 · 2021-12-06T19:13:45+00:00

I had sex. Which this sub Reddit thinks women don’t do unless coerced or a slut

JediGuitarist · 2021-12-06T21:55:05+00:00

There are a lot of people who need to spend even a fraction of the time that they do on Reddit, in therapy.
And I don't mean that as an insult.
A lot of the people I see posting here are obviously being fettered by some unresolved past trauma that basically consumes their entire lives and how they think about an entire gender. They need help, they're not getting it, and I feel bad about that.
On a more personal level, I've had the notion painfully rammed home that whatever it is women want, I'm not it and never will be no matter how much money I make, weight I lose, hobbies I take up, or anything else that the people here swear up and down means I should have it "easy". For some reason either I'm so uniquely horrible that the rules don't apply to me, or I'm so detached from reality that nothing I perceive is actually as I perceive it. When you have two people in as many weeks tell you that you're the most interesting person they've ever met and you still can't get laid... Guess that's why I WMOW.

Fickle_Razzmatazz392 · 2021-12-06T22:43:34+00:00

Yes. The Red Pill community is right

Devourer_of_felines · 2021-12-06T23:24:12+00:00

“Rules for thee but not for me” is a universal trait

Shredddz · 2021-12-06T13:55:13+00:00

I was shocked to read that women can have romantic interests without being sexually attracted. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint because their orgasm isnt needed for reproduction and they need resources from men to survive regardless of his attractiveness, but it also solidifies that a larger proportion of men than women will never be sexually desired, while the other side of it is that a higher proportion of women than men will never be romantically desired. Its truly a hard pill to swallow. the majority of people will have to make a deal and accept that to be the case and take the best they can, meaning many man and women can never have these respective needs met simultaneously in a relationship and either accept it or be alone and suffer.

Ryanmp99 · 2021-12-06T14:38:36+00:00

Women frequently complain that some men only want sex. A wise man once said “I only want sex if that’s all you have to offer”. This has never been my thing and I wouldn’t want anything to do with a woman who had no qualities other than sex. However I’ve learned that some men do follow this statement. Women would be well-advised that if they have nothing to offer except sex and a shitty attitude, many men will want nothing to do with them and the rest will just take the only thing they’re offering.

SweetChocolate02 · 2021-12-06T18:02:11+00:00

I learned to not get married lol. I mean I never wanted to but after reading how women cheat or why they cheat or the idea of open relationships has confirmed a lot of the teachings about the red pill. Open relationship? No thank you. Open situationship? Bet

DiamondLilyD · 2021-12-06T14:20:38+00:00

I trust men a lot less, I stay away from them more.

I really dislike autists more now as well.

FlyingKite1234 · 2021-12-06T11:57:18+00:00

Yup.

Some men are fucked in the head and a few degrees of separation from justifying acts of violence and a few more from carrying it out. This place facilitates that journey.

NarniaFox · 2021-12-06T12:23:04+00:00

I've become more aware about men's issues.

And I've become aware of the fact that the ways people justify their bigotry are almost universal among different cultures and countries with some slight differences. I find it really amusing.

Also that I'm even luckier than I thought I was and I should be really appreciative towards my partner, because it seems that even in the West it can be hard to find an egalitarian man with similar beliefs. Although I get that this place is terrible for making any generalizations about all men.

darkredpintobeans · 2021-12-06T13:51:09+00:00

When the app was down for a while a few weeks back, I was getting way more shit done. I should delete this app and my Facebook too last time I got laid google started giving me ads for pregnancy tests the next morning shit freaks me out listening like that.

EraOfNothingness · 2021-12-06T17:02:01+00:00

The only thing I've learned tbh is to sympathize with women and point out men's stupidity sometimes. This hasn't changed my dating life or my situation but has helped me come to terms to be less angry with women in general. I no longer blame them for not wanting to date me. I understand they have there own hardships as well.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-12-06T16:04:08+00:00

Mostly that a good chunk of red pillers are absolutely terrible people.

shockedpikachu123 · 2021-12-06T13:33:40+00:00

Women are tired of being used for sex and men are tired of being used for money. So women enters dating being in their masculine and men enter the dating world in their feminine. Now men seek women who will go 50/50 with them or even pay for them.

Derman0524 · 2021-12-06T14:57:03+00:00

I have! That there’s way more men in here that have never talked to women before that I thought. Almost all your problems and ideas about the opposite gender would be fixed if you spoke to the other gender a few times here and there lol

throwthatmfaway · 2021-12-06T12:46:39+00:00

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Throwaway18077 · 2021-12-06T18:27:51+00:00

Yes. That gender stereotypes are pushed by angry lonely people to help them cope with reality.

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SonicBackScratcher · 2021-12-06T15:19:06+00:00

For me its pure entertainment, like this is a very slow morning for me so here I am.

But.. I like to keep up with the trends and such and there has been some value to it when I see a young man come into my office obsessing about his looks (and not gay, gay men have always done this), asking me about Mewling or the like I know their mindset and neuroticism. I can approach it not from a "no what the fuck is that nonsense" standpoint to a more sympathetic one knowing that going head on isn't going to help them get over their blackpill issues.

Basically in a tiny way this sub made me a better doctor.

Zcuzz · 2021-12-06T18:13:06+00:00

The only thing I've learned is everything I thought going into this sub was in fact true.

dbz19 · 2021-12-06T19:14:40+00:00

OneAngryBlutbad · 2021-12-06T21:08:25+00:00

Haven’t really learned anything from this sub at all. Besides extra bullshit and seeing first hand how insecure and bitter people are so maybe I did learn something.

chalkandapples · 2021-12-06T23:13:10+00:00

I got to hear many different perspectives, which is interesting. I have had a couple of times where I discussed certain topics in depth with some people, and I think I came out of it with more knowledge and wisdom than when I went into it with. Aside from debates, just reading everyone's reactions and opinions on certain topics has been interesting and helpful.

I grew up a very happy kid, and it takes a lot to knock me down. I'm often in a pretty decent mood, and so it's hard for me to understand where a lot of anger and pain comes from. I'm still kinda repulsed by people when they're raging and cynical all the time, but I think I understand them a bit more now than I did before.

Nothing that you read on Reddit today will be of any value to you. Neither now nor in the future.

Almost everything I have ever done or spent time on had been valuable to me. Even if everyone here is actually all mentally ill and crazy, reading about the thoughts of the mentally ill and crazy adds to my knowledge and wisdom somehow. I had stupid internet debates 10 years ago suddenly make sense to me today. I'm here partially because I don't get exposure to these types of people in my normal everyday life.

Scarypaperplates · 2021-12-06T23:21:48+00:00

After being on this sub my feelings have become more negative, but in a way im glad because I feel its given me the confidence to really think about what I want and go after it.

meme_lords_unite · 2021-12-06T23:41:59+00:00

I learned that people are shitty and will never see eye to eye. Doing whats best for me, regardless of other people, is always best.

nemporisso · 2021-12-07T00:25:32+00:00

All the time. Perspectives and experiences I've not been exposed to. That's why I read these comments

ThenIJizzedInMyPants · 2021-12-07T00:35:58+00:00

Yes - that most critics of TRP haven't spent enough time actually reading and understanding TRP concepts and usually create strawmen to attack

sex_is_dirty · 2021-12-07T00:37:24+00:00

Redditors are much more interesting than the average people one meets in everyday life.

Exempli gratia, those everyday folks waddling down the aisles in Walmart that occasional earn a mention here.

f1vepointoh · 2021-12-07T01:14:00+00:00

Reddit has woken me up to things i never even knew happened.

Virtual-Jackfruit243 · 2021-12-07T01:14:06+00:00

Yes. We need to take mental health more seriously in this country. I'm not even being snarky with this one, but there's clearly a mental health crisis going on with Americans just looking outside this sub but then seeing how some young men are really loosing it on here due to female rejection is scary.

We need therapist, psychiatrists and psychologist. STAT

gattaca_ · 2021-12-07T01:16:11+00:00

r/TheRedPill and r/FemaleDatingStrategy are different sides of the same coin. Angry, hurt people, that are unable to see any value in the other side. I'm not certain they're necessarily wrong in how they feel.

r/PurplePillDebate is somewhere in the middle. It's good to see all sides, I think.

Siegfried66 · 2021-12-07T02:03:57+00:00

I realized most of the people here, on both sides, are absolutely cracked in the head. The insane hamstering people do is kinda entertaining.

not0my0real0account7 · 2021-12-07T02:29:38+00:00

Yes, I believe I did. I rarely talk to people in real life, except work. So I use forums and subreddits like this one to understand how people view the world.

TheRedPillRipper · 2021-12-07T02:33:13+00:00

taken anything away

To always remember the human. The dichotomy of PPD can dehumanise the conversation. So I make a concerted effort to be civil, not attack anyone, and especially to keep an open mind. As ultimately we only derive benefit, if we’re open to it.

Godspeed and good luck!

Chaddamhusein · 2021-12-07T03:30:27+00:00

Yes it has confirmed everything that i observed in my life

Carloverguy20 · 2021-12-07T04:59:44+00:00

I learned that, everyone here needs go outside and benefit from IRL relationships, therapy. You all need help.

IcarusKiki · 2021-12-07T05:22:23+00:00

we need to being back the incel subs

ogsimpology · 2021-12-07T07:52:24+00:00

Sure. A lot of people are totally wrong about dating and clueless regarding the understanding of what they want, and how to get it.

Gerpstarg · 2021-12-07T11:25:50+00:00

I have learned that lots of nerds see tinder as the only way to find a woman and don’t understand that tinder is not real life

DerekMorganBAU · 2021-12-07T15:17:49+00:00

That there are less thotties here than I thought 😢

goldustiger · 2021-12-07T21:38:31+00:00

I learned that men will create an entire lexicon and mathematical equations for why they can't get dates with women before they will go to therapy.

A1Dilettante · 2021-12-08T00:21:58+00:00

Men and women are equally shitty and deserve each other.

bokuno_yaoianani · 2021-12-08T01:30:35+00:00

About all idiotic gender politics in the world is concentrated in the USA—

but I learned that from many other subreddits.

Jesus Christ man, the moment some idiotic view on gender or race that treats it like a sports competition is posted it's sooner or later combined with an equally idiotic system of measurements.

cccccclairee · 2021-12-06T15:55:16+00:00

That there are no small number of bitter, insecure men who don’t seem to like women a whole lot still trying to date women. Lots of red flags to be aware of for sure.

MelisandreStokes · 2021-12-06T15:06:44+00:00

Nope

MuertaDeLS · 2021-12-06T16:02:09+00:00

Women think men are bitter. Men think women are bitter. The cycle continues.

It's a sea of agendas. And then misguided thinking from pseudo intellectuals on both sides. Definitely a dividing line between internet and reality.

In reality most of what happens online is cannon fodder. Regular men and women go about living their lives. Occasionally they mate for entertainment and deeper connections.

The blasphemy that incels and feminists are pushing online - well let's be grateful there's a difference.

Title	Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit?
Author	throwthatmfaway
Upvotes	88
Comments	420
Date	December 6, 2021 11:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ra5dgt/have_you_learned_anything_valuable_from_this/
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