A friend of mine today asked me: "I can't believe you have got so good with women, do you have any tips for me, to get guys I want?"

Of course, I said no. If she wants to learn how to pick up dudes she should talk to a woman who knows how. To put it simply, I honestly have no idea what works on me and what doesn't. Since I am both the test subject and the observer, I simply cannot be an impartial observer. I mean why do we like a girl over another? Hard to say sometimes.

The same is true of the opposite. I have quite a few friends that I have picked up on the way during my friend-zone years and, since I like to talk about the things I do, I sometimes end up talking to them about picking up girls. None of them can accept that the things I do would work on them.

Take for example kino. It is by far one of the most important things to learn how to do. It is very hard to pick up someone without touching them at all. EVERY SINGLE girl I have explained the concept of kino to believe, wholeheartedly, that it woulnd't work on them.

"I don't want some guy I don't know touching me, that's weird!"

"I don't let people touch me at all!"

Of course, this is bullshit! I think it's partly a defense mechanism, that they are special, that they are not "easy" girls. And it's partly that if you do this stuff well, they just don't realise it. They are completely oblivious!

What's even funnier is that I successfully used kino on one of them some time later with great results.

I notice sometimes my female friends will make very demoralising comments or give realy inappropriate or useless advice.

"If you like her you should buy her a drink!"

Really? Are you fucking kidding me?

So whatever comments your female friends might have for you, or tips, etc. IGNORE THEM, they have no idea what they are talking about (unless they're gay)!

If you wanna learn how to fish, you ask the fisherman, not the trout.

EDIT: As I made clear in my post this is not just about women:

"If she wants to learn how to pick up dudes she should talk to a woman who knows how. To put it simply, I honestly have no idea what works on me and what doesn't. Since I am both the test subject and the observer, I simply cannot be an impartial observer. I mean why do we like a girl over another? Hard to say sometimes."

It works both ways. As SenorSpicyBeans said, it is a problem of perspective. I'm emphasising women because this is r/seduction