Daily Community Chat Megathread

OneAngryBlutbad · 2022-04-24T19:56:16+00:00

Showed my wife the “sex without procreation is masturbation” and she laughed for the first time in almost a month, not the forced tired laughter I’ve heard from her recently but her high pitched “this is fucking hilarious” laugh. One of those glimmers of hope in her demeanor despite the pain and fatigue she’s enduring.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-24T19:34:35+00:00

Sugar mommas being rarer than sugar daddies is not because older women don't want younger male attention. This is some fantasy cop-out Beyonce "I don't need no man" shit.

The women who hit on younger men the most are older women. The denial levels are crazy.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-24T19:34:18+00:00

Does anyone on here believe in soulmates? I certainly don’t but I’ve saw a few people use the phrase on here so intrigued to see if it means to them what it means to me.

scwizard · 2022-04-24T18:45:22+00:00

One evening last April, an anxious and free-spirited 13-year-old girl in suburban Minneapolis sprang furious from a chair in the living room and ran from the house — out a sliding door, across the patio, through the backyard and into the woods.

Moments earlier, the girl’s mother, Linda, had stolen a look at her daughter’s smartphone. The teenager, incensed by the intrusion, had grabbed the phone and fled. (The adolescent is being identified by an initial, M, and the parents by first name only, to protect the family’s privacy.)

Linda was alarmed by photos she had seen on the phone. Some showed blood on M’s ankles from intentional self-harm. Others were close-ups of M’s romantic obsession, the anime character Genocide Jack — a brunette girl with a long red tongue who, in a video series, kills high school classmates with scissors.

In the preceding two years, Linda had watched M spiral downward: severe depression, self-harm, a suicide attempt. Now, she followed M into the woods, frantic. “Please tell me where u r,” she texted. “I’m not mad.”

Maybe it's better for kids to just not let them internet...

madsskayyy · 2022-04-24T18:37:16+00:00

Q4Married peeps: how long was your honeymoon?

ManGoneNoWay · 2022-04-24T18:32:00+00:00

So many men online complain about not getting compliments. Well, my advice is to grow an afro. Got several compliments on my hair while going out last night.

trombompoline · 2022-04-24T18:27:13+00:00

How do I fix the issue where I can't orgasm during sex

321gumby · 2022-04-24T18:19:27+00:00

Woman, I have a question.

Would you spend months with someone. Lots of dates, sleepovers every week, lots of passionate sex, gifts, talk every day if you didnt find them attractive or liked them.

I didnt get a lot of feedback from a casual relationship that just ended and I honestly started to care for her a lot. It was never going to work , but that doesn't change how I felt.

Anyway, she was very actractive( she is a model) and I just lost all my self-confidence now. I feel like she never liked me for me and was just using me for sex and attention. I'll be honest. I just want to feel a little better. Im depressed. I have been crying and feel lonely. Is it possible for a woman to do all those things and not actually be attracted to you at all?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-24T18:07:59+00:00

CMV: Paying for strippers is no different than simping for an e-girl (Twitch/OnlyFans). It's trading money for attention from women who wouldn't normally give you attention.

throughmylense · 2022-04-24T17:29:00+00:00

Had a conversation with friends lately about the types of people we know that we attract and it was interesting and kinda hilarious.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-24T17:26:12+00:00

Q4W

What do you think creates high value in a woman as a partner? Do you meet those standards to be considered high value?

Hoodfamous098 · 2022-04-24T17:13:13+00:00

Ch*d 😩😩🤬😈👿

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-24T17:09:10+00:00

Q4M

What would you say are the minimal requirements for a man to be considered high value in redpill thinking? Do you consider yourself to be high value in regards to a relationship?

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-24T16:56:47+00:00

I went on a bike ride and now I’m sitting by the river drinking wine with my husband but I’ll remain available for all you fuckers.

I love every single incel here ❤️

simeneta_two · 2022-04-24T16:42:39+00:00

Chocolate banana oatmeal with Greek yogurt has changed my breakfast game

E-2-butene · 2022-04-24T16:42:01+00:00

throwaway213091345 · 2022-04-24T16:38:24+00:00

Men who have used escorts/OF/strippers in the past, but also insist on doing 50/50 with their partners are clowns. 🤡

I jUsT wAnT tO bE lOvEd FoR wHo I aM

Slipthe · 2022-04-24T16:00:49+00:00

Are you prideful?

Do you think you could use more or less of it?

Newbie1955 · 2022-04-24T15:55:37+00:00

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EulenWatcher · 2022-04-24T14:33:04+00:00

Taking vitamins for women who are planning to get pregnant/are pregnant feels utterly surreal for me. It's such a big change in the attitude and I'm not sure what is the reason for it besides it's being a way to deal with stress. Let's create more stress, but the one we've chosen for ourselves on our own free will, aha.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T14:05:02+00:00

TIL the easiest way to win 99% of arguments in this subreddit is just ask for proof of their claims.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-04-24T14:04:47+00:00

So a lot of older women on tiktok have been giving out relationship advice to women between 20-29. It usually goes like

-Don’t get married at 20 -Don’t have kids at 20 -Travel, enjoy your 20s -Be a bad bitch

I found rp not too long ago, and apparently the men give off a different order if advising women (marry, have kids, as soon as possible). While the previous sounds plausible, it seems like a lot of older millennials these days love to patronize, infantilize people in their 20s, which is weird to me. However, expecting 20-23 year old women to lock in a provider at that age is also unrealistic.

What do you guys think?

2022-04-24T13:50:27+00:00

Nah this crazy because the dude could take your girl easy aswell🙏

FenaPugi · 2022-04-24T13:40:51+00:00

I typically don't wish ill of anyone or anything.

CPC though, I hope they can get their fascist shit into gear or there's another form of prolateriat-esque revolution.

It would also be great if my nations current government in power (Liberal-National Coalition) stops bending over and letting the CPC tear them and the Australian population a new asshole every damn fucking week.

Murdoch's, Stokes' and Costello's media empires are also complicit in the aforementioned which is advertently superceding our 'democracy'. It's been gradually looking a lot like the American political landscape lately.

lulll · 2022-04-24T13:19:56+00:00

so apparently this is a thing in italian renaissance fairs

Slipthe · 2022-04-24T13:17:03+00:00

Those who play video games, do you find them fulfilling?

Do you think there's anything you'd rather be doing?

Slipthe · 2022-04-24T12:43:06+00:00

Why would someone choose "Do Not Resuscitate"?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T12:42:46+00:00

The Left: TAX THE RICH!
Florida: Gets rid of the tax exemptions they gave Disney World.
Also the left: OMG, HOW COULD YOU?!

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-04-24T12:27:58+00:00

Day 11 of music sharing. Some Japanese metal. NINGEN ISU - Heartless Scat

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-04-24T12:20:11+00:00

I’ve come across more men who gave petty silent treatments than women.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-24T12:11:25+00:00

I had to take an early morning dump & my wife had to pee halfway through, so I pinched it off and let her go pee.

And women say chivalry is dead.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T12:01:36+00:00

Wanting to fuck dysfunctional women does not mean all women are dysfunctional.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-24T11:50:19+00:00

My wife and I went to a Mexican restaurant the other night and the hostess had the biggest, roundest ass I've seen occur on a woman naturally. I wanted to pay her right there to sit on my face. Even my wife was staring at it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T10:24:25+00:00

Does anyone have proof that most women have high n counts? No, your porn search history is NOT PROOF.

Before anyone asks "Can you prove women don't have High N Count?!"

Yes I can!

SpacedNuggets · 2022-04-24T09:53:40+00:00

Q4M Have you ever been hit by a female friend/ex ? I can start. Yes. I was chatting shit as usual and got swiped across the face.

Ylduts · 2022-04-24T09:42:39+00:00

Options. The more options a person has the more likely they are to be a bad long term monogamous partner. The ease of options has made monogamous relationships more difficult IMO.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-24T07:52:28+00:00

CMV every regular in ppd is mentally ill

keiayamada · 2022-04-24T07:05:33+00:00

I have a question for the men that get laid and would describe themselves as attractive here regarding this situation:

(Warning, a very long post)

I just turned 22 this month, Japanese living in Japan, and there’s this boy I met using a dating app called Bumble. Im rather like looking for a serious relationship not a hookup so even if I match with someone the conversation never really lasts because their personality isn’t just interesting enough and it’s obvious they’re just looking for a quick fuck but I met this guy who’s 2 yrs older than me, he sounds pretty nerdy like me, we had our initial conversation in English despite both of us being native Japanese speakers (bc we didn’t know that lol) and he said he learnt English by himself and never been abroad like me so that’s a good indicator of his intelligence and something we have in common, and his face is a literal 10, one of the best looking Japanese men I’ve seen my whole life and is 180cm tall, quite tall for a Japanese guy..

I couldn’t believe someone like him could exist, he was so sweet and he sent me a drawing he drew of me after I showed him one of my drawings and we met up next week or something. The first and only guy I met via this dating app. We were chatting in a cafe nearby my house and he told me he was a virgin and my logical thinking abilities were completely gone; there’s this shy nerdy 10/10 sitting right in front of me and he tells me he’s a virgin? I had to take him home with an excuse that I will cook for him and take his virginity lol. C’mon any one of you would have done the same in a situation like this. To look back I think I really shouldn’t have done that because having sex on the first date is never an indicator of a good woman but I wasn’t able to think logically at that moment. I’m still not sure if he was lying about his virginity cuz he looks too good to be one but he said he was fat and an outcast in high school so I guess that makes enough sense (but I’m still not sure).

We met up and went on dates a few times after that; every time I meet up with him and hear about his personal life I can’t help but think that he’s a massive pussy magnet. Whenever he drinks with his friends and a female is involved she’d always make wild moves at him. He has girls baking cakes for him and shit. A Saudi princess would send him a selfie without her head scarf. He always has some girl trying to lean her body towards him in group photos. Dude’s a literal definition of pussy magnet and it wasn’t that surprising to me given how good he looks.

Things about me: I’m a literal autistic hikikomori who goes in and out of phases of depression where I completely shut myself in, ignore notifications for months and just disappear to reappear after about three months. My family is a mess and I ran away from home after working in a brothel to pay for my education; I got accepted into a very prestigious university in Germany for engineering but my mother was a gambling addict who would take my money that I made at work while going to high school and usually beat the shit out of me til I’m covered in bruises. I couldn’t give up on this opportunity just cuz of a shitty family and before anyone tries to lecture me, that decision was serious and I had made up my mind that I will never get married and live the rest of my life with this stain. Well it’s a complicated life story so I won’t explain any further but my 200 IQ chess moves ended up failing and it just left me with an escape from home, serious PTSD, non-existent self esteem and a lot of other issues. I’ve seen too much shit working at a brothel I can’t explain the details without breaking into a ptsd episode lol. I now have an onlyfans instead which he knows of. He said he does not mind but I’m sure this affects how anyone views me.

I’m sorry the story went off of the tangent. I was just wondering what this beautiful boy wants out of me. Except for one ex boyfriend the only experience with men I have is them trying to use me for sex since I was 13. I was an early bloomer and my chest was much larger than an average adult Japanese female at 11. Every single man I’ve gone out with would expect sex on the first date or it was just way too obvious that all they wanted was my body. I got molested by strangers a lot. I’ve never been treated ‘nicely’ by a man, have a man do nice romantic things to please me as a woman. Ironically the only times a man has treated me romantically were with some clients at brothel. Some of them just fell in love with me instantly and treated me really nice. So my way of thinking has been conditioned into that men only want to use me for sex and I just had to come to terms with it, live with it. Nothing I can do about it.

So I’ve naturally come to expect this boy to use me for sex or ghost me after the sex but that wasn’t the case. We’d go on normal dates and that was it. The way he acted with me left me real confused. If it was a normal situation with an average guy I’d maybe think that he’s really into me? But this is a 10/10 alpha who’s drowning in pussy I’m talking about. He’s ask me out to hang out with his friends occasionally too. I talked about my depression earlier and I’ve kind of ghosted him a few times because I wanted to be left alone and be a worthless loser. Every time I went no contact, I’d get a lot of messages from him if I decided to check my inbox after many months. He’d sometimes unsend some of his messages as to be delicate with my feelings (I thought that was really cute). He’s coming over to my place three days later and idk what to do (we’ll probably fuck).

I just wanted to ask you guys what you guys think he wants out of me. I know it’s not sex, but does he want something serious with me? I don’t know why anyone would to get serious with a whore with an insufferable personality like me but if he really does, it really doesn’t make sense given how popular he is with girls and he’s said something about having a crush on another pretty French girl. After all I don’t expect a 10/10 Chad with a sweet personality to be so into me. I really don’t know what to do with him, I really don’t like how he’s taking up so much space in my head these days. Maybe I’ll post this to relationship advice later.

Willow-girl · 2022-04-24T05:41:19+00:00

So I'm working with a guy on my new job. He took last weekend off, so today was the first time we met. There are two large rooms and two small ones in our facility that need to be cleaned over the weekend and the boss left instructions that we were each to do one large and one small, which seemed reasonable to me, but my co-worker was not happy. He felt he should clean the two small ones while I did the two large ones. Like, WTF?

I have worked side-by-side with men for years and have always made an effort to keep up. I've never asked for any kind of concessions or special treatment. It blows my mind that this guy could be so blatantly, I dunno, lazy? Self-serving? From long experience I've learned that men actually have no pride and are generally willing to push work off on women if they can get away with it.

I told him I don't care how the work is divided up and to talk to the boss if he's not happy. Someone just tell me what to do and I will git 'er done. Farm girls are like that, lol.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-04-24T05:25:21+00:00

Are concerns about eating disorders, particularly where people eat too little, overblown in the US?

Like, I can see a lot people having problems eating too much. But I don’t think “restrictive eatings” and “bad relationships with food” are as pervasive or severe as online discourses claim.

I keep reading how telling your kids “not eating too much, otherwise you would get fat” will lead to eating disorder. Or how diet talk can be really traumatic, especially for women. To me, these just sound dramatic. But I guess maybe it’s something to do with my Asian upbringing. “Fatphobia” is pretty much the norm here.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-24T04:33:13+00:00

I am no commie but hey this works!

pooseehunter · 2022-04-24T04:14:16+00:00

Just slid into the dms of a masters student in my major as an undergrad myself.

Only a 3 year difference in age so whatever, hopefully this actually goes somewhere considering we’ve met (briefly at least) before.

throwaway213091345 · 2022-04-24T03:15:50+00:00

This glow up

He went from looking like he stays in all day to looking genuinely cute. This is what I mean sometimes when I say some dudes just need to shave their unibrow and fix their teeth.

RahLyt · 2022-04-24T02:57:53+00:00

I'm starting to realize that a lot men treat women really poorly. It makes me understand women behaviour more. At the same time, when you try to be understanding you are the one treated poorly. It's a really hard word to navigate.

TheJim66 · 2022-04-24T02:55:59+00:00

In case you are wondering, I still got it 😎

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-24T02:54:56+00:00

Q4A: would you rather have no butthole or 3 buttholes?

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-24T02:21:48+00:00

it’s funny how some guys on this sub say all women are the exact same and want the exact same thing and act the exact same way. but then try to defend men and say “not all of us are bad or dangerous. there’s lots of good men out there” five minutes later lol

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-04-24T01:34:48+00:00

I feel like my cousin is living proof that looks are more important than social skills.

He's roughly around 6'2 or 6'3, decently attractive with a fairly athletic build. He's also autistic. Like, genuinely diagnosed as a child high functioning autism; he doesn't understand social cues or sarcasm and often comes off as extremely rude when he's talking to you.

Despite that he's never really struggled with dating, dated plenty of girls in high school and college. Later came out as gay and has had a stable relationship with his boyfriend for years.

I'm sure his autism didn't help, but at the same time it wasn't enough to turn women (and guys) away.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-24T01:30:06+00:00

Fucking hell I've got massive bruises on my biceps now because this girl was turned on by biting them

Ylduts · 2022-04-24T01:19:29+00:00

Anyone else find it funny when women treat men as options then complain about being treated as an option themselves? It’s not every women but I’m running across it more and more.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T00:31:06+00:00

Red pillers: Stupid women thinking sex will get a man to love them!

Me: Yeah, that's why most women don't fuck super early and "with hold sex" as you call it.

Also Red pillers: WHAT?! You're never going to find love if you don't fuck ASAP!

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-24T01:13:39+00:00

If you believe the average women is getting pounded by every man she sees 24/7 and spends all her time posting ass shots on Instagram, YOU ARE WATCHING TOO MUCH PORN.

dbz19 · 2022-04-24T01:09:03+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/australia/comments/uachl6/we_need_to_stop_the_attempt_of_tipping_culture_to/

Tipping culture trying to weasel it's way into Australia. Please keep this cancerous American bs out of here.

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-23T21:54:35+00:00

Every downvote only makes me more powerful than you could ever imagine.

nemma88 · 2022-04-23T23:15:25+00:00

Been seeing more 'iwantiwantiwant' around PPD.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-23T21:02:37+00:00

Happy Saturday!

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-23T21:14:17+00:00

Current view.

https://imgur.com/a/RzCIY6C

FilmStew · 2022-04-23T21:32:16+00:00

Just found a Youtube account named JustPearlyThings, I really haven't seen much RP content made by women, that could be my algorithm though.

Anyone familiar with her? I scrubbed through a couple of her videos and I can say she definitely seems to be gunning for it and doing decent.

annabeelongx · 2022-04-23T23:13:07+00:00

As we grow up, almost anyone with a quarter brain know that good looking people (especially women) are treated better. Well when does that spell get shattered? Which age group is lookism the least prevalent?

dbz19 · 2022-04-23T23:12:33+00:00

Q4A

What's your ideal cultural scenario for someone you're gonna marry?

and why?

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-23T23:20:28+00:00

Q4M:

think of your preferred n count for a woman and keep it in mind when reading this scenario

you’re dating a woman that you like a lot. one day, you guys get on the topic of sex and n counts and you ask for hers. she tells you that her n count is +1 over your preference/limit, but it was because she was sexually assaulted and violated by someone without her consent.

what would you do?

dbz19 · 2022-04-24T00:02:07+00:00

I probably have a Madonna whore complex and I’m okay with that

ThisBoringLife · 2022-04-24T21:12:13+00:00

Insanity is part and parcel of being on Purple Pill Debate and people must accept this

MisterJose · 2022-04-24T21:43:39+00:00

I was thinking about asking for some advice on sexual things going on in my life in a place like r/sex, but then I remember how many subreddits are not places for actual regular humans to give decent advice.

More than that, I felt like in place of advice would be indoctrination - like going on gay chat board run by a conservative Christian group trying to convert everyone, and every answer they give is some form of "you just need to start believing in Jesus and repent for your sinful ways". On reddit you get "You just need to start believing in feminist woke ideology and think like us and realize gender is a construct." Yeah, thanks.

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lulll · 2022-04-24T21:04:12+00:00

q4w from 1-10 how sexy is this man

scwizard · 2022-04-25T16:39:37+00:00

Girls really love to tell me they're gay. Whether that's my barber casually mentioning she has a wife, or the girl I just held the door for cause it's raining mentioning that she's waiting for her girlfriend.

lulll · 2022-04-23T23:29:47+00:00

women are better at making food then men, so why should men interfere and try to make food? i say let women make all the food they are the best at it

Hoodfamous098 · 2022-04-24T20:27:06+00:00

Q4W: Intrinsically I have always known that most women prefer their boyfriends/husbands a few years older (2-3 years usually). Looking back all my relationships has the girls either been the same age as me or a little younger than me. What are your reasons for preferring someone a little older than you?

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