There simply aren’t enough places you can go to meet women. The best option is probably college, but male enrollment has declined dramatically. Aside from that you have bars and clubs, environments that don’t work well for introverts, and which consist mostly of other desperate men trying to get laid as well, and women are almost always surrounded by their friends/boyfriends when they go out.

And there just aren’t any other places. Anyone telling you to go to a meetup doesn’t know what they’re talking about. These meetups groups are usually just eight 40 year olds, and if there is an attractive woman expect her to be bombarded with attention by the other guys. It isn’t socially acceptable to hit on girls in the gym or anywhere out in public anymore. Both men and women are shut ins, while the men are playing video games, the women are watching netflix and when they do go out it’s when they’re surrounded by friends.

This is a completely dysfunctional social environment, if you don’t have a robust social circle or relationship by around age 22 you’re SOL. This issue needs to be addressed somehow. I would posit that more spaces for people to meet should be created, however this would most likely just result in more sausage fests.