It is so common for women to do to men what would be considered sexual harassment if we did it to them. For example, a woman asked me, unprompted, if I was circumcised, women have slapped the butts of me and lots of other men (but I know they wouldn't have been okay if we slapped them back), women have asked me questions about masturbating, talked to me about my penis unprovoked, etc...I remember once I was snapchatting with one of my classmates and mentioned that I just took a test that was really hard, and she replied "was it erect?", an obvious reference to my genitalia made unprovoked by someone I was not in a sexual relationship with.

All of these things would be classified as sexual harassment if men did them to women, but for some reason (namely female privilege), women get a pass on it. And it's not just adult men, either. It used to be the norm in schools (and even sometimes in public) for boys, but only boys, to have to swim nude, with no regard to their privacy, but girls always had their privacy valued. Society, in general, seems to be more concerned when men sexually harass women than when women sexually harass men.

I saw, on r-slash-ForwardsFromKlandma (which exists to critique right-wing memes, but I just look at it so I can see the right-wing memes), that some female babysitter took a photo of the boy she was babysitting urinating and you could see his butt, that would never be acceptable if the genders were reversed. (I don't think it should be acceptable for men to do it to girls, either, I think it should be unacceptable in both cases). Tierney Gearon is another example of the same phenomenon - a mother who took really creepy photos of her children, but primarily her son bore the brunt of it (I have not seen Gearon's photographs and do not intend to ever look at them, but as Mark Lawson from the Guardian said "While Gearon is properly coy with her daughter's genitals, her son's penis is displayed."), and she suffered no consequences for it. Imagine if it was a father photographing his daughter like that. This and circumcision are really two manifestations of the same phenomenon - mothers think their son's bodies belong to the mother to do what they please with, even if it causes irreversible consequences for the son when he grows up (in the case of circumcision, having half of the skin on your penis and 2/3 of the nerves for sexual pleasure removed without your consent, permanently scarring your penis; in the case of Gearon, having images of your prepubescent genitalia shared with the world forever)

I have no doubt that women sometimes are on the receiving end of unwanted sexual comments from men, but it is nothing in comparison to the sexual harassment and lack of privacy that men receive from women starting even when we are prepubescent children. The problem with feminism is that it encourages a victimhood mentality in women that encourages them to see themselves as being primarily the victims of sexual harassment, whereas it's actually men who are the primary victims. Statistics from colleges, etc... aren't reliable here, since men report it way less. Every man I have talked about this with has a similar story to me - having women make sexual comments or touch our butts/chests without our consent, but the majority of women, as far as I can tell from my personal interactions, deal with nothing worse than the occasional cat-call.

Teenage boys are trending right, but teenage girls are trending left. I think that this is, in part, due to the fact that the liberal/feminist narrative about sexual harassment is so out of step with the lived experiences of men in this society.