Imagine a hypothetical situation that you’re seeing a girl of your dreams. She’s great looking and checks your boxes. Few months down the line of dating her you find out she slept with your friend when you were seeing her in the beginning while not exclusive. So technically you weren’t officially dating, but she’d always pick up your call, answer your messages quickly and agree to all your date plans.

That friend of yours is a real scum bag too. He’s a seducer and regularly dumps women after sex. For him she’s just a number, casual fun, nothing more. But you caught some feelings for her at this point.