Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.

AbsolutelyNobody0 · 2021-05-23T11:18:39+00:00

Beautiful women have more opportunity to develop a great personality. It's up to them whether or not they choose to seize such opportunities.

Ugly women have more incentive to actually develop a great personality. They're less popular, so they'll have less opportunity to actually develop a great personality.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-05-23T10:22:08+00:00

People assume beautiful women have a better personality because of the Halo effect. Studies even show they're assumed to be smarter and more competent too.

Looks are the number one trait for both genders

Pierson230 · 2021-05-23T13:28:47+00:00

Beauty affects personality development absolutely. I think the single biggest environmental variable is probably how safe of an environment the woman grows up in.

If the beautiful woman grows up in a safe and secure environment, she is pampered and desired and can benefit in all the ways we imagine.

If the beautiful woman grows up in an unsafe environment, the beauty is more a curse than a blessing, and she’s basically a target for predatory men.

When it comes to kindness, I’d say that depends on what kind of trauma the woman experiences as a child, and how she develops dark triad characteristics at the end of the day.

So beauty affects personality, but what effects it has is largely dependent on environmental factors and how they interact with beauty.

There is no objectively “better” personality, there’s just a personality that’s more compatible with another personality.

sniper1905 · 2021-05-23T11:45:35+00:00

Option A: Born physically attractive and will be for a large portion or all of their life

Option B: Born average or ugly, ugly duckling, and became attractive along the way

rhinetine · 2021-05-23T10:48:38+00:00

I think the issue is less due to looks, money, gender, social status, etc, as it is resiliency.

People who don’t face problems in life don’t learn to overcome them.

Which is great when you’re young. But everyone eventually faces difficulties.

If you don’t have resiliency, I can’t trust you as a partner, because I can’t trust that you’re going to be able to overcome and work with me when life gets hard.

JustFactsBitches · 2021-05-23T10:29:12+00:00

Attractive people think the world is fairer so hypothesis B is often the case. This can however make them appear extremely privileged and out of touch as Hollywood proves.

In my interactions with very attractive women, I’ve typically found them to be quite arrogant and dismissive, even in non-romantic scenarios. They tend to view average people as beneath them and worthy of contempt (I mean I do too, but we’re trying to run a civilization here — push that shit down).

I think it goes back to class and upbringing. Higher class lookers from stable, loving families with strong boundaries seem to be better adjusted. Sort of like the rest of us.

It annoys me that attractive people often have to be such assholes about it. We get it, you won the genetic lottery. Shut up. No one cares about your political opinions. Shout out to the ladies of Fox News.

The-Wizard-of-Oz- · 2021-05-23T10:45:10+00:00

Alternate theory: Beauty has no correlation with personality

HotAlsoCocky · 2021-05-23T11:31:55+00:00

In an online dating study, physically attractive people wrote bios that were rated as more attractive, even when the bios and pictures were evaluated independently, by different judges [1].

bihterb · 2021-05-23T12:56:18+00:00

It depends on the conditions.

I was ugly woman in the A scenario so the world forced me to develop a personality in a way. Then I lost more than half of my weight and it made me a solid 8 from 3-4 since I take care of my looks a lot more now.

Now I'm beautiful one from B scenario. People treat me very different than before. Like very very different. And its not just something men around my age do, let's say some married middle aged female patient(am a dentist) treats me way better than before it blows my mind. Would I be a boring person if I was treated like this from the beginning? Not entirely but I wouldn't invest in important things in life as much as I did I guess.

On the other hand, me finding myself ugly making me a bitter person is a possibility too. I was very short tempered and people not liking me that much wasn't related to my looks perhaps.

I'll never know.

whiskeyinthewoods · 2021-05-23T20:01:55+00:00

How about hypothesis C: Some beautiful women have wonderful personalities and some beautiful women have terrible personalities just like the rest of the population. Welcome to reality where human beings are not caricatures, but rather nuanced human being with both good traits and flaws.

poppy_blu · 2021-05-23T12:57:57+00:00

C: beautiful women are human with all the variances of any other group of humans.

🤯

Xaviermanx2 · 2021-05-23T10:31:13+00:00

I haven't seen that much correlation tbh. Seen bitchy ugly women and bitchy hot women.

But its only hot women that are worth putting up with.

SlashCo80 · 2021-05-23T10:28:15+00:00

Beautiful ~~women~~ people are mostly loved unconditionally and thus never have the need to develop a personality. They need no hobbies, no passions, no greater purpose, nothing. They can afford to put zero effort into who they are because they will be loved anyways. This makes them

a) extremely boring

b) become bitter and resentful against the world as they age and their beauty starts to fade, making them realize the only pillar their life is built upon is falling apart leaving them with nothing

B: Beautiful women have a better personality

It also makes them raging narcissists. I've seen some examples of B: as well, but they're much more rare and I believe contingent on the person being intelligent and strongly self-aware, which is not as common as one would like.

alterwhimsical · 2021-05-23T10:21:55+00:00

I've come across only A type, with a few exceptions of B too. But the majority were A.

In case of B, there is a slight loophole in what you've said though. They get positive feedback, no doubt, but they aren't necessarily putting in the required effort to get that positive feedback.

So its not a never ending positive feedback loop for them, they probably try to put in efforts initially but once when they know that they get what they want with little effort, they go back to being 'A'.

Again there are exceptions to any rule. But personally I've come across more A than B

darkredpintobeans · 2021-05-23T14:21:55+00:00

This whole thread is just one big correlation=/= causation fallacy. Just cause someone is pretty doesn't mean they live in a totally different world from the rest of us, odds are life has/will beat the shit out of them as well as anyone else. Besides that I'm pretty sure this bitchy beautiful woman trope is only a thing in movies like mean girls. I've yet to meet anyone like this irl, but maybe they're just nicer to me cause I don't stare at them while theorizing about their innermost thoughts and intentions.

Glass_Distance_4948 · 2021-05-23T15:01:21+00:00

become bitter and resentful against the world as they age and their beauty starts to fade

Im tired of this incel fantasy, the real red pill is that no matter what age beautiful women never lose and will always have a harem of wealthy beta orbiters to choose from to settle down with

pongaminbloom · 2021-05-23T20:42:45+00:00

Both hypotheses base their reasoning on the assumption that men and/or the general public create woman's personalities.

That is simply false. Inborn traits, parents and other relatives, health, and close friends and relationships are more influential in creating who we are. Plenty of "ugly" people and beautiful people have amazing personalities.

If there was any correlation between good looks and personality, it is because there are many things that positively impact both; mental and physical health make people more fun to be around and more likely to have interesting hobbies. At the same time, they make you appear more beautiful.

Socioeconomic status has the same double effect. When you are rich you can afford to travel the world and have expensive hobbies, making you appear a more interesting person. You can also afford fashion, beauty treatments, haircuts, highlights, and other things that make you better looking.

OddAlternatives · 2021-05-23T15:30:17+00:00

Hot women and ugly women are the best. Average women are the worst

Im_The_Daiquiri_Man · 2021-05-23T16:41:22+00:00

“Niceness” is not a universally predictable female trait like hypergamy or sexual submissiveness.

Human personalities aren’t formed on an identical canvas where Input A = Result B.

They are formed in a unique chemical soup that all respond differently to added elements.

Input A = Result H4X2/n*y

Take sexual abuse as a child. While never a “good” thing, one person can turn to drugs and self harm, and another person can become Oprah.

A boy with neurotic and anxious tendencies by nature can be devastated by a single rejection while a more passive personality skates through multiple rejections like “whatever”

Likewise, neurotic hot woman A can become a defensive bitch because she feels preyed upon and used by the world whereas hot woman B is all rainbows and unicorns because everybody is “so nice”.

This is why self awareness is so fucking important.

Understanding your own weaknesses and strengths are the only way you can effectively focus your energy in life.

MajesticGarlic999 · 2021-05-23T20:49:12+00:00

You don't need money or beauty to be a jerk. That's my experience

cherrypieslice · 2021-05-23T22:19:57+00:00

Or mayb women are actually complex beings with all kinds of factors that play into their personalities?

lavenderhoneywoods · 2021-05-24T02:24:22+00:00

I’ve seen the second more often than the first. Most really beautiful women I’ve met are also very nice people. I think people project their jealousy and bitterness and such onto beautiful women and say “oh they’re bland/they’re bitchy/they’re stupid” because of their own insecurities.

Ladyofblades · 2021-05-23T11:35:37+00:00

It’s all upbringing and values. And maybe competition and jealousy.

You’ll meet some soft hearted beautiful people - their naïveté might be annoying since they’re treated better by society but they aren’t any more arrogant. Then there are assholes as well.

In my experience the most arrogant ones aren’t the super beautiful folks but those who are just a step below. I don’t know why. It’s like that slightly less pretty bitchy “best frenemy” a very beautiful girl has who does all she can to bring other people down so she can be a 10 instead of an 8. Men are even more prone to being like this, it’s the slightly attractive but not super hot guys with the colossal egos. Think it’s because they’re conscious they’re not top of the pack and are competing to get there

velvetunderground111 · 2021-05-23T12:08:20+00:00

The most stereotypically "hot" woman I ever dated was a well-to-do Gothic Jewess, whose father had died when she was a kid. And then grew up with an abusive step dad. One of the sweetest souls I ever met. Don't assume that because people look good, they haven't been through the wringer. They just do it looking better than most. Big assumptions.

ivy176 · 2021-05-23T10:58:26+00:00

Neither are true

MamaAbroad · 2021-05-23T13:35:19+00:00

I believe beautiful women often have better personalities. In college I found myself living in a dorm with a group of highly unattractive women... some of it was by their own fault for gaining weight and making no effort and some of it was just objectively unattractive features. I assumed that they would be very nice and kind like in the movies... no. I remember an entire lunch when they made fun of a girl they called “prom girl” who styled her hair every day. I thought maybe she had been mean to them but when I saw her I realized she was just a pretty girl that was particularly good at styling her hair, and had no idea who my “friends” were. They were ugly inside and out. Later the same year, I started an art history class full of the most gorgeous and well put together young women I had ever seen. I assumed they would be mean and catty, and while I admit I didn’t have a chance to become close with all of them, just the girls I sat next to were incredibly helpful and friendly and sweet. I have seen this play out over the years. As hard a pill as it might be to swallow, the attractive women who take care of themselves are caring and high achieving, some are a bit boring, but all the beautiful women I know are great Mothers. Meanwhile I avoid schlumpy, unkempt women and find they are often jealous and bitter and just as ugly inside as they are on the outside. I think it’s one of the most unspoken things in American culture. If you are beautiful, you put up with glares and nasty treatment from jealous and unattractive women, and they are still portrayed as being victims who are “probably beautiful on the inside.”

2021-05-23T12:18:12+00:00

I think average looking people have the best personalities because they're the middle ground between two extremes.

Truly unattractive people are going to have a harder time developing good personalities because they will have less social opportunities. But they might try harder because having a strong personality is important to compensate.

Beautiful people have plenty of social opportunities to develop their personality but might not have as much motivation to do so because it isn't as necessary (already accepted for who they are).

Average looking people have both social opportunities and motivation to improve which will give them the better personalities

Ihateregistering6 · 2021-05-23T13:55:06+00:00

Obviously this is anecdotal, but in my experience beautiful women generally have much better personalities than ugly women. A lot of ugly women are bitter and angry and wear their "life isn't fair" attitude on their sleeve. Not every beautiful woman is a shallow, vapid Instagram 'influencer' who is incredibly self-centered.

OTOH (again, IMO), average looking women generally have the best personalities, because they aren't attractive enough that they can skate by on their looks (like beautiful women), but they aren't ugly enough that they're angry at the world about it and expend all their energy focused on how 'unfair' everything is. They develop personalities because it helps them stand out from the crowd.

I honestly don't think it's that different with guys. Average looking dudes are probably the funniest guys I've ever met.

Inevitable_Gain_7456 · 2021-05-23T12:07:42+00:00

But type A is what men usually want. If I'm going for a woman that 99.9% of guys can't get, I'd rather her treat me as worthless. That's just the pecking order.

LillthOfBabylon · 2021-05-23T12:55:35+00:00

In other words, beautiful people are people. And their personalities have nothing to do with their looks.

LSmartestCharacter · 2021-05-23T10:55:04+00:00

Ugly women cheat more actually.

Mustbeaight · 2021-05-23T11:32:40+00:00

Lol option B is more like it for both men and women..

yuckyuck13 · 2021-05-23T11:33:07+00:00

Both are correct but I'd say it's 35% bad personality/ selfishness to 65% good personality. Also the formation of either personality come more from family than other people. Used to work with two, one bad one good. I should mention I live and work in a college. I had meet good's parents years before and they are wonderful. Met bad's parents at work and bad's parent's treated the waitstaff terribly. Nature and nurture.

edit; word

revente · 2021-05-23T11:37:26+00:00

C: there are more extremes among the beautiful people.

goethica · 2021-05-23T12:24:10+00:00

If you want to argue that personalities are shaped by privileges and hardships then it can go both ways. The catch is that you never know what else is going on in someone’s life. I’m sure I’ve experienced all kinds of privileges because of the way I look and for being smart, but I’ve also dealt with depression and anxiety and it’s made me empathetic, I’m introverted and passionate about my hobbies, I’ve been raised to always be kind and compassionate. Personally I think it matters more how the people around you treat you. Like if you have parents that hail you as the beautiful child and you can do no wrong vs being taught to always be gracious.

sublimemongrel · 2021-05-23T13:30:27+00:00

I don’t get the idea that you “need” to develop a personality, hobbies, character, etc tbh. That shit just automatically develops during childhood not out of some “need” premised on your dating desires.

I would imagine it’s shaped far more by your intrinsic qualities and how you are raised rather than what you look like. Again, a lot during childhood where being attractive isn’t as important (although I do understand people grow and learn and change as they age).

Sure there are “boring” people but that is a) subjective and b) I doubt highly correlated with looks alone.

Ask_For_Cock_Pics · 2021-05-23T14:05:33+00:00

Obviously these are stereotypes, but I think if you're going to create a correlation model, I think you should include one more variable: When she became attractive.

attractive all her life: Has been treated well, and now treats others well, but still expects the best out of life and won't settle for average.

Attractive later in life: Built up insecurities, obsessed with validation. Takes pride in having this new power, uses it in very ugly ways. Or if she establish a solid identity and recognition outside of appearance before becoming attractive, she could be well rounded.

Unattractive all her life: Either Bitter and validation starved, slut for average guys, or well rounded and healthy beta female focused on talents and other things.

Unattractive later in life: The healthiest, had her validation early and over it. Lives a wholesome and loving life. Unless she went through the slut/validation phase, in which case she might be bitter and resentful about being over this hill.

observations from my corner of the world (LA)

Karen3599 · 2021-05-23T16:19:26+00:00

It has been my witness and opinion that beautiful people, not just women, have greater opportunities because they are thought of as being completely evolved to the highest order-there ain’t no more evolving with them. They are smart, cheeky, and for the most part, willing to engage with the world around them. My sister is an author, accomplished in her field and drop dead gorgeous. She has problems finding A DATE, which to me, is unheard of, she’s freakin‘ gorgeous, and that isn’t just a biased blanket statement. I believe men are somewhat afraid to date her because she is intelligent and able to converse well, which may put a man ill at ease if HE IS INSECURE IN HIMSELF.

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Zippo-Cat · 2021-05-23T11:44:32+00:00

In A personality is "hobbies, passions, greater purpose".

In B personality is "a better(nicer) person".

buntyisbest · 2021-05-23T13:21:48+00:00

become bitter and resentful against the world as they age and their beauty starts to fade, making them realize the only pillar their life is built upon is falling apart leaving them with nothing

This is one of the reasons why I think it should be in the best interest of type A women to get married early in their life, i.e. at least by their late twenties. The longer they wait, the more their beauty fades and the more competitive the dating scene becomes. And if you're someone who's lacking talents or personality, then that just makes it that much tougher for you as a woman to compete in a market where men generally prefer youth and amicability. Just my opinion.

Jenneapolis · 2021-05-23T16:47:04+00:00

Actually beautiful women are just people so their personalities run all across-the-board. Personalities are to an extent genetically ingrained but also built on experiences. Even if you are beautiful, you could grow up in a totally messed up home that messes you up and impacts who you become or visa versa.

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-05-23T17:08:58+00:00

I think every individual's personality is forged by external stimuli althogeter with the internal drive for one self betterment (this is, if we consider all people want to be better of course, even if I don't think this is the case for everyone).

In my experience, people don't always follows the way of the cause and effects, so when we talk about behavioural paterns the correlation between looks and character tends to be very little.

I've dated lots of women, both good looking and not so much, and I've found that looks can't be taken as a predictor of good behaviour.

I myself had a major "glow up" between my 14's and 18's, but my whole persona and inner beliefs changed nothing, even if some women have claimed that I look quite vain and conceited from a certain distance, they realize that I'm just a very confident man when they get to know me, and they are surprised I'm actually kinder and warm than most people.

Having been in the two sides of the spectrum gives me some perspective I think, and I can empathise better with people now than when I was almost invisible and had self steem issues. When you are always on guard you and you live your life through your defense mechanisms you take every action, even the most harmless word or gesture, as an attack to your persona, but this is not a good representation of how most people act towards others in society. If you don't believe you have intrinsical worth because your self steem doesn't allow you to value yourself as a human you would probably believe a beautiful woman smiling at you is just "laughing about you" and not sending some signals (and this happened to me A LOT when I started to look better and gained women's attention).

Also, it's not always "the chicken and the egg". Good people, with good morals and a strong set of core beliefs don't change according to the vicissitudes of life. If someone kicks you in the ground and you stand up and suddenly you have become a worst man or woman, then you were not as good as you thought.

_Woodrow_ · 2021-05-23T17:26:43+00:00

I think trying to make ideas like these into hard and fast rules is a fool’s errand

lefty_tn · 2021-05-23T18:18:59+00:00

I think people encompass a spectrum and are more complicated than just two hypothesis.

k995 · 2021-05-23T19:06:30+00:00

Both are nonsense as there is no 1 group of anything. Will some men and women be like this? Sure , think they all are is just dumb.

TheOffice_Account · 2021-05-23T19:13:59+00:00

OP, are you confusing niceness with personality?

In part A, you said:

loved unconditionally and thus never have the need to develop a personality. They need no hobbies, no passions, no greater purpose, nothing. They can afford to put zero effort into who they are

In part B, you said:

you are given more love from the world, which indeed turns you into a better person. You come across more trustful, so people trust you more. They are nicer to you.

Easy answer: Beautiful people can be nicer, but also more bland. There are a ton of exceptions to this, but yeah, remarkably attractive people don't have as great a need to develop their personality (hobbies and passions).

BrownEyedGringa · 2021-05-23T19:33:28+00:00

I grew up slightly bullied/ostracized because I was different (only brown person in a predominantly white neighborhood). I developed a really funny personality so people were drawn to me that way.

I do notice some of the funniest women I know are usually average or below average in attractiveness. It is very, very rare for me to laugh till I hurt at something a beautiful woman says.

Now, being funny is only one trait. In terms of generosity and kindness, I'd say I've met both beautiful and non-beautiful people who display these traits.

As for general "cool" traits - i.e. sense of adventure, good music taste/active concert goer, active hobbies, into recreational drugs/party scene - attractive women do tend to have a leg up here I've seen. It's because they have had much better access to these activities (also men tend to dominate some of these, and they have better access to men, obviously).

cloudsongs_ · 2021-05-23T21:48:20+00:00

Neither is true or false. If they were raised to not develop a personality and interest, then yeah they'll be boring. The opposite is true too. I'm sure there are plenty of "ugly" (whatever your definition of this is) women with "boring" (whatever your definition of this is) personalities too.

sumilia · 2021-05-23T22:00:15+00:00

Both men and women who are attractive are treated better, due to the Halo Effect, a cognitive bias.

"An example of the halo effect is the attractiveness stereotype, which refers to the tendency to assign positive qualities and traits to physically attractive people. People often tend to judge attractive individuals to have higher morality, better mental health, and greater intelligence. This cognitive error in judgment reflects one's individual prejudices, ideology, and social perception." — simplepsychology.org

People who are highly attractive tend to have an easier life growing up, not many people saying no to them. They have an inflated sense of what is possible. They also don't do very well with rejection, since they haven't been rejected very much, when it does happen it is devastating. For example - if the very attractive person tries to go into a technical field, and fails miserably at the interviews, they might not understand why things are so hard.

The very attractive person might also think that they are smarter / funnier than they actually are. If they say something and no one in the room corrects them, or everyone laughs with their joke that wasn't actually funny, that might give them a false sense of themselves.

That said, these are of course generalizations, and there will be outliers.

Physiologist21 · 2021-05-23T23:13:20+00:00

A because it takes no effort and most people always take the easy way out. Incentives > intentions.

Maxarc · 2021-05-23T23:27:17+00:00

Like you pointed out in the end of the post: this is a false dichotomy. It could be the case that both are generally true, but with different emerging properties. For example: it could be the case that less attractive people more often develop things like an inferiority complex, social anxiety or PTSD. But at the same time: attractive people could have a stronger tendency for developing bad communication skills, narcissism, or general traits of anti-social behaviour.

We do whatever we must for survival and tend to therefore choose the path of least resistance. With this taken into account, it follows that traits that are punished too little by the environment develop in pathologies and traits that are punished too much tend to warp into pathologies too.

ironmanalex97 · 2021-05-23T23:31:39+00:00

Just to add to your hypothesis. It’s also true for average to ugly women. A lot of people are incentivized to have a great personality and force them selves to become better people and others may get bitter and decide to shut out the world and become a person who creates nothing but negativity. I’d say the same is also true for men.

LotBuilder · 2021-05-24T00:26:36+00:00

Case by case. There are beautiful women that a great people and some are vapid. Depends on how they were raised and when their beauty bloomed. Not all have led charmed lives.

persf7 · 2021-05-24T00:30:29+00:00

There have been many studies on attraction as it relates to success in life.

It's undeniable more attractive people do better in average against most societal metrics life life expectancy, job status, income, etc.

For the span of human history, the best genes survived, more often than not. Is attractiveness not tied to genetics?

_that_dam_baka_ · 2021-05-24T00:32:28+00:00

I think you're right except the bit about philanthropy.

Modern philanthropy is about getting benefits like tax exemptions while cultivating a positive image. So... The B type would actually still be awful, but good at disgusting how bad they are cz they have a seemingly nice personality. XD

ergonomic_logic · 2021-05-24T00:36:47+00:00

After reading the OP and the comments, it’s clear that both beautiful and ugly people of all genders can have personalities that are either beautiful or ugly. Noted ✍️ 📝

LonelyWineAunt · 2021-05-24T02:40:03+00:00

Your whole post is based on the false premise that beautiful women are loved unconditionally.

That is not true.

You are extremely out of touch, I don’t know where you got that ludicrous idea.

2021-05-24T03:37:23+00:00

To add to your A category, I think that women who put effort into their appearance use a lot of time/attention in doing so, so hobbies or skills aren't as practiced.

However I disagree that this love is unconditional, if it is a love based off of changeable looks.

And people's ideas of boring vary. Some men are satisfied with simply doing things with their girlfriend and having a girlfriend that listens more than speaks. I think it also matters less how interesting a person is if you're able to entertain yourself. After years together, you will know almost everything about her, so she will become predictable anyways.

I'm thinking personality development occurs through a lot of other different ways besides how others perceive us, so this would be only one small influential factor.

LeJacquelope · 2021-05-24T05:28:49+00:00

Theory B is insane. People think that way because of the Halo effect.

justcallmetarzan · 2021-05-25T02:45:25+00:00

For every beautiful woman, there is at least one man who is just plain Tired. Of. Her. Shit.

PM_ME_STRIPPERS · 2021-05-29T11:01:29+00:00

this post is rather pointless when we all know that good looks = perceived as good personality, that goes for both genders

geyejoe7 · 2021-05-23T11:00:15+00:00

On average, people will be how they're naturally wired to be in the brain. Yes, beautiful people might get away with more shit, so their personality MIGHT go towards a "worse" alternative, where they behave any type of way and still get the same results.

AlienMoonSugar · 2021-05-23T12:36:52+00:00

I don’t think appearance matters in regards to someone’s personality. My friend of 16 years is a total bombshell and nobody but me knows just how much she hurts inside. She is a kind sweet hilarious girl.

I have also had pretty friends who where the absolute scum of the fucking earth and just don’t care because when one set of friends doesn’t work out, she moves on. This bitch broke my piano keyboard over my head shitface drunk and put me in a neck brace because the guy she liked rejected her and was close to me (non romantic relationship)

People are people. Some are shit stains, some are sunflowers.

wtknight · 2021-05-23T14:04:31+00:00

B. is usually right from what I've seen and experienced. Beautiful women are usually nicer up until the point some average guy who is being friendly with then starts expecting to have sex with them.

looozooop · 2021-05-23T16:12:24+00:00

I think people tend just project false ideals onto beautiful women very easily. Either due to the halo effect, or the opposite if she is someone who might be introverted or more closed off during social interactions. It’s much easier for people to come to conclusions about their personal regardless of if it’s actually true or not.

You have people here acting like being beautiful absolves you from ever experiencing other issues in life and that they don’t phase difficulties which, sure pretty privilege is real... but you still don’t know whether or not that person has faced struggles. They could have mental health issues, they could’ve faced abused, etc... I don’t get these assumptions. If someone is an asshole, they will be an asshole regardless of their looks. If someone has compassion & values, they will have that regardless of their looks. People not being able to see things & people for what they are is the issue.

Title	Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.
Author	Yolobidroie
Upvotes	141
Comments	228
Date	May 23, 2021 10:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/nj4vk0/two_rational_but_opposing_hypothesis_about/
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