Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨

Greendreem · 2021-04-14T00:29:11+00:00

MEN. DONT. HAVE. TO. DO. THIS. They don’t have to think of sex as a journey or some existential bullshit. They want to nut and won’t stop until they fucking do. And 99.99% of the time, they do. It’s like we always have to sacrifice something to lessen the blow for scrotes and it’s annoying.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-04-14T00:38:33+00:00

I recently saw that one of our mods wrote that FDS only adds men to our personal body count who actually get us off during sex.

Andie sounds like a virgin.

Mcccy · 2021-04-14T00:22:05+00:00

A guy wouldn't stay at a relashionship where he would have orgamless sex, so why tf should I stay? ☠️

There's no exsuse for not making your partner finish. If piv isn't enough he better gets on his knees or something.

lusigusi · 2021-04-14T00:15:53+00:00

Lmaooo and yet again, we witness the audacity of the pickmeisha logic. Would men willingly settle for a sexual relationship in which they actively disclose their lack of orgasm but still promote feeling FuLlFiLlEd??

Saying you can still have a fulfilling sex life with a partner who can’t make you orgasm is like saying you can still have a birthday party with no cake, no presents, no music, and no guests. Sure, it’s still your birthday, and sure, you can call it a party, but does it really feel like one? No.

lusigusi · 2021-04-14T00:23:15+00:00

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LevellingUpTime · 2021-04-14T00:08:26+00:00

Whenever a pickme says she doesn't mind not orgasming with her scrote because she's just happy with the "physical & emotional intimacy" from it, all I hear is that she's not getting any intimacy outside the bedroom and is putting up with bad sex for the few measly crumbs of intimacy a horny NVM gives her while she's being his fleshlight

The only experimenting I'm doing in my bedroom is experimenting with which techniques give me my strongest orgasm

sj5876 · 2021-04-14T00:06:57+00:00

I'm confused why she thought she needed to say that she's 25.. Reminds me of reality show dating contestants introducing themselves..

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-04-14T00:48:43+00:00

I’ll take this seriously when I see male content creators spreading the same message to other men. Until then, I can only see this as pick-me dick pandering that tries to get women to settle for being sexually unsatisfied.

meat_brick · 2021-04-14T00:07:21+00:00

I'm missing the fulfilling bit. When does she explain how orgasmless sex is fulfilling?

_jellybeanqueen_ · 2021-04-14T01:36:02+00:00

I'm good luv enjoy

_queeeen_ · 2021-04-14T00:16:16+00:00

Idk why women stick around when he can’t get you off. I’ve faked an orgasm a total of one (1) times and that was so I could leave faster.

Notspecificc · 2021-04-14T02:12:20+00:00

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DisastrousSundae · 2021-04-14T00:20:34+00:00

This is so sad what the fuck happened to us to allow this to happen

throwawayheyyy5 · 2021-04-14T00:27:08+00:00

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-14T01:37:10+00:00

How does a man not respecting you = emotionally intimacy? 🤡

Awkward-Plane-6617 · 2021-04-14T00:24:33+00:00

Oh Jesus Christ on a cracker. Try telling men this, and see how they respond. Better yet, tell them all that with the addition of explaining that the woman’s orgasm is mandatory, and watch them rage.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-04-14T01:00:02+00:00

Ask me how I know a woman doesn't orgasm.

When she does this shit.

Loser.

FDS-GFY · 2021-04-14T01:49:14+00:00

Don’t focus on getting paid at your job, focus on your EmoTIONal FUlfillMEnt.

Bish, emotional fulfillment doesn’t pay my rent and it SURE AF doesn’t get me off.

madonna_whorecomplex · 2021-04-14T01:58:44+00:00

Poor woman, she straight up outed her scrote for not being capable of giving her an orgasm and wants to have a company in her suffering, and she's basically a virgin.

N2Gen · 2021-04-14T00:29:33+00:00

Thx Andie, but none of those on their own are likely to get me off -_-

GypsyCactus · 2021-04-14T00:58:15+00:00

Yeah nah sis, I’m gonna cum or it ain’t worth the effort. This is why Hitachi is better than a man.

Unfit_Needleworker · 2021-04-14T01:48:09+00:00

Yeah. Tell that to a man 😂

2021-04-14T02:07:29+00:00

My god, so she just regurgitates what magazines like Cosmo have been gaslighting women with for decades.

2021-04-14T01:34:26+00:00

Hi! I'm MommysLilMonster0. I'm 32. I'm here to remind you that, as a pansexual lady who has had sex with people of all genders, this "advice" is only for women having sex with men. Which says a lot about how hetero men approach sex.

helppleasekk · 2021-04-14T02:25:00+00:00

I'm sure we'll be seeing a post on FDS from Andie in a short while about how much she regrets sleeping around with ZVM who didn't care about her. Liberal feminism has done so much damage to women it's fucking insane that they fall for it.

seraphinelysion · 2021-04-14T02:13:52+00:00

I fully support this message... to be aimed at men and only men. Don't focus on get off, guys. Just settle for the physical and emotional intimacy of it all. 👍

🙄

SakuraGirl88 · 2021-04-14T00:59:21+00:00

Nah sis. I'm not settling for bad unfulfilling sex. And all the other "reasons" she listed men can't even give you that.🤦🏽‍♀️

2021-04-14T01:23:43+00:00

Whatever you need to tell yourself to not feel resentful, Andie.

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-04-14T02:11:35+00:00

"Focus on having fun without the fun part of sex." lol she's really trying too hard she's not even making sense.

Nat_at_all · 2021-04-14T01:37:46+00:00

What the hell..? No, thanks. And if anyone told men this there would be a riot.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-04-14T04:41:20+00:00

This Announcement Had Been Sponsored By: Men Who Can’t Find Your Clitoris.

Hitflyover · 2021-04-14T01:19:46+00:00

Thanks, I hate it

sleutherino · 2021-04-14T03:56:35+00:00

So basically, 1) take any intimacy you can get, 2) don't be a prude when he wants to pressure you to do anal, and 3) don't forget to pretend you're having the time of your life.

Meanwhile, he gets an orgasm, intimacy, no restrictions, and a woman to smile about getting metaphorically and literally shafted.

2021-04-14T04:18:20+00:00

I hate tiktok.

Its full of retards spewing 1 min rubbish like this one.

2021-04-14T00:44:06+00:00

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Hikari3747 · 2021-04-14T03:44:38+00:00

If I don't cum you don't either. It's only fair.

eveloe · 2021-04-14T09:38:34+00:00

To anyone reading this comment (going to do a post) I think the guiding principle to live by is asking the question:

cui bono?

* ie who stands to gain from this?

I can think of a few groups of people who stand to gain from this:

- Ugly Men. Research has shown that there are a few male physical attributes that increases the chance of coital orgasm in women, which is a function that evolved for women to retain the sperm of desirable mates. These physical attributes include, but are not limited to: muscularity, deepness of voice, facial symmetry, penis length and girth, height. You are more likely to have not just one, but MULTIPLE orgasms with men of a certain physical caliber. See how I didn't mention "alpha traits"? Red pillers take notes.

- Lazy Men. Research has also shown that more than half of women orgasm from oral sex, but women in heterosexual relationships give it at about twice the rate that they receive it. The only guaranteed way for most women to come and it's sometimes not even classed as sex in common culture. smh.

- Men who like to push women's boundaries. I don't like that in this little tiktok "experimenting" isn't defined with the caveat that it has to be done with ENTHUSIASTIC consent. If an orgasm isn't important in a relationship, it takes the focus on (female, let's be real) sexual pleasure off the menu.

- Sex toy industry. If you don't have orgasms in your relationship, where can you go to have them?

- Women who are under pressure to orgasm and cannot while having sex with their partner. See point one. It's not you, it's him

chocolatelustpile · 2021-04-14T01:26:01+00:00

I smell a rat...

carlther · 2021-04-14T02:36:18+00:00

For me, I knew that my last relationship was over when I stopped having orgasms with him. Somehow, my body knew better than I did.

Nat_at_all · 2021-04-14T01:38:39+00:00

Yeah ladies, lower your bar for sex entirely and give up! And don’t forget to “have fun!”

daisy_0720 · 2021-04-14T06:19:59+00:00

This is exactly the same bullshit that was peddled to women in the 1800s. "Just lie back and let a man do what he needs to do, and don't expect to derive any pleasure from the act. Just be content with the thought that you're making HIM happy."

Ah yes, the 'enlightened' and 'modern' Liberal Feminism... What an absolute joke.

Efflights6 · 2021-04-14T01:53:25+00:00

I hope sooner than later she looks back and cringe at this.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-04-14T04:08:24+00:00

She should tell this advice to men because I dont want to hear this bs.

Gloomy-Ad3145 · 2021-04-14T05:04:53+00:00

Stfu libfems... Ugh.

pinkcityscape · 2021-04-14T06:02:21+00:00

I can orgasm multiple times by myself though? Why are we protecting the feelings of men who are purely just shit at sex lol

rawwwrrrgghh · 2021-04-14T06:50:06+00:00

So many words for “my boyfriend can’t make me come”

Ok_Meringue9724 · 2021-04-14T06:35:56+00:00

This type of mentality is prevalent because a lot of girls still believe that sex is something done 'to' them and not 'with' them. Many girls believe it's the woman's job to pleasure a man they are with but also have no expectations to have the same done for them. Her idea of "have fun" is lying there uncomfortable while he jackhammers you and sometimes strokes over your clit.

any woman who has had an orgasm with a man would never say that, lmao. If a guy doesn't make me feel good, BYE!! If I can make myself orgasm then someone else can. There's no excuse.

BubblyKraken · 2021-04-14T07:05:47+00:00

They really should be banned from spreading this toxic advice to young minds

PinkBlair99 · 2021-04-14T04:34:32+00:00

I was reading an otherwise very good self-help psychology book the other day and really digging it until I got to the part about “and then Susie realized her man’s erectile dysfunction didn’t have to be a barrier in their relationship, she just had to change her mindset and realize that there are other great ways to make sex “fun” that don’t involve him having or keeping an erection.”

Bitch, what the fuck. That’s literally the only reason I’d want a relationship with a man. Literally everything else he could potentially bring to the table I can (and do) already provide for myself! FOH

islandmaiden · 2021-04-14T06:29:55+00:00

She should just say she's having sex with men who don't make her cum and she rationalized to herself that she doesn't need orgasms anyway and go. Thank you, next!

NurseBubbleGum · 2021-04-14T02:09:34+00:00

Yeah, no, thanks. All of my fulfilling sex has ended in orgasm, not snuggles and a heart to heart.

SMansdotter · 2021-04-14T09:13:45+00:00

You know what's fun during sex? Funner than anything else?

Having an orgasm.

GoddessIxtab · 2021-04-14T10:18:04+00:00

I find it really interesting that she doesn't even mention pleasure.

If you have a hard time climaxing it might help focusing on the overall pleasure having sex but that doesn't mean to completely disregard your orgasm, but to experiment different ways to achieve it with a partner.

She should be ashamed telling women to have such low expectations in sex.

Hhjjuuy · 2021-04-14T10:29:52+00:00

"Experimenting"

BongSlurper · 2021-04-14T11:59:18+00:00

How am I supposed to “have fun” without an orgasm??

cremebruleecakes · 2021-04-14T12:46:07+00:00

This is why internal monologues should be kept internal , Andie 😬

melonmagellan · 2021-04-14T03:44:52+00:00

If they can get it up.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-04-14T09:30:22+00:00

Sex without orgasms is like if he fucked my armpit. Laughable? Yes. Fun? Nooooo.

ddamaya · 2021-04-14T14:48:58+00:00

Tell me you’re a pickmeisha without telling me you’re a pickmeisha...

Lavender_flow · 2021-04-14T14:36:41+00:00

God. Could she be trying any harder for male validation. Also the top she is wearing is 100% intended for the male gaze. Like sis. Shut up. It is like the bad sex advice written by journalists at cosmo. Just because they have 0 self worth and need male attention to even like themselves does not make them in any position to advice others.

Jacquerex09 · 2021-04-14T14:14:14+00:00

Lol...my boyfriend only focuses on my orgasm. He focuses on pleasuring me before himself and I love that about him.

hyperjinxx · 2021-04-14T14:07:32+00:00

Who is this for?

the-worst- · 2021-04-14T20:24:17+00:00

If orgasms aren't important, why are MEN so focused ON THEIR OWN ORGASMS????

Why the fuck should they be able to have orgasms every time while we don't have a single one?

Lately my husband has expected me to give him several orgasms in one oral session. While he isn't worried about giving me more than one. A month. He gets mad if i stop at one for him even if our toddlers start crying...

So yea, if men can prioritize THEOR orgasms over LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE, we can too!

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-14T00:27:59+00:00

Ew her outfit

scaredfail · 2021-04-14T02:39:08+00:00

she’s wrong but does anyone know where I can find her top

Kzunzh · 2021-04-14T16:51:48+00:00

Ah yes searching for reasons to validate the fact you're being used as a sex toy for a man that doesn't give a fuck about you 😂😂

cherrypepsilvr · 2021-04-14T16:53:00+00:00

Sex without orgasm isn't fun.

Maingurl · 2021-04-14T17:03:50+00:00

Girl......bye. We enjoy orgasms over here.

SayNad · 2021-04-14T21:47:16+00:00

I'm sorry how are you "having fun" when you are not orgasming? What's the use of doing sex acts then?

True_Call · 2021-04-14T22:15:24+00:00

lol why does it look like she’s reading off a prompt 😭

skyerippa · 2021-04-14T22:23:26+00:00

But why would I want to not orgasm when I can?

AngryBees88 · 2021-04-19T16:34:50+00:00

Thanks, Sideboob Andy, but I think I'll pass on this "advice". But you do you, girl! Go and have all the unsatisfying sex you can handle!

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