Daily Community Chat Megathread

NarniaFox · 2021-08-29T09:25:19+00:00

We bought a robot vacuum cleaner. Even less manual cleaning is required now :)

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-08-29T05:13:36+00:00

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Prestigious698 · 2021-08-29T05:10:34+00:00

What’s the percentage of men close to 60 with ED?

angels-fan · 2021-08-29T04:58:22+00:00

/u/reluctantly_red has deleted his account.

F

jbo99 · 2021-08-29T03:53:55+00:00

Agree or disagree: men are attracted to women in absolute terms (ie is she attractive period) but women are attracted to men in relative terms (given the options available to me I pick who is best)?

thatguyfromrichmond2 · 2021-08-29T03:36:02+00:00

Tall and fat or short and fit, which do you prefer women?

MartiianManHunter · 2021-08-29T03:27:05+00:00

Improving the looks of people on r/amiugly has been fun.

http://imgur.com/a/YGpRo6d

Best part is most of this is achievable.

Original is on the left.

NarniaFox · 2021-08-29T03:20:58+00:00

u/BumblingBeta, I'm late to the party, so I'll response here if you don't mind.

And with a bit of different take. Personally I support most changes that feminism has implemented/been trying to implement. I disagree with libfeminists about sex work though, but not because of how it affects dating. Feminism has become popular here quite recently and I think the major recent changes (although quite topical and local) are:

The popularization of the idea that women's sexual pleasure is important. When I was a teen most women's magazines were full of advice how to make him orgasm, but now there are more and more articles about women's pleasure and sexuality.
Easing the pressure to get married and have kids.
Bringing up the question of chores division. A lot of women here work the same hours as their men and still do more chores and child raising. It's got better though, especially among younger generations.
Feminists opened shelters for DV victims and hot lines for sexual harassment/assault victims. Not exactly dating-related, but still affects a lot of people's family life.

And I totally support all of these, but I wanted to talk about women who are pretty loudly against feminism. Their main complain is "now we have to work". It's totally ridiculous though, as it shows their total lack of history knowledge. Women always worked. We didn't have the equivalent of the US 50's, sure, there were some aristocracies, who didn't really work, but even their in times of need were selling their handmade works. Most women were serves and after the Revolution women were workers, not SAHMs.

MartiianManHunter · 2021-08-29T02:16:18+00:00

I've been having way too much fun with faceapp. Here are some bald celebrities with hair.

http://imgur.com/a/nNxYWP5

The app can somehow tell what ethnicity people are and the hair is the texture to match it. Unfortunately it's not perfect. Some of these textures don't match the actors real hair.

angels-fan · 2021-08-29T02:12:47+00:00

My neighbor's brother just died because he couldn't get into an ICU bed because they are full of unvaccinated covid patients.

He told me the hospital said that 90+ percent of the patients in the ICU are unvaccinated covid.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-08-29T02:07:56+00:00

Apparently my new flavor of the month musically is.... Cuban music, because I finally got around to listening to Buena Vista Social Club and watching the documentary on them. Guess that's on my list of places to visit now.

MisterFlipside · 2021-08-29T01:47:46+00:00

How am I supposed to feel about frequency of sex dropping more and more as a relationship goes on? Am I expected to endure it, because such a thing is inevitable for most? Am I supposed to treat it as a breach of contract, because we established a relationship under false pretenses? How long and how severe does the issue have to become before alternatives are on the table, especially if all of the love is as strong as ever, and yet basic needs arent being met? Is it a mans duty to endure it for the greater good?

throwaway213091345 · 2021-08-29T01:32:09+00:00

A friend described a girl we both knew to me and it sounded exactly like being alpha widowed.

Me: why is she such a cunt who thinks she’s a 9/10

Friend: he kind of ruined her

Me: what do you mean? He was shitty to her?

Friend: no. He was good looking and also really sweet, but she kind of expects that now for a man

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-08-29T01:23:13+00:00

Girl friends are the best. I just got a very sweet video out of nowhere from one of my closest friends, and it’s a lovey dovey friendship thing

For the guys on here who think the FSM is some nasty thing, this is the side of it you don’t see

angels-fan · 2021-08-29T01:16:03+00:00

That thread about the guy who was hurt because his fiancee is alpha widowed and pining for her exes dick shows just how little women care about men's feelings.

So many women telling him to grow up and that his feelings aren't valid and he's mired in fragile masculinity.

If the genders were reversed and a guy said "She's ok, but she has a loose pussy. Unlike Angela who was REALLY tight down there", the entirety of reddit would be calling for his head on a platter.

ToughAnswers · 2021-08-29T00:53:55+00:00

If covid is fake, why the need for ivermectin 🤔

Jaylen-Gads · 2021-08-29T00:48:17+00:00

Nothing good was posted today, the quality of posts has gone down a lot, due to low IQ people posting here.

Murphysmongoose · 2021-08-29T00:35:33+00:00

Well I just passed someone on a jet ski wearing a mask. I've seen the memes of people swimming with them, but always secretly hoped it was fake or missing context. They exist facepalm

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-29T00:33:51+00:00

For 80% of fathers in the world their best bet is to sex select a daughter if they are able to. A female's odds of being rejected by a man in the RMV is far more than offset by their abundance of suitors. Her odds of failure to procreate are way lower than a man's. Plus nature does not hold women to the rules of natural selection like it does men.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-08-29T00:15:49+00:00

Q4ALL:

The trope for a guy dating a woman out of his league is he either: well endowed, rich, and/or very charming and funny.

When you see a girl dating a man above her league, what do you immediately think?

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-28T23:17:51+00:00

This guy has a VIP luxury suite in heaven reserved for him now.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/started-picking-whoever-could-helicopter-120023292.html

goatismycopilot · 2021-08-28T23:16:07+00:00

Is anybody here from NOLA? You have hopefully left?

Madssmkay · 2021-08-28T23:15:09+00:00

Bollywood dance routines are so underrated. The balance of Akshay Kumar to do that in the beginning🤯

jbo99 · 2021-08-28T23:12:49+00:00

RP: would you consider Leonardo DiCaprio’s character in Titanic an alpha? People cite that movie as a classic AF/BB example but that guy doesn’t have a lot of the traits I’d typically associate as alpha

Historical-Agency334 · 2021-08-28T23:08:43+00:00

date with trad unicorn went well. Not sure what her N count is but im guessing its quite low and hopefully 0.

poppy_blu · 2021-08-28T23:02:41+00:00

Does anyone think it’s possible to leave this place and successfully detox?

In the car going to get ice cream and this song comes on the radio and I’m like, I love this - it’s such a sweet song. And my mind immediately goes to bitter incels on PPD who would clown the song about the beta with oneitis for the hypergamous girl who branch swung for the ultimate Chad in heaven.

Time to put this place in my rearview.

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-08-28T23:00:01+00:00

Chad and Stacy use their looks to take advantage of women. Does anyone still argue that better looking people doesn't correlate with "good" people?

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/davidmack/california-doctor-reality-tv-girlfriend-rape-bravo?bfsource=relatedmanual

SowClips · 2021-08-28T22:45:46+00:00

I’ve been thinking a lot about the ‘godfathers of redpill’ so to speak and it’s interesting when people have these discussions Tom Leykis’ name never pops up anymore. People always bring up Rollo, Kevin Samuels, Patrice O’Neal when they talk about men who were instrumental in spreading redpill ideas/talking points to the mainstream masses but never Tom.

It’s weird because back in his heyday, Tom had a fairly popular radio show with a devoted audience where he would regularly give his (mostly male) audience dating advice like don’t date single mothers or spend more then $40 on a date. He would also talk about men’s rights and how to pick up chicks. So in hindsight it’s pretty incredible to see how irrelevant he’s become, to the point that he has been reduced to going on mgtow forums to beg them to still listen to his show and celebrating the death of an infant on Twitter to get attention.

jbo99 · 2021-08-28T22:21:57+00:00

It’s weird to me how people just pretend like desire is inevitability. I desire to stuff my face with fatty sugary foods basically all the time but I don’t because I know they are bad for me. Similarly I think people can feel spontaneous attraction for others and not act on it or have it mean much at all. I think a lot of people on this sub need to figure this out.

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-28T22:04:58+00:00

I have a modest proposal for women.

How about all heterosexual men in America who reach the age of 21 by February 14 spend a week pitching themselves to women. Then the women all get to vote on whether they're desirable as sex partners. The bottom 80% of male vote-getters get castrated.

Sounds good?

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-08-28T21:04:54+00:00

If you have a few minutes, watch this. I promise you won't be disappointed.

peteypete78 · 2021-08-28T20:47:43+00:00

From a TIL

male argonauts develop a special arm for copulation in a pouch located under their eye and upon finding a mate they detach that arm and place it on the female. Their detached arm then crawls, with a life of its own, into her mantle for fertilization. Researchers found 38 arms inside one female.

Does that make her a whore or a hoarder?

NeuroplasticSurgery · 2021-08-28T20:45:17+00:00

I think the main problem with AWALT is that over time it seems to have mutated from "women on aggregate share the same basic sexual nature" to "no woman has a personality, they are all just copies of the same fleshbot." One is rational, the other is pure emotion, soothing self-deception.

It's what happens when noticing patterns and logically developing sexual strategies mixes with the bitterness of the waves of successive unsuccessful men who would naturally be drawn to a forum devoted to this topic.

PickleLine · 2021-08-28T20:11:37+00:00

Morally, for equality and for equal opportunity, women should be taxed for being women, for their female privilege.

Given the same individual income, women a have higher household income. Given the same amount of effort into their careers, the woman will have a higher household income than the man. That's not fair.

Even when not married, given the same individual and household income, women have higher life satisfaction because they're socially privileged and their lives are easier. Women get much more life satisfication per dollar spent. Women, even unconfident low status women, get treated better and get socially accepted into social circles, random groups, etc. more just for being women while men have to put effort and spend money to gain status to get the same treatment women do. That's not fair.

If you support equality and equality opportunity, you support a female privilege tax on women.

John_Oakman · 2021-08-28T19:50:35+00:00

Finally got out of there and back to a more comfortable place.

thatguyfromrichmond2 · 2021-08-28T19:46:13+00:00

Thoughts on joining nerdy clubs? Waste of time or not?

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-08-28T19:45:38+00:00

An unexpected benefit of being tall: people can't see your bald spot. For short men it's the opposite.

The rich get richer, the tall get taller.

poppy_blu · 2021-08-28T19:15:46+00:00

Tavis Smiley once said:

Black men: making babies does not make you a man.

White men: making money does not make you a man.

He hit that nail on the head.

Fridric_Magnus · 2021-08-28T18:53:38+00:00

I hate the term soyboy. Not because I object to it, it absolutely refers to an archetype to be called out. But because it's a perfect fucking metaphor (by calling them a boy you're firstly saying they're not really a man, but since soy is commonly used as a meat substitute, you're effectively saying they're a substitute at even that) and the rightoids all just focus on that dumb junk science angle.

Zealousideal-Wait286 · 2021-08-28T18:17:42+00:00

@mods Am i allowed to link a reddit post in my post on this sub?

Nation_of_Two · 2021-08-28T18:07:38+00:00

Oh this is hilarious- I just got auto-banned from FDS. Joke's on them, I as about to delete this account anyway for being 6 months old.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-08-28T18:05:35+00:00

Genuine question for the guys on here - do you guys not go to happy hours/pubs/bars?

I feel like I don’t really see the guys on here talking about that, just OLD. But I know - from living in a town with two universities - that young people definitely still hang out at bars and pick up chicks there

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-08-28T10:51:22+00:00

Why do the women here keep complaining that the men are weird and low value? They always resort to ad hominems

Do they think they're some catch or Unicorn lol?

angels-fan · 2021-08-28T15:58:00+00:00

Saturday morning shower thoughts...

One thing that I've been musing over is how fucked up my early childhood was.

I'm naturally conflict avoidant, so I hated getting into fights with other boys. My dad, on the other hand, only had one way of solving conflict, which was to fight. That was all he ever taught for conflict resolution.

I never would fight, so instead he'd smack me for "being a pussy".

Because of this, I became an easy target for bullies in grade school.

I think maybe this is why I have so much empathy for our young boys that are suffering so much. I wish anybody would have had any empathy for my suffering and taken me under their wing and helped me.

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-08-28T17:36:14+00:00

MEN, join NoSimpSeptember and lets crash the female sexual economy together.

https://www.reddit.com/user/DarkMindwithReason/comments/pbmqow/no_simp_september_2021/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-08-28T12:54:20+00:00

The rise of stuff like Kevin Samuel and the Hoodville Instagram account (which is absolutely hilarious by the way) further proves that TRP isn't that hard for normies to grasp.

It's literally just because it's worded so autistically that it seems that way.

Your average person is purple-pilled, not blue

calipaxonly · 2021-08-28T14:23:00+00:00

if there's a certain "type" of man that posts here, what does it make the women who post here?

Women need to wear a pretty dress and have some grace and elegance and theyll get plenty of attention. Then, your job is to vet for men by choosing someone sufficiently sexually attractive and is a good person. That's it.

The issues discussed here, and the potential knowledge that can be gained here is far more beneficial for men. Even if this place is a dumpster, its less of a dumpster for men.

So to the women who constantly antagonise the men who post here, what does that make you?

the whole "i will never date a man involved in the pills" trope is projection. men should run very very far from women who engage in these spaces

passepar2t · 2021-08-28T09:51:49+00:00

You know you're romantically unsuccessful when you're so used to sleeping alone that when a woman spends the night in your bed, you can't fall asleep.

Phoenix_Obscurus · 2021-08-28T15:34:59+00:00

Good morning/afternoon/evening everyone,

That hypergamy thread is a perfect example of what I was talking about with Sonic the other day; even in 'Discussion' threads, some people take a more adversarial (sometimes performative) stance and try to "win" the conversation.

Some of y'all just wake up swinging.

On another topic, when looking at something like advertising, there are many male-targeted ads that imply the acquisition of women's attention upon use of the product, but I can't really say I've seen the same for the female-targeted ads I've paid attention to.

What, in your experience, is the primary, gender-specific motivation displayed to women in order to sell or induce interest in a product?

throwingwearethrowin · 2021-08-28T15:44:36+00:00

It’s super annoying when men try to show you how to train when you’ve been doing it for years, you look better than him, you know what you are doing. Especially when they are small. It’s like dude I am bigger than you, get out of here. Also, don’t approach me at the gym unless you are a 10/10 Chad. Buy me a drink at the bar, don’t give me advice I don’t need or want.

BandaNaVizier · 2021-08-28T14:55:31+00:00

So I took the suggestion made by someone here and saw a psychologist(again), surprise surprise I have no mental issues, I'm just ugly. At least this time they didn't waste my time and said that they can't help me. It is what it is I suppose.

ChadThundagaCock · 2021-08-28T13:44:38+00:00

https://nypost-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/nypost.com/2021/08/27/roaching-is-the-new-gross-trend-to-infest-the-dating-world/amp/?amp_js_v=a6&amp_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQIKAGwASCAAgM%3D#aoh=16301577044905&csi=0&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fnypost.com%2F2021%2F08%2F27%2Froaching-is-the-new-gross-trend-to-infest-the-dating-world%2F

No thanks, I like spinning plates better, though I did use to have pet cockroaches.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2021-08-28T12:14:28+00:00

I just wanted to humble brag and mention that a chick said I was pretty while I was at work yesterday. Shit made me smile so hard😩

2021-08-28T09:00:55+00:00

1st

Night shift helps 😏

brilliant22 · 2021-08-28T10:55:43+00:00

I see a lot of quoting of Dave Chapelle: "if a man could fuck a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house"

Do you take this quote seriously, or even literally? Is everything you do in life done solely for women? If so, does that imply that everything other than sex is worthless to you, including your male friendships, career, family, pets, hobbies, interests, education, societal topics, etc? That if you could drop ALL of those listed things in exchange for more pussy, you would do it?

Squiddy-the-wise · 2021-08-28T15:24:24+00:00

Well shit.. the new neighbors have California plates.. Time to move

Edit- and they look poor😬

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-08-28T15:59:24+00:00

I think at a certain age as a dude you probably shouldn’t be having sex with girls who you would be personally embarrassed to be seen in public with.

2021-08-28T11:36:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/gMyE1xiu3_E

Stay off drugs kids…my god some of them are horrifying. Mute the vid too, its annoying.

peteypete78 · 2021-08-28T09:30:54+00:00

u/ChibsFilipTelfordd, I've posted it to your comment saying that I'm strawmanning, but you haven't seen the comment as it got shadow-banned by reddit. For some reason Reddit bans links to one particular Russian site, so now I can't provide the source. I can try to send it in DM, if you're curious.

As I've translated a post from a Russian *ncel leader, I'll post it here as well just for entertainment purposes. I've already posted some of this.

Some people think that love stands higher than sex. It isn't true, people just don't understand what sex is.

An *ncel is deprived of sex, but can be not deprived of love, but love doesn't give or mean anything. Love is just a feeling, emotions, you can love your home, motherland or a cat, there's no difference. You won't get sexual energy neither from a cat or your motherland. Sex isn't just about putting your penis inside, it's magical godly energy.

Sexual energy is magic. The highest magic which disappears by touching the lowest motives (like buying sex for money). That's why you can't buy sex for money, men don't get any energy from prostitutes. It's the opposite, they lose their energy. Only of a girl gives your sex for free and with awe and considers the man her Master, only then she'll give him energy.

If you get this energy in the right way, you'll get superpowers and immortality. No love can give this. For example, if a granny older than 30 falls in love with you, she won't be able to give you any energy as she doesn't have it anymore, but has love. But if we had tantric sex with a godly girl of 14 y.o. just by magic we'd become almighty and had superpower.

Governments of all countries know it. It's dangerous for them. That's why love is allowed and everyone talks about it. But supersex is prohibited till 16-18 under penalty of prison or even death sentence. For sex with a godlike 14 y.o. girl people can tear you to pieces, castrate, execute. For what? Why? Because THEY, secretly ruling the world, know what superpowers it gives and they're afraid of people getting these powers. That's why it's prohibited under the penalty of prison or death. We could live forever! Fly. Travel in time. Teleport. Read minds. Etc. But we're deprived of it.

We're condemned for slow and painful death and meaningless existing in pain and loneliness forever. Please, appreciate that I translated this opus of total shit and insanity. Just for you. So you could read it as well.

If you're interested in a source, you can DM me, as reddit blocks messages to this Russian site for some reason.

And if you're curious who the hell wrote this shit, here he is. He has been invited to several TV shows, taken a few interviews...If at first I thought that he was trolling everyone, after seeing him acting like this in real life, I've started to think that he really believes in it and he just needs help.

Edit: some more instanity that I tried posted as links, but they got banned for some reason.

That's how he describes a 13 y.o. girl:

Especially pay attention to what forms she already has at the age of 13: huge boobs, hips, obviously the girl is ripe. But sex is prohibited in the United States, it is prohibited in Russia and all over the world.

And another post about immortality:

People, too, could easily live for 500 years, people used lived for 900 years. The secret of longevity, practically eternal life and eternal youth is sex. You need to have sex from the moment of puberty without restrictions. But this is hampered by vaginocapitalism, women. This is how women robbed us of eternal life.

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ErrendeEbecee · 2021-08-28T12:59:29+00:00

Have you ever seen porn that "bothered" you so much you spent thinking about it even long time afterwards?

EfficientComputer5 · 2021-08-28T10:34:07+00:00

Last couple weeks I've had a few instances of attractive women looking at me as we walked past each other. I kind of think they were "checking me out", please don't infer too much from that, I hate when people respond like "SO YOU THINK YOURE THE HOTTEST PERSON EVER!?", probably some weird gross person on the other side of that line...

Actually, looks aren't my Forte either. I generally put the most minimal effort into my looks as possible. Imagine hank hills wardrobe but bearded. So, I'm just kind of left guessing what's going on. Pretty ladies, seemingly generally out of my league looking at me, there's also way more typically attractive dudes around to in this upperclass metro sexual hell world. Maybe they're looking at everyone? Maybe, they're just looking at me for some other reasons. I've always been quite average and it's always been my speech that causes attraction and that's far easier to deduce their motive because it's always accompanied by a type of "step bro help! My hand is caught in the laundry wash" type of over the top sexual gesture.

Idk, kinda feel that upperclassmen folk are kinda strange. Dudes act gentlemanly-ish but dress like they're trying to be seen a mile away. I don't see much scandalous sexual gazing from the guys round here or the type of generic cat calling type you'd see from media depictions, they're more like the guys from the bachorette but far less exceptional. Instead they just dress really nice and hope the girls come to them or something, perhaps some clever ruse to circumvent appearing needy or something.

I'm more used to piggish dudes that thirst like crazy, they mob together and stare like scary people. It's casual to be with a group of "buds" and just simultaneously announce and direct each others attention to a pretty girl. It's kind of annoying really, side note, I generally hate all forms of conformity and compulsion and while such things should and can be voluntary, there's always this tribal reciprocity of false respect in following whatever everyone is doing. Like some savage insulted after you refuse to eat the carcass of a murdered baby because "muh culture man" I love female bodies, but there's like a seemingly infinite amount of things of greater importance to me, including basic social ettiteque and not scaring random passerbies. I've been left kinda scarred with irritation from these lesser kinds of people, I don't seem to fit in to places that don't share my same values, which sucks because people seem to never have any good ones. Anyways, to me its kind of a culture shock of sorts, it's the same nation but different socioeconomic groups. But it is kind of a mystery as to what these certain events entail.

It's not that dramatic or important, just kinda made me feel good for a moment or Sum'tin'... Weird though, I dress so trashy too, my work clothes are my every clothes. I wear the crap on my pants like people slit open their jeans for style. Definately not what you'd think of as usual.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	August 28, 2021 9:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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