At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? [recovered]

leelbeach · 2021-12-08T22:10:14+00:00

Mate I'm 25 and you've had way more experience with women than me. So I wouldn't worry to much about it.

housebird350 · 2021-12-08T21:39:38+00:00

I would say early 30's.

Still young enough to attract college age women, you should have a little money to take them out, a job and some potential security to offer them.

You also are in the age range were you can attract first time divorcees especially ones with young kids.

And you are still young enough to attract older women trying to relive their youth if only for a few weeks or months.

sepia_dreamer · 2021-12-08T23:20:26+00:00

Bro I was a virgin until I was 27, and haven’t even touched a girl for over a year. I’d say you’re hitting pretty solid.

marutiyog108 · 2021-12-09T01:12:12+00:00

When you stop giving a fuck and worrying about being rejected or turned down. I spent most of my highschool years terrified to ask girls out as I got older I felt a little more confident. But I eventually realized if I get turned down it's not as bad as I made it out to be. It's not deadly. There are as they say other fish in the sea. After that it just became fun to flirt. the worst thing they could be is not interested. And it didn't change anything in my life. Not interested okay. Moving on. You still wanna be friends ok cool. If they flirted back I would see where it went.

Keep dating fun don't stress it hang out meet people. Be yourself.

elvissayshi · 2021-12-08T22:40:03+00:00

It’s not a contest on who can sleep with the most women. Bro it’s not that deep Chillex. You’ll get a nut off with a woman when a woman wants to get a nut off with you. As long as you keep doin what your doing that is causing you to improve. And stop comparing yourself with sex and your self worth.

Youthful25 · 2021-12-09T01:31:27+00:00

Men's prime is 30s. He has great career, life and dating experiences, wealth, assets, peak testosterone, intelligence, muscle mass and goals.

1990MeWuzBorn · 2021-12-08T21:15:13+00:00

21 is young, bro. I started sleeping with the most women around 25. I’m 31 now and have multiple plates. Men get better with age — just take care of yourself MENTALLY and physically.

MrHoopersDead · 2021-12-08T21:40:55+00:00

At 40 you'll be deep in it. You can span 20 years in either direction.

Talliss1 · 2021-12-09T00:18:45+00:00

Age has nothing to do with it...maturity, financial stability, how you present yourself, and your overall attitude are bigger magnets. The more you keep self-actualizing, the more women will gravitate to you...it's nature.

cunningcaring · 2021-12-08T23:10:09+00:00

Ninety. The odds become very favorable.

Ducharbaine · 2021-12-09T02:45:58+00:00

Forget fomo. You're doing fine. You'll hit a stride from 25 to 30 or longer, then refine your tastes and get pickier. 4 women at 21 isn't player fboy but its respectable. If you want to be swimming in sex then focus your lifestyle around it. Otherwise, keep doing what you're doing.

ShmigglesMiggles · 2021-12-09T03:10:08+00:00

When you are a baby. Lots of women love babies.

lowandslow86 · 2021-12-09T00:28:49+00:00

It isn't about age its about getting reps in and living full life that is satisfying to you.women may not flock to you after that but they usually do like a man of substance.

Nofapdeity · 2021-12-09T00:32:01+00:00

What? I’m 21m virgin. Buddy you’re miles ahead of me

mrmarkme · 2021-12-09T02:27:36+00:00

I’m 24, and my god does it seem like this year has turned on a switch for women being more into me. Must be a post covid thing

Rastaman143 · 2021-12-08T21:57:55+00:00

Older is better as you age ofc if you been in the game for years. But you’ll never look as good as you do in your 20s, wrinkle free youthful skin etc etc just approach women and you’ll find success the number one is approaching women you have to do it.

shinymusic · 2021-12-08T23:01:36+00:00

Late 20's early 30's. I have found men and women will look to you for guidance as long as you are competent in a domain.

AbjectScar3729 · 2021-12-09T01:44:13+00:00

If you have money, looks and you are tall it doesn't matter what age...

saalejo1986 · 2021-12-09T00:53:42+00:00

Its not an age, is a mind set.

-Kast- · 2021-12-09T01:50:12+00:00

30s to 40s is when you peak. I'm living it now.

Was married for several years, got divorced and back into the dating scene. If you asked me, I thought I was mildly attractive when I was young, yet I never really had any consistent interest from women.

Now? It's fairly easy to find women and dates, so much so that I lost interest because its soooo predictable for the most part.

kuro_fenrir · 2021-12-09T06:12:12+00:00

Usually about a day or two after you get a girlfriend

UnknownWolf719 · 2021-12-08T22:43:01+00:00

Hey at least you have more than me. I’m the same age as you and I’ve only had sex with 1 babe but I’ve kissed 5 different women

sh1ftyswar · 2021-12-09T00:32:39+00:00

30 hands down, most of us get over any nervousness around women or at least care less. You are far more likely to have transport, steady work and some habitation away from family.

ExpensiveNinja · 2021-12-09T01:36:59+00:00

Depends on the person, but in theory, probably around 27-33. If you played your life correctly, you have some experience, you got your life figured out (health and finances), and around this age, most people know what they want from a partner.

rudebwoy100 · 2021-12-09T02:55:03+00:00

It's easiest the younger you are because girls expect less from you. As a 21 year old girls just want you to be physically attractive and have an outgoing, fun personality.

If you were 31 for example they're expecting you to have a good career, your own place and ready or close to ready to settle down and sadly that has become harder to do in todays economy.

creativeoutlaw44 · 2021-12-09T04:19:08+00:00

"I’m 21 and it seems like other guys are getting way more girls then I am."

"Getting girls" can mean so many things. Making out, BJs, eating her out, sex, handjobs, etc. Just because you're intimate with a woman does not mean:

1) you or her enjoyed it

2) it was a good use of your time

3) it will add any value to your next experiences with women

Keep getting better, figure out what type of girls you click best with, and go after them.

willgo-waggins · 2021-12-08T22:38:36+00:00

It starts in your early thirties if you are mature at that point.

I am attracting more than ever and I am 51. And all ages from late twenties up.

But even young your personal maturity and sense of self confidence have a huge bearing in things.

EpicJohnCenaFan · 2021-12-09T04:33:38+00:00

First of all, stop attributing depression to lack of success. You're depressed because you don't have success, not the other way around.

I think you already know the answer to your question also. You actually gotta get out there and start talking to girls to improve. They'll be no easy age where it becomes great, there isn't an easy fix. You gotta put the work in.

Frankiedrunkie · 2021-12-09T04:35:12+00:00

Turned 26 a couple months ago and I have been getting so much attention from women, I get more confident as I age and I have enough experience with women to know what games they are playing (or not) but it was so surprising how easy it was for me to talk to girls and how often I get complimented/approached, this year I beat my own record for girls I’ve slept with in a year of 5, I had 8 this year and might bang one more this month. I even deleted my dating apps coz I didn’t feel like I needed them. I’m not saying all this to brag or anything, just saying it comes easier with more experience, the older you get the better you are with women (if you put yourself out there) but I’d say most men peak from 28-38

My only problem is most of these girls are 19-22 year olds, most girls my age or older don’t show me any interest at all, weird. They are probably chasing 30 year olds.

Uniquely_Urban · 2021-12-09T08:43:25+00:00

Confidence is key*

boriquasan · 2021-12-09T03:54:19+00:00

The proper age is when you don’t focus on picking up women. You fix your life in every way possible. You exude the confidence that all of your hard work has afforded you and then they come to you. No need to do much, but be yourself; as they will want to be around you and with you. Enjoy your youth, the mistakes and the lessons from them. Don’t focus on “getting” women. The quality ladies can smell when you all talk and bullshit.

Hooosreddit · 2021-12-09T02:05:38+00:00

It's not about age

ChaplieBogez · 2021-12-09T02:50:26+00:00

I had a similar problem. I’m 35 now, but when I was 21 I looked like I was 15. If I could go back and talk to myself at that age I would say don’t even think about it, just have some balls and go for it without fear of rejection. On the bright side, if you’re like me you’ll always look younger which is subjectively more beneficial as you get older. Enjoy your life. Quantity is not at all important. Bad sex is pointless.

ianb2626 · 2021-12-09T03:15:03+00:00

Boys its a curve from sucking with girls to being awesome with them as time goes on. It gets better and easier as you age... so worry not, young gents, the future looks great!

rememberedthemoney · 2021-12-09T03:28:53+00:00

Age dont matter it doesnt get easier just keep shooting yo shot until one hits

Lost_in_hindsight · 2021-12-09T03:31:06+00:00

Usually at Money years old.

thats0K · 2021-12-09T06:24:05+00:00

other guys are getting more girls? some old dudes die virgins. stop comparing yourself to others. you should only be comparing yourself to your past self, that's it. "comparison (to others) is the thief of joy".

besides I promise you there are 10,000,000 more things in life to measure. guys that judge each other on how many women they slept with are fucking losers dude. who gives a fuck who you've slept with? those who mind, don't matter. and those who matter, don't mind.

chasing pussy, for me, is a humongous fucking waste of time and I am such a happier person doing whatever I wanna do each day instead of wasting my time courting a chick, using dating apps, pushing/pulling, blah blah blah. such a fkn waste of time. the juice is NOT worth the squeeze for me as of late regarding most women in the states.

GPP89 · 2021-12-09T08:45:31+00:00

My craziest times womenwise were from 18-22. I was a bitch

cbh28 · 2021-12-09T10:02:45+00:00

When you're close to 30 I'd guess, depends also on whether you have a baby face too. It's tough to attract women around your age when they think you're 5 years younger.

ld20r · 2021-12-09T13:53:28+00:00

I think most will say mid 20’s to 40’s but you have to remember we are living through exceptional times right now and the opportunities to meet people, form relationships or hook up are nowhere near as prevalent or as easy as they were before the pandemic and particularly for the early to late 20’s crowd.

So the age is going to differentiate a lot depending on the person, there location and there country. A lot of people lost out on 2 years of experience and opportunity to meet people so will naturally be a little bit behind on there timeline.

We also don’t know the full long term affects of what the last 20 months of isolation have had on teenagers or young adults yet and there life experiences cannot be compared to the generations before because they simply are living in a completely different world compared to times before.

So I think as a result, we are going to naturally see more late bloomers and people getting into relationships at a later age than what was considered the norm timeline and age around the globe pre 2019.

stevelle174 · 2021-12-09T14:51:30+00:00

I was you. Virgin till 19. 4 girls by age 21. I also struggled to approach them, was nervous, got rejected often; but kept trying relentlessly and slowly improved my game. I felt behind too, which made me feel small and angry, which made progress slower. I also looked young. It's called being a late bloomer and it pays off later. I'm 29 now and have slept with 40 women. Try not to fret (i know this can be hard). Keep talking to as many women as you can, failures are leaning experiences. And remember they're picky, it's hard for all of us.

asdf333aza · 2021-12-09T14:57:50+00:00

I would say things get better in your middle to late 20s. After I turned 25, I found myself getting way more hooks up than before. Younger girls like you and girls your age are looking to date you as well.

But I do remember the worst time I ever had dating and getting hook ups was probably 18 to 21. Those are literally like the worst years for guys. 18 after high school was rough. You can't date younger girls cause you're 18 and an adult. And you older girls won't even look your way. And you're kind of stuck like that until you're like 22. And after 25 I would say things got easier. So long as you stay in shape and aren't a total loser. And you also stop caring as much and that seems to bring girls to you in a way as well.

miamiric3 · 2021-12-09T15:08:01+00:00

Grow a (well-maintained) beard if you can. I’m late twenties and look 18 without it, but 32 with it.

Also, just make friends with everybody. Guys, girls, doesn’t matter. Some of the women will want to sleep with you—great! Others will be down to be friends with you and will introduce you to their friends who in turn may want to sleep with you—even better.

But being a friendly, fun guy who everybody likes is the easiest way to attract people.

The only mistake is not talking to everyone you can.

Casanova-Quinn · 2021-12-09T15:39:27+00:00

It's easiest when you have your shit together, not at any specific age. Be in shape, dress well, have a decent job, etc. and you will do well with women until you're practically a senior citizen.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-12-08T21:09:23+00:00

You sound neurotic.

bath_junkie · 2021-12-08T23:57:03+00:00

If you’re making them feel pretty and showing interest in them how and why are you not getting laid? The ladies are out there waiting and gagging for attention

rai_the_tyrant · 2021-12-09T00:11:45+00:00

Early to mid 30s. Men look mature and have financial stability.

Beezus333 · 2021-12-09T01:06:53+00:00

Around 30 if you got your shit together, it’s nature homie!

2021-12-09T03:54:53+00:00

Why would you want get more girls? Can't you just get one or if you want to have more , you have to be man enough treat and love them equally with just. You are still a boy and not a man , it's time you start taking responsibility if this what you want to do.

Errybody_dothe_Lambo · 2021-12-09T04:34:59+00:00

21 is still so young in life. You’ve got nothing but time. Take it easy and don’t push the envelope

Livinlikelary11 · 2021-12-09T06:08:46+00:00

The age where you start to get your shit together (as an adult) and start to become confident in yourself.

Zhior · 2021-12-09T07:58:15+00:00

I don't really think there's really a catch all answer to this. Everyone goes through different phases at different points of their lives. I'm 27 and I've slept with about 20 ish women, about half of those were in the span of 6 months when I was 24-25.

Am I overthinking or what?

Probably? It really depends on what your goals are. If you're wanting to sleep with a bunch of different women (nothing wrong with that as long as you're honest with yourself and your partners) then you need to be taking the appropriate steps: go out every night that you can, download all the apps, day game even.

One piece of advice I would give you is to not compare yourself to others too much. Doesn't matter if the guys around you seem to be getting more girls than you. Do not try to catch up to some supposed societal standard but rather do things that make you happy, If you see your friends pulling a bunch of girls, don't take it as an attack on your ego, rather observe and learn so you'll be able to apply the things that work in your own style.

berttbeans996 · 2021-12-08T23:45:32+00:00

I’m 25 and it’s easier than it has ever been in the past, ever. My only basis of merit is dating apps, however. At age 20-21 I got absolutely no girls off dating apps. I’m 25 and have gone on dates with at least 30 different women this year, entered casual relationships with many of them. But yea it might get better as I get older, idk. But so far 25 has been easiest.

BradleyX · 2021-12-09T01:02:59+00:00

It’s always easy, just hard at your age when you’ve yet to grow into yourself. I’m in my 50s and there’s an abundant supply of women who are divorced, never married, kids grown, financially stable with their own homes, well travelled, intelligent, well read, want to live their lives disgracefully etc.

Cruisey1994 · 2021-12-09T09:40:24+00:00

Once you've hit 20s and If you have confidence, can carry a conversation and stay fit and healthy, its pretty easy. Having a fashion sense helps also, self care etc. Also smelling nice!

IamWisdom · 2021-12-09T03:01:29+00:00

Late 20's you'll get better then 30's and possibly 40's (don't know yet) are the prime time for men. We bloom later!

rahhumilovedogs · 2021-12-09T03:05:16+00:00

I'm in my 30's and get hit on constantly... like every where I dang go. I think its single girls that missed out on there 20s. But never have had issues picking up chicks. I think its just how to you talk to them. Looking young might be part of it. Could you try to look older? Like hair style or clothes? Also at that age you probably need to approch them first.

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-12-09T03:51:11+00:00

i was a late bloomer, afraid of sex since my mom was an ob gyn nurse.

Got married at 21 with a chick that had 2 other guys before me.

Divorced at about 26 since she was hooking up randomly.

My 30's were awesome.

My 40's even more.

I am married again.

Ljhasta · 2021-12-09T03:54:49+00:00

24-40 but it all depends on how well you age and take care of yourself.

For some it could go to 45 if youre super careful, were sunblock and don't drink alch too much (give u lines)

TalionTheRanger93 · 2021-12-09T03:59:50+00:00

We have statistics on when men are most attractive, and when women are most attractive. That's something that exists, and you can argue about how accurate they are but that's hoe statistics works. They aren't always 100% accurate to reality.

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thedancinghippie · 2021-12-09T04:19:23+00:00

At 26 I've had sex with ~60 people. Been having sex for 11 years or so. At age 23 my number was like 17. It gets better really quick in your mid 20s.

swinglife1 · 2021-12-09T04:22:44+00:00

I'm 37 and have been with hundreds of women. Women don't look at age the same as we do. Sure it's harder now to find 21 year olds. But I believe that is because they are literally harder to find because I don't associate with a younger crowd anymore. Women look at status and confidence as well as looks when gauging attractiveness. No matter how old you get there will always be younger women attracted to you because of your perceived social status. I'd say around 30 was the best but it's still good at 37. You just have to work a little harder.

EmmaLovely13 · 2021-12-09T04:53:35+00:00

Hey mate, woman here in your same age bracket experiencing some of your same emotions! Right off the bat, I’ll just tell you that I hate this new hookup/dating culture. I’m not saying I don’t like or want to hook up with people, because that’s definitely not the case, but when men approach me and they make it seem like that’s all they want from me, I’m immediately turned off. So if that’s been your approach, I would change that. Even if you’re not looking for a relationship, I feel like creating a stronger relationship with the women you meet will automatically boost your chances of having an intimate interaction with her later on.

Aside from overall approach and attitude, a lot of women in this age bracket are just attracted to a man that’s put together. Hook up or otherwise, being confident in yourself and what you bring to the table is going to be key. I personally don’t place any high value in a partner’s money status, but seeing that a man has a job, hobbies and passions, and is doing well for himself, automatically makes the man more attractive to me. After that, he’d definitely be more likely to get an intimate interaction with me, than someone who didn’t display those qualities. Be confident and remember to be kind to yourself. Hope this helps ☺️

hairykitty123 · 2021-12-09T05:35:23+00:00

I’m in 30s and best shape ever, stopped drinking a year ago. I get more attention than ever before age 21-50 but damn my confidence isn’t where it should be as far as approaching but I’m working on it. Before I would always pull while drinking now sober it’s like learning all over again.

MentalCelOmega · 2021-12-09T05:44:51+00:00

Generally, for 8+ males or alpha class males on social caste system, any age is easy for them to attract females. If your are sub 8 and lower on the social caste system, then it will likely be in your 30s due to females biological clocks ticking on them, making them desperate to find a mate. However, that only applies if you are making upper five figures at a bare minimum. If not, then it is over for you. If you are a pariah class on the social caste system, then it was over before you even got out of your mother's womb.

throwaway11zx · 2021-12-09T05:52:53+00:00

Women like older, well established and mature men usually in 40s (that's why James Bond is chosen around the same age).

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-12-09T06:26:37+00:00

Approx whenever you become attractive

drewcer · 2021-12-09T06:38:38+00:00

I’m 33 and it’s never been easier for me than it is right now.

Superb-Bank9899 · 2021-12-09T07:02:45+00:00

It will become easier as the pool of possible daters becomes smaller. I have also heard women like older and more mature men, but I have seen little evidence of it myself.

Direct-Success6537 · 2021-12-09T07:10:02+00:00

Doesn't matter if you are rich. Just turned 37s and going out with a 21 yrs old. I get to choose, not the other way around. Bottom line, focus on financial success first. Women are attracted to social status and power.

SnooRabbits1296 · 2021-12-09T07:16:59+00:00

crabzillax · 2021-12-09T07:18:05+00:00

At 35 I feel like I'm "Wanted".

Didn't feel this before, and I had no problems in my life with this besides some dark years where I did let myself go.

nbh1995 · 2021-12-09T07:19:50+00:00

don't worry about it numbers don't matter as much as you think. Attracting women can vary on a few things the main three I can think of are confidence, looks and purpose. Your looks are at their peak in your early to mid 20's but purpose wise most men have their purpose a bit later and confidence can be present at any age...that is just a matter of social experience

cloutier85 · 2021-12-09T07:20:12+00:00

I think mid 30s is peak of a man for sure in terms of wealth, wisdom and fitness too if he kept up.

SirValeLance · 2021-12-09T07:33:35+00:00

I'd be less concerned with the number of girls you're bedding and more concerned about the quality and duration of your relationships.

Boys try to sleep around. Men strive to build a family.

Live-Ad-6309 · 2021-12-09T07:48:12+00:00

My dad always told me 27-35 was his prime. So I'm gonna assume around then. But I suppose it depends on the person. If you get fat, then maybe you peak in your early 20s. Same if you end up working a non-sexy job that doesn't pay well.

VDKay · 2021-12-09T08:42:28+00:00

Fear of missing out

age it's easier to attract girls

IMO, These are unrelated topics and I am not sure how you are drawing the correlation. Are you trying to calculate the age where you will be getting more girls and "catch up"? Yes, you are probably overthinking it. I suspect deeper-rooted issues regarding your confidence. If you don't address those, you are never going to feel that you "caught up" and that could be detrimental for your mental health

Instead, try to put everything into perspective, and after than, focus only on yourself and your own progress. The rule of thumb is "Start doing the best you can right now, no matter your age". Some people are naturals and slay girls left and right in high-school. Some break out of their shell in their 20's and some attract girls with a "successful lifestyle" in their 30's. It depends on so many factors not just age

demalteb · 2021-12-09T09:21:06+00:00

16 to 75.

"Because of a few songs, women have been exceptionally kind to my old age" (Leonard Cohen)

I’m 21 and it seems like other guys are getting way more girls then I am.

Oh I thought the same. So much. Now, in hindsight, with my friends being more honest about it, I see that we all felt the same way. We are all being sold this big fat lie that a manly masculine man's man has to shag three different girls every other day, or he's a pussy wussy feminized sucker.

It's a lie.

ETA:

I was a virgin until I was 19 and since then I’ve had sex with 4 girls total

I would say that this is pretty normal.

MisterSisterFister12 · 2021-12-09T09:30:10+00:00

Probably depends on the individual. And what girls are into. I had no game until i was 18. Then from 18-20 i had slept with 20 girls and had three girlfriends. For me it helped when i started working out, and got more confident. If you dont get in shape until you're like 30 or 40, you're probably not gonna get laid much until then either.

No_Way2496 · 2021-12-09T09:49:06+00:00

College 18-24 > Lots of opportunities to casually hook up On campus, through friends, events, parties, everyone wants to experiment, have sex, you don’t need a lot of money to go on dates etc.

30-40 is also good in the sense that you have more confidence, financial stability eg can go to nice bars/ restaurants/ holidays eg you can go Vegas and then its easy to meet people there. Also in your 30’s you can easy date younger women (21-29) and at the same time date older women (35-45).

Shadow__Account · 2021-12-09T10:21:21+00:00

I think lookswise probably the younger you are and personality wise the older you get so the golden period is when these periods overlap which will be different for everyone. So if you still look young and you have matured theres the golden spot. But at the same time if you make great progress mentally but your looks go down a lot, you could potentially still have much more success than you had before while you looked better.

long-in-the-tooth · 2021-12-09T10:59:01+00:00

20ftScarf · 2021-12-09T11:22:20+00:00

So far, 32, which I am not. It has gotten steadily easier the older I’ve gotten.

Four girls by 21 is nothing to shake a stick at. You’re doing great and things will just get better.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-12-09T11:38:11+00:00

ArinaMae · 2021-12-09T12:04:02+00:00

I’ve always found men in their 30s to be the hottest. Some guys age well and look amazing in their 40s. I’m 28.

Lagstravaganza · 2021-12-09T12:36:25+00:00

Depends on the guy. Some would say 15. Others, 50.

Tylerj579 · 2021-12-09T13:15:10+00:00

This gout over here 4 so far. 22 and over still virgin gang where you at.

Brightboi2000 · 2021-12-09T14:08:05+00:00

I think 30-45. Literally everyone's into men in that age range. Well not literally, but yeah.

Laduk · 2021-12-09T14:26:47+00:00

I think it’s important that you are mature and that the women know it by the way you hold yourself.

Just ask them out, maybe use a nice opener and just do it. I was afraid of it until recently and never wanted to give off bad vibes. But once I just went for it the dates came flying. Go ahead bro nothing to lise

SlickSam87 · 2021-12-09T14:29:34+00:00

Between 18 and 36, I would say that I haven’t had much of a problem.

It depends on sooooo many factors. Looking young has always benefited me.

But also, I’m a photographer. It’s my job to get you to want to fuck my lens. There’s a certain sexiness to being an artist that I wish I could put my finger on.

WheelIntelligent1354 · 2021-12-09T14:36:01+00:00

I'd say 24-29 because the women that want your age range are the most promiscuous and easy while still not being in the "damn I'm getting old, when am I getting married" phase?

thesilentkill93 · 2021-12-09T14:46:59+00:00

for men age is irrelevant, only $ and social status. i had game at 21 and pulled a decent number of girls. got laid every 2 weeks or so. now I'm 29 and a millionaire with a good group of friends and know how to get the exact kind of girls i like that would like me back. you cant get them all, for now just work on urself, build ur physical, business and bank acct. and ull have 21 yo babes wanting to suck u off till ur 45. i see 18yo babes banging fit 50yo men. thats just how women are.

Zackzackz · 2021-12-09T14:53:48+00:00

Im 32 and it has never been easier getting with women. Except Im in a serious relationship now, so dont want to ruin it. But generally, early 30s is way better than 20s.

rwalsh138 · 2021-12-09T15:07:44+00:00

Obviously I found it easier and easier as I got older, but by the time I was about 33 I felt like a seasoned pro.

JohnZoffman · 2021-12-09T15:30:28+00:00

I watch AMS videos, and in one video he says "you are not seducing shit, if she finds you attractive, you just talk to her and be careful you dont talk yourself out of the pussy"

I think thats a releiving way to look at it and can possibly ease the mind

Competitive-Cuddling · 2021-12-09T15:39:27+00:00

Depends on your maturity and confidence levels.

If you start a career in your early 20s, by the time you’re in your late 20s - early 30s should be your prime.

But even your early 40s can be better, so long as you take care of yourself.

tropius5 · 2021-12-09T15:58:52+00:00

Don't worry about the numbers other people are pulling, be happy in your own here and now. Enjoy the moment you're in because you'll never experience this moment again.

Lifesgoodman96 · 2021-12-09T16:22:40+00:00

Age is irrelevant. What matters if your level of self-actualization and dedication to your purpose, which subsequently result in high self esteem and confidence. Some men do the work early in life and some men drift their entire lives, never realizing their intrinsic value or purpose. You can attract women easily at any age if you know yourself.

bunnycat666 · 2021-12-09T16:58:42+00:00

The age you decide to do some inner work

yourgirlfriendsdad · 2021-12-09T17:00:27+00:00

The best age is around 36. Then girls will start taking you serious. If those 4 girls were hot then you're doing pretty good. Very few 21 yo guys have a knotch count of 4. Its easy to fall for the idea that everyone is getting laid more but its not true. Top players in the world only get laid about ten times a year anyone doing better is fucking fatties or has a very high smv. You're doing great at 4

tropicsGold · 2021-12-09T17:10:52+00:00

You are just coming into your prime. Young enough to be physically hot (especially assuming you are putting in lots of time at the gym), but now getting old enough to have a clue (everyone is pretty clueless at the start). Enjoy the 20-something year old women around you, who are in their physical prime. And don’t forget to bang a few MILFs who love young guys and can be a lot of fun. But as other people have mentioned, don’t sweat it, don’t take it seriously, don’t compare yourself to other, just enjoy it. You only get to be 20’s once.

great_account · 2021-12-09T17:12:57+00:00

As I got further in my career, I started to attract more women easily. I think it starts around 26 for me. I'm 33 now and only getting more attractive.

DancilB · 2021-12-09T17:15:53+00:00

That pension check is a magnet!

LawfulnessLow7794 · 2021-12-09T17:15:57+00:00

the age you get stacked

mikejamesone · 2021-12-09T17:39:47+00:00

Just keep approaching and going to bars and clubs approaching girls. Just take ACTION

Success of anything always goes back to basics so there's nothing to think about.

WomanWhoBets · 2021-12-09T17:47:54+00:00

SincerelyYourStupid · 2021-12-09T19:27:03+00:00

Fwiw, I’m 40s and it’s never been easier.

jeepmike02 · 2021-12-09T21:00:22+00:00

Doesn't matter what age. I always found once you find being alone and focusing on yourself and realize you don't need a woman, the girls come. Girls want a guy that's a challenge. Get rejected learn that it's okay. Not everyone is going to like you. Just be yourself and have fun with it. Don't live with regret. Best of luck to you.

random_af_guy · 2021-12-09T03:56:32+00:00

The age where you seem like a father figure. Like Daddy.

Why? Because you are smart, stable, and based. You are someone they look up to. They respect you.

Most men get there simply by age, but you can speed it up by working on you. Work on you like nothing else matters. Work on you so hard that women start to notice.

lilacbutterfly6 · 2021-12-09T05:06:43+00:00

Four partners in two years is kind of a lot...in my opinion. Don’t worry. Look for someone who you really click with and love instead of just random girls. To me, Gf/bf eventually leads to marriage and hopefully forever loves. Take it slow. Girls like different things just like guys and sometimes you aren’t as lucky when it comes to finding good people. I’m a little younger than you but this is what I think.

Title	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? [recovered]
Author	Method_Rude [recovered]
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Date	December 8, 2021 8:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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