Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?

soupmastwr · 2023-11-23T04:17:24+00:00

I think the pick me girl since women get more matches and dates than guys I think

Proudvow · 2023-11-23T04:23:36+00:00

Obviously the Pick Me. Simps get literally nothing.

Spyro7x3 · 2023-11-23T05:00:06+00:00

Pickme how is it even a question. Men don't dislike pickmes as long as they look good.

As per the rule women never suffer more in dating than men

_Ad_Astra_Abyssosque · 2023-11-23T04:44:52+00:00

Pick Me because women always have more options than men.

BioNipple · 2023-11-23T05:01:08+00:00

Trick question... Simps have no dating life generally.

Pick me girls are just running around the map in shackles.

Simp men are able to roam freely in a confined space that is pre determined by your parents, your genetics, your culture, and your god.

MrEon85 · 2023-11-23T09:27:34+00:00

Pick me by far. Pick mes are sexy af

MissionPeak193 · 2023-11-23T04:51:05+00:00

It depends on what you mean by “successful.” But probably the pick-me. Guys will simp and do anything even for pick-mes, but women won’t do much of anything for a simp.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-23T05:07:38+00:00

The “pick me girl” doesn’t want to be a stay at home mom. Men consider stay at home moms to be lazy gold diggers, especially on this forum. She works full time and is a homemaker who goes on rants about how she isn’t a gold digger.

Song_of_Pain · 2023-11-23T04:55:00+00:00

It's the pickme because most guys treat women with care whereas most women treat men as disposable.

babazuki · 2023-11-23T06:44:10+00:00

You're "lol"ing at the pick me girl, meanwhile describing her as an ideal partner.

She just wants to make her partner happy and doesn't care about material benefits, her guy is enough for her.

If two people have this attitude towards their relationship, it's a perfect relationship. It's solid as a rock.

It's so weird that you laugh at that.

MidoriEgg · 2023-11-23T14:04:47+00:00

Definitely the pick me girl. Irl a lot of pick me girls I know seem to get used by men because they think any type of attention is good, and can’t tell the difference between a man showing you attention because he’s attracted to you, or because you’re easy. (Most of the pick me girls I know irl aren’t the wannabe trad wife types, they’re the ‘girls are so much drama I’m so low maintenance I’m one of the boys’ type)

harmonica2 · 2023-11-23T05:49:18+00:00

Wouldn't want most men want the pick me girl?

dailydose20 · 2023-11-23T06:54:02+00:00

Pick me = girl willing to do anything to make her man happy Simp = clingy, overbearing, no friends, doesn't have a personality Pick me by far

coping_man · 2023-11-23T10:04:48+00:00

the pickme girl is more successful regardless of her attitude and choices for obvious reasons

the simp will not be successful no matter how much he simps

man hating radical feminists have a trillion times the options of woman worshipper simps

SecondEldenLord · 2023-11-23T10:33:19+00:00

In any sort of situation the girl will always be more successful than the simp. Even am average girl can have the same sexual pull as a male celebrity.

macone235 · 2023-11-23T05:33:25+00:00

Pick-mes are a turn-on, simps are a turn-off. So, the answer is obvious.

Women and men want opposite things, so it's natural for what would work for women with men to not work for men with women.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-23T04:28:20+00:00

That depends on how you define success. The woman can find all kinds of men that want to fuck her and use her as a live in maid. Can she find a man that actually wants her? That's another story. The guy can get taken for his money by several "gfs". Neither will be respected.

Spare-Estimate5596 · 2023-11-23T13:18:34+00:00

What is wrong with being a pick me? It just seems like its a girl that wants to be a wife. Why is that bad?

MassiveAd1026 · 2023-11-23T14:30:52+00:00

A SIMP puts females up on a pedestal and gets nothing in return for it. He is nothing more than a useful idiot.

A "Pick Me" who is attractive, young and fertile. Is preferred choice of most men, but they're hard to find unless you go overseas. They give off future "Trad Wife" energy. Men definitely desire them.

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-23T06:07:14+00:00

I'm gonna go with simp simply because extreme pick me behavior comes with greater risks to health and safety.

Take for example the "redpill" girl who claimed she came here because normal, bluepilled subreddits wouldn't understand her relationship.

Long story short she had to be told by redpillers and bluepillers alike that she is being abused and her SO might kill her if she stays. She had posts in her history about needing to take drugs before she and her SO had sex because it was so painful but thought that was just normal BDSM. To this day I hope it was a troll but based on her post history it didn't seem likely.

Hysterical__Paroxysm · 2023-11-23T05:29:44+00:00

Some random dude sending me money would creep me out. It's happened before, it creeped me out, I didn't accept it and blocked him.

We really don't fall for that stuff. It makes dudes think they're entitled to our time and bodies. I didn't ask you send me money (and didn't accept it), I didn't ask you to take me to dinner, etc.

Accepting grandiose gestures isn't necessarily bad, I get giving someone the chance, but it usually ends really badly if things don't work out.

TenaciousVillain · 2023-11-23T06:05:08+00:00

There is far more of a dysfunctional reception for Pickmennifer than there is for a simp. Pickmennifer is just a modern day 1920s wife willing to muzzle, oppress and restrain herself for the clout of having any guy. Her validity as a woman comes from men. Her self esteem Satan's seat warmer. Many men, particularly many of those who struggle to connect with and keep women drool over this. It's very low effort and the perfect plug for their super fragile little egos.

The simp is a one trick pony. I also think simps don't get far and fizzle out much faster than pickmiphanies. He likely quickly gets cycled as the bottom feeder of many young girls who maintain rosters. I've noticed many girls using simps for experience as well until they can pull more established secure men.

Pickmennifers are basically for extremely desperate simps in disguise and denial.

Nellylocheadbean · 2023-11-23T04:54:09+00:00

The Simp is almost a dream man (good looking, thinks about you when he 1st wakes up & gives out his money) so I’ll go with him.

badgersonice · 2023-11-23T09:26:23+00:00

You know the guys here will define pick mes according to their perfect imaginary manic pixie dream bangmaid and ignore the real definition, which is a girl who is hyper-competitive about winning male attention and praise for acting like the “perfect girlfriend”, and who puts other women down to make herself seem better in the eyes of simps.

“Pick me” does not mean “woman who is kind and loving to her boyfriend” any more than a simp means being a great boyfriend. It means she’s a woman who brags obnoxiously about every little thing she does superficially for any man (but really does it for male attention), and expects lots of men to fawn all over her for cooking something in a crock pot.

I think these women will still have more luck in getting a date or a relationship than a lot of simps… as long as they’re pretty. But the same goes for attractive simps— a hot guy who buys you dinner and flowers isn’t going to be rejected either.

But the guys here are going to deliberately ignore the major downsides of the narcissistic attention-seeking attitude of pick me’s because they want to shame other young women into doing their laundry after the first date.

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11Ad710E48C0441 · 2023-11-23T06:56:35+00:00

pick me girl would probably have more success because she's playing into traditional gender roles and that appeals to a lot of guys. simp vibes can be off-putting to some people.

DXBrigade · 2023-11-23T09:30:55+00:00

Pick-me girls aren't SAHM, they work AND do all the chores.

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-11-23T13:44:12+00:00

It depends on what you mean by "successful." Since you only mean getting a husband (or wife in the case of the simp), bf (or gf in the case of the simp), FWB, or whatever then the pickme is more likely to find that but the quality of her relationship (or more likely, situationship) most likely won't be good because pickme behavior attracts various toxic types.

DapperDan1929 · 2023-11-23T14:35:45+00:00

I’ve seen so many simps in America. Many men here will simply wear a woman down until they agree. It’s awful and I have way too much pride to be that way

Suspicious-Bed-2717 · 2023-11-23T14:51:03+00:00

Pick me just on the mere basis she is a woman. Women can never be single outside of choice or extreme circumstances

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-23T15:02:20+00:00

Every pickme girl I've met in real life is physically unattractive. So I think it's a strategy to make up for a women's looks and nothing on Earth can make up for a woman's looks in dating. So in that sense I think simps may be more successful because at least there are good looking simps, and some of those traits translate positively like being viewed as a provider or being devoted.

the_jingster · 2023-11-23T15:09:35+00:00

A pick-me isnt the female equivalent of a simp. Simps do not have attractive masculine qualities to women. Pick-mes have attractive feminine qualities to men.

BringMeThePopcorn · 2023-11-23T16:22:35+00:00

Obviously the girl this isn’t even a discussion

Sabrepill · 2023-11-23T16:27:55+00:00

A pick me girl is a great woman while the simp is a weak man. This is a dumb comparison. However it all Depends on the individual. But in general, women have most of the power in dating in the western world. By a large margin. So the pick me girl will likely win at the game of life and the simp will likely become an incel

Sabrepill · 2023-11-23T16:48:40+00:00

A pick me sounds like the perfect woman if she’s physically attractive. Simps are almost never attractive men. The question is silly because it’s like asking if an ideal woman or a loser man would do better?

A better comparison would be asking if an aged, overweight, feminist would do better or a short, low income, simp. Because those are equally repulsive

Geselshaft · 2023-11-23T17:45:45+00:00

I always dated pick me girls. Not quite that scenario but pickmes are superior to boss babes.

StringPrudent9223 · 2023-11-23T19:06:54+00:00

The girl ...... cause she's a girl. NEXT

EmbarrassedClient283 · 2023-11-23T19:57:09+00:00

Of course it is the pick me girls no competition there.

OptimistInHell · 2023-11-23T21:53:23+00:00

Pick me girls will get guys, though the guys they will get may not be the ones they want. Simps will have it harder, generally. That's if getting a partner that someone is happy with constitutes as success. However, if getting a partner in general counts (as many of the thirsty men here believe), the pick me clearly wins.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-11-24T16:52:37+00:00

Pick me girl. Simp will just be a chump paying in hopes of getting pussy he will never see

social_mule · 2023-11-24T21:06:10+00:00

Simp isn't an acronym. Why the capitalization and period after every letter?

MagicPigeonToes · 2023-11-25T01:15:57+00:00

Both sound horrible to me. They won’t have quality relationships

Kosilica457 · 2023-11-25T11:26:57+00:00

The pick me since she is a woman and has naturally more success than most men

YveisGrey · 2023-11-25T17:30:21+00:00

Obviously the pick me girl but that’s just because she’s a girl. probably even the worst type of woman would have more relationship success that a Simp.

Like assuming equal level of physical attractiveness. A rabid blue haired sjw feminist who had a stint on OF but is now reformed would have more success dating than a SIMP. That’s just down to being a woman.

YveisGrey · 2023-11-25T17:35:27+00:00

A more interesting question is the pick me girl versus the not pick me girl (girl’s girl? Modern woman? Feminist?)

I don’t even know what the opposite of a pick me girl is but does a pick me girl have good dating success?

Pearlythings comes to mind and she has no man. I find that interesting because she’s gotta be the biggest pick me in the history of pick mes. Yet she still remains single and she has told multiple stories of being dogged out by men—though maybe this was before she was a pic me, I don’t know. Anyways, her pick me ways don’t seem to be working so far.

Actually I have a theory that non-pick me women do better with men then pick me women in the long run. I think most men find women who are pick mes actually annoying. Also, it depends on the type of pick me because if you’re a “trad wife” pick me you probably do better than the “I’m one of the boys” pick me.

Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?

Pick Me Girl

S.I.M.P.

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Title	Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?
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Date	November 23, 2023 4:11 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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