What would your response to this post be?

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-01-11T04:52:19+00:00

I was sexually harassed, stalked and assaulted at work because I rejected a woman. I had to move out of town because I feared for my safety. Yes, I reported it to the police. They told me to keep a record of everything that happened. But I moved away before it ever got to court.

Drougent · 2024-01-11T05:12:58+00:00

What's wild is, the woman who posted this almost a week earlier was putting a dude on blast for suggesting to take her to a farm as a first date because it's cold out, shouldn't she have been fearing for her life...?

And also was bragging about how she has her mom do background checks on guys for free and everyone should.

I was so tempted to ask her "Oh? When's the last time a dude killed you for saying no?" but she already threatened to delete me after I laugh reacted the post.

Sir_Spectacular · 2024-01-11T05:37:50+00:00

"Being terrified doesn't actually mean there's a threat against you. How often does rejecting a man actually lead to murder, or attempted murder? If a woman died every time she rejected a man, there would be no living women left."

jessi387 · 2024-01-11T05:07:08+00:00

Cuz women are known for having totally sane reactions to things they don’t like

Daddy_Jaws · 2024-01-11T05:05:42+00:00

"Do you know how teerifying it is to get married knowing at any point the woman can end the relationship, take half of what you own, your house, your vehicle and children unless she can truly be found to be dispicable in the eyes of everyone?"

artmoloch777 · 2024-01-11T06:27:10+00:00

I’m not going to apologize on behalf on men. People, in general, have the capacity to be shitty.

I was assaulted sexually and aggressively by a female coworker and was laughed at by the coworkers i confided in.

Nobody is on our side, so rip. The acute terrors of life are prismatic and prolific.

UncommonMonk · 2024-01-11T05:13:16+00:00

Dsnt sound half as terrifying as a one on one meeting with a woman in the corporate world. Go in as an account executive, leave as a rapist. - yet I didn’t even show up to work that day. Still guilty.

Spins13 · 2024-01-11T07:02:39+00:00

She obviously has never rejected a crazy lady. They are much more scary than anyone else

HiveMindKing · 2024-01-11T05:39:30+00:00

Being scared doesn’t mean your fear are valid

Hithereeveyone · 2024-01-11T05:26:50+00:00

Women can not handle rejection since their all 10’s and awesome

BurnAfterEating420 · 2024-01-11T05:42:48+00:00

Ever see how a women reacts to rejection?

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-01-11T06:23:09+00:00

Ask her if she's afraid of the dark too

20k_dollar_lunchbox · 2024-01-11T06:24:10+00:00

Generally throwing a fit in public will make someone more angry than "no" would.

Clockw0rk · 2024-01-11T08:07:55+00:00

What a bigoted, ignorant, indoctrinated take.

Your out of proportion fear is not justification to hate anyone, bitch.

randomaviary · 2024-01-11T19:11:01+00:00

The average woman probably can’t overpower the average man, but any woman can make up shit, file false reports and/ or spread lies about a man as revenge for sexual rejection.

It’s happened to me twice, years ago, and I still hold onto the evidence I collected to defend myself just in case.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-01-11T05:18:23+00:00

"Stop playing the victim and change the nature of your potential suitors. Dating gangbangers, drug dealers and sociopaths because they're HAWT is dangerous by nature."

Lonewolf_087 · 2024-01-11T05:18:17+00:00

“If you tell me no I’m going to walk away and respect your wishes. Your greatest mistake is thinking all men are the same. But men have to make an attempt this is how it works if we do not at least try we have zero chance of forming a relationship with anyone.”

UnmutualOne · 2024-01-11T06:54:31+00:00

Judging from her hairstyle, her fears are decades obsolete.

BranTheBaker902 · 2024-01-11T09:54:19+00:00

That is a legitimate fear that women have, it’s happened before.

BUT…

It’s also happened to men as well. And I know of a few guys who were also falsely accused of sexual harassment or assault by women/girls they turned down. There’s countless stories like that all over the internet, especially here on Reddit

SpamFriedMice · 2024-01-11T05:40:05+00:00

If men were going around killing every 3rd woman who rejected him there wouldn't be any women left.

LowPressureUsername · 2024-01-11T05:20:20+00:00

“Isn’t that just sexist? Women aren’t at the complete mercy of literally any man.”

heeroena · 2024-01-11T06:05:25+00:00

Projection much?

StormTheWalls · 2024-01-11T07:17:36+00:00

How would we know if we don't do it ourselves? This is telling that a women doesn't have self awareness of why she is the way she is and why she blames men for her own mistakes. She has to believe it or else it doesn't make sense TO HER. Cognitive dissonance.

GhostWCoffee · 2024-01-11T09:19:46+00:00

To play the ''Devil's advocate'' for a bit, a lot of guys can't take rejection well, and they should learn how to. We shouldn't discredit women's legit fear of a guy's inability to take rejection. With that being said, women can't take rejection well themselves, which is also why another big number of guys don't even try to ask women out. Now this animosity between men and women, which is fed by feminists and similar groups, is what I hate.

WolfInTheMiddle · 2024-01-11T10:53:07+00:00

“Do you know how common it is for men to genuinely be terrified to reject a woman just in case she reacts a certain way?”

Based on what you commented about her history she’s probably just posting this to get attention like a lot of these types and she probably believes it as well.

ConflictedRebl · 2024-01-11T21:46:22+00:00

Man society really is doing a number on these females. I’ve never been terrified of rejecting a man. So it’s not that common. It’s a guilt trip. These type of women think they are the prize and they don’t know how to talk to a man like a human being. These women deserve to be alone.

I don’t see this mentality changing anytime soon. It’s only spreading. I’m 100% glad I’m not a man. I’m also grateful I can see past this bs. But lately it seems like a lost cause. Everyone is too brainwashed. No one sees reason. I really am sorry gentlemen.

LiveComfortable3228 · 2024-01-11T05:48:06+00:00

I would like to know how many actually. What she is saying is real. It does happen. There are creeps and assholes and psychopaths out there. And they do get violent if they hear 'no'.

But I'd like to know frequently this happens. Is it 1%? 3%? 20?

LONEWOLFF150 · 2024-01-11T07:59:12+00:00

Basic translation: "I'm a victim."

Due-Struggle-9492 · 2024-01-11T08:07:28+00:00

I can’t say I have all the answers to this problem, but I also know that it always takes the effort from both sides to be vulnerable with and work through issues with the other and being willing to help the other carry the load and help one another heal and grow and be better. That’s not just for romantic relationships, that’s for every relationship you have in life. And frankly, far too many people are scared and afraid in society anymore and have far too little trust for reasons like this. Women are afraid of men because they don’t know how to handle aggression or some other reason. Men are defensive and aggressive and untrusting in order to protect their peace and welfare generally. Neither knows how to communicate effectively or trust. It’s a vicious cycle that doesn’t seem to stop unless there’s massive and drastic action taken, and sometimes that means a lot of yelling and fighting. It would help guys out a lot if they had places to go where they can be edified by other men, but such things are seen as oppressive and get cancelled before they can get off the ground because of the politicization of it all. It’s sad, and I really wish I had better answers.

PedanticGoon · 2024-01-11T10:18:37+00:00

Do you know how genuinely terrifying it is to turn out the lights before bed in case a murderer is waiting to kill you?

A single spot you can’t see and you’re putting your life at risk

nicbsc · 2024-01-11T22:10:39+00:00

Impressive. Very good argument. Now let's ask her if she wants to have the right to carry a gun, so not only her, but every woman can feel safer in these scenarios.

sanitaryinspector · 2024-01-11T08:23:35+00:00

This is how voluntary self segregation is justified, so every man that alerts a woman's detective instinct can be blasted before she can even get really upset. Eventually women live in constant fear but at least they have more power to turn to reality every person's fantasy of erasing every cause of annoyance from earth

Same_Ostrich_4697 · 2024-01-11T06:59:44+00:00

Only in the same way as going on an airplane is putting your life at risk. Or going in a car. Sure you could die, but the odds are miniscule so it doesn't stop anyone.

Qantourisc · 2024-01-11T08:16:50+00:00

"""I'm sorry that this is a risk, I wish it wasn't but we live in a world that isn't perfect.

But don't be afraid, men get assault far more often, so statically you will be fine."""

That being said, it's not safe to say no to a woman either ;) Ask me how I know.

Huffers1010 · 2024-01-11T10:24:35+00:00

No. And neither does anyone else, on the basis nobody has psionic powers.

p3ngwin · 2024-01-11T12:03:41+00:00

seeing as she's asking the question "do you know how common it is ...?"

Respond with "no, please quantify it for me", and watch as she has not a single statistic except to say "... it's very common, and that's just the reported events, not to count the unreported numbers...".

Then feel free to ask her if she knows "how common" it is for men to suffer when they get cancelled, mobbed, killed, etc for rejecting women, getting falsely accused and again mobbed/killed/driven to suicide/etc, marriage divorces again leading to ruin/suicide/etc...

Ask her if she thinks women are the only gender to suffer shame, ruin, and suicide.

NameIs-Already-Taken · 2024-01-11T12:24:59+00:00

This is a real phenomenon... but it's also pretty rare. Women roasting men because they don't measure up to their inflated expectations, however, is relatively common.

entingmat2 · 2024-01-11T13:39:08+00:00

She's being misandric, which makes her no better than a misogynist

Hand_Sanitizer3000 · 2024-01-11T14:51:09+00:00

This person should not date its as simple as that. She needs to get her paranoia under control first.

Trengingigan · 2024-01-11T16:33:30+00:00

Do you know how terrified are everyday men to say or do something perceived as wrong or creepy and having their reputation ruined, if not worse?

Noble_HouseMusiq29 · 2024-01-11T16:45:50+00:00

Wait so the same women who openly disrespect men’s height 🍆 size and finances, claim to pimp guys out of their money. Cheat on guys for the world to see only want drug dealers and gang bangers…all of a sudden fear rejectING men? Yep makes sense to #metoo

AbysmalDescent · 2024-01-11T17:05:30+00:00

You just call it out for what it is, androphobia and misandry. Imagine if you just changed this to "do you know how common it is for women to genuinely be terrified to reject black people, just in case they react a certain way?", and how racist that would sound to most people.

It's also not an actually realistic fear. It's playing into their own victimhood and an effort to legitimize their fear and vilification of men. It is misandry. Imagine if a man said "do you know how common it is for men to genuinely be terrified that a woman might kill our dog or drown our babies?". Hell, imagine if men even stated that they were afraid to reject women because they assume those women might just respond with violence or vindictiveness too. People would consider even that to be misogyny. Men aren't even allowed to say they are scared of marriage, without being labelled as men-children and misogynists.

It's also not so subtly trying to create this false narrative that men just react violently to a polite "no thank you". This isn't just gaslighting, it's also trying to diminish the general brutality and glee that a lot of women have towards men in rejecting them, and trying to present women as far more humane to men than they really are. Because the reality is that it's never just a "simple no". Most women will actually reject men in a far more brutal ways, with far more brutal reasoning, and men just take it anyway. Men take on far more dehumanization and rejection from women than women do from women, and take it far better because that is what is expected of them.

EverVigilant1 · 2024-01-11T20:27:17+00:00

My response is that women's fears in this regard are insanely overblown. To the extent a woman fears such a man's response, such is a direct result of the men she chooses to interact with/put herself around.

trowaway123453199 · 2024-01-11T20:28:46+00:00

its fine to feel whatever they want, hell even double down on it, but what does it matter to the average man who is not a criminal?

I unironically think its a cue for the simps who like to fix women to apologize for other men's actions and do everything and anything to cater to them, or some shit-test and a shaming tactic, who knows tho.

Galahad91 · 2024-01-11T20:34:05+00:00

As if men in modern western nations just walk around beating up women. I'm so tired of the evil projections while women get away with so much evil. They're not scared. They're pretending. They have the police and an army of white knight simps on their phone at the ready. When they talk like this They're just pushing, exaggerating to heighten their perceived victim status to take more privileges. They don't stop they just want more and more that's their nature until men set a boundary and say no. Women are ruthless because they are weak that's how they justify their lying and falsity.

Choogie432 · 2024-01-11T20:51:36+00:00

I've told a woman "no" before when she offered sex, and that all I wanted was to be friends. She lead into every hang out we had with friendship being the point, but obviously wanted something more and was subtle and slow about thinking she would lure me into sex and a relationship. She started hitting me with an aggressive playful attitude(if that makes sense) whenever we went out with friends, and I had to threaten her with the police to make her stop.

BEEZY086 · 2024-01-11T21:03:44+00:00

It's probably less terrifying than simply saying yes to anyone who approaches you. But hey! Instead of being a cunt about it, no on is stopping you from walking a mile in our shoes and doing the asking yourself. Maybe you can get a little taste of rejection for yourself.

BayouGrunt985 · 2024-01-11T23:55:55+00:00

"This didn't happen so much it unhappened the things that had"

asianfoodtofulover · 2024-01-12T00:08:10+00:00

How many men are actually like that?

Fluid_Sympathy_6858 · 2024-01-12T00:44:07+00:00

I'll take, "It's all in your head," for $800 Alex.

ConsiderationSea1347 · 2024-01-12T01:04:14+00:00

Men just live in that same world but when they ask for help because they are being stalked or worse, they are laughed at

The_Local_Rapier · 2024-01-11T09:55:16+00:00

I was attacked with a glass by a woman about 8 years ago for rejecting her advances… I don’t fear every woman because of it

Past_Study_4913 · 2024-01-11T11:10:43+00:00

Funny because women, expect men to deal with the possibility of rejection, and it doesn't take a genious to understand why, its because there egos will not accept THEM being rejected, ive had girls, who i was damn certain were interested, but theyd NEVER make a move, they flirt maybe, yet a few gay men have tried it on with me, and i thought just shows how everything difficult is put on men.

Chance-Honeydew-8402 · 2024-01-11T11:12:16+00:00

A man should not have to bubble-wrapping the world so people without therapeutic help feel heard. Her job is to spend less time verbalising her biases and work on herself. No man needs this sort of paranoia at the beginning of anything; in such cases, I gladly accept a rejection with open arms.

Imissyourgirlfriend2 · 2024-01-11T13:14:50+00:00

I would say look at the male on female murder rate and then compare it to the male on male murder rate.

WrongdoerWilling7657 · 2024-01-11T13:34:10+00:00

I'm a bartender and I watch dudes get rejected every single night. They don't do shit. It's the women who freak out and act like they just got assaulted when a dude they deem unattractive tries to hit on them.

Had a drunk female coworker try to take me home and when I said no, she threw a drink in my face and started fake crying so everyone would come and console her and think I did something wrong.

TheseMeat4233 · 2024-01-11T14:07:21+00:00

Yes such things happen and in different countries they happen more or less. But all in all the question is big is the danger really.
2015 many people in europe had the biggest fear that they would be killed by a terrorattack. Some even stopped going to places with many people because of fear. But at the end it is likely that eating a burger would be a bigger thread to your health than a terror attack. But did you ever hear someone say "Do you know how common it is for women to genuily be terriefied to eat burgers in case it is bad for their health? A simple burger and youre puting your health at risk, I hate this world."

Of course it is a really thing to happen and we have to do anything to stop such behaviour, but blowing out of proportion doesnt help anyone.

gunny316 · 2024-01-11T14:09:50+00:00

Sexism aside, there's definitely some fucking psychopaths in this world that don't handle rejection well. There's also some females that get pretty violent when rejected.

In general, humans are best avoided at all costs. Respect them the way you would respect a gun. Or a bear.

jaimar82 · 2024-01-11T14:13:38+00:00

Now I know my very existence is about you and how I apparently victimize you by “being”. Shame on me, huh?!

AzureDefiant63 · 2024-01-11T14:19:43+00:00

Thanks for posting, OP

danielm316 · 2024-01-11T15:00:10+00:00

Paranoia is such a sad condition.

something_new · 2024-01-11T15:30:20+00:00

Smile and then ignore her

PalpitationHot2427 · 2024-01-11T15:33:21+00:00

I think the key is to just work on being the kind of man that women come to you so you don't have to deal with this bullshit lol

gntlbastard · 2024-01-11T16:22:19+00:00

Well let's see, you pick the "dangerous guy" because he gives you the tingles and excites you. Then when things go south - it's all the mens fault that you picked the douche bag.

euphoric_dystopia · 2024-01-11T17:43:23+00:00

Yes, let me be terrified of scenarios that I'm making up in my mind.

Scary-Error4119 · 2024-01-11T18:19:02+00:00

Zero phucks given.,..get over it you strong and independent women!

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-01-11T19:16:36+00:00

When both sides dont wanna do there gender roles anymore.

And you can do and be what ever you want.

The world can be a very scary place yes.

But i wonder what the start of that domino effect that started that culturele down term that disarmed gender roles. And made a heavy push for equal with out haveing to do the work or carry the responsibility that comes with it hmm 🤔

Its easy to destroy something that has worked forever. But rebuilding something that works well and enough benfits for both sides that they wanna keep being part of the system and gain its benfits.

Means true equality is a myth. You cant have true equality if you have different wants different needs different morals and values.

Reality is reality. And cause people fight reality and make fairytale talk. Makes the world a much much more dangerous place. For both men and women.

And women are scared cause there is a super big push of men not accepting any abuse of women back. So slapping or hitting women back of they attacked a man. Is getting more common.

Why well we are equal right. You hit me i have a right to defend my self cause that's being a equal.

Also does not help that when men ask women out they being videotaped and shamed on ticktock and stuff.

Not weird to see that all the selfish i want more more more but want to do absolutely zero for it mentality makes the world a lot lot more scary.

Not many very close tight communities left out there. And that are left are super right winged.

But everyone respect and helps and jumps when someone is in need. But it has a lot more rules and duties and demands to all that living there. But they truely look out for each other.

Just having that makes even if something goes down. People keep a eye on your or ready to help you. Mades the world many times less scary.

There will always be bad people in the world. But society rewards the bad people more then it does the good people so its breeds more bad people then good and so most good people wil just keep to them selfs.

Cause its like drying the floor with a tap on. So ofcourse its so much more scary world but for everyone.

DaJosuave · 2024-01-11T21:25:07+00:00

Just proces lack of self reflection for women in general, they get pretty aggressive when rejected. I've experienced it.

Brilliant_Darkness · 2024-01-11T21:25:44+00:00

This is yet another case of availability bias.

gaedikus · 2024-01-11T22:34:22+00:00

i've shared this experience before, but i went on a date with a catfish who used pictures from when she was much thinner, and i didn't appreciate the lie but stuck out the date anyway because i was starving and already there. other than the catfish/dishonesty thing she seemed ok? I'd have probably gone on a date with her anyway if she was just herself, like i ended up having an ok time. i did had to leave early though to finish college homework or something so i politely declined when she invited me upstairs, and i was verbally assaulted and called a f*ggot for not accepting. like she was screaming at me in a parking lot and threw her shoe at my truck.

AK47WithScope · 2024-01-11T22:58:03+00:00

I hate this globalization trending, yes there are terrible and disgusting humans, but come on. She's probably the one who is acting like that after getting a damn NO.

cpschultz · 2024-01-11T22:58:46+00:00

I can understand her fear but what she is talking about out is not gender specific. So tell her such and depending on your personal relationship with her, you might tell her to slow down and start trying to read the person a little bit and maybe use some tact or gentleness. I am not saying she doesn’t do that already.

Njaulv · 2024-01-11T23:05:47+00:00

That neuroticism is a personal problem that those people should seek help for instead of blaming the world or men. There are resources to deal with unreasonable illogical fears and neuroticism. It is up to the individual to reccognize they have an issue and seek help.

renthefox · 2024-01-11T23:14:50+00:00

"Only reject (or court) men (or women) accountable to a common social group with like values. Our ancestors stuck together in groups for more than just survival."

Just my two cents, for what it's worth.

Scarce12 · 2024-01-11T23:23:10+00:00

Are there any legitimate studies on this?

Research may find that not all women find this common, but that a particular type of woman finds this consistent, just saying....

Ok_Cut_3238 · 2024-01-12T00:21:14+00:00

I would reply “stay the fuck indoors and wrap yourself in cotton wool”. Stupid person.

Walter_ORielly · 2024-01-12T00:57:31+00:00

Is that a real photo of the woman or is it a picture of Laura Palmer (serious question)?

guitarb26 · 2024-01-12T01:45:24+00:00

If anything, the opposite is true. Have you seen any of those videos where guys go around interviewing women? They often exchange ratings (out of 10) & women being rated anything less than 10 is usually met with verbal (or even physical) attacks. And it’s usually the same women that gave the guy a 1 or 2 after attempting to ruthlessly insult & humiliate him.

Funnily enough; when someone is used to having their ego inflated & not accustomed to rejection, they tend not to take it very well.

Let’s see if they feel the same way when no one is approaching them anymore.

sextypethang · 2024-01-12T02:24:18+00:00

Dudes kill chicks at a pretty substantial rate compared to the opposite. My take on this is… don’t be a bitch about your rejection. Don’t lead dudes on so that a rejection is humiliating. Treat people the way you wanna be treated and… Dudes - don’t be a psycho if a chicks not into you. There’s tons of fish in the sea. Live and let live

jevvkin · 2024-01-12T03:27:20+00:00

I rejected a woman and she used a friend Xbox account to try and stalk me. Also every time I’ve rejected a woman they get very angry and mean so it’s not just men but everything is worse when a man does it.

chinesedeveloper69 · 2024-01-12T04:51:31+00:00

Grow up.

Positive_Narwhal_419 · 2024-01-12T05:20:49+00:00

She knows women can act this way too right? Being a crazy psychopath isn’t gender specific

hendrixski · 2024-01-12T05:45:44+00:00

# Your feelings are not reality

Practical_Example_73 · 2024-01-12T06:46:57+00:00

Women don’t take rejection kindly

designerutah · 2024-01-12T21:16:04+00:00

Shouldn't the response be, "What happened to being a strong independent woman?" There are plenty of ways a woman can protect herself if she really is strong and independent. Weapons that compensate for lack of size and strength, just like elderly or invalid men have to.

Tabopo · 2024-01-14T21:13:38+00:00

One of my good friends had once broken open with a woman. A week later he saw her from his window watching him have dinner with a female friend. She smashed his car windshield. After he got a restraining order she claimed that she was pregnant. Months of various nightmares later, eventually he got away from her by moving cities after flunking out of university and switching programs.
And all of the various high profile people who are getting false rape accusations after rejecting a woman for a relationship...

Brave_Champion_4577 · 2024-01-11T19:19:35+00:00

Take it seriously because I’m sure it’s very true. While also acknowledging that men have similar fears of either being stalked, harassed, or losing their careers and livelihood over false accusations. And that’s probably when I would lose her, because women don’t like finding out that things they were told are women-only issues also happen to guys.

Extension-Moose-4662 · 2024-01-11T19:56:12+00:00

A man raising his voice two decibels will cause some women to turn on the waterworks on cue. It’s so fucking manipulative.

Asamiya1978 · 2024-01-11T13:50:03+00:00

I see a contradiction there. Those are the exact same kind of women who hate Disney princesses and what they call "hyperfeminine" characters in anime and videogames. They play the tough tomboy (her avatar is not feminine, is it?) and yet when they see it fit they play the damsel in distress role.

It is one thing or the other, babies, you can't have both. If you truly are the damsel in distress type go for it but behave and look like Snow White from the famous Disney animation 1937 movie. Do have an authentic identity and stop playing fake roles. It is narcissistic and it is ugly.

What I don't tolerate is an aggressive, dominant woman, who hates femininity and who looks like a thug, who when she wants to play the victim switches to that role. That is cheating. It is dishonest. It is manipulation. It is sociopathic. I can't feel compassion towards a bad person.

And ironically, that kind of women is nowadays so abundant that I'm afraid of dating women because who knows what kind of narcissist, borderline, sociopath or other cluster B disordered woman one is going to end in a relationship with. And we all know who is going to lose the legal battle if that happens.

If an innocent, kind hearted girl like Snow White came to me and said: "I'm afraid" with her beautiful dress, her beautiful voice, her cute hairstyle, etc., I would hug her and say "don't be afraid. I love you and I will protect you at any cost". Then she would hug me back and thank me. That is what love is about. But feminists have been despising that as a "stereotype" for so long that I don't see such kind of women around me anymore. They decided to become ugly thugs, shout in a loud, low-pitched voice, dress like men, smoke, drink alcohol, do drugs and have ugly hairstyles; they decided to reject ribbons, hairbands, etc., so since they like so much acting manly I would tell them their favourite words: "stop playing the victim and man up".

kelliesharpe · 2024-01-11T18:33:52+00:00

well since the post is the truth, i'd probably say.. yep, it's the truth

herefortheparty01 · 2024-01-11T11:48:44+00:00

You’re dumb

Jos_migue · 2024-01-11T05:33:35+00:00

Meh im kinda on her side

Creeps and shitty people exist and it must be hard to reject them in their face

GreeceZeus · 2024-01-11T16:31:15+00:00

I'd ask to fuck her and see if she's too afraid to say No. Anyways, I win. Either I disprove her point or I get to empty my balls.

queenAlexislexis · 2024-01-11T06:55:48+00:00

I hate this comments smh

Sam__Toucan · 2024-01-11T09:25:09+00:00

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Frird2008 · 2024-01-11T09:43:10+00:00

The continuously variable nature of rejections is so volatile that just being told "no" is a positive outcome in & of itself.

Fluffy_History · 2024-01-11T10:58:09+00:00

"Do you know how genuinely terrified men are of saying yes in case she reacts in a certain way."

"A simple yes and she cries rape. I hate this world."

PimHazDa · 2024-01-11T11:04:57+00:00

Listen in incels can get extreme, it's important that they're who are giving us that bad wrap. Though many women's caution is demeaning and exaggerated it does really affect us as much as the repercussions for them.

Dapper_Target1504 · 2024-01-11T11:28:06+00:00

Delusional

SgtSplacker · 2024-01-11T11:34:16+00:00

This is nonsense. You can reject a person just by showing little interest and they just go away.

strangermvision · 2024-01-11T11:40:09+00:00

Cry about it

VioIetDelight · 2024-01-11T12:41:42+00:00

Woman here.

I’ve always had the decency to break up in person even though I know it can backfire. I’ve had someone who would not let me go, and I had to lie to get out of the situation, that maybe we could recover.. and I had one guy stalk and trash talk me on the internet and he stole my really expensive bike.

So I understand where they come from, but I could never just ghost someone. Women are weaker, so if anything violent would happen, we are ffed. But that never stopped me, just have to take precautions. And usually there are telltale signs someone could react that way.

But this is not a sex thing. This is just a “unstable person” thing. Women can act severely crazy to, and they are usually much worse, because of the emotional side.

breadcrumbssmellgood · 2024-01-11T12:50:55+00:00

gonna have to agree with her! if I reject a girl I expect to be able to defend myself if she doesn’t react well. On the other hand as a woman probably not so much. Let‘s not make this sub an us vs them echo chamber

Ok_Temperature9134 · 2024-01-11T13:00:45+00:00

When I dumped My ex, she came to my door 2 more times, uninvited. And guilted me into seeing her, totally sane

Black-Patrick · 2024-01-11T13:01:17+00:00

Irrational fear doesn’t negate adult responsibility.

DMFan79 · 2024-01-11T13:06:02+00:00

That's what happen when you keep looking for that 5% of men...

Getting angry after a rejection and becoming aggressive is NOT a normal reaction.

She really needs to reflect on the type of men she's after.

TrilIias · 2024-01-11T13:15:17+00:00

Her fear doesn't prove what she thinks it does. She thinks her emotions beyond scrutiny, so if she's afraid, it really just reveals her paranoia. Of course the reality is that she's exaggerating her fear to use as a weapon against men.

Uncle_Touchy1987 · 2024-01-11T13:51:28+00:00

Response: “The same as false rape and sexual assault allegations. Very rare, that’s what you tell us men all the time, no?”

DillyDoobie · 2024-01-11T13:55:13+00:00

Sounds like a "you" problem.

Scary-Error4119 · 2024-01-11T13:56:53+00:00

Women don't act like this during girls night out. Here in New Orleans...this is just women using manipulative words to get their way.women try to guilt shame insult men to submit to their hormonal anger... moody women constantly change the meaning of words...we men finally caught on .

Scary-Error4119 · 2024-01-11T13:59:35+00:00

Here in New Orleans women constantly slap phones from mens hands to provoke arguments fights...here women insult men call them tampon dicks.stuck up and fat..and block you from walking down public side walks...if you ask them to move or politely move their fat arms out of the way they start screaming rape rape rape.

Scary-Error4119 · 2024-01-11T14:00:30+00:00

My response would be... Aren't you strong and independent?

ThatTubaGuy03 · 2024-01-11T14:01:56+00:00

Sounds like you need therapy LMAO

You are much more likely to die every time you get in a car, but I'm guessing you still drive your BMW everywhere, so it's not that you're scared to death, just that you hate men

stayawayfromgray · 2024-01-11T14:09:00+00:00

She will attract what she thinks.

Critical-Set-4362 · 2024-01-11T14:19:52+00:00

Ehhh, I don't know . . . the devil's advocate side of me tells me that this might be true in some cases, like in India/Bharath or whatever, and also in the Middle East and stuff. Not in all places in the Middle East of course.

A-nice-Zomb-52 · 2024-01-11T14:49:52+00:00

Change your social environment.

FH-7497 · 2024-01-11T15:51:58+00:00

My response-

scrolls past without caring even slightly

Rahbin_Banx · 2024-01-11T16:25:43+00:00

If I knew them. I'd simply comment no.

Junior_Discipline622 · 2024-01-11T17:06:48+00:00

"Feeling terrified" is basing your thoughts and decisions on emotions not reality.

Just because someone feels terrified doesn't mean they're threatened, they're creating the illusion of fear in their head which is their problem.

With that being said, I understand that women might feel terrified of rejecting a man because he might assault them but the truth is:

the majority of men predicate their decisions on logic meaning that the average man will reason before thinking about attacking a woman because we logically realise that if we do assault a woman; we will be incarcerated so we are more likely to reflect before doing anything stupid.
you can always avoid certain situations by being in a public place or having a male guard to defend you.

Personally, I think women make that excuse to justify their poor decisions such as: sleeping with other men. They will tell you: "oh I slept with him because I was afraid of what he would do to me" to justify the fact that their vaginas got used up and try to get you to sympathise with them and accept them(manipulation).

SympatheticListener · 2024-01-11T18:59:29+00:00

misschanandlerbong6 · 2024-01-11T20:26:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/whenwomenrefuse/s/IrU98XMiZn

Krakosa · 2024-01-11T23:13:27+00:00

We don't have to shit on women's issues here, it's not a competition. We both face different issues and I can understand how this would be a genuine problem for women. Lots of men have had to deal with a stalkerish woman interested in them, but I've never been scared one would beat the shit out of me or kill me on the spot for saying leave me alone.

The real issue is that we don't trust each other any more, which makes women scared of men who approach them and makes men scared to approach a woman who might me too them for being interested. That's not going to be fixed by us minimizing their problems.

Chemistry-Zestyclose · 2024-01-11T23:53:23+00:00

9/10 times a man can overpower a woman if he chooses, I think that is the fear she is talking about. If she then followed it up by saying men don't have a fear of negative or abusive behavior after rejecting a woman I'd take issue with it.

hau2906 · 2024-01-12T00:55:14+00:00

Is this an American thing ?

CarHungry · 2024-01-12T02:58:43+00:00

Twitter is a toxic shithole.

The whole infrastructure is built on people trying to out bigot eachother daily.

Rod_Stiffwood · 2024-01-12T12:42:45+00:00

MJ meme: stop it, get some help.

Codename-18 · 2024-01-12T14:07:17+00:00

That she's manipulative

grandma_jizzzzzzzard · 2024-01-12T14:42:57+00:00

Reverse gender roles.

pm_me_your_buttbulge · 2024-01-13T13:08:01+00:00

Driving a car puts your life at risk. Being scared of everything doesn't inherently mean that everything IS the threat you think it is.

Her, subtle, implication is that only men are the crazies willing to go that far. Seems awfully sexist of her. But it is Twitter where misandry is quite common and even encouraged.

some-industry-ago · 2024-01-14T02:21:23+00:00

There's no "response" to this. This actually happens frequently and it's a disgusting attribute ingrained in many men. No one needs to belittle the problem women have in order to acknowledge the problem men have. This is a huge problem, it's very simple.

Title	What would your response to this post be?
Author	Drougent
Upvotes	599
Comments	307
Date	January 11, 2024 4:10 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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