Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested

I believe that the easiest way to get a girl to like you is to have them think about you as often as possible when you’re not with her. The time when you’re most thoughtful and most able to think, uninterrupted for long periods of time is when you’re about to go to sleep.

So if I’m chatting to a girl on text late at night, what I’ll do is I’ll send them a message saying “[Name], can I ask you a question? Xx” and then as soon as they reply, don’t open it and go to sleep.

Girls overthink a lot and they will spend the rest of the night trying to work out what question you were gonna ask. They’ll probably reach some kinda conclusion that it’s some kinda romance / flirty question and it’ll keep them up at trying to work out what it was. Psychologists did research on how time spent thinking about a person (or being near someone) increases the chance they’ll be attracted to you. It’s called propinquity I believe, interesting stuff! I think this trick is more proof of that scientific concept but there’s lots of ways you can use it in other ways.

Also the next morning, you can judge their reaction to see if they’re interested. If it’s a “yeh?” Then just say I forgot the question. If it’s more enthusiastic or they double text, ask them out.

Be warned though, playing games like this with girls early on can be good to maybe spark some interest but if you keep on doing shit like this they will get sick of it and dump you. Learned that the hard way when I was younger.

And it’s not gonna make a girl become the infatuated with you - you do have to be interesting, charming and kind as well; more likely it’ll just make it more clear whether she’s interested or not and amplify that interest a bit.

Edit:

Also got lots of people asking me how old I am. My 18th Birthday was last week. I haven’t used this trick since the U.K. equivalent of ‘high school’ and while it worked really well for girls my age, I’m glad you guys told me it might not be as successful on older women.

If you don’t agree with it I’d absolutely love to hear some constructive criticism but there’s no need to be nasty guys.