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Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-04-29T01:10:34+00:00

We’ve lost third spaces and general societal structure encouraging real life socialization. We’re more isolated than ever
Social anxiety and depression rates have spiked in young people
Body and self esteem issues are growing amongst young men. And it’s brutal for an average guy to hop on a dating app and get almost zero matches
Dating apps suck. They cause choice overload, force women to make decisions almost entirely off of pictures, remove other contextual factors necessary for many women’s attraction, and encourage women to stick to a list of narrow dealbreakers to create a viable pool of matches, etc.

Dating apps do not make women delusional and do not make them demand 9/10 chads irl.

On a societal level these are the real issues. Everything else is whiney nonsense.

Dismal_Sun5595 · 2024-04-29T01:04:41+00:00

Avatar clothing options suck

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-04-29T00:41:22+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Showerthoughts/comments/1cenmtq/body_dysmorphia_also_includes_people_who_see/

"Body dysmorphia also includes people who see their bodies as healthy and in shape but they are not as healthy or as fit as they believe they are"

Yep. Women who don't have a healthy (19-21 BMI) body but think they are healthy have body dysphoria.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2024-04-29T00:36:53+00:00

I read most of the stuff men say here in a whiny toddler voice.

Example: “women are NOT ACCOUNTABLE for NOT DATING average men!!! They just want CHADDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!! They need to lower their standards!!!!!”

MyLastBestChance · 2024-04-29T00:35:02+00:00

Ladies of PPL, can we band together to TRY to get these guys to understand that women’s DESIRE for a man is neither immediately binary nor forever set in stone?

They seem to really believe that

a) If a woman has crazy fast sex with a man it means that she is experiencing raw physical desire for him

AND

b) Once a woman feels raw physical attraction for a man, she always will

AND

c) Initial sexual attraction is the most important factor in a long term relationship or marriage.

It’s amazing to me that they don’t understand (and refuse to understand) that

a) Fast crazy sex is just as likely to be based on alcohol, self hatred, anger or escapism than any overwhelming desire.

b) Raw Sexual attraction can burn out fast and easily be completely killed by any number of relationship issues or even by getting to know the person and realizing that they aren’t who you thought they were. Boom, attraction completely gone, forever.

c). Sexual intimacy ( meaning openness, compatibility, emotional trust, appreciation, respect, AND physical attraction) IS very important on a long term relationship, but the building blocks of intimacy are primarily created and maintained outside of the bedroom and have nothing to do with initial “raw desire”.

Men’s sexuality and women’s sexuality are different. Women, largely, cannot and do not continue to feel sexual attraction towards men that we resent, dislike, fear, pity, don’t respect, and / or don’t feel respected or appreciated by.

Edit: meant PPD🤦‍♀️

EulenWatcher · 2024-04-29T00:31:58+00:00

I'm going through a flair-up/food poisoning/whatever this thing is and I'm sticking to a strict diet. This shit makes me depressed, ughhh. I want to have something good, not just bland stuff.

MyLastBestChance · 2024-04-29T00:30:37+00:00

Ladies of PPL, can we band together to TRY to get these guys to understand that women’s DESIRE for a man is neither immediately binary nor forever set in stone?

They seem to really believe that

a) If a woman has crazy fast sex with a man it means that she is experiencing raw physical desire for him

AND

b) Once a woman feels raw physical attraction for a man, she always will

AND

c) Initial sexual attraction is the most important factor in a long term relationship or marriage.

It’s amazing to me that they don’t understand (and refuse to understand) that

a) Fast crazy sex is just as likely to be based on alcohol, self hatred, anger or escapism than any overwhelming desire.

b) Raw Sexual attraction can burn out fast and easily be completely killed by any number of relationship issues or even by getting to know the person and realizing that they aren’t who you thought they were. Boom, attraction completely gone, forever.

c). Sexual intimacy ( meaning openness, compatibility, emotional trust, appreciation, respect, AND physical attraction) IS very important on a long term relationship, but the building blocks of intimacy are primarily created and maintained outside of the bedroom and have nothing to do with initial “raw desire”.

Men’s sexuality and women’s sexuality are different. Women, largely, cannot and do not continue to feel sexual attraction towards men that we resent, dislike, fear, pity, don’t respect, and / or don’t feel respected or appreciated by.

Edit: Meant PPD🤣🤦‍♀️

keebydee · 2024-04-29T00:28:47+00:00

I remember when my friend and I went to the theaters to see the new Dragon Ball movie and he brought over his girlfriend so I could meet her and it turned out she was a Dragon Ball fan as well! 🙀

I was jealous immediately when we went out to dinner and I was able to have conversations with her about Dragon Ball. That lady is a keeper. Easily one of the best talks I've had with a woman.

But she was uh..on the plus size spectrum. There's always be a catch but my friend obviously doesn't mind so good for him. I wish I could be so lucky. 😿

GridReXX · 2024-04-29T00:26:56+00:00

I know I’m beating a dead horse but it’s like the Twitter Gods want me to keep going! Here’s a pretty awesome thread I saw from today:

I want to hear stories of people going from shy, cold, introverted, disconnected, to warm, social, curious, open, playful, connection-oriented If this happened to you plz tell me about it

An amazingly thoughtful and well received reply below. It’s long as heck but he hits every single note.

Alright, since I said I was going to write a thread about this, here we go. Up until a few years ago I was introverted, disliked going out, was largely uncomfortable around new people, and generally grappled with social anxiety. My change was largely intentional.

As with many people, I came out of covid with a virtually non-existent social circle. Most of the people I knew had already left Philly after college, and covid killed what little social life I previously had.

At the same time, I began addressing some family issues: specifically how being raised in a deeply neglectful environment made me hyperindividualistic which benefited me in many ways, but crippled my platonic and romantic connections.

At this point I looked around and asked myself: is this the life I want? Do I really want to continue this journey in life with few friends that I rarely see? If I want to be a husband and father someday, can I play these roles well if I cant even be a friend?

So I started seeing my lack of social connections as barriers to the life I wanted: a community I can invest in and gain from, to learn the skills to eventually be a loving husband and father. A life spent alone is a waste.

From here I began mapping out how to address this and did so in what I like to think of as "phases," the first of which was simply to meet people. One issue I recognized that I had was that if I didn't form a strong connection w/ someone I saw that interaction as a waste

This meant I often avoided talking to people in general. I decided to change this attitude, and started viewing interactions as Opportunities. I credit this with being one of the biggest reasons that this journey has been a success.

Now I started seeing talking to people at bars, shows, simple meet-ups, etc as Opportunities to work on my social skills, rather than feeling annoyed that I didn't belong, or that these weren't my people. Even those I had little in common with had something to offer

At this time I met a guy who I will call T at his house party on Halloween night, 2022. T is one of the most kind, warm, and social people I have ever met. I was impressed with how he easily connected people and made them feel welcome.

In this twitter scene I have often been told that I am warm and welcoming. This was not always the case, and I learned this by following T's behavior and emulating it. Around this time I started going to twitter parties in NYC which is what I see as my second Phase

Where Phase I was going out to events and chatting with anyone I ran into to, Phase II was being aggressively social and inviting myself to events. I prev had an attitude that if I wasnt explicitly invited to something, that I prob wasnt wanted.

But most of the time this isnt the case and gives too much credit to how much people actually think about us. I found out quickly that when I asked around about events, or asked if I could attend something, people were not only receptive but also enthusiastic.

Phase III, the most autistic phase, was then learning how to get to know people. I would sort of "map out" which questions people liked to be asked, what they were generally receptive to, what they liked to talk about, etc.

Im often uncomfortable talking about this part bc it can sound calculating, but I knew that if I wanted to have better interactions and be a better friend, I had to learn how to be a friend from First Principles! My attitude was how do I make this person feel comfortable with me

So again, I approached interactions as opportunities: how do I make this person trust me, feel comfortable with me, feel understood, listened to, valued, cared for, etc. And I did this by mapping out conversation trees in my head, if that makes sense.

Phase IV had a major impact on me, wasnt one that I intended to learn, and didnt recognize was a problem: learning how to talk about myself. I started finding that my conversations would hit a wall. When the subject would turn to me I would get uncomfortable, rush the interaction

and it would lead to awkward chats. I recognized that it made me seem less honest, less invested in the conversation, that vulnerability was one-sided, etc. While my pessimism about others was expiring, it was still strong about myself, and was affecting my ability to connect

I had to take a hard look at how I presented and spoke about myself and how having a poor self-image was destructive in my ability to form close friendships, bc closeness requires vulnerability, and the fear prevented that.

This "Phase" is one I still work on, and is prob the weakest in romantic relationships, but I have made major strides in how I speak about myself: I dont talk about life happening to me anymore, but what I have decided to do

One notable thing about this social env we are in: people only knew me as a weird guy on twitter, so when I met people irl I had the chance to basically reinvent myself. This made it psychologically easier to be more extroverted, warm, welcoming, etc.

While I identify with these characteristics now, at first I felt as if I was playing up a character of who I wanted to be, and essentially became that person intentionally and through exploiting social opportunities. Interactions were Opportunities to play that "character"

Lastly, I took all of the above: comfort with talking to new people, being aggressively social, learning how to talk to people, learning how to talk about myself and started organizing my own dinners, events, etc

Im generally a pretty organized person, and saw an opportunity to provide things to the people I like: chances to get together and be social. I looked at T and thought of how he would handle things, and decided to do that.

That last part is what people on here mostly know me for, but is only a small part of the overall picture of what this journey has been. Its the culmination of a few years worth of intentional changes. From approaching people at bars, to organizing parties around the country

The most important changes were the following: seeing social interactions as opportunities, recognizing the power of being aggressively social, learning how destructive my self-image was with connecting to others

You dont know how much youre damaging your ability to stake a claim in life, in a community, in a friendship, in a relationship when you diminish what you have to say and offer.

Maractop · 2024-04-28T23:51:56+00:00

Around 90% of women are attracted to extroverted men. And introverted women are attracted to extroverted men the most. Introverted men are tolerated and rarely preferred

saulbasedman3 · 2024-04-28T23:40:49+00:00

Lmao I was randomly browsing a clothing brand and guess who I see as the model wearing the shirt? Fuckin Chico.

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-04-28T23:25:46+00:00

There are married people who are still paying off their wedding years later. There are people who are divorced or actively in the process of the divorce who are paying for their wedding still lol

lulll · 2024-04-28T23:20:32+00:00

i never see men and women holding hands anymore. is this womens fault?

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-04-28T23:16:30+00:00

If an attractive woman compliments me or says hi to me, I'm going to flirt with her and maybe even ask her out. This applies to any attractive woman unless I know she's not single.

What's the worst that could happen? She gets weirded out? She gets upset that she "can't ever make male friends because they all try to get with me"? How exactly is that my problem? I have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2024-04-28T23:15:22+00:00

I talked about anime during the whole date am I cooked guys 😭

Seriously though, I had fun talking to her though. Nothing more physical than a handshake but I'm pretty sure she's just a reserved person.

HolidayWhile · 2024-04-28T23:09:29+00:00

Countries with healthy, less toxic dating cultures? Gonna explore the world before I die and I might as well start with those

Majestic-Access-6728 · 2024-04-28T23:07:30+00:00

Women's height requirement is a status symbol . Nothing more.

monster_lily · 2024-04-28T22:46:43+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLHsf9DM/

This sound is literally free birth control i swear

keebydee · 2024-04-28T22:43:09+00:00

So real 😹

https://youtube.com/shorts/tKjjSf4r0Uo?si=VvWmbL8SU5Li-OVl

lulll · 2024-04-28T22:41:13+00:00

q4w: what do you rate tuco

MyHouseOnMars- · 2024-04-28T22:30:41+00:00

I'm starting a new hobby: resin

My first batch of glow-in-the-dark shapes, keychains and earrings is hardening.

I'm going to put some retro images, like old Windows icons, on the keychains.

hannahg000 · 2024-04-28T22:25:00+00:00

i hate that no matter how much i study, i never feel prepared

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-04-28T22:11:48+00:00

Q4A: Would you rather be trapped in a room with a male woman or a male man? The bear is the one asking the question btw I know he needs to somehow factor into this to get your attention.

Gladboys · 2024-04-28T22:11:44+00:00

What n count is a man a slut

Interesting_Show_962 · 2024-04-28T22:08:06+00:00

Time for more personality reps at gym

grillopie · 2024-04-28T21:56:19+00:00

whoever thought of cooking rice with chicken fat, chicken broth, shallots and pandan leaves is a genius.

RubyDiscus · 2024-04-28T21:54:59+00:00

How to know if my bf is a chad or not ?? 🤣

FunEducation1434 · 2024-04-28T21:48:09+00:00

I’ve seen that guy in action. I had a short fat m friend who stunned me with how good he was at getting laid. He was way ahead of me even though I’m 6’1, in shape, and good looking with a god-like voice.

PPD and r/datingadvice moment

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-04-28T21:45:46+00:00

You can’t ever tell me Fresh and Fit aren’t brain damaged

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-04-28T21:44:58+00:00

I should get into a relationship if only to let someone play with my hair. I feel like it would be very pleasant and soothing because my diet and haircare routine has blessed me with luxuriously soft, shiny strands.

GridReXX · 2024-04-28T21:43:13+00:00

Men are starting to be more honest about how the lack of care in their male/male friendships isn’t cool.

OP:

I had back surgery literally a whole month ago and not one of those niggas checked on your boy.

Guy replying to him:

I want to believe you already told them about the surgery before you got it done. If yes, then i support you on this. Surgery is something serious and they should definitely have checked back

Twitter OP:

Yeah, all six Bros and my three female friends were made aware of the surgery before the surgery and the day of the surgery

The whole circle knew I was getting surgery prior to my surgery, and the "day of" my surgery just in case anything happened. Everybody was made aware: my 6 bros, and my 3 female friends.

Woman replying to him:

question. did ur female friends check up on u? beside the male "friends"

OP answered yes.

Idk what is about men, but they don’t seem to offer up care and support. Even other men notice this.

EulenWatcher · 2024-04-28T21:36:56+00:00

She gets up at 2am to prepare her husband's lunch.

Which is great for both of them, but I'm confused why she has to get up at 2am just to put his food in his bag and water in his thermos. She could do it in the evening and just put the whole bag into the fridge, no? As well as getting clothes out of the dryer in the evening unless he has only one pair of working clothes and she has to wash them every night, which would be pretty ridiculous.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-28T21:17:56+00:00

My fiance thinks tiktok was designed to be a weapon to sow dissent in the west by China

keebydee · 2024-04-28T21:13:19+00:00

Is it weird that I don't really care about socializing anymore? I've only hung out with my friends once these past two months and it hasn't bothered me at all.

And it's not due to depression or anything like it was last year where I was actively declining invitations and withdrawing from people which is not what I'm doing here. If someone asks me to hang out, I'll go but I have no drive to initiate any kind of socializing with anyone outside of my house. I just don't feel it anymore.

hannahg000 · 2024-04-28T21:09:58+00:00

there is a dead bird outside the library. that’s a bad omen for finals :(

Environmental_Day558 · 2024-04-28T20:52:33+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/1cf99gv/my_boyfriend_just_proposed_to_me/

Lol they have no faith in her relationship lasting

NJFlowerchild · 2024-04-28T20:49:59+00:00

Q4M: would you support your wife/long term gf having relationships with other men where she's being supportive and listening to their problems or would you consider that too much? They might be your family members, work colleagues, or friends of either of you.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-04-28T20:49:56+00:00

There’s a lot of GenZ female women on TikTok that pride themselves in being really hot yet living like an absolutely slob. Just mountains of clothes on their floor and leftover food/wrappers. A stray roach running across their floor and nasty stuff like that (all uploaded to TikTok).

I mean 75% of the guys on Reddit might have pee bottles in their room but at least 50% don’t talk about it. I couldn’t imagine a)living like that and b) posting it on social media for people to see.

KarmaCameleonian · 2024-04-28T20:39:44+00:00

I have $100k to put a down payment on a house but at 7% interest, my home budget is still lower than the average home price in my area jfl

Gladboys · 2024-04-28T20:30:47+00:00

Its bull shit that we don’t have pet bears yet

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-04-28T20:22:49+00:00

Q4 unmarried people without kids: How “structured” would you say your days are? Do you operate on a fixed schedule outside of work, or do you generally go with the flow?

princedune · 2024-04-28T20:21:32+00:00

q4w: Which male ppd user (or a bear) would you rather be stuck out in the woods with

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-04-28T20:13:32+00:00

Do you guys always go to the same person to get your haircuts?

I started seeing my hairdresser three years ago and I feel like we were meant to find each other. He’s the only one I trust to cut my hair and I wait to fly home for the holidays or summer break to go see him.

edgyny · 2024-04-28T20:06:49+00:00

How many SMV points does a farmer's tan deduct?

Clear-Poet-9212 · 2024-04-28T20:03:49+00:00

All this man vs bear shit just highlights how stupid it is that men are expected to initiate all physical advances even though women see men as a huge physical threat.

New83659 · 2024-04-28T20:01:27+00:00

I remember listening to this female targeted romance audiobook in my car once. I couldn't get through the whole thing but it was pretty red pilling. The man was a multi-millionaire who got there through ruthless business practices, started out as a refugee fleeing a totalitarian country, and was completely unaffected emotionally by all those experience as a child. And pretty much the only thing the woman had going for her was being a hot woman. Her personality was completely pretty and obnoxious, lots of shit tests. Yet this highly intelligent stoic mentally tough and good looking millionaire put up with all her nonsense and showed no interest in other women. And there was a borderline rape scene.

Yet I'm sure the listeners to this think that if a man gives you a compliment in the office (especially if it's an icky immigrant man) then he needs to be reported to HR and fired, and they are also hardcore socialists who claim to hate rich people.

Steakman1 · 2024-04-28T19:54:43+00:00

How is it that the stat I hear is 1 in 5 people make six figures or more, but everyone on the internet seems to make six figures? Something aint adding up

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-04-28T19:45:41+00:00

I honestly think being yourself is actually really good advice. I would put on a front when dating women when I was younger. I met a woman who was hotter than the majority of Victoria Secret models. I was like I'm playing with house money anyways so might as well be the real me. So didn't try to hide my flaws, was completely honest with her about things and told my opinion on things even if I thought she wouldn't like my opinion. Ended up in a relationship and when we were talking she told me she really liked me because I was honest and wasn't trying to pretend to be the perfect guy like every other guy she talked too, and that they were boring. Eventually had to break up because of life circumstances.

Give it a shot. Try and be your authentic self. It will turn off some women but why get into a relationship with a woman who only likes what you're pretending to be.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-28T19:44:40+00:00

It's been like 6 months and I still haven't told my parents I'm engaged. Idk lol

lulll · 2024-04-28T19:35:04+00:00

shut down all pill spaces immediately

thats it we're done thats all folks

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-04-28T19:31:52+00:00

Inspired by me rewatching a bit this afternoon, Q4W who have seen Succession: You have to choose one of Kendall, Roman, Tom, or Greg to be in a relationship with. Who’s your pick?

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-04-28T19:25:28+00:00

We could get married at Peppa Pig world

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-04-28T19:23:45+00:00

Haha this is the beta treatment

https://np.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1cervvy/wife_decided_she_wants_kids_only_after_ive_had_a/

No woman wants to have kids with weak & corwardly men

hannahg000 · 2024-04-28T19:12:28+00:00

tiktok is an interesting place… the comments 💀

reminds me of tumblr back in the day

66363633 · 2024-04-28T19:10:49+00:00

Drinking is as depressing as it was year ago. I hate my life sm

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-04-28T19:09:29+00:00

Women say men are so bad for being judgmental on women's past dating history but it's women who are much more likely to grill men on a date on his past dating history.

Women ask when your last hookup or relationship was, how long it was, what the girl looked like, what kind of girls you normally date and like, etc. Weaseling out and judging men on all the tiny details of his past dating history.

Devilishz3 · 2024-04-28T19:01:53+00:00

Q4W: How does it feel knowing guys naturally have nicer eyebrows and eyelashes than you?

GymJunkie2002 · 2024-04-28T17:31:15+00:00

Red Piller when the doctor diagnoses them with autism instead of complimenting how well he held his frame:

Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-04-28T17:32:18+00:00

I think on a societal level we let too many emotionally abusive and controlling behaviors slide when they’re done by a woman in a relationship. And some shit tests definitely qualify as emotional abuse

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-04-28T16:59:36+00:00

Women wish the world worked like this: “this guy is a bad person. He says things that hurt my feelings. He hates women. So obviously no woman will ever want him”

How the world actually works: the misogynist guy gets all the chicks while the respectful guy gets nothin

dbz___f · 2024-04-28T13:15:17+00:00

Serious question for all:

Do you think inc-l forums and online misogyny contribute to in real life domestic violence?

I don’t think the pieces of shit who are beating and killing their wives in real life are the same guys complaining online that they can’t get a date

keebydee · 2024-04-28T18:31:33+00:00

Seeing what it's like when a woman desires a guy is probably soul crushing. Luckily I haven't really witnessed it firsthand so my psyche is somewhat intact. 😄

monster_lily · 2024-04-28T14:10:00+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLHXDpNV/ The life i was supposed to have

itzReborn · 2024-04-28T14:10:54+00:00

It’s so fucking annoying to have dating and sex and women on your mind damn near 24/7 and not having any.

Wowhowcanubsodumb · 2024-04-28T15:32:26+00:00

"Dominating women [in bed] is weakness not strength. Real power is being able to dominate other men, physically or otherwise."

Everyday it gets harder and harder to identify trolls from delulus

GymJunkie2002 · 2024-04-28T16:01:01+00:00

Women will openly vent about how many losers they've dated and not think it's a reflection on their own character.

appreciating_men · 2024-04-28T17:22:39+00:00

I am a woman and I have a podcast to help bridge the gender divide (between men and women) where I interview men and help them share their experience of being a man in the world, and how they relate to women - it's meant to be entertaining and also educational -- giving women access to learn more about men, better understanding the male experience. It also shows men they aren't alone in their experience.

Personally, I absolutely love men and think that the way women are acting and treating men today makes us (generally) undeserving of men. I realize that such a polarizing view might not allow women to really hear me and actually take in the information I'm trying to share. I don't want women to be so triggered that they shut down, but I want them to be more so curious and intrigued and wanting to learn more.

I have a couple podcast name options and would love to get some feedback from both the male and female perspectives:

"Loving Men: A long overdue education"
"Bridging the Great Divide: Unlocking the Secrets of Male-Female Dynamics"
"We Don't Deserve Men [based on the way that we're acting]"
"We Don't Deserve Men"
"We (rarely) Deserve Men"
"We Don't (always) Deserve Men"
"Most Men Deserve Better"
"Deserving ~~More Men~~ Men More"
"Emasculated"

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-04-28T13:41:24+00:00

There was a Instagram caption asking what are good first date questions

One girl said

“You are single but is there anyone who believes they are in a relationship with you”?😂

ISupposeImCorrect · 2024-04-28T17:39:28+00:00

At the end of the day, it's not the average guys job or responsibility to help anyone or fix anything.

Maractop · 2024-04-28T17:48:29+00:00

This applies to being lean/fit too not only super muscular guys. Most girls will pick tall and lanky or skinny fat over fit and short

https://preview.redd.it/neegb6jvc9xc1.jpeg?width=3184&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f0c4c476a70a200ca2f51c8790f0245ce4475f61

hannahg000 · 2024-04-28T17:53:01+00:00

it’s so embarrassing when it’s windy and my hair starts blowing everywhere

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-04-29T02:12:08+00:00

mALE AttEntIOn mEAns nOthIng

No, women just don't know what it's like to not have any attention

Male attention keeps women sane and gives them peace of mind.

If you don't have many options as a man, then if you start talking to a girl who might actually be interested, you won't be able to stop thinking about her and will develop a crush and be desperate because she's the only option you'll have for a while and it might be a long time until another girl is interested. It makes you feel like crap.

Women don't know what it's like as out of touch privileged beings. Women need to learn to be more empathetic

Female privilege

berichorbeburied · 2024-04-28T14:02:23+00:00

Day one of me not focusing on love (I’m so dramatic😭)

The goals are

: get 100k this year

: dramatically change my physique

: cultivate the personality/character that I want

Ima work out today

I have 3 different women rn. That I could be in a fwb or a relationship with if I had money rn

But knowing what I know now. I don’t care anymore.

Understanding how all this works. Makes it boring and meaningless.

But

The type of woman I’m attracted to has changed. I value relationships differently . The value personality traits differently.

I’m @ peace.

Anyway ima go work out today.

MalandiBastos · 2024-04-28T15:59:35+00:00

SEA update:

Just went on a nice date with a vietnamese woman today. We went out to eat, and had a lot of pleasant conversation. Ill definitely continue to pursue dating her for the time being. Light skinned, well dressed, very petite, is competent in English, 22 years old. Came to Saigon from a much smaller city to come work as a nanny. We went to a vietnamese restaurant and I allowed her to pick out a bunch of dishes at her reccomendation so I could get a taste of the local cuisine.

Now on to last night:

After I left the weed bar, (and after a quick intermission in an American style diner) I met up with my friend at a rave spot. We stayed there for a few hours while I drank a few hard ciders, danced and sucked down some laughing gas balloons. In a fee days, the vietnamese will celebrate a holiday known as "Reunification day". Essentially, celebrating the unification of Vietnam, and (thus the defeat of the Americans). Because I am a bit of a troll, I typed in on Google translate and showed to the bartenders "Happy Reunification day. I am a supporter of uncle Ho Chi Minh, and his righteous struggle against western imperialism". All of them seemed to get a big kick out of that.

After that we headed to the weed bar together, but it was actually about to close at this time. It was only 1:15am on a Saturday night so it surprised me a bit.

To close out the night, we decided to head back to pasteur street. A place with a lot of lady bars. We walk around for a bit till we find the place with the hottest girls. At this point both of us are pretty fucked up.

We head inside, I have some pleasant conversation with a very attractive porcelain beauty while I continue my consumption of beer and laughing gas. We talk mostly about her experience growing up, and of her working in the bar, because I am quite interested in it. I told her about my grandfather's involvement in the vietnam war, and that I apologize for the things that america had done against the vietnamese people.

After a while, my friend wants to take the girl he is speaking to, out of the bar. The girl tells him she will be allowed to go with him if he buys 20 shots. (180 dollars worth).

He does. At this point they make me close out my tab as well.

Long story short, he ends up getting scammed, I start intimidating the bartender, hes started to gettinf pretty flustered and scared. Theres no security anywhere around, and he is a very small man. but he wont budge and wont refund my friend. I leave after I realize my choices are beat him up and rob him and risk going to a vietnamese prison. So I just leave. It's not my money anyways. My friend just left shortly after too. He says he will just ask his bank to dispute the charge.

I really gotta stop doing stupid shit abroad before I end up in a 3rd world jail tho, this is the 3rd time I've done something like this.

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-04-28T16:05:43+00:00

Saw a pigeon get hit by a car. Cried.

hannahg000 · 2024-04-28T17:22:53+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/qsll8ac689xc1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88a21afb4e91d4319d13c82b11ce00ba914efeb7

this gonna be me today

ArtifactFan65 · 2024-04-29T03:33:23+00:00

The development of intelligent AI powered sex robots is the only thing that can save undesirable men. This is a pressing societal issue because these men will likely either become radicalized or just give up and be a drain on society's resources.

Western society only has two options if it wants to thrive in the long term. Either speed up the development of hyper realistic robotic girlfriends or g*nocide the bottom 20% of men.

Benni990 · 2024-04-29T11:18:18+00:00

Reminder to take a shower every morning and right before bed; and once in the afternoon just to be sure so women won’t notice your short height; norwood 3; recessed jaw and chin; prey eyes and skinnyfat frame.

TheRedPillRipper · 2024-04-28T12:02:28+00:00

First!

berichorbeburied · 2024-04-28T13:55:54+00:00

Yesterday this guy was about to cry. Venting to me about being alone.

I listened.

I could’ve told him my views on love and friendship.

But I felt like that was bullying.

So I just listened.

Without willpower.

People really do need love and friendships.

I do not.

Not anymore.

I have will power now.

And I’m @ peace

RubyDiscus · 2024-04-28T15:53:47+00:00

Ok I think I learnt something, men on hardcore online games are either Reaaally nice or complete absolute assholes. Wish there was an inbetween but doesn't seem like there is lol

monster_lily · 2024-04-28T16:02:48+00:00

I dont think we went to the moon bruh

Choice-Substance-183 · 2024-04-28T16:04:43+00:00

I was unmarried at 32. I recently learned, according to PPD Lore, that my father should have intervened and somehow forced marriage on me.

At 32. 😆 I'm still cracking up about it.

I forgot how old 32 sounds when you're a teenager.

Odd_Ad5171 · 2024-04-28T16:06:21+00:00

FELT! Chose mine because he was NOT my type… well, maybe not on the surface. Dating a perceived “nice guy” has almost made me WANT to stick to the bad guys… at least I was less blindsided when they inevitably broke my heart… sorry you’re going through this. I had a child with mine. Highly recommend you leave!

This is a comment from reddit. There is other context but damn can you imagine being one of these "nice" guys that women settle for. These women are so proud of their decision to settle with a nice guy, a good father. After riding the carousel.

This sentiment is terrifying for me as a man, yet for these women its perfectly normal, perfectly rational thing they do, they even think they are doing the guy and themselves a favor.

hannahg000 · 2024-04-29T02:08:42+00:00

sometimes i think we should stop cutting grass and just let it grow and be in its natural state

Gladboys · 2024-04-29T02:43:23+00:00

son destined to advance the world positively but will live a torturous life of mental illness and ostraciziation until removing himself from this mortal coil or hoe daughter.

keebydee · 2024-04-29T03:27:26+00:00

It's still so unreal that two of my friends are in relationships that date back to middle school. I'm so envious, my life was vastly different. Knowing you're worthy of love and companionship at that age is such a foreign concept to me, it's wild.

old_new_age · 2024-04-29T04:05:18+00:00

I think I'm going to buy the same hooker every weekend and make her read my favorite manga for an hour each time until she's emotionally broken

CliffPR · 2024-04-28T14:12:51+00:00

A shower thought I had in relation to a thread from yesterday:

If someone says "this choice you made hurt me", and you decide to hear it as "you should not have any freedom to make choices" you're really just trying to soothe your own conscience by paintong the other person as the "bad guy".

G0dZylla · 2024-04-28T15:03:17+00:00

uh i'm so bored, i'll just drop a nuclear bomb bl*ckpill in this thread

difference between a friend and a boyfriend is looks

difference between an arrogant man and a confident man is looks

difference between flirting and harrasment is looks

difference between ugly and hot is just some millimeters of bone

uselessmale97 · 2024-04-28T15:10:23+00:00

im quite literally never going to be enough for any woman so really my 2-3 year plan is to get a place that allows it then get a dog. i grew up with them so its not new territory to me at all but i want another yellow lab and thats gonna be atleast 2k and need an apartment thats big enough too. additionally my dad always spent 1-2 hours a day letting the dog run around/swim at the lake and really credited that towards why they were always so well behaved/easy to train so i want to do that too. basically i want some semblance of responsibility and undying love that hopefully i don't want to kill myself everyday of my life anymore

until then ive been walking various dogs at my local animal shelter once/twice a month. its not the same but its rare they have young guys come by that can match/control the energy of their biggest pups so i tell myself im being useful when really i just want a stand-in furry friend for a bit. for someone who's almost constantly thinking of reasons to kill himself i cant say im doing much of that trying to control an insane 80lb pitbull mix on a leash

saraimarsena · 2024-04-28T15:12:45+00:00

i’m never drinking hennessy again that shit is disgusting and it makes me feel terrible

Maractop · 2024-04-28T16:13:32+00:00

Why are they clapping? Is height an accomplishment?

https://np.reddit.com/r/shortguys/s/FnefnB1Taf

Gladboys · 2024-04-28T16:46:12+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/prbkzjvq19xc1.png?width=548&format=png&auto=webp&s=f822226b20280c0d15fb224dd681302a1aba86ed

garfield

okaybear2point0 · 2024-04-28T17:02:33+00:00

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/four-female-prison-guards-impregnated-by-same-inmate/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-04-28T17:11:42+00:00

People who doubt the authenticity of moon landings have to be ignorant or sadists.

Ignorant that they refuse to appreciate the years of research, hardwork and funding that was dedicated to the program

Sadists because they don't care that many men lost their lives in tests or flights to make the landings happen

DreaminInChocolate · 2024-04-28T17:26:20+00:00

The only thing I have left to do today is clean the floor and put away a load of laundry!! The end is in sight! It's a miracle! I'm going to have an entirely free evening!

GymJunkie2002 · 2024-04-28T17:37:21+00:00

I've seen people talk about "situationships" online and it has to be the dumbest term I've ever heard. The only people who use it are the ones too pussy to define what the relationship is.

There's no such thing as a situationship, you're either in a relationship or you aren't.

Besides friends with benefits was already a fucking term 💀

EulenWatcher · 2024-04-28T18:26:50+00:00

Some people: if he beats her, why does she stay? She should leave!

Also some people: he needed help, has she thought about it?

Example

meteorness123 · 2024-04-29T01:40:20+00:00

I have no interest in a woman if I don't like her on a personal level, even if she's hot. I'm also way too lazy for one night stands. I realized I'm only interested if the first condition is met.

old_new_age · 2024-04-29T02:02:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/2darrn1xsbxc1.png?width=504&format=png&auto=webp&s=f85c9e6ff47877201c9d2f732a90bb341f1781d9

LordArtichud · 2024-04-29T02:06:06+00:00

Q4W: Why do you think you're entitled to equality in society?

Interesting_Show_962 · 2024-04-29T02:29:02+00:00

There’s this girl that stalks me at the gym like a little creep. She has memorized my workout routine and situates herself to be in line of sight of me everywhere

NalkaNalka · 2024-04-29T02:35:07+00:00

It's funny how so many guys here have the dating strategy of trying to be a plate of plain boiled pasta with nothing on it.

grillopie · 2024-04-29T03:36:52+00:00

How TF did George Michael only come out as gay in the late 90s? How did everyone not instantly know this guy was gay?! Its unfathomable.

https://youtu.be/pIgZ7gMze7A?si=yKNkX7716ekR_M03

Raven-Ray · 2024-04-29T07:52:37+00:00

More people need to try Deo’s or another internal deodorant.

Colt_Master · 2024-04-29T09:04:31+00:00

https://washingtoncitypaper.com/article/392542/fucking-while-feminist-with-jaclyn-friedman/

Fucking While Feminist, With Jaclyn Friedman

do you meet guys who pass the feminist test but then turn out to be disappointments for other reasons?

JF: Oh God. There is a type of feminist guy who is so eager to fall over himself to be deferential to women and to prove his feminist bona fides and flagellate himself in front of you, to the point that it really turns me off. And it makes me sad, because politically, these are the guys that I should be sleeping with! You know what I’m talking about?

YES.

JF: Everyone knows what I’m talking about. And some of them are even really cute! I want to say to them, “If you could be a person, like a whole, complicated person, who I feel like I could crack jokes around, then I would really like you.” But they’re so serious about their feminism at every moment that I don’t feel like a person to them. I feel like I’m on a pedestal, almost. I know that they’re not going to disagree with anything I say under any circumstances. And I don’t feel like I can make a raunchy joke about sex, because they’ll be horrified. . . . I hate to be critical of our allies in any way, because we need them, but there’s something about that certain kind of hyperfeminist guy that makes them unappealing to date, to me. I suspect it has something to do with our internal conceptions of masculinity, which is terrible on my part.

I find reading this kind of account so interesting. Guys here, would it be for you possible for a hot woman to talk herself into unfuckability from how much of a submissive pickme tradcat redpill notliketheothergirls men's rights supporter she is? I mean I suspect not since we all know that's not how male sexuality works like and that male and female sexuality work differently, but it's interesting to read about this.

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Clear-Poet-9212 · 2024-04-28T12:27:48+00:00

Are all male actors gay?

Demasii · 2024-04-28T12:40:00+00:00

Kinda weird to see PPD men demonstrate frustration for women only being interested in Chad but than criticize women's dating strategies saying that they won't attract Chad.

NeonCityNights · 2024-04-28T13:12:07+00:00

https://www.womenshealth.gov

https://menshealth.gov

NeonCityNights · 2024-04-28T13:13:07+00:00

https://www.womenshealth.gov

http://menshealth.gov

NeonCityNights · 2024-04-28T13:14:06+00:00

https://www.womenshealth.gov ,

https://menshealth.gov

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-04-28T13:42:47+00:00

Everytime we go to a wedding or some big event my girl gotta buy a new dress. Man I rotate the same 4 suits with different shirts. Now that I think about it I don’t believe I will ever buy another suit again

Devilishz3 · 2024-04-28T14:08:47+00:00

wtf I just saw what houseonanotherplanet was referencing with the downsides of pretty privilege.

In a similar vain to my baby one from yesterday I'll say another way men know if they're attractive or not is you've been sexually assaulted by women. Dark but true.

Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-04-28T14:18:52+00:00

The difference in average intelligence on the daily thread vs the rest of the sub is mind boggling

RubyDiscus · 2024-04-28T15:50:57+00:00

Ugh base got raided by this annoying guy that had been taking hits on us for hours. Then tried to pretend he was going to do a deal if we just open the doors and let him in. As if. Pathetic. Then he blew his way in but was placing objects and ruining the base. I called him out on it and on his crappy "deal" saying it was lame and pathetic and if you are raiding the base don't come to us with that BS and wheres the rest of his friends, since he's in a 5 man clan (me and my friend are duo) and he's raiding solo.

Anyway then I accidentally called him a virgin loser in glabal chat (was meant to be in group chat lol) then he tried to add me as a friend on steam???? (Which I ignored)

Then he weirdly gave base control back to my friend and showed him into his clan base and gave him a bed in his base. And my friend made me a bag for their base but I'm too salty and was outside making crude art around the place about the guy. I'd rather be a hobo than go in that jerks base. No thankz

Devilishz3 · 2024-04-28T15:52:30+00:00

I tried to RP as a young suburban woman by listening to Sabrina Carpenter, but couldn't do it. I let down the girlies

GymJunkie2002 · 2024-04-28T16:14:59+00:00

Casual sex really isn't all that it's cracked up to be, sure when you first start doing it it's cool and all but it gets very boring very quickly, when I was in the prime of my "Red Pill" days, towards the end of it I wasn't enjoying it at all, it was purely for validation. There's no enjoyment or fulfillment in just sticking my dick in a random stinky hole, it's boring.

Moved on from that period of my life though, gave it a shot, was fun at first but get very vapid and empty after a while. Will never have sex without a connection again.

SlowEffective8146 · 2024-04-28T16:35:47+00:00

Libfems like to talk about nature vs nurture a lot so here's a thought experiment:

If I don't believe that women found only 5-10% of all men attractive 300 years ago, what percentage of environmental conditions (women being on tiktok/facebook/instagram 5 hours per day) is contributing to male beauty standards vs it just being genetically predisposed?

SevenLovedYouSoMuch · 2024-04-28T16:54:12+00:00

That's it, I'm going full red pill. Keto, listening to Joe Rogan. All of it. I have to get myself out of this rut.

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-04-28T17:03:49+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/3tbiklpv49xc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=baadd0ac475390a473a4498cfc4f081c9452917c

She’s more special in the box

RubyDiscus · 2024-04-28T17:09:37+00:00

Why do men here complain then try to deny they are complaining?

Be it about how women only go for chads or how the game is unfair or how women need to lower their standards etc etc

GymJunkie2002 · 2024-04-28T17:16:12+00:00

Honestly one of the best things some of the guys here can do to increase their confidence is to just treat everything like it's a "shit test" as the Red Pill calls it, even if it isn't, just treat everything as if it is. I remember in my early Red Pill days when I was still part of it I reached a point where I did that to test it out.

An example I can use is one time at one of my old jobs I'd fucked something up and my manager pretty much cussed me out in front of everyone and I just stood there with a smile on my face and didn't react at all, once he was done I just got on with the rest of the shift as if the interaction didn't even happen.

True confidence is the point where someone can be yelling in your face and it means nothing to you, it doesn't do anything.

I did all that purely because I found it funny, but I'd only recommend it as real advice if your social skills are pure trash, it's a starting point for them.

RubyDiscus · 2024-04-28T17:24:57+00:00

Guys wth is an "incredibly inflated ego", someone here just said I have one 🤔😅

gloomette · 2024-04-28T17:25:37+00:00

Every couple months this single child free woman who uploads content of her pampering her dog, will go viral on Twitter and there will be hundreds of bitter males in the replies and retweets angry that she’s not doing that for a man and children instead. Men have gotten to the point where they are jealous of animals. Very pathetic. I’m glad I deleted that stupid app.

CauliflowerElegant76 · 2024-04-28T17:32:15+00:00

Now that I’m in a LTR, I don’t mind paying for dates and stuff. Bought my bf a bunch of food and stuff on our vacation. But when I was single and if a guy made me pay, I’d be out of there asap. Interesting how that works. Bf still spoils me a lot but I like spoiling him too.

old_new_age · 2024-04-28T18:10:26+00:00

q4m: if your (potential) gf was bisexual would you factor the women she's slept with into her body count?

Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-04-28T18:37:46+00:00

I feel like I am generally reasonable in terms of being empathetic but my observations have taught me that there is no reason to be empathetic towards nerdy men who blame their nerdiness for the fact that they get no bitches.

5’5? Yeah that’s rough Socially anxious? Yeah Nerdy? Absolutely not

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-28T18:50:26+00:00

Having low set eyebrows sucks. You just look angry 24/7.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2024-04-28T18:56:44+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jsc0reo1p9xc1.png?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c9fa864b1ef6bf0c4b1afebe5d29c3f33c1f5fc0

How true is this ? Is there a limit for the number of times a woman can 'go' ?

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2024-04-28T19:00:24+00:00

Ladies, would you rather be approached by a man or a bear while out in the woods ?

monster_lily · 2024-04-28T20:33:31+00:00

Which doll reminds u of me

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLHbmbY7/

berichorbeburied · 2024-04-29T01:17:36+00:00

Question for women with big boobs. Or men who’ve been in this situation.

If a woman gives you a hug. And her breasts are squeezed against you.

And if she playfully pushes into you but only her breasts touch and press against your body.

And if she’s not weirded out by you and actively tries to talk to you.

What does this mean?

As in.

Do women with big boobs not care about their boos touching other people.

Or

Are they aware of it and actively avoid it happening.

The reason I ask. Is usually I’m never in a situation where I’m just friends with someone where their is escalated ambiguous physical tension.

The most it ever gets to for platonic female friends. Is they will playfight with me. Or. If I’m really physically stand offish. They will touch me or hug me.

In this instance. I don’t know what to make of it. But it’s happened a lot.

She won’t move out of my way if we are crossing paths. And sometimes her boobs will brush against me. She will Bend in front of me and I can see her panty line. Ect. Ect.

But my outlook on this. Is we are probably just platonic friends. And maybe this is her form of friendship.

So I’m not here to ask if she likes me.

Only here to ask about what her allowing/letting her boobs touch/press on me means. Especially if she’s not acting weirded out about. And acts like everything’s normal.

I’ll ask this Tommorrow. If nobodies awake to see this.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2024-04-29T01:18:44+00:00

I want to kiss amber heard on her clitoris

Purple_Kangaroo8549 · 2024-04-29T01:23:26+00:00

I'm going to decorate my house with S&M artwork, don't care if a ho don't like it.

FunEducation1434 · 2024-04-29T01:37:42+00:00

Did anybody touch grass this weekend?

hannahg000 · 2024-04-29T01:57:29+00:00

i’ve been obsessed with the color pink these days. it’s funny because pink used to be my favorite color when i was little and then in middle school i hated pink. and now i love it again

Mental_Leek_2806 · 2024-04-29T02:07:38+00:00

College is easy mode for meeting hookups/dates honestly. Met two women from my college twitter community

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-04-29T02:08:15+00:00

mALE AttEntIOn mEAns nOthIng

No, women just don't know what it's like to not have any attention

Male attention keeps women sane and gives them peace of mind.

Every girl who might actually be interested that I'm talking to, I can't stop thinking about and feel desperate because she's the only option I currently have and it might be a long time until another girl is interested

Women need to learn to be more empathetic

Female privilege

Gladboys · 2024-04-29T02:46:05+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLHgjYwy/ lmfao

WesleyFRM · 2024-04-29T02:57:27+00:00

How do I get better at singing without getting lessons?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-29T03:14:10+00:00

I'm not gonna lie city council meetings are boring but my boss wants to give those to the intern over the summer. What the fuck am I supposed to write about. I just wanna scream

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-29T03:27:52+00:00

Wearing my fiances shirt he wore today.

MmnmmmmmmmmmmmSTINKYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY 🧐

old_new_age · 2024-04-29T03:36:46+00:00

the instagram model I met online 6 years ago is back asking me for attention after disappearing for 4 months, I suppose her and her bf are on the rocks again

Endgame2648 · 2024-04-29T03:44:28+00:00

Hey guys, Canadian here. I was looking over at Indeed's USA website and I see so many entry level jobs that pay 70k for remote positions. 70k FUCKING USD straight out of college. I then went over to Zillow and checked out prices of homes in Salt Lake City, Utah(I've heard it's a trendy place to live) and found an decent 5bed 2 bath 1700 sq ft(perhaps a bit old) house at $440k which is 10 minutes from downtown core.

Look over at our comaprable city Halifax where the same house would go for 700k+ and the same entry level jobs would pay you $45k. I don't see if we're going absolutely insane or US media has convinced that you're absolutely fucked? I'm sure 2 working people can easily pay off that house under 10 years at Salt Lake. What gives?

Gladboys · 2024-04-29T03:59:40+00:00

Q4W: assume for the sake of the hypothetical that you love bagels and your favorite bagel is a north jersey cinnamon raisin. Would you be content with this as a replacement for a diamond ring.

https://preview.redd.it/x2lqfiwwdcxc1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1ef0e4b2ded407067a9e5a204565741171e4d7b7

Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2024-04-29T04:06:36+00:00

Damn everyone’s been telling me I’m cooked but I’ve been chatting with her ever since we split off from the date

Now I don’t know if I should respond to this girl on hinge or not you guys got me lost and confused 🤔

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-04-29T04:13:10+00:00

Anyone else have those nightmares where you really have to pee but everything gets in the way? In my recent one I was walking around, at first thinking I could walk half a mile to the public restroom but then realize it's much more urgent.

I see Porta potties which I normally am not a fan of. I run to get in but this fucking kid tries to force his way in and then he's like "I HAVE TO GO NOW JUST DEAL WITH IT" then whips his dick out and starts pissing all over the fucking place. Then his FUCKING DAD SHOWS UP

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-04-29T04:23:47+00:00

https://twitter.com/PicturesFoIder/status/1784520909048492263

Damn, imagine getting cucked by Jabba the Hutt. Even women aren't safe from thottery

Gladboys · 2024-04-29T05:30:57+00:00

This Benadryl shit serious I didn’t take enough for delirium but God dam

okaybear2point0 · 2024-04-29T08:06:49+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prkRi4ds_jk

which one of you is this

Endgame2648 · 2024-04-29T08:12:51+00:00

Q4M: What cologne would you recommend to a newbie?

wheregoesriverflow · 2024-04-29T08:50:24+00:00

Say no to betabuxing

lulll · 2024-04-29T11:09:12+00:00

and a good morning to slightly chubby women

Willow-girl · 2024-04-29T12:08:32+00:00

I'm having horrible sneezing fits due to seasonal allergies and I just found a tick on my leg.

WHY DID I WANT IT TO BE SPRING?!

Dusttyy · 2024-04-29T12:48:29+00:00

Q4W: What are your ideal expectations the first time you have sex with a serious/committed partner?

I think it’s challenging for men if they want to max pleasure for the woman. It seems like specific things can vary woman-to-woman, so that first time can be a lot of trying to figure that out. Especially because women seem more modest when it comes to vocalizing (and even reacting to) what they like. It also seems like there’s usually an expectation that men take the lead as well, and many women even get enjoyment from that alone.

Obviously foreplay and taking some time with that can be important. What about changing positions and other specifics?

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2024-04-28T12:26:04+00:00

Okay so recent posts seem to indicate that under the right conditions, the men of this community believe that:

The stated mission of a group should trump anyone else’s functional definition of it or experience with it.
That it’s immoral and incorrect to make broad generalizations about an entire sex.
And that the problems individuals face are actually due to structural inequality that’s completely out of their control to change

Am I missing anything?

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