My uncle worked as a social worker at a state prison and said more of his incarcerated clients would have girlfriends who would be visiting them while they were serving time than the men who were in some way on the spectrum, but were otherwise complete squares who have never broken any the law -- this kinda dispels the myth that these felons were sophisticated manipulators who could trick women into believing they're charming good guys, because when it all came down women were still willing to visit them in prisons.

Just ask yourself: whats the most common complaint these men express?

  1. its not: "I don't have a problems getting first dates, but women ghost me after that" ( which is something that would actually look like the result of a personality problem)
  2. the question they ask is more like: " How can't I even get a date?"