It amazes me someone wrote this:

There is nothing shallow about a lack of attraction. Men are not hard wired to feel satisfaction from a partner that doesn't meet the criteria of our most basic biological imperative. Also, you don't seem to be aware that even conventionally unattractive women also have standards which these lonely dudes simply don't live up to. As harsh as it sounds, nobody is actually entitled to affection, this is something that most society deem an an earned commodity. This is why love is not a human right.

Sex isn't a need, I agree. And neither is meth; but nonetheless, those who are addicted to it will do anything - ANYTHING - to get their next fix. As just as with any addiction any sub-par drug that does not satisfy the corresponding neurons in the brain will simply do. There's a lot of similarity between withdrawal symptoms and the type of loneliness that these guys describe. It is not the same loneliness women experience because men experience it more intensely and it is in fact one of our drives which is why lonely dudes often also act compulsively or snap. That's from where the African proverb comes from which goes: "A child who is not embraced by his village will burn it down to feel it's warmth." Foreboding words which ring true when you consider how often these guys snap and go on rampages. And that's only accounting for the loud ones, How many more set their own little fires quietly and out of the news in the form of spite, brawls, stalking, murder, rape, theft, and all manner of anti-social behavior.

So if a man doesn't find a woman attractive, then he can't help who he's attracted to. What if women doesn't find a man attractive? Well, he'll be super lonely, even lonelier than lonely women because something something penis. Then he'll commit atrocities because Stacy not fucking him is on the same level of neglecting a child.

In other words, entitlement. These particular men feel entitled to hot women fucking them but don't you dare expect him to feel obligated to fuck women he's not attracted to.

The comment perfectly explains why "lonely guys" and a certain I word doesn't get sympathy. These men are entitled hypocrites who will hurt people when they don't their way. Sound familiar as to why a certain subreddit got banned: Not because they're ugly, but because they're terrible people with severe mental health problems.

Link to actual comment I'm referencing.