A good amount of people here talk about how women and men are forced to settle for and marry people they are not sexually attracted to in order to have a family since the really attractive ones are unattainable to lock down.

However, it seems to me that people look at it as who you will bang versus who you will not bring rather than who you can fall in love with, because once you fall in love with a person, you will see them as the hottest person in the world to you because of being in love.

But why do a lot of people look at it this way as opposed to who you will bang based on physical attraction alone, rather than when I love?