At first glance, this sounds outrageous. But if you strip away the emotional reaction and look at the underlying dynamic, what Tate is saying hits home:

  • Women don’t usually offer sex with zero expectation. They offer it in exchange for value — whether that’s emotional support, commitment, protection, status, or lifestyle. It’s not always money. But it’s still an exchange.

Think about it:

Would she sleep with the same guy if he had no ambition?

Would she stay if he lost his drive, money, or social standing?

In most cases, no. And that’s not hate, that’s nature

Just like men are hardwired to desire sex, women are wired to want the best provider and protector.

👉 In this sense, sex becomes currency. Not in a literal, transactional way, but as part of a biological value exchange:

A man gives resources, attention, or emotional labor

A woman gives intimacy, beauty, and sexual access

That’s why women stop giving sex when they feel undervalued. That’s why many men feel like they’re “paying” for sex through dinners, loyalty, or providing.

So is she a prostitute? No. But is she exchanging sex for value? Almost always.

Tate’s just saying out loud what millions of men already feel but can’t articulate.

It’s not hate. It’s a wake-up call. Understand the rules or get played by them.