I see women online always saying stuff like "I just want a man who gives the bare minimum!" which on paper consists of generally just being kind, respectful, loyal, and maybe a few other preferences physical or personality. but seems pretty reasonable right? but the truth is that a woman's definition of a bare minimum, ends up being an impossible demand of 100 traits and features a man must have or hes deemed a red flag.

its kind of surreal to me how so many women legitimately demand damn near perfection from a man, like no one is perfect. everybody has flaws and beliefs that may differ from another, but i think so many women have been brainwashed to believe there is that one prince charming out there and therefore won't settle for anything less.

a good example would be like politics. one of the most stupidest things ive seen are liberal women dumping and shaming moderate and even other liberal men who may have one view that disagrees with hers. which again is so stupid to me, like no one is gonna agree with you on everything pleb, but she sets stupid ultimatums of like u need to believe this or im going to leave u, rather than being a grown adult with communication skills to at least talk through your differences and actually wonder, "hmmm should i end a relationship just becuz he doesnt support hating all white people?"

ill end this off by saying one of the reasons why dating is harder now is because people, mainly women, are so brutally picky with the man they want that it ends up feeling like looking for water in a desert, when in reality the water is already there, its just a little dirty but can be tended to by properly filtering and caring for it; which is the point of building communication, and at least trying to talk through any problems or disagreements, but again women don't want to do this and expect an absolute brad pitt. so ridiculous but ill leave it up for debate to try to change my perspective.