If you use Bumble BFF to find friends and HVW, VET VET VETTTTT!!!! Be picky and very particular about who you swipe right on so you don’t waste your time. There are many red flags to watch out for . Swipe left if you see:

  1. A profile where she only has pics of her and her boyfriend/husband. These women often have stuff like “my boyfriend is my only friend” on their profile. They probably won’t be long lasting friends, especially if their entire identity is centered around their boyfriend/husband (most likely why they have no friends in the first place) Also will drop you if her LVM doesn’t like you and will need his approval for everything or else she “can’t go” 👩‍❤️‍👨💍

  2. Girls that basically post their nudes or very provocative photos. If this is what their Bumble BFF profile looks like, imagine what their dating profile looks like. These types often crave male attention and are pickmeishas. Usually very attention seeking and will probs only look for friends as a way to meet more men through proximity.

  3. Girls that give wannabe influencer vibes. It’s one thing to have nice photos but if their profile looks more like a gimmick to get you to follow their social media, swipe left!!! They will often ask you to follow their insta with no intention of every forming a real friendship. They just care about getting more followers 👙👠💄

  4. Anybody that looks like they participate in reckless behavior swipe left on! Drug usage, wild partying, anything like that. I promise these girls will have you basically babysitting them the whole night because they lack self control and aren’t very respectful in public 🥃🚬

  5. MLM SCAMMERS!! They come across genuine at first and bait you into following their social media only to find out the were just trying to recruit you. Very disappointing 💳💰💵

  6. The same rules that we apply to dating should be applied here in a similar fashion. Do not tolerate sloppiness, extreme tardiness, disrespect, no follow through, ghosting and reappearing, bad hygiene, never has any money to cover her expenses. Also definitely do not be used as a therapist. If she’s complaining about her boyfriend/husband , telling you her business early on, RUN! If she gossips a lot also RUN 🏃‍♀️

  7. Just for fun. I avoid telling people my natal chart signs initially. Had a great convo with a woman until she found out I have a Libra rising. She hates anything Libra and eventually ghosted 😂