If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.

wildlife_bee · 2021-06-06T03:35:37+00:00

The phrase “body count” makes me shudder. If a man says that to me I’m running the other direction. I don’t care the context.

illuminati_hottie · 2021-06-06T02:59:39+00:00

I 100% believe this. One time I was on a cruise and a guy I met said he had slept with 87 women in his life (He was very handsome and in great shape so I don’t think he was lying.) A few days later on the cruise he committed a sex crime by exposing himself to a woman that rejected him 🤮

Resident-Equipment95 · 2021-06-06T01:16:18+00:00

My NVX had a crazy high sex drive, body count, the works 🤡 he once admitted he fantasized about “jackhammering me hard” in a “non-rapey way”. He thought he deserved applause for “communicating”.

Jacquerex09 · 2021-06-06T02:18:31+00:00

Can confirm, my abuser boasted about how many women he fucked before sexually assaulting me.

He even told me “I don’t know what it is, but women with anxiety love being with me”

My dumbass back then couldn’t see the massive red flag🤦🏽‍♀️.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-06-06T02:36:26+00:00

I would never be with a man who had a high body count. They can’t form real connections or relationships, and just look at women as objects.

InayahDaneen · 2021-06-06T04:25:48+00:00

They carry multiple stds as well so I never found such a man attractive for sleeping around casually .

cantstuntbikerbitch · 2021-06-06T03:15:08+00:00

Yup. My sister's (ex) bf bragged about sleeping with 150+ women. He tried to get me drunk and rape me (when I was a minor and he was 30+) the next day. This is so gross and so true. I will never date a man with a high body count.

pretty_kill · 2021-06-06T00:05:35+00:00

The times I’ve been coerced into sex were a lot. Guys just don’t let up. And if you were on the fence or wanted to have sex anyways it’s easy to give in earlier (at least it was for me pre-FDS). Most women don’t consider this rape, but do you want to be with a guy that has coerced a hundred women into sex? It’s scummy as hell, and it means he does not respect women or what they truly want. You can’t ever be fully respected in a relationship like that.

waterfairy10 · 2021-06-05T23:38:40+00:00

absolutely, reminds me of the character barney from how i met your mother and the ways he tricked women into having sex with him.

spicyspa · 2021-06-06T02:27:11+00:00

I never thought about the idea of a guy with a high body count being a rapist. It makes sense since women usually have high boundaries unless they'd been groomed.

Another theory about men who are the Lothario types is that while this type might be extremely hot, they go from woman to woman because they have small penises or some other unappetizing hidden abnormality that makes the woman ghost him rather than the reverse. We assume that it's the guy who dumps the woman after sex, but not always.

kycake · 2021-06-06T05:36:00+00:00

that's actually a great point, i never though of that before. in general if a man brags about how many women he's slept with he's most likely a dick, never understood why some men bring it up during a date it's just so disgusting and i never know what to say to that.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-06T00:17:40+00:00

There is a statistic showing that men who have more sex rape more. Also the higher his sex drive the more he is likely to rape.

romancingthevoid · 2021-06-06T02:47:54+00:00

A LOT of those women probably thought having sex with him would end in a relationship/commitment and there's a 100% chance he knew that and did it anyway. Who wants to be with a man like that?

Promiscuous men are the damaged goods they accuse women of being. I feel like most women who have high body counts are vulnerable and tricked by sexpos liberal feminism or predatory men. They're victims.

Edit: typo

_electrafire · 2021-06-06T00:48:36+00:00

It’s also ironic because these men think their high body counts mean they’re “alpha males” rather than rapists. They think that their proficiency in using coercion and manipulation means they’re “alpha,” even though studies of chimpanzees show that the alpha is the male who has the best conflict resolution skills to maintain tribal cooperation. They tend to be even more agreeable than the FEMALES. On the other hand, your average beta male chimp is the disagreeable rapist - the alpha male oftentimes kills him because the beta abuser has a parasitic impact on the tribal collective. It’s so silly that these men use evidence of their biological inferiority as evidence of the opposite, but I guess if they had the IQ level to even begin to grasp this, they wouldn’t be at the bottom of the totem pole. The use of coercion in itself is compensatory. Only betas must compensate, not alphas, because the latter group actually has something to offer in the first place. This also explains why red pill men choose the coercive, high body-count method - they tend not to make enough money to raise children and pass on their genes. They delude themselves into thinking there’s some type of biological utility in sleeping with tons of women and having the unlikely conception of their children be aborted. If these men had anything to offer in the first place, they’d have surviving offspring. The sexual act in itself counts for absolutely nothing, although I suppose it helps them sleep at night

YVGNY · 2021-06-06T09:13:35+00:00

Not a single lie detected.

Also men who travel to party destination type places. I live in a place which a lot of people my age and younger (early to late twenties) travel to during summer for the parties and music festivals aaaand they actually say it themselves that they come here for the partying and the "drunk girls"

Even the locals, when I was in school, guys would get excited when summer is coming up because they get to prey on women from other countries who will never report them because they're leaving anyway. It's fucked.

thegenuinedarkfly · 2021-06-06T01:52:58+00:00

I’m an old, but even back in the 80s I knew there was definitely something off about anyone bragging about a “body count”. That’s also a really gross term since it goes hand-in-hand with murderers and serial killers.

If anyone is bragging or even talking about their “body count” that’s an easy pass. Stay away!

Softrito · 2021-06-06T03:14:52+00:00

They think it's an achievement and think that women will see them as some sort of alpha when all they look like is goofy.

berrylikeova · 2021-06-06T03:09:24+00:00

My ex in a nutshell.

LadyGrimes · 2021-06-05T23:43:20+00:00

Also pornsick.

lansburysoda · 2021-06-06T00:41:33+00:00

Rape is about power and control. If you notice ANY kind of controlling behaviors from a man, there’s a near-guarantee that he’s a rapist

denimlace · 2021-06-06T00:13:09+00:00

Rings true from experience.

Derivative31224 · 2021-06-06T03:59:14+00:00

1,000 % absolutely my NEX, Unfortunately I became number 1,001! High body count is not a flex!

OptionalCookie · 2021-06-06T05:43:35+00:00

I will not ever respect a man with a high body count.

That is community dick, it is diseased, it is sick, it has issues, it has problems and I don't have the time or money or mental capacity to deal with that.

The first time a man tells me that will be the last time a man tells me that because I will cut him off asap. I have to out of principle. Immediately

_electrafire · 2021-06-06T00:40:18+00:00

THIS IS SO SPOT-ON WOW!

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-06-06T11:11:26+00:00

Can confirm. My rapist accordingly slept with 100+ women.

sanguine_duality · 2021-06-06T17:05:21+00:00

I believe this. In my pickme days I hung out with two men and had sex with one who I found out were rapists after the fact.

One was very nice towards me and took me out with him and his friends, we just kissed. But all his friends knew he was a womanizer and they all had “locker room talk” in front of me.

The other one (the one I had sex with) was PUSHY from day one, disrespected boundaries, bragged about sleeping with multiple women, was misogynistic and demanded a relationship from day one. (I was with him “because he was hot”) he also had a broken dick from pornsickness and couldn’t get it up properly. He also was small and I guess thats why he was so insecure and bashed others mens looks constantly.

He ended up spying on me when I was about to pee (after telling me very rudely to fuck off because his pickme friend got jealous and tried to fight me lmao) and he tried to contact me multiple times later after I blocked him everywhere.

Both were womanizers, one was nice and the other one was pushy and borderline scary because of his muscles and size.

The ex I loved the most was also a womanizer and one time he got mad because I was tired and started whining to get sex, was that coertion?

Another guy I had a situationship with is a womanizer and refused to stop mid sex when I said it was uncomfortable. I guess thats also rape.

The lesson is: never date community dick, they Cant take a no and will push your boundaries or manipulate to get their pp wet.

DaughteroftheDawn · 2021-06-06T17:31:31+00:00

Your instincts are right OP. Stay away from promiscuous men:

“For men, an unrestricted sociosexual orientation was linked with higher levels of rape myth acceptance and adversarial sexual beliefs; more conservative attitudes toward women; higher levels of power motivation and lower levels of affiliation‐intimacy motivation; and past use of sexual aggression.”

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224490609552311

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-06T05:27:22+00:00

anyone who uses the term "body count" is most likely a PUA/ redpill scrote and a rapist!

restlessGal · 2021-06-05T23:46:15+00:00

On the offhand they were all consensual, people who practice casual sex have bigger issues than being single (which isn’t an issue but to them it is)

Stunning-Ad14 · 2021-06-06T00:42:50+00:00

Also more likely to have been infected with the whole gamut of STDs.

Zitrone77 · 2021-06-06T15:57:13+00:00

Exactly! And all this ASD (anti-slut defense) and LMR (last minute resistance) crap makes me sick. She isn’t running her hamster. She doesn’t want to have sex with you for some reason of her OWN. Instead they find ways to get through this. It’s disgusting.

FastCardiologist6128 · 2021-06-06T20:05:12+00:00

Men who have more sex are also more obsessed with porn (therefore their addiction is to a point where they have to watch extremely violent things to feel something) Also sociosexuality is a personality trait correlated with the dark triad. So he will be more narcissistic, machiavellian and psychopathic. Stay away from men with high bodycounts, they don't see women as people. Bc a man who sees women as people desires relationships more and finds them more fulfilling. Men who enjoy casual sex enjoy the power dymamic of it, bc they know women are in a weaker position when they're with a man they don't really know. Think about it and think about how normalized it is for some guys to be "ladies men". Makes me so mad

Astral_weaver · 2021-06-06T09:20:16+00:00

It is mentioned above I think but I need to point it out:

The other side of the same coin are women with high body count. Most of times they have been manipulated into sex, and society wants to place all the blame on them while it is men who are manipulative rapist trash.

RhiannonEmilia · 2021-06-06T14:14:41+00:00

Every guy I knew who had a super high “body count” raped/coerced me. And in their sexual “encounters”, alcohol was pretty much always involved

spinsterchachkies · 2021-06-06T05:52:04+00:00

Hopefully the Reddit guys will like this post because this mean they aren’t rapists since they never have sex. Ever

souredskittles · 2021-06-06T01:47:20+00:00

She also means rapist as in probability sees prostitutes as well. The average man cannot pull those numbers by being genuine

Vervibes · 2021-06-06T01:40:56+00:00

I’m gonna go further on this and mention their body count in terms of watching porn and mentally fucking the women they get off too as well. Probably over 100 for sure.

thatjimmylove · 2021-06-06T20:45:14+00:00

Why do we use words like "kills" and "body count" to describe sexual partners so gross to me, like what

relationship_reddit · 2021-06-06T13:07:08+00:00

Keep in mind that most males, even ones that wouldn't commit a physically violent rape, still don't consider things like giving a hesitant woman a few drinks to "loosen her up" or putting pressure on her until she gives in and "agrees" to have sex rape. In fact, coercion like this is so normalized that they don't even see it as shady.

skyfullofstars89 · 2021-06-07T01:22:35+00:00

Damn. Never thought of this before, but this is so right. Men who brag about their numbers are repulsive anyway.

ThrowawayCompassion · 2021-06-06T11:27:48+00:00

to be fair, I know 2 men from a very hippy, poly, bohemian group of people who have massive body counts, probably both 70+ and besides their hedonism are sweet, derpy guys. “My chakras are aligned bro, we are all like, one”

They are physically beautiful, tall, shredded in a land of very mediocre, dirty looking men, which is why they are lusted after like they are. They both 100% have stds, one has rich parents and an kid with a partner he’s in a poly relationship with and I don’t know what happened to the other.

so to be devils advocate those are the exceptions I know. You are right tho, high body count is a huge red flag for SO many reasons.

I remember going on a second date with a guy who admitted to me he went to jail for rape omgggg, he tried to justify it by saying how drunk he was. I ran so fast away!

BasieSkanks · 2021-06-06T12:20:28+00:00

Straight facts, sis. I know men who have said that they use charm to get women into bed. These fuckers know exactly what they are doing. Men with high body counts are low value by default. Point blank period.

asteria2002 · 2021-06-06T08:19:01+00:00

Can i please share this on twitter? With credits ofcourse!

Nonsluttymen · 2021-06-06T09:04:42+00:00

Crossposting this thread.

fak_beauty_standards · 2021-06-06T19:53:23+00:00

or a manipulative PUA

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-06-06T12:28:22+00:00

the very existence of "body count" encourages rape and is a pillar of rape culture. Getting that "number" up at any cost

MadamLeFay · 2021-06-06T16:25:48+00:00

I never thought of it like that before, but this makes so much damn sense.

I had a friend who's boyfriend claimed to have had "over 100 women" and I couldn't understand how, because he was a hideously ugly crackhead. Now I understand.

t3ddi · 2021-06-07T04:00:03+00:00

Agreed. Dead on analysis.

Title	If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.
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